Mwakwera? Kodi Therapy Replacement Therapy (HRT) Imakhudza Bwanji Kugonana Kwanu ndi Libido?

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• Kodi HRT idakhudza bwanji moyo wanu wogonana?

Mwakwera? ndilo gawo latsopano la upangiri wa Healthline, lomwe limathandiza owerenga kuti afufuze zakugonana.

"Kodi munthu angathenso kutaya mtima chifukwa cha kulira?" Ili linali funso lomwe ndidafunsa modyeramo bafa nditakwiya pomwe Grindr adandigwira ndi mokwiya zifukwa zomveka.

Ndinali munthu wodutsa m'mphepete.

Miyezi isanu ndi umodzi pa testosterone, mankhwala omwe ndimatsata ndimomwe ndimatsatira ndi endocrinologist, adandichotsa ku libido yoposa pamwambapa yomwe azimayi a cisgender azaka zawo zoyambirira za 30s, amakhala wamisala wokwiya.

Anthu ambiri a transmasculine amafotokoza izi akayamba HRT. Misalayo mwina imamveka bwino ngati mukukula msinkhu kapena mukuyang'ana mmbuyo mwamantha. Ndi chifukwa chakuti mankhwala othandizira mahomoni amatha kumva ngati kutha msinkhu.

Sindinakhalepo motere. Pamene ndimadziyesa kukhala mkazi, ndinali pa njira yolerera yochokera ku estrogen kuyambira 17 mpaka 27. Sindinakhalepo wokonda kugonana ndi m'modzi mwa awiriwo (eya) omwe ndinali nawo mzaka khumi zapitazi. Onsewa adandineneza kuti ndine chibwenzi chabwenzi, nthawi yomwe zatsimikizira kuti ndizabodza.

Nditayamba HRT, zikafika poti ndichite izi, ndimakopeka kwambiri ndikukondana ndi anthu okhaokha achimuna, kapena amuna ambiri, monga ine.

Ndazindikira kuti sindingathenso kugwira bwino ntchito ngati ndili pachibwenzi, zomwe zimasokonekera poganizira kuti ndikubwezeretsanso mkazi mmodzi.

Ndili ndi malingaliro otseguka kuposa momwe ndinkakhalira kale - {textend} ngati aliyense ali wokhoza komanso wofunitsitsa kuvomereza, ndimachita chidwi ndikufufuza chilichonse komanso chilichonse chomwe mnzanga amaganiza. Momwe thupi langa limamverera molondola, ndimakonda kugonana kwambiri ndipo ndimada nkhawa ndi zolemba ndi zoyembekezera zochepa. Ndimamva ngati munthu wina nthawi zina!

Kodi izi zimachitika kwa aliyense amene amatenga mahomoni? Pali maphunziro owerengeka pamutuwu, koma zitsanzo zazitsanzo nthawi zambiri zimakhala zazing'ono, zomwe sizosadabwitsa, chifukwa magulu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito mahomoni amakhala m'mphepete ndipo padakali manyazi okambirana zakugonana moona mtima.

Komanso, kugonana ndi libido ndizokumana nazo zaumwini komanso zodalira, zomwe zingakhale zovuta kuziyeza mu kafukufuku.

Ndinkafuna kutsitsa momwe zikhalidwe zakugonana zimakhudzidwira pamitundu yosiyanasiyana ya HRT, chifukwa chake ndidachita zokambirana zingapo mwamwayi. Ndachita zonse zomwe ndingathe kuti ndipeze anthu azaka zosiyanasiyana, mafuko, akazi ndi akazi, omwe akutenga mahomoni pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana - {textend} kuchokera pakusintha kwachipatala kupita kuchipatala cha matenda a endocrine.

Izi ndizomwe amayenera kunena zakupita pa HRT ndi moyo wawo wogonana. (Mayina asinthidwa).

Kodi HRT idakhudza bwanji moyo wanu wogonana?

Sonya * ndi mzimayi wa cisgender yemwe ali ndi zaka pafupifupi 20 yemwe amatenga Tri-Lo-Sprintec ndikuwombera mlungu uliwonse ku estrogen kuti athetse vuto la chithokomiro pazaka zingapo zapitazi.

Sonya akuti akumva zachiwerewere mpaka pomwe adayamba HRT. Adadabwa osati ndikusintha kwa libido yake, komanso kuti zomwe amakonda azimayi zidasunthira makamaka kwa amuna.

Ponseponse, amagawana kuti: "Kwa ine sizinasinthe zizolowezi zanga zogonana kupatula kuti libido yanga idasiya, chifukwa makamaka inali yothira tsitsi lakumaso, kunenepa, komanso kununkhira thupi, koma zinali zokwanira kuzindikira . ”

Ndiye pali Matt *, mfumukazi yazaka 34, wokwatiwa ndi cisgender yemwe amatenga testosterone kwazaka ziwiri. Anayambitsa HRT mnzake atamupempha kuti akaonane ndi dokotala kuti amuthandize kuthana ndi kutopa ndi kusangalala. Adadziwika kuti ndi mkazi mmodzi yekha yemwe amasangalala kwambiri pachibwenzi.

Pambuyo pa T, komabe, "Zili ngati munthu wina wasinthiratu ubongo wanga ndipo ndimafuna f * * * ALIYENSE. Ndinakwatiwa ndili wachichepere, ndipo a T adatsogolera ku vuto lodabwitsali la 'Dikirani, ndi momwe aliyense amamvera kusukulu yasekondale komanso ku koleji? Kodi ndi momwe kugonana kosadziwika kumachitikira? Izi zikumveka bwino tsopano! '”

Ndidalankhulanso ndi a Frankie, * munthu wodabwitsika wa transfeminine (iwo / iwo matchulidwe) omwe amatenga Estradiol kuyambira 2017. Asanachitike mahomoni, Frankie akuti "Kugonana kunali kovuta. Sindinadziwe zomwe ndikufuna kuchita kapena zomwe ndimamva. Ndimamudalira kwambiri munthu winayo. ”

Atayamba estrogen, amamva bwino kwambiri ndi zomwe thupi lawo limafuna (kapena ayi). Asanapange estrogen, amangogwirizana ndi amuna. Pambuyo pake, panali zivomerezi kusunthira poyamba kumverera kuti ndikudziwika kuti ndine amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, "koma [ine] ndinayamba Grindr ndipo, ha, sindikuganiza!"

Ponseponse, a Frankie amavomereza kusintha kumeneku muubido wawo komanso zogonana kuti asamukire kumalo otetezeka ndi anthu ena omwe amadziwika kuti ndi ovomerezeka kuti azitsatira monga mahomoni.

Pomaliza, ndidayankhula ndi mayi wopita patsogolo wotchedwa Rebecca *. Ali ndi zaka 22 ndipo wakhala akutenga estrogen kudzera pachipatala kwa miyezi pafupifupi 7. Ngakhale sanakumanepo ndi kusintha kwa libido, chidwi chake pakugonana asanafike HRT chimakhala chokhazikika kwambiri m'malo mokhala pachibwenzi.

Tsopano, ali ndi kulumikizana kwakuya muubwenzi wake wama polyamorous pozindikira kufunikira kwake kwa kulumikizana kwamaganizidwe ndi chibwenzi, ndipo amasangalala ndi mchitidwewo kuposa kale. Ndinazindikira zambiri ndi zomwe zinachitikira Rebecca: kuti ziphuphu zimamverera mosiyana ndi estrogen kuposa testosterone!

"Sikuti [kugonana] tsopano ndi kokhutiritsa, ngakhale kotsimikizira, koma kumangokhala kotalikitsa, kulimba kwambiri, ndipo mwina ndidakhala nako kawiri kawiri posachedwa. Chiwerewere tsopano chakhala choyenera kutumizidwa kumalo kapena kukumana nacho ndipo ndichinthu chomwe ndikuyembekezera mwachidwi ndikusangalala ndikumangirako, osati china chomwe ndimangochita, ”adatero Rebecca.

Zachidziwikire, zokumana nazozi zimangoyimira ochepa mwa mazana azabwino komanso osiyanasiyana omwe adayankha. Anthu ena amangosintha pang'ono, ndipo anthu ena onga ine adasinthana kwambiri ndi zachiwerewere kapena zachiwerewere.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti chidwi chikwera pakufufuza koyenera, chifukwa maphunziro ndi mapulogalamu akulu adzafunika tikayamba kuwona zotsatira zakutali za machitidwe osiyanasiyana a HRT mthupi la munthu - {textend} makamaka ma trans trans.

Pakadali pano, ndipita kuti ndikasambe ozizira. Apanso.

Reed Brice ndi wolemba komanso woseketsa ku Los Angeles. Brice ndi alum wa UC Irvine's Claire Trevor School of the Arts ndipo anali munthu woyamba kuchita transgender yemwe adaponyedwapo akatswiri ndi The Second City. Popanda kuyankhula tiyi wamatenda amisala, Brice amatipatsanso gawo lathu lachikondi ndi zogonana, "U Up?"