Makhalidwe Osakhumbika Kwambiri mwa Omwe Angakhale pachibwenzi

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Aliyense (eya, ngakhale mnyamata wako) ali ndi zolakwa zake-ndipo ngakhale mutakhala woyenerana bwino ndi munthu wina, maubale akhoza kukhala ntchito yovuta. Nonse muyenera kukondana nthawi ndi nthawi. Zedi, pamapeto pake amakonda trumps zambiri mwazokhumudwitsa zazing'ono izi (ndi zomwe akunena, sichoncho?), Koma nthawi zina pali zizolowezi zina zomwe sitingathe kuchita. M'malo mwake, dzulo, kampani yamafodya Kutulutsa kwa Vapor adatulutsa zotsatira zakufufuza kosangalatsa komwe kunafufuza zomwe zimapangitsa anthu kukayikira pankhani ya chibwenzi chomwe angakhale nacho.
Pambuyo povota anthu 1,000, kafukufukuyu adawona kuti mayankho a abambo ndi amai anali ogwirizana. Chomwe chimakhala mpumulo waukulu, pokhapokha ngati inu kapena abambo anu mungadziwe chimodzi kapena zingapo mwazinthu zisanu zosafunikira kwambiri zomwe amadziwika ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ponena za azimayiwo, 83% adati kusakhulupirika ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri, ndikutsata ukhondo (68%), ulova (64%), kusuta (57%), komanso kusasamala ndalama (56%). Ophunzirawo adafunsidwanso kuti asankhe mikhalidwe yomweyi yomwe ingadzetse chisudzulo. Mayankho amenewo nthawi zambiri sanasinthe, ngakhale ndalama zidapangitsa kuti alowe m'malo achiwiri. (Psst! Nayi Malamulo 16 A Ndalama Yemwe Mkazi Wonse Amayenera Kudziwa Pofika Zaka 30.)
Ngakhale mndandanda wazikhalidwe zoyipa sizingakhale zodabwitsa chonchi, pali china chomwe chiri: Zikuwoneka kuti azimayi amaleza mtima pang'ono kuposa amuna pazinthu zomwe zimativuta kwambiri. (Hei, osachepera tidziwa zomwe tikufuna.) Popeza mikhalidwe yocheperako, azimayi anali ndi mwayi wokwanira 13% kuti awone zolakwazo ngati olanda malipoti kuposa amuna. Ndi zikhalidwe ziti zomwe simungayime pakati pa mnzanu? Tweet us @Shape_Magazine ndi mayankho anu!