Hunter McGrady Amakhala Wosatsimikizika Pazomwe Zinatenga Kuti Amarize Thupi Lake Lachilengedwe

Zamkati

• Kuvomereza Kuti Sindinali Chitsanzo Chowongoka
• Kukumbatira Kukula Kwanga Kwachilengedwe
• Mavuto Atsopano
• Kulimbikitsa Amayi Kupitiliza Kumenyera Kusintha
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Ndakhala ndikufuna kukhala chitsanzo malinga ndikukumbukira. Mayi anga ndi agogo anga onse anali achitsanzo, ndipo ndinafunitsitsa kukhala ngati iwowo, koma anandipezerera chifukwa cha maloto anga a kusekondale. Tsiku lililonse, anthu ankanena za thupi langa, kunena kuti ndinali wamtali kwambiri, wosakhala wokongola mokwanira, wosaonda mokwanira, komanso kuti sindikanatha kukhala m'dziko lachitsanzo ngakhale ndikuyesera bwanji.

Ngakhale ndakhala ndikulimbana ndi thupi langa kwanthawi yayitali komanso kukula kwachilengedwe, pamapeto pake, ndidawadzudzula pokhala mtundu wophatikizika. Koma ndikukula, sindikanaganiza kuti iyi ndi njira yomwe ntchito yanga ikadatsata.

Sindinadziwikepo kuti ndine "msungwana wamkulu." M'malo mwake, ndinali chomwe anthu ambiri amachiwona ngati "wowonda." Ndili wamtali mamita 6, ndimangolemera pafupifupi mapaundi 114.

Kuvomereza Kuti Sindinali Chitsanzo Chowongoka

Anzanga akusukulu amapitilizabe kuseka ndikuseka mawonekedwe ndi zikhumbo zanga, ndipo pamapeto pake, ndinayenera kupita kusukulu kunyumba chifukwa opezerera anzawo anali osapiririka.

Komabe, kunyumba, ndinkadana ndi zomwe ndinkaziwona ndikayang'ana pagalasi. Ndinasankha zophophonya, ndikudzikumbutsa kuti sindinali woyenera kuvomerezedwa ndi anzanga omwe ndimaphunzira nawo kapena mafashoni achitsanzo. Ndinadandaula kwambiri ndipo ndinayamba kuda nkhawa kwambiri ndikulemera komanso zomwe ndimadya. Ndidatengeka ndi zomwe ena amaganiza za thupi langa.

Komabe, ndinali wofunitsitsa kuti ndifanane ndi mawonekedwe amtundu wabwino, ndipo ndinali wofunitsitsa kupitiriza kuthamangitsa maloto anga zivute zitani.

Khama limenelo linapangitsa kuti ndikhale ndi gigi yanga yoyamba ndili ndi zaka 16. Koma ngakhale pa tsiku loyambalo pa set, chiyembekezo chinali chowonekera: Ndinayenera kupitiriza kuonda ngati nditi ndipambane.

Mukakhala mtsikana, mumakhala ngati siponji. Zinthu zonse zomwe umva za iwe, ukukhulupirira. Chifukwa chake ndidayesetsa kuyesetsa kusiya mapaundi ambiri. Kwa ine, izi zikutanthauza kudya pang'ono, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi a cardio ndi china chilichonse chomwe chingandipatse thupi 'labwino' kuti ndikhale wopambana.

Koma moyo wanga sunali wokhazikika. Patapita nthawi, zimene ena ankanena zokhudza ine zinayamba kundikhudza kwambiri.

Pansi pamiyala kunabwera chaka chimodzi kuchokera "nthawi" yoyamba ija kukhala chitsanzo. Ngakhale kuyesetsa kwanga kuti ndifanane ndi nkhungu inayake, adandiuza kuti ndisiye chifukwa sanazindikire kuti ndinali "wamkulu". Koma ndinali ndikudzipha kale ku malo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi, osadya ndikumachita chilichonse chomwe ndingathe kuti ndikhale wocheperako. Tsiku limenelo, pamene ndinachoka ndi misozi m’maso mwanga, ndinadziŵa kuti chinachake chiyenera kusintha.

Kukumbatira Kukula Kwanga Kwachilengedwe

Pambuyo pa zomwe zandichitikirazi, ndidadziwa kuti ndikufunika thandizo kuti ndisinthe malingaliro anga olakwika. Chifukwa chake ndidatembenukira kuchipatala kuti chindithandizire kulimba mtima komanso maluso omwe ndimafunikira kuti ndikhalenso wathanzi.

Ndimayang'ana kumbuyo nthawi imeneyo m'moyo wanga ndikumva kuti kupeza chithandizo chinali gawo loyamba panjira yodziwa kuti ndine wokongola komanso "wokwanira" monga momwe ndiliri. Ndaphunzira kufunika kouza zakukhosi kwanu, makamaka ngati wachinyamata, ndikuthana ndi zowawa zanu zonse komanso kusatetezeka kwanu pamalo otetezeka. Izi ndizomwe zandipangitsa kuti ndithandizire mabungwe ngati JED foundation, yopanda phindu yomwe imathandizira achinyamata kuthana ndikuthana ndi kukhumudwa, nkhawa, komanso malingaliro ofuna kudzipha m'njira yathanzi komanso yolimbikitsa. Pogwirizana ndi masukulu apamwamba komanso makoleji, maziko ake amapanga mapulogalamu opewera kudzipha ndi machitidwe omwe amathandiza achinyamata kuthana ndi mavuto amisala komanso kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo.

Nditadziganizira kwambiri ndikuphunzitsidwa, pang'onopang'ono ndinayamba kuphunzira kuti sindiyenera kusintha momwe ndimaonekera padziko lonse lapansi, bola ngati ndikusangalala ndi zomwe ndinali munthu. Koma kuzindikira kumeneku sikunachitike mwadzidzidzi.

Pongoyambira, ndimayenera kupumula modula chifukwa kuchita chilichonse chomwe chimayang'ana kwambiri zokongoletsa sikunali koyenera kuchita ndi thanzi langa lamisala. M'malo mwake, kuchira pazowonongeka zomwe zidachitika chifukwa chovutitsidwa komanso kuchititsidwa manyazi kutengera zaka. (Kunena zoona, ndi chinthu chomwe chimakhala chovuta nthawi zina.)

Pomwe ndimakwanitsa zaka 19, ndinali nditakhala m'malo abwinopo mwamalingaliro, komabe ndimawona kuti mwayi woti ndikwaniritse cholinga changa chokhala katswiri wachitsanzo watha. Ndinali nditatenga zaka zingapo ndipo panthawiyi, thupi langa linali litasintha. Ndinali ndi ntchafu, mawere, ndi ma curve ndipo sindinalinso mtsikana wa 114 mapaundi omwe, wocheperako momwe angakhalire, sanakhalebe wocheperako chifukwa cha mafashoni azithunzi owongoka. Ndikadatha bwanji ndi thupi latsopano ili; thupi langa lenileni? (Zokhudzana: Instagrammer uyu Akugawana Chifukwa Chake Ndikofunikira Kukonda Thupi Lanu Momwe Lilili)

Komano ndidamva zakukulitsa kwamakedzana. Dziwani, nthawi imeneyo, kunalibe azimayi otsogola opambana pamalopo monga Ashley Graham ndi Denise Bidot omwe amawonetsa mawonekedwe awo m'magazini komanso m'malo onse ochezera. Lingaliro lakuti ukhoza kukhala wamkulu kuposa kukula kwachiwiri ndikukhala chitsanzo linali lodabwitsa kwa ine. Kujambula kokulirapo kumayimira chilichonse chomwe ndidagwira ntchito molimbika kuti ndikhulupirire za ine ndekha: kuti ndinali wokongola, woyenerera, komanso woyenerera ntchito imeneyi, mosasamala kanthu za kukongola kwamisala kwa anthu. (Mukuyang'ana kukulitsa chidaliro? Amayi awa adzakulimbikitsani kukonda thupi lanu, monga momwe amakondera matupi awo.)

Nditamva kuti Wilhelmina akufuna kusaina mitundu yokulirapo, ndinadziwa kuti ndiyenera kuwombera. Sindidzaiwala kuyenda pazitseko zimenezo, ndipo kwa nthawi yoyamba, sindinauzidwe kuti ndichepetse thupi. Ndinali wangwiro momwe ndinali. Anandisainira pamalopo, ndipo ndikukumbukira ndikuthamanga kutsika, ndikukwera pampando wa galimoto ya amayi ndikugwetsa misozi. Zinamveka zopatsa mphamvu kuti pamapeto pake ndivomerezedwe ndikukumbatira popanda kusintha chilichonse.

Mavuto Atsopano

Kwa zaka zonsezi, ndaphunzira kuti ngakhale gawo ili lazamalonda silili losavomerezeka.

Anthu ambiri amakonda kuganiza kuti pokhala mtundu wokulirapo, mutha kuchita chilichonse chomwe mukufuna. Lingaliro ndilakuti timadya zomwe timakonda, osagwira ntchito, ndi DGAF za momwe timawonekera. Koma sizili choncho.

Zochititsa manyazi zamthupi komanso zoyembekeza sizomwe zimachitika tsiku ndi tsiku kwa ine ndi mitundu ina yokulirapo. Makampaniwa amandiyembekezerabe kukhala 'wangwiro' kukula kwa 14 kapena kukula kwa 16-ndipo ndikutanthauza kukhala ndi mawonekedwe abwino a thupi ndi maonekedwe, ngakhale thupi lanu silinapangidwe kukhala choncho. (Onani: Chifukwa Chochititsa Manyazi Thupi Ndi Vuto Lalikulu Kwambiri ndi Zomwe Mungachite Kuti Muleke).

Ndiye pali mfundo yoti anthu ambiri akuwonekabe osakonzekera mtundu wosakhala wowongoka kukhala m'magazini kapena pa TV. Ndikakhala m'magazini ya Masewera Owonetsedwa, Ndimapeza ndemanga monga, "Palibe chofanana ndi mtsikana uyu", "Sindikukhulupirira kuti ali m'magazini", "Ngati angathe kukhala chitsanzo, aliyense angathe," - mndandanda ukupitilira.

Zambiri mwa ndemangazi zimachokera ku lingaliro lolakwika loti zitsanzo zazikuluzikulu ndizopanda thanzi choncho siziyenera kuwonedwa ngati zokongola. Koma chowonadi ndichakuti, ndikudziwa thupi langa, ndipo ndikudziwa thanzi langa. Ndimagwira ntchito tsiku lililonse; Ndimadya wathanzi nthawi zambiri; ziwerengero zanga zaumoyo ndizabwinobwino, ndipo bwino poyerekeza ndi pamene ndinali 16 ndi njanji-woonda. Koma sindikumva kufunika kofotokozera kapena kulungamitsa izi kwa aliyense.

Ngati pali chilichonse chomwe ndaphunzira kuchokera kumakampani opanga ma model ndikumva malingaliro onse olakwikawa, ndikuti anthu ambiri amapangidwa kuti athane ndi kusintha. Komabe, tikufunika kusintha malingalirowa kuti asinthe. Ndemanga zachidani ndizomwe zimapangitsa azimayi amitundu yosiyana siyana kuti adziike pomwepo kuti awonekere ndikuwayamikira.

Kulimbikitsa Amayi Kupitiliza Kumenyera Kusintha

Pakadali pano, sindingakhale wosangalala ndi ntchito yanga. Posachedwa, adauzidwa kuti ndine woyendetsa modula kwambiri pamasamba a Masewera a Illustrated-ndipo ndichinthu chomwe ndimachikonda komanso chokondedwa kwambiri ndi mtima wanga. Amayi amandifikira tsiku lililonse kuti andiuze momwe amayamikirira kapena kupatsidwa mphamvu akamatsegula magazini ndikuwona wina wonga ine; wina yemwe angathe kumvetsetsa.

Ngakhale tachokera kutali, zimatengera kufalitsa ngati SI kuwonetsa akazi amawonekedwe ndi makulidwe osiyanasiyana pakufalikira kwawo kuti alimbikitse mitundu ina yodziwika bwino ndi zofalitsa kuti zitsatire. Ndizomvetsa chisoni, koma amayi osakhala owongoka amakumanabe ndi zopinga zazikulu. Mwachitsanzo, sindingangopita m'sitolo iliyonse pa Fifth Avenue ndikuyembekeza opanga kuti azinyamula kukula kwanga. Ambiri odziwika bwino samazindikira kuti akuphonya ogula ambiri aku America, omwe ndi akulu 16 kapena kupitilira apo. (Yogwirizana: Model Hunter McGrady Adangokhazikitsa Zosangalatsa Zosakanikirana, Zotsika-Kukula Zosambira)

Monga momwe zilili zokhumudwitsa, tikuchita zinthu pang'onopang'ono, ndipo amayi akufuula kwambiri kuposa kale lonse. Ndikukhulupirira kuti ngati tipitiliza kumenyera tokha, ndikuwonetsa kuti tili ololedwa kukhala pano, tidzafika povomereza. Pamapeto pa tsikulo, aliyense amangofuna kumva kuti walandiridwa, ndipo ngati ndingakwanitse kuchita zimenezo kwa winawake, ndiye kuti ntchito yanga ndi ntchito yabwino m'buku langa.

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