Kodi Kupweteka Kumapweteka? Zomwe Muyenera Kudziwa Nthawi Yanu Yoyamba

Zamkati

• Mafunso Osautsa
• Chifukwa chiyani nthawi zina zimapweteka?
• Kodi ululuwo udzatha nthawi yomweyo?
• Kodi zidzakhala zopweteka nthawi zonse?
• Kodi mafuta opha mankwala athandiza?
• Ndituluka magazi?
• Momwe mungakonzekerere
• Pitani kuchimbudzi
• Sankhani lube yanu mwanzeru
• Kambiranani
• Yesetsani kumasuka
• Yambani pang'ono
• Zomwe muyenera kuchita pamwambo waukulu
• Gwiritsani ntchito mafuta ambiri a lube
• Pitani pang'onopang'ono
• Lankhulani
• Sinthani malo anu
• Osadandaula, simukufuna kunyalanyaza
• Kukulunga
• Konza
• Khalani ndiulendo wotsatira
• Malangizo a chitetezo
• Gwiritsani ntchito njira yotchinga poteteza
• Chitani msomali
• Osati kuviika kawiri
• Yang'anirani chilichonse chachilendo
• Mfundo yofunika

Timaphatikizapo zinthu zomwe timaganiza kuti ndizothandiza kwa owerenga athu. Ngati mutagula maulalo omwe ali patsamba lino, titha kupeza ndalama zochepa. Nayi njira yathu.

Tiyeni tifike pomwepo. Kugonana kumatako sikuyenera kuvulaza - ndipo sikuyenera kutero ngati mukuchita bwino. Ntchito yokonzekera pang'ono komanso kudekha mtima kungatanthauze kusiyana pakati pa chisangalalo ndi zowawa zikafika paphokoso lakumbuyo.

Ngati mwatsopano kumatako, werengani zonse zomwe mukufuna kuti nthawi yanu yoyamba ikhale yopambana.

Mafunso Osautsa

Ndiwowonera koyamba kusewera, ndiye kuti muli ndi mafunso.

Chifukwa chiyani nthawi zina zimapweteka?

Pongoyambira, kuchepa kwachilengedwe kwa mafuta.

Mosiyana ndi nyini, yomwe imanyowa pokonzekera kulowa, anus satero. Popanda kondomu kokwanira, mkangano wopangidwa ndi kulowa kouma umapweteka ndipo ungayambitsenso misozi yaying'ono pakhungu losalala la anus.

Ngati simuli omasuka, icho chingakhale chifukwa china cha ululu. Awa ndi malo olimba kumbuyo komweko chifukwa minofu ya kumtunda imayenera kutsekedwa molimba kuti zinthu zisalowemo. Popanda kumasula minofu imeneyo, kulowetsa chilichonse mkati kumatha kubweretsa mavuto.

Kodi ululuwo udzatha nthawi yomweyo?

Ululu uyenera kutha msanga. Ngati kupweteka kukukulira kapena kulipo pakatha masiku angapo, pita ulendo wopita kuchipatala.

Kodi zidzakhala zopweteka nthawi zonse?

Sitiyenera kutero. Koma kumatako kuli ngati mtundu wina uliwonse wogonana chifukwa umatha kupweteka ukapanda kuchitidwa moyenera.

Si zachilendo kukhala ndi zovuta zina monga momwe anus anu amazolowera kulowa. Izi zikuyenera kusintha pagawo lililonse la anal, bola ngati mukusamala.

Kodi mafuta opha mankwala athandiza?

Atha kutero, koma nthawi zambiri salimbikitsidwa.

Zowawa ndi njira ya thupi lanu kukudziwitsani china chake sichili bwino. Kuchita dzenje ndi masensa kumatha kukulepheretsani kudziwa kuti pali vuto. Ndipo ngati china sichili, monga ngodya kapena malo anu, mutha kuwononga zina.

Ndituluka magazi?

Mutha. Kakang'ono kakang'ono ka magazi nthawi zambiri kamakhala kosavuta nthawi yoyamba ndipo mwina chifukwa chakukwiyitsidwa kwina. Ngati mukuwona zochuluka kuposa madontho ochepa a magazi apinki kapena ngati alipo ngakhale patatha masiku angapo, tsatirani ndi omwe amakuthandizani.

Kutuluka magazi kumatha kuyambitsidwa ndi kukangana komanso kukhala wovuta kwambiri, kapena chifukwa cha zovuta zina, monga zotupa m'mimba.

Momwe mungakonzekerere

Kugonana kumatako kumafuna kukonzekera pang'ono, makamaka nthawi yoyamba. Nazi zinthu zina zomwe zingakonzekere kuti mukhale otanganidwa.

Pitani kuchimbudzi

Kupita kuchimbudzi musanalowe kumatenga lingaliro labwino mulimonse, koma ndikofunikira makamaka ngati mukuda nkhawa kuti poop apanga mawonekedwe.

Kudziwa kuti mulibe kanthu kumbuyo komweko kungakuthandizeni kuganizira zosangalatsa.

Sankhani lube yanu mwanzeru

Silicone lube nthawi zambiri ndiyo njira yabwino yopitira kumatako chifukwa ndi yolimba komanso yokhalitsa kuposa mitundu ina ya lube.

Ngati mukugwiritsa ntchito zoseweretsa zakugonana zopangidwa ndi silicone, komabe, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito mafuta opangidwa ndi madzi chifukwa silicone lube limanyoza zoseweretsa za silicone. Mutha kuyandikira izi pogwiritsa ntchito kondomu pachoseweretsa.

Ponena za kondomu, mafuta opaka mafuta ndi zinthu zina zamafuta ziyenera kupewedwa chifukwa zimawononga latex.

Mafuta opaka madzi nthawi zonse amakhala otetezeka chifukwa ndi ochezeka pamakondomu ndi zoseweretsa.

Pezani ma silicone ndi zotengera zamadzi pa intaneti.

Kambiranani

Kukambirana kotseguka komanso koona mtima pakati pa abwenzi ndikofunikira musanayese kugonana kumatako koyamba kuti nonse mukhale patsamba limodzi.

Anal - kapena mtundu wina uliwonse wogonana - siziyenera kuchitika popanda chilolezo chotsimikizika kuchokera kumagulu onse poyamba.

Nthawi yoyamba kumatako sichinthu chomwe mumachita pa ntchentche. Tikhulupirireni. Kuchita ntchito yokonzekera pang'ono ndikofunikira kuti mukhale ndi mwayi wabwino, wosangalatsa.

Ino ndi nthawi yoti mukambirane nkhawa zilizonse zomwe muli nazo ndikuyika malire omveka bwino. Kodi muli ndi zotulukapo zenizeni? Onetsetsani kuti mukukambirana za iwonso. Chinsinsi ndikuti mukhale omasuka komanso okonzeka momwe mungathere poitanira wina pakhomo lanu kuti azisewera.

Yesetsani kumasuka

Kukhala womasuka musanayambe kumakupangitsani kumatako zambiri zosangalatsa kwambiri kwa inu ndi mnzanu.

Yesani:

• akuviika m'bafa lotentha
• kuseweretsa maliseche
• kukhala ndi wokondedwa wanu kukupangitsani kutikita minofu
• kusangalala ndi ziwonetsero zina, monga kupsompsonana, kuseweretsa maliseche, kapena kugonana m'kamwa

Yambani pang'ono

Mbolo kapena dildo sikuyenera kukhala chinthu choyamba chomwe mumayika m'chiuno mwanu. Yambani pang'ono pogwiritsa ntchito zala kapena zidole zazing'ono ndipo pang'onopang'ono kwererani.

Ngati mukugwiritsa ntchito zala, yambani ndi pinky woyamwa bwino. Ngati mumakonda zoseweretsa, yambani ndi pulagi yaying'ono kwambiri. Popita nthawi, mutha kuyamba zokulirapo.

Zomwe muyenera kuchita pamwambo waukulu

Nthawi yafika ndipo mwakonzeka kupereka anal. Pamwamba asanu!

Gwiritsani ntchito mafuta ambiri a lube

Apa tikupita ndi kuyankhula kwa lube kachiwiri! Osati kukhala nag, koma kumbuyo kwako sikudzipaka mafuta komanso kugonana kumatako kopanda lube kumakhala kowawa komanso koopsa.

Palibe chinthu chonga lube wambiri pankhani yamasewera amtundu uliwonse, chifukwa chake musakhale owuma. Ikani momasuka mozungulira anus ndi mkati pang'ono pogwiritsa ntchito zala zanu. Mudzafunanso kuyigwiritsa ntchito ku mbolo kapena chidole chomwe chizikhala cholowera.

Pitani pang'onopang'ono

Iwalani zilizonse zolimba zomwe mwawona pa zolaula. Imeneyo si nthawi yoyamba ya munthu (ngakhale mutuwo ukunena mosiyana). Kupita patsogolo kwambiri kungawonongeke kwambiri. Zazikulu motani? Kuphulika kapena kutsekemera kwamphongo ndi zitsanzo zochepa chabe.

Lankhulani

Kugonana si nthawi yokhala chete. Kuphatikiza apo, kulumikizana kumangopangitsa kuti zikhale bwino.

Onetsetsani kuuza mnzanu zomwe zimamveka bwino komanso zomwe sizikumveka, ndipo lankhulani ngati simukukhulupirira kapena mukufuna kusiya. Izi zimakuthandizani nonse kukhala okonda bwino ndikuwonetsetsa kuti nonse mulibe momwemo.

Sinthani malo anu

Nthawi zina, kungolowetsa pang'ono pang'ono kumatha kupanga kusiyana konse pankhani yogonana kumatako.

Ngati simukumva kapena mukukumana ndi mavuto, yesetsani kusintha pang'ono pamalingaliro anu, monga kugwedeza nsana kapena kuti mnzanu atembenukire mbali ina.

Osadandaula, simukufuna kunyalanyaza

Kulowetsa kumatako kumatha kukupangitsani kumva kuti mukufunikira kutero ngakhale simukutero. Ndi chifukwa chakuti minofu yambiri yomweyi imakhudzidwa. Khazikani mtima pansi ndipo khalani otsimikiza kuti simupita poop. Timalonjeza.

Kukulunga

Zabwino zonse! Mwadzitsegula nokha - ndi pansi panu - mpaka kudziko lonse latsopano lazosangalatsa zolaula! Ino ndi nthawi yokambirana ndi kutsamiritsa pilo.

Konza

Kuyeretsa ndi mtengo wochepa wolipirira nthawi yabwino.

Kusamba kapena kusamba pang'ono kumatako ndi maliseche ndikofunikira popewa kufalikira kwa mabakiteriya. Muyeneranso kusamba m'manja ndi zidole zogonana ngati mutagwiritsa ntchito.

Lube atha kukhala osokonekera pang'ono, chifukwa chake mungafunike kutsuka mapepala anu mukamaliza. Mafuta okhala ndi madzi samasowa chisamaliro chapadera, koma mabala ochokera ku silicone lube ayenera kupangidwiratu ndi chotsitsa mabala asanasambe.

Khalani ndiulendo wotsatira

Sangalalani ndi kukumbatirana ndikucheza mukamaliza kuti muwone ndi mnzanu ndikumva momwe akumvera pazochitikazo. Fotokozerani momwe zinthu zinayendera ndi zomwe mungakonde kuchita mosiyana nthawi ina, kapena ngati kumatako ndi chinthu chomwe mukufuna kuyesanso.

Kugonana kumatako kumatha kukhala kosangalatsa, koma sizitanthauza kuti aliyense amakonda. Ngati mungayesere ndikupeza kuti siyiyandama bwato lanu, palibe chifukwa chochitiranso. Moyo ndi waufupi kwambiri pazogonana ndizomwe zili zochepa ahh-kusuntha. Chitani zomwe zimamveka bwino m'malo mwake.

Malangizo a chitetezo

Kugonana kumatako kumabwera ndi zoopsa zochepa, koma mutha kuzipewa mwakonzekera pang'ono.

Gwiritsani ntchito njira yotchinga poteteza

Malingana ndi, chiopsezo chotenga kachilombo ka HIV ndi chachikulu kwambiri ndi kumatako kusiyana ndi mitundu ina yogonana. Muthanso kutenga matenda ena opatsirana pogonana.

Izi ndichifukwa choti minyewa yosakhwima mu anus imakonda kupsa mtima ndikulira, zomwe zimalola kuti mabakiteriya alowe. Palinso mabakiteriya ambiri m'derali chifukwa chakupezeka kwa ndowe, ngakhale simukuziwona.

Kugwiritsa ntchito kondomu kumachepetsa chiopsezo chanu chotenga matenda opatsirana pogonana komanso matenda ena. Pewani makondomu okhala ndi umuna, womwe ungakwiyitse rectum.

Chitani msomali

Ngati zala zikupita kulikonse kufupi ndi dera la kumatako, onetsetsani kuti ndi oyera, oduladula, komanso opanda m'mbali.

Osati kuviika kawiri

Ngati mukukonzekera kusunthira pa chisangalalo cha mkamwa kapena chamaliseche kapena maliseche mutatha kusewera kumatako, osapita kumeneko osasamba bwino maliseche, manja, ndi zidole zogonana poyamba.

Mabakiteriya ochokera m'matumbo amatha kulowa mu mtsempha wa mkodzo ndikupangitsa matenda amkodzo. Ngati mabakiteriya alowa mkamwa, amathanso kuyambitsa matenda am'mimba.

Mukamasintha zochitika, onetsetsani kuti mukugwiritsa ntchito kondomu yatsopano.

Yang'anirani chilichonse chachilendo

Kupweteka pang'ono pambuyo panu kangapo sikumakhala nkhawa. Ngati mukumva kuwawa kwambiri kapena kupweteka m'mimba, kupweteka kwakukuluko, kapena kupweteka komwe kumatha kupitirira tsiku limodzi kapena awiri, onani wopereka chithandizo chamankhwala.

Muyeneranso kuwona wothandizira zaumoyo wanu ngati:

• zindikirani magazi, makamaka ngati ali oopsa kapena amatha kupitirira tsiku limodzi kapena awiri
• ali ndi zizindikilo za matenda, monga malungo, kutopa, kapena kupweteka kwa minofu
• onetsetsani zizindikiro za chotupa, monga kufiira, kutupa, kapena chotupa mkati kapena mozungulira anus

Mfundo yofunika

Kugonana kumatako kumawoneka kovuta, koma sichoncho. Ngati mukufuna kudziwa izi, pali zinthu zingapo zomwe mungachite kuti mutsimikizire kuti mukudziwa bwino.

Adrienne Santos-Longhurst ndi wolemba pawokha komanso wolemba yemwe analemba kwambiri pazinthu zonse zaumoyo ndi moyo kwazaka zopitilira khumi. Akapanda kulembedwapo kuti afufuze nkhani ina kapena kufunsa akatswiri azaumoyo, atha kupezeka akusangalala mozungulira tawuni yakunyanja ndi amuna ndi agalu kapena kuwaza pafupi ndi nyanjayo kuyesera kuti adziwe kuyimilira.