Momwe Mungasankhire Zithunzi Zambiri Zachibwenzi Paintaneti: Wosunga Ndani?

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Mukamapanga kuphunzira za maubale kukhala ntchito yanu momwe ndimagwirira ntchito, mumatha kuyankhula zoyipa za chibwenzi. Kotero palibe chomwe chinali chachilendo pamene kasitomala wamkazi wazaka za 20 adabwera kudzandiwona chifukwa adakwapulidwa ndikupwetekedwa ndi mnyamata yemwe amamukonda kwambiri.

"Ndidawona zithunzi zake, ndipo ndikuganiza ndikadawona mbendera zofiira," adatero mwachisoni pomwe amaseweretsa zipu pahoodie yake yapinki. Wothandizira wanga, yemwe ndimutcha Abby, anali kudzimenya chifukwa anali asanawone kuyambira pachiyambi kuti mnyamata yemwe adakhala naye kawiri anali "wosewera." Abby adapitilizabe kundiwonetsa zithunzi zake zina zingapo.

"Dikirani pang'ono!" Ndidatsutsa pomwe amafufuza m'mabanja angapo omwe anali, ovuta. Ndidayang'ana pa chithunzi cha mnyamata wokongola wokhala ndi tsitsi lakuda pamalo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi, chithunzicho chidayang'aniridwa pamiyendo yake ya bicep pomwe amapindika. Kuchokera pamenepo (yikes), tinayang'ana yotsatira, yomwe inalibe aliyense mmenemo - Mercedes yatsopano yoyimikidwa patsogolo pa garaja losadziwika. Gawo lonselo lidathamanga, mutha kulingalira.

Palibe amene angakane kuti mutha kuwerenga zambiri pazithunzi zomwe winawake amalemba pa intaneti. The craziest mbali kuti jenda sizikuoneka kuti ndi nkhani, chifukwa amuna ndi akazi mofanana nsanamira zithunzi kuti kutumiza mauthenga olakwika ngati cholinga chawo chenicheni ndi kupeza bwenzi wabwino.

Anyamata, Mukuganiza Chiyani?

Zedi, ndine katswiri wa zamaganizo, koma ndinenso munthu. Ndikumvetsetsa kufuna kuyika chithunzi chosangalatsa kunja uko kuti ndikope masiku abwino kwambiri. Luntha, kukopa, komanso kuchita bwino mwaukadaulo ndizosinthana padziko lonse lapansi, chifukwa chake ndikwanzeru kufotokozera zomwe mumachita bwino. Kudzitama, komabe, ndi nkhani ina kwathunthu.

Cholinga ndi zithunzi zanu chizikhala kuwonetsa anthu umunthu wanu. Kodi ndinu mwana wamtchire kapena wolowererapo? Wokonda masewera kapena, mwina, wokonda galimoto? Ndi chiyani chinthu chanu? Mwachitsanzo, kujambula zithunzi zanu ndikusambira, nkhonya, kapena kunyamula zolemera kumauza dziko lapansi kuti mumakondanso masewera enieni ndipo mwina ndinu okongola thupi komanso thanzi. Kumbali inayi, kutumiza zithunzi zanu mukulandira mphotho kapena kudzitamandira ndi ma biceps anu kumauza dziko lapansi kuti mumayamikira zizindikiro zoonekeratu za mphamvu ndi matamando. (Sindikudziwa za inu, koma munthu woyamba akumveka ngati vuto kwa ine.)

Amayi, Inunso!

Ndikulakalaka ndikanaimba mlandu chiweruzo chazibwenzi chimodzi chokha, chifukwa izi zitanthauza kuti pali anthu ochepa kunja uko omwe akupanga zisankho zodziwononga. Komabe azimayi, nawonso, amatumiza zithunzi zawo zomwe zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Mukudziwa bwino zomwe ndikunena: msungwana monga wokonda chuma, mtsikana ngati wosagwirizana ndi zakutchire, ndi zina zambiri.

Chifukwa atolankhani ali ndi zithunzi zambiri zosokoneza za akazi kale, azimayi ayenera kusamala kuti azitumiza zithunzi zawo pa intaneti kuti ndi anzeru, otha kuchita zinthu, komanso amphamvu. Kuphatikiza apo, amuna ambiri amapeza akazi otentha kwambiri m'kupita kwanthawi. Chifukwa chake ngati muli ndi thupi lalikulu, ndizowopsa. Phatikizaninso chithunzi cha inu ndi mnzanu pagombe, koma osatumiza chojambulacho chomwe chimayang'ana pachifuwa panu ndikumatulutsa nkhope ya mnzanu!

Nchiyani Chimalimbikitsa Anthu Kulemba Zithunzi Zosayenera?

Ngati simuli munthu amene angakonde, zithunzi za e-v-e-r-post zomwe zimakupangitsani kuti muwoneke ngati wachiwerewere, wachabechabe, kapena wachiphamaso, mwina muli ndi lingaliro la chifukwa chomwe wina angachitire chinthu choterocho. Ngati mukuganiza kuti "kusowa chitetezo," ding, ding! Mungakhale mukunena zowona. Ngati muli ndi thanzi labwino, kutanthauza kuti mumadzikonda nokha ndipo mulibe mavuto okhalabe abwino kwa inu nokha kapena kwa ena, simukuyenera kudzionetsera pazolimba zomwe mumachita. Ndi chidaliro chotere, mumasamala kwambiri zomwe mumaganiza za inu kuposa momwe wina aliyense amaganizira za inu, ndipo vibe imeneyi imakopa ena modabwitsa!

Pamapeto pa tsiku, ndikwabwino kuyika zithunzi zanu zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala owoneka bwino, osangalatsa komanso osangalatsa. Ngati simukudziwa kuti ndi mikhalidwe iti yomwe mungalimbikitse pazithunzi zanu zapaintaneti, lingalirani zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala osiyana ndi ena onse omwe ali pafupi nanu. Zirizonse zomwe ziri kwa inu-mwina nthabwala zamatsenga kapena kutengeka kwanu ndi kanema wawayilesi - ndi gawo la yemwe inu muli, ndipo simuyenera kufotokoza kapena kulungamitsa izo.

Pankhani yotumiza zithunzi, chinsinsi sichikuyesera kwambiri. Osadandaula kuti mukangolumikizana ndi aliyense nthawi yomweyo akangoyamba kumene mbiri yanu. Dziko ladzaza ndi amuna ndi akazi odabwitsa, ndipo omwe mudzakhale nawo akusankhirani chifukwa cha omwe muli ngati phukusi-osati chifukwa cha chithunzi chopusa.

Pamapeto pake, umunthu wanu uyenera kukhala malo anu ogulitsa kwambiri, chifukwa chake jambulani mowona pazithunzi zanu. Pomaliza, chonde siyani dziko lazithunzi zamagalimoto anu otsogola, ziwalo zathupi, ndi maakaunti akubanki!

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