Chiwawa Cha M'nyumba: Kuwononga Chuma Komanso Omwe Akuzunzidwa

Zamkati

• Chiwawa cha Mnzanu: Kufotokozera
• Ndalama Zowongolera Mwachindunji
• Mtengo Wantchito
• Mtengo wa Zaumoyo
• Mtengo kwa Ana
• Kodi Mungathandize Bwanji Wina Wokhudzidwa ndi IPV?
• Kodi Ndingapeze Kuti Thandizo?

Nkhanza zapakhomo, zomwe nthawi zina zimatchedwa nkhanza pakati pa anthu (IPV), zimakhudza mwachindunji mamiliyoni a anthu ku United States chaka chilichonse. M'malo mwake, pafupifupi mayi m'modzi mwa anayi, ndipo m'modzi mwa amuna asanu ndi awiri, amachitiridwa nkhanza zochokera kwa wokondedwa wawo nthawi ina m'moyo wawo, malinga ndi CDC.

Ziwerengerozi mwina ndizotsika. Chifukwa chakusalidwa komwe kumafala chifukwa cha IPV, anthu ambiri omwe adakhudzidwa nawo sangayerekeze kunena izi, chifukwa chodzudzulidwa, kusankhana mitundu, kusankhana amuna kapena akazi anzawo, transphobia, ndi tsankho lina.

Kafukufuku, mobwerezabwereza, wapeza kulumikizana pakati pa zochitika zina ndi tchuthi, ndi kuchuluka kwa malipoti achiwawa m'banja. Kafukufuku wazaka 11 yemwe adawona zochitika pafupifupi 25,000 zakuchitiridwa nkhanza ndi anzawo adawona ma spike ofunikira a IPV pa Super Bowl Sunday. Ziwerengerozo zidalinso zapamwamba pa Tsiku la Chaka Chatsopano komanso Tsiku Lodziyimira pawokha.

Mu 2015, National Soccer League idagwirizana ndi kampeni ya No More yolengeza za malo olimbana ndi nkhanza zapakhomo pamasewera. Idali ndi mayitanidwe enieni ku 911 ndi IPV, yemwe amayenera kunamizira kuti akuyitanitsa pizza pomwe amalankhula ndi woyang'anira apolisi wakomweko.

Ichi chinali chosowa, komanso chofunikira kwambiri, chiwawa mnyumba chikuwonetsedwa ngati vuto lomwe likuyenera kuthana ndi dziko lonse. IPV nthawi zambiri imawonetsedwa ngati nkhani yachinsinsi ndi atolankhani komanso machitidwe azamilandu. M'malo mwake, nkhanza zotere - zomwe siziyenera kukhala zakuthupi - zimabweretsa zovuta zomwe zimafikira madera onse ndi kupitirira. Pamene tikuyembekezera kuyamba pa Super Bowl 50,

Chiwawa cha Mnzanu: Kufotokozera

Mnzake wapamtima ndi aliyense amene "ubale wake ulipo", malinga ndi. Izi zitha kuphatikizira onse omwe ali pachibwenzi nawo kale komanso akale.

Chiwawa cha anzako ndi njira yokakamiza kapena kuwongolera machitidwe. Izi zitha kutenga chilichonse (kapena kuphatikiza) mitundu iyi:

• nkhanza
• nkhanza zogonana, kuphatikizapo kugwiriridwa, kugonana kosayenera, zochitika zosafunikira zogonana (monga kuwonera zolaula), kuzunzidwa, komanso kuwopsezedwa za nkhanza zogonana
• kusaka
• nkhanza zamaganizidwe, komwe ndiko kugwiritsa ntchito kulumikizana pakamwa kapena mopanda tanthauzo kuti muchite izi pa wina, komanso / kapena cholinga chowavulaza m'maganizo kapena mumtima. Izi zitha kuphatikizira kukakamiza, powasiyanitsa ndi abwenzi komanso abale, kuwaletsa kupeza ndalama, kuwaletsa kugwiritsa ntchito njira zakulera, kapena kugwiritsa ntchito chiopsezo (monga kuwawopseza kuti athamangitsidwa)

Ndalama Zowongolera Mwachindunji

Tikaganizira za kuchuluka kwa nkhanza zapakhomo, timaganizira za mtengo wachindunji. Izi zingaphatikizepo chithandizo chamankhwala, komanso mtengo wapolisi, kundende, ndi ntchito zalamulo.

Koma IPV imabweretsanso ndalama zambiri zosadziwika. Izi ndi zotsatira za nthawi yayitali zachiwawa zomwe zimakhudza moyo wa wozunzidwayo, zokolola zake, komanso mwayi wake. Malinga ndi World Health Organisation (WHO), izi zitha kuphatikizira mtengo wamaganizidwe, kuchepa kwa zokolola, ndalama zomwe amapeza, ndi zina zosagwiritsa ntchito ndalama.

Malinga ndi kafukufuku wochokera ku 2004, mtengo wonse wa IPV motsutsana ndi azimayi ku United States upitilira $ 8.3 biliyoni chaka chilichonse.

Kafukufukuyu adadalira chidziwitso cha 1995, chifukwa chake mu madola a 2015, chiwerengerochi chikuyenera kukhala chachikulu kwambiri.

Padziko lonse lapansi, malinga ndi Copenhagen Consensus Center ndikugwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso cha 2013, mtengo wapachaka wa IPV padziko lonse lapansi ndi $ 4.4 trilioni, yomwe ili pafupifupi 5.2% ya GDP yapadziko lonse lapansi. Ofufuzawo akuti mwina chiwerengerocho ndichokwera kwambiri, chifukwa chonena malipoti ochepa.

Mtengo Wantchito

Kuti timvetsetse kuti zotsatira za IPV zimapitilira nyumba, sitiyenera kuyang'anitsitsa kuposa momwe IPV imakhalira pantchito. Zambiri kuchokera ku National Violence Against Women Survey (NVAWS) zosindikizidwa ndi kuyerekezera kuti azimayi ku United States amataya pafupifupi masiku 8 miliyoni akugwira ntchito chaka chilichonse chifukwa cha IPV.

Izi ndizofanana ndi ntchito za 32,114 wanthawi zonse. Ndipo IPV imakhudzanso ntchito zapakhomo, pafupifupi zowonjezera Masiku 5.6 miliyoni atayika.

Kuphatikiza pa masiku otayika, IPV zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kwambiri kwa ozunzidwa kuti azisamalira kwambiri ntchito, zomwe zingakhudze zokolola. Kafukufuku wadziko lonse wochitidwa ndi Corporate Alliance to End Partner Violence (CAEPV) mu 2005 adapeza kuti 64% ya omwe adazunzidwa ndi IPV akuwona kuti kuthekera kwawo kugwira ntchito mwina chifukwa cha nkhanza zapabanja.

Mtengo wa Zaumoyo

Mtengo wathanzi womwe IPV imabweretsa ndiwanthawi yayitali komanso kwakanthawi. Kutengera ndi chidziwitso cha 2005, akuti IPV imabweretsa kuvulala kwa amayi 2 miliyoni, komanso kufa kwa 1,200.

Chithandizo cha kuvulala kokhudzana ndi IPV nthawi zambiri chimapitilira, kutanthauza kuti omwe akuzunzidwa amafunika kupeza chithandizo chamankhwala kangapo. Malinga ndi kafukufuku wapadziko lonse wa 2005, azimayi omwe avulala ndi IPV adzafunika kupita kuchipinda chodzidzimutsa kawiri, kukaonana ndi dokotala pafupifupi maulendo 3.5, kukaonana ndi dotolo wamankhwala maulendo 5.2, ndikupita ku 19.7 kukaonana nawo.

Kaya mwakuthupi kapena kwamaganizidwe, IPV imasokoneza. Zambiri kuchokera mu 1995 zikuwonetsa kuti 1 mwa akazi atatu omwe adagwiriridwa, opitilira 1 mwa anayi omwe amachitidwapo zachipongwe, ndipo pafupifupi 1 mwa awiri omwe amachitiridwa nkhanza amafunafuna chithandizo chamankhwala amisala. Chiwerengero cha kuchezera pafupipafupi kuyambira 9 mpaka 12, kutengera masautso omwe adakumana nawo.

Ndizovuta kuyika ndalama zandalama pamaulendo amenewa chifukwa cha zovuta ku US, koma kuyerekezera kuti IPV itha kulipira kulikonse pakati pa $ 2.3 mpaka $ 7 biliyoni "m'miyezi 12 yoyambirira atachitiridwa nkhanza."

Pambuyo pa chaka choyamba, IPV ikupitilizabe kukulitsa ngongole zamankhwala. Omwe amachitiridwa nkhanza m'banja ali ndi chiopsezo chachikulu cha 80 chodwala matenda opha ziwalo, chiopsezo chachikulu cha 70 cha matenda amtima, chiopsezo chachikulu cha 70% chomwa mowa kwambiri, komanso chiopsezo chachikulu cha 60 chodwala mphumu.

Mtengo kwa Ana

IPV imakhudzanso ana omwe amapezeka nayo, komanso m'njira zingapo. IPV ndi nkhanza za ana zimachitika mu 30 mpaka 60% ya milandu yaku US, malinga ndi lipoti la 2006 lochokera ku National Institute of Justice.

Mu 2006, UNICEF idaganizira kuti ana 275 miliyoni padziko lonse lapansi adachitidwapo nkhanza kunyumba; chiwerengerocho chikuwonjezeka. Zotsatira zawo zikusonyeza kuti ana omwe amachitiridwa zachiwawa atha kukhala ndi mavuto am'maganizo kapena amakhalidwe, amakhala pachiwopsezo chachikulu chomenyedwa kapena kugwiriridwa, ndipo atha kutengera mikhalidwe yozunza. (Chidziwitso: Nkhanza nthawi zonse chimakhala chisankho ndi wolakwira; si ana onse omwe amachitira nkhanza anzawo omwe amapitilizabe kuchitira nkhanza.)

Zotsatira izi zikuwonetsa kuti zachiwawa si vuto labwinobwino, koma makamaka zomwe zimakhudza ana, anzawo, kuntchito, komanso, kuwonjezera pamenepo, tonsefe.

Ndikofunika kunena mobwerezabwereza kuti mtengo wachiwawa ndi wovuta kutsitsa pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana, ndipo ziyerekezo zomwe zaperekedwa pano ndizotsika. Kutengera molumikizana ndi zovuta zomwe zimachitika m'mabanja, anzawo, komanso madera a omwe akhudzidwa, mtengo wa IPV ku United States ndi ndalama zomwe sitingakwanitse kulipira.

Kodi Mungathandize Bwanji Wina Wokhudzidwa ndi IPV?

Ngati mnzanu kapena wina amene mumamukonda akuzunzidwa ndi wokondedwa wawo, malangizo otsatirawa atha kusintha kwambiri:

• Lankhulani nawo. Muuzeni mnzanuyo kuti mumawakonda ndipo mukuda nkhawa ndi moyo wawo. Mnzanu angakane kuti amamuzunza. Ingowadziwitsani kuti muli nawo.
• Pewani chiweruzo. Khulupirirani zomwe mnzanu wanena za zomwe akumana nazo; ozunzidwa ambiri amawopa kuti sadzakhulupirira. Zindikirani kuti anthu omwe amachitilidwa nkhanza amatha kudziimba mlandu kapena kuyeserera kuzunzidwa munjira zina. Komanso mumvetsetse kuti anthu omwe akuzunzidwa amatha kukonda omwe amawazunza.
• Osamawaimba mlandu. Kuzunza sikulakwa kwa wozunzidwayo, ngakhale omwe amamuzunza anganene. Dziwitsani mnzanu kuti siali vuto lake; palibe amene ayenera kuzunzidwa.
• Osamawauza kuti achoke. Ngakhale zitakhala zovuta bwanji, mnzanuyo amadziwa zomwe zingawathandize. Omwe akuvutitsidwa akasiya owachitira nkhanza, chiopsezo chofa; sizingakhale bwino kuti mnzanu achoke, ngakhale mukuganiza kuti ayenera kutero. M'malo mwake, apatseni mphamvu kuti apange zisankho zawo.
• Athandizeni kufufuza zomwe angasankhe. Ozunzidwa ambiri amadzimva kukhala osungulumwa ndi opanda thandizo, kapena amawona kuti sikutetezeka kufunafuna chuma m'nyumba zawo. Pemphani kuti mupeze ma hotline nawo kapena musunge timabuku.

Onani Center for Relationship Abuse Awareness for more malangizo othandizira mnzanu (kapena mnzake wogwira naye ntchito) amene akuzunzidwa.

Kodi Ndingapeze Kuti Thandizo?

Pali zinthu zambiri zopezeka kwa omwe achitiridwa nkhanza. Ngati mukuzunzidwa, onetsetsani kuti zili bwino kuti mupeze zinthuzi pakompyuta kapena pafoni yanu.

• Nambala yafoni ya nkhanza zapakhomo: zothandizira onse omwe akhudzidwa ndi IPV; Hotline ya maola 24 pa 1-800-799-7233, 1-800-787-3224 (TTY)
• Ntchito Yolimbana ndi Chiwawa: zida zapadera za LGBTQ ndi omwe ali ndi kachilombo ka HIV; Hotline ya maola 24 pa 212-714-1141
• Kugwiririra, Kuzunza, & Incest National Network (RAINN): zothandizira kuzunzidwa ndi omwe adapulumuka; Hotline ya maola 24 pa 1-800-656-HOPE
• Office on Women's Health: zothandizira ndi boma; mzere wothandizira pa 1-800-994-9662