Chifukwa Chomwe Galu Wanga Ndiye Dongosolo Labwino Kwambiri Lopweteka Kwanga

Zamkati

• 1. Amakhala okonzeka kukumbatirana
• 2. Zimandipangitsa kumva kuti ndimakondedwa
• 3. Amandisuntha
• 4. Nthawi zonse amakhala okondwa kundiona
• 5. Amakhalanso omvera kwambiri… Ayi, zowonadi!
• 6. Amandisungabe
• 7. Amandipangitsa kuseka
• 8. Amandipatsa otanganidwa
• Kupanga mawonekedwe atsopano

Tivomerezane: Kukhala ndi ululu wosatha kumatha kufooketsa osati mwakuthupi, komanso kwamaganizidwe. Simumazolowera kukhumudwa tsiku lililonse. Popeza ndidalandira agalu anga, andithandiza kwambiri pankhani yothana ndi matenda anga a nyamakazi (RA).

Sindinaganizepo kuti kukhala ndi chiweto kungakhale gawo lofunika kwambiri pamoyo wanga, koma kukhala nawo pafupi kwandithandiza kwambiri pamoyo wanga. Nazi njira zochepa chabe zomwe agalu anga andithandizira kuthana ndi RA yanga:

1. Amakhala okonzeka kukumbatirana

Palibe china chotonthoza kuposa kukhala ndi galu wokhotakhota pafupi nane, makamaka ndikadzipeza ndili pakati paukali wowopsa. Kukhala ndi galu wanga wogona pafupi ndi ine kumachepetsa nkhawa yanga ndikagona, inenso. Galu wanga nthawi zonse amapuma bwino akapeza malo abwino oti agoneko. Ndi chinthu chodulidwa nthawi zonse, ndipo chimasangalatsa mtima wanga. Galu wanga wina amakonda kugona kumbuyo kwanga usiku. Zimakhala ngati ndili mu sangweji ya galu.

2. Zimandipangitsa kumva kuti ndimakondedwa

Chikondi cha galu ndichopanda malire. Ziribe kanthu zomwe ndikumverera, momwe ndimawonekera, kapena ngati ndasamba, agalu anga azandikonda nthawi zonse. M'malingaliro mwanga, chikondi chamtunduwu ndichabwino kuposa chomwe mumalandira kuchokera kwa anthu ambiri. Nthawi zonse ndimatha kudalira agalu anga. Chikondi chawo chimandithandiza kuti ndisamangoganizira zowawa zanga - ndimasokonezedwa ndi zipsopsono zonse zagalu!

3. Amandisuntha

Kukhala wokangalika ndi ululu wopweteka kumakhala kovuta kwambiri. Ndikudziwa kuti ndikadakhala m'malo mwa mwana wakhanda pabedi langa wokutidwa ndi zofunda. Koma kukhala ndi galu sikundipatsa chisankho. Ngakhale m'masiku anga ovuta kwambiri, ndimadzipezabe ndikupita koyenda mozungulira bwaloli. Ndipo kupita kokayenda ndikwabwino osati kwa chiweto changa chokha, komanso kwa ine. Sindikudziwa ngakhale kuti ndikuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Kuphatikiza apo, chisangalalo chomwe galu amakhala nacho kunja chimayambukira. Kuwawona akusangalala mchira wawo kumandipangitsa kukhala wosangalala, inenso.

4. Nthawi zonse amakhala okondwa kundiona

Kubwerera kunyumba kuchokera ku madokotala kungakhale kotopetsa m'maganizo kapena m'maganizo. Palibe chomwe chimapambana kutsegula khomo lakakhitchini kwa galu yemwe ali wokondwa kundiwona! Amakhala ngati ndapita zaka zambiri, ndipo chisangalalo chomwe amawonetsa chitha kusintha zosintha zamasiku anga.

5. Amakhalanso omvera kwambiri… Ayi, zowonadi!

Nthawi zambiri ndimapezeka ndikucheza ndi galu wanga. Amangokhala pamenepo ndikumamvetsera. Ndikapezeka kuti ndikulira, amanyambita misozi pankhope panga. Zikuwoneka kuti amakhala nane nthawi zonse ngakhale zitakhala bwanji. Zowonadi mzanga wapamtima. Ngakhale sindilankhula mawu, akuwoneka kuti akudziwa nthawi yomwe ndimamufuna kwambiri.

6. Amandisungabe

Zinthu zimatha kukhala zokhumudwitsa mukakhala ndi ululu wopweteka, makamaka ngati simungagwire ntchito. Mutha kukhala wokhalamo mukadzimva kuti mwataya cholinga chanu.

Ndidadzidziwikiratu nditasiya tsitsi ndikugulitsa salon yanga. Koma popeza ndapeza agalu anga, ndimapitanso kwina. Tsopano ndikupeza kuti ndimasanthula mapaki ndi bwenzi langa lapamtima. Nthawi zambiri timapita kumalo osungira agaluwa omwe amakhala otetezedwa. Timakumana ndi anthu atsopano ndipo tapanga anzathu ena atsopano, ngakhale ochepa omwe alinso ndi RA.

Ndikudziwa kuti ndili ndi chizolowezi cholowa mchikopa changa chaching'ono, koma kupita kumalo osungira agalu ngakhale makalasi ochezera agalu ikhoza kukhala njira yabwino yokumana ndi anthu atsopano komanso kucheza ndi chiweto changa, zomwe zimatipangitsa kukhala gawo ladziko lapansi kunjaku.

7. Amandipangitsa kuseka

Makhalidwe agalu atha kukhala owoneka bwino kwambiri. Sindingachitire mwina koma kuseka zinthu zina zomwe amachita tsiku lililonse. Mmodzi wa agalu anga amalira pa TV pomwe pali nyama. Wina amakonda kuponyera mipira yake yamiyala mlengalenga, mobwerezabwereza.

Galu amatha kukupangitsani kukhala osangalala munjira zosiyanasiyana. Ndani angamvetsere ululu mukakhala otanganidwa kwambiri?

8. Amandipatsa otanganidwa

Galu amatha kuyika munthu pantchito yamaganizidwe. Mukakhala ndi mnzanu, simumaganizira kwambiri za matenda anu kapena zowawa.

Ndikudziwa kuti malingaliro anga akhala otanganidwa kwambiri popeza ndalandira agalu anga onse. Kusamba nawo, kuwadyetsa, kusewera nawo, kuwonera nawo TV, komanso ngakhale kupita nawo limodzi kumapangitsa kuti ndisakhale ndi malingaliro ena osangalatsa. Ndibwino kuti ndisadziphatike m'mutu mwanga.

Kupanga mawonekedwe atsopano

Ndinadzimva wotayika pomwe ndinapezeka ndi RA. Koma pamene ana awiri aubweyawa adabwera m'moyo wanga, zinthu zidakhala bwino kwambiri kwa ine, m'maganizo ndi mwathupi. Ndikuyembekezera kumapeto kwa sabata kumapeto kwa galu kucheza ndi eni agalu ena ndikupita panja. Ngakhale sindimayembekezera kukhala ndi galu mmodzi mmoyo wanga, osatinso awiri, sindingalingalire tsiku lopanda iwo.

Gina Mara anapezeka ndi RA mu 2010. Amakonda hockey ndipo amathandizira ku CreakyJoints. Lumikizanani naye pa Twitter @ginasabres.