Mukakhala pa Wheelchair, Kumva Kukopa Kungakhale Kovuta - Apa ndichifukwa chake

Zamkati

• Njira yatsopano yowonera zinthu
• Kudzidzimutsa kwawekha
• Tengera kwina

Kumva wokongola mukakhala ndi chilema kungakhale kovuta, akufotokozera wotsutsa Annie Elainey, makamaka mukamagwiritsa ntchito zothandizira kuyenda.

Choyamba chake chinali ndodo. Ngakhale zinali kusintha, adawona kuti anali ndi mawonekedwe abwino oti aziwoneka. Kupatula apo, pali anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi ndodo muma media omwe amawoneka okongola, monga Dr. House wochokera ku "Nyumba" - ndipo ndodo nthawi zambiri zimawonetsedwa mwanjira yapamwamba, yoyera.

“Ndimamva bwino. Ndidamva, moona mtima, ngati kuti zidandipatsa pang'ono 'oomph', "akukumbukira ndikuseka.

Koma pamene Annie adayamba kugwiritsa ntchito njinga ya olumala, zinali zovuta kwambiri kuti akhale wamfashoni kapena wokongola.

Pamalingaliro, kwa anthu omwe ali ndi zochitika zopita patsogolo, kutayika kwa maluso ena kumatha kubweretsa nthawi yolira. Annie akuti ndikulira chinthu chomwe chinali chamtengo wapatali kwambiri kwa iwe. "Maluso athu amakhala amtengo wapatali kwa ife - ngakhale tizingowatenga pang'ono," akutero.

Njira yatsopano yowonera zinthu

Poyamba, Annie ankada nkhawa ndi momwe amawonekera pa chikuku chake chatsopano. Ndipo sanali wokonzekera kusintha kwa msinkhu, zomwe zinali zodabwitsa. Atayimirira, anayeza mainchesi 5 mainchesi 8 - koma atakhala, anali wamfupi phazi lonse.

Monga munthu yemwe anali atazolowera kukhala wamtali, zidamveka zachilendo kukhala nthawi zonse ndikuyang'ana ena. Ndipo nthawi zambiri m'malo opezeka anthu ambiri, anthu amangomuyang'ana m'malo momuyang'ana.

Zinali zowonekeratu kwa Annie kuti momwe amadzionera ndi zosiyana kwambiri ndi momwe ena amamuwonera. Pomwe amadziona ngati munthu wamphamvu yemwe akupita kudziko lapansi, ambiri amangowona chikuku chake.

“Panali anthu amene sanatero yang'anani pa ine. Amayang'ana munthu yemwe amandikankhira, koma samayang'ana ine. Ndipo ndinayamba kudzidalira kwambiri. ”

Annie adakumana ndi vuto losokonezeka thupi ndipo adayamba kukhala ndi malingaliro olakwika ngati: "Oo, ndimaganiza kuti kale ndinali wonyansa. Ndi masewera tsopano. Palibe amene adzandikonde tsopano. "

Sanamve "wokongola" kapena wosiririka, koma anali wotsimikiza kuti asalole kuti izi zitenge moyo wake.

Kudzidzimutsa kwawekha

Annie adayamba kufufuza pa intaneti ndipo adapeza gulu la anthu olumala omwe akugawana zithunzi zawo ndi ma hashtag ngati #spoonies, #hospitalglam, #cripplepunk, kapena #cpunk (kwa anthu omwe sanafune kugwiritsa ntchito slur).

Zithunzizo, akuti, zinali zokhudzana ndikubwezeretsanso mawu oti "olumala," okhudzana ndi anthu olumala omwe anali onyadira kupunduka ndipo amadziwonetsa ulemu. Zinali zopatsa mphamvu ndikuthandizira Annie kupeza liwu lake komanso kudziwika kwake, kuti athe kudziwona kupitilira momwe ena amamuwonera mpando wake.

"Ndidakhala ngati: Wow, amuna, olumala ndiwokongola monga chani. Ndipo ngati angathe kutero, nditha. Pitani msungwana, pitani! Valani zina mwazovala zomwe mumakonda kuvala musanapunduke! ”

Annie akuti m'njira zina, kulumala komanso matenda atha kukhala zosefera. Ngati wina angokuwonani kuti ndinu olumala ndipo sangakuwoneni momwe mulili - ngati sakuwona umunthu wanu - ndiye kuti simukufuna kuchita nawo kanthu koyambira.

Tengera kwina

Annie wayamba kuwona zothandizira zake zoyenda ngati "zowonjezera" - monga thumba la ndalama kapena jekete kapena mpango - zomwe zimachititsanso kuti moyo wake ukhale wabwino.

Annie akadziyang'ana pagalasi tsopano, amadzikonda momwe aliri. Akukhulupirira kuti ndikuwonekera kowonjezereka, ena atha kudziona momwemo.

“Sindikumva wokongola chifukwa anthu amakopeka kwa ine. Ndikutsimikiza kuti pali anthu omwe amakopeka ndi ine. M'malo mwake, ndine wotsimikiza ndi 100% kuti pali anthu omwe adakopeka ndi ine chifukwa sindinapite popanda zokambirana ndi omwe amawatsata… Chofunikira ndikuti ndidapezanso chizindikiritso changa. Kuti ndikayang'ana pagalasi, ndimawona ndekha. Ndipo ndimakonda ndekha.”

Alaina Leary ndi mkonzi, woyang'anira media, komanso wolemba waku Boston, Massachusetts. Pakadali pano ndiwothandizira mkonzi wa Equally Wed Magazine komanso mkonzi wazama TV ku bungwe lopanda phindu lomwe timafunikira.