Kodi Zimatanthauzanji Kusochera Wina?

Zamkati

• Chifukwa chiyani misgender imachitika?
• Kodi kukweza misala kumawakhudza bwanji anthu omwe ali ndi transgender?
• Nchifukwa chiyani matchulidwe ali ofunika?
• Kodi mungatani kuti muchepetse kugonja?
• Mfundo yofunika

Kodi misgender ndi chiyani?

Kwa anthu omwe ali ndi transgender, nonbinary, kapena jenda osasinthika, kubwera muumwini wawo kungakhale gawo lofunikira komanso lotsimikiza m'moyo.

Nthawi zina, anthu amapitilizabe kunena za munthu yemwe amachita transgender, nonbinary, kapena jenda osagwirizana pogwiritsa ntchito mawu okhudzana ndi momwe adazindikira asanasinthe.

Izi zimadziwika kuti misgender.

Kulakwitsa kumachitika mukamanena za munthu mwadala kapena mosadziwa, kapena munthu wina, kapena kugwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo pofotokozera munthu yemwe sagwirizana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Mwachitsanzo, kunena za mkazi ngati “iye” kapena kumutcha kuti “mnyamata” ndi mchitidwe wosagwirizana bwino.

Chifukwa chiyani misgender imachitika?

Pali zifukwa zingapo zomwe misgender imachitikira.

Mwachitsanzo, anthu atha kuzindikira kuti munthu ali ndi zikhalidwe zoyambirira kapena zogonana ndipo amaganiza zogonana.

Izi zikuphatikiza:

• tsitsi la nkhope kapena kusowa kwake
• mawu okwera kapena otsika
• chifuwa kapena minofu ya m'mawere kapena kusowa kwake
• maliseche

Misgender imatha kukhalanso munthawi yomwe zizindikiritso zaboma zimagwiritsidwa ntchito. Lipoti la Transgender Law Center pakusintha zidziwitso za amuna ndi akazi likuwonetsa kuti m'maiko ena sizotheka kusintha jenda pamapepala monga ziphaso zoyendetsera galimoto ndi ziphaso zobadwira. Ndipo m'maiko ena, muyenera kuti munachitidwa maopareshoni ena kuti muchite izi.

Malinga ndi National Center for Transgender Equality's 2015 U.S. Trans Survey, 11% yokha mwa anthu omwe adafunsidwa adatchulidwa kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi pazitupa zawo zonse zaboma. 67 peresenti analibe ID iliyonse ndi amuna awo ovomerezeka omwe adalembedwa.

Pazochitika zomwe ma ID a boma amafunika kuperekedwa - monga kumaofesi aboma, m'masukulu, komanso muzipatala - anthu omwe sanasinthe zomwe amalembera amuna kapena akazi anzawo akhoza kukhala olakwika. Nthawi zambiri, anthu amangoganiza za jenda yawo kutengera zomwe zalembedwa m'ma ID awo.

Zachidziwikire, kubweza ngongole kungakhale kuchitanso dala. Anthu omwe ali ndi zikhulupiliro ndi malingaliro atsankho okhudza gulu lakale amatha kugwiritsa ntchito njira zoperewera ngati njira yozunza komanso kupezerera anzawo. Izi zikuwonetsedwa ndi 2015 US Trans Survey, yomwe idapeza kuti 46 peresenti ya omwe adayankha adazunzidwa chifukwa chodziwika, ndipo 9% adachitidwa chipongwe.

Kodi kukweza misala kumawakhudza bwanji anthu omwe ali ndi transgender?

Kudzinyenga kumatha kukhala ndi zotsatira zoyipa kudzidalira kwa munthu wopitilira muyeso komanso thanzi lathunthu.

Kafukufuku wa 2014 munyuzipepala ya Self and Identity, adafunsa anthu ochita zachiwerewere pazomwe adakumana nazo atasokonekera.

Ofufuza apeza kuti:

• 32.8% ya omwe akutenga nawo mbali akuti adasalidwa atasankhidwa.
• Anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, komanso anthu omwe sanatengepo gawo pang'ono pakusintha, atha kusokonezedwa.
• Omwe adasokonezedwa pafupipafupi amadziona kuti ndikofunikira, koma amadzidalira pozungulira mawonekedwe awo.
• Amakhalanso ndi mphamvu zochepa komanso kupitiliza kudziwika.

"Komwe ndili kusukulu tsopano kuli anthu ochepera kusinthanitsa ndi osagwiritsa ntchito mabakiteriya, kulibe anthu wamba, ndipo pomwe maphunziro athu ophatikizira anali ndi vidiyo pamasalmo, palibe m'modzi mwa aphunzitsi anga kapena anzanga omwe adafunsapo mayina anga," a N. , 27, adati. "Munthu akamandinamizira kusukulu ndimagwidwa ndi nkhawa yayitali mthupi langa lonse."

Mukasokoneza munthu wina, mumakhalanso pachiwopsezo chowatulutsa kwa anthu ena. Sikuti aliyense ali ndi ufulu kapena udindo kutulutsa munthu yemwe akuchita zachiwerewere popanda chilolezo. Ndi ufulu wa munthu wodutsa komanso ufulu wawo wokha kuuza ena kuti ndi transgender, kutengera ngati akufuna kukhala kunja kapena ayi.

Kutulutsa munthu wopitilira sikuti kumangolemekeza malire awo, komanso kumatha kupangitsa kuti munthuyo azunzidwa komanso kusalidwa.

Ndipo, tsankho ndilo vuto lalikulu kwa anthu am'deralo. Kafukufuku waku US US 2015 adapeza ziwerengero izi:

• 33% ya anthu omwe adafunsidwapo adakumana ndi chisankho chimodzi akamafuna chithandizo chamankhwala.
• 27% ya omwe adafunsidwa adanenapo mtundu wina wamasankho pantchito, kaya akuchotsedwa, kuzunzidwa kuntchito, kapena kulembedwa ntchito chifukwa chodziwika.
• 77% ya anthu omwe anali ku K-12, ndipo 24% ya iwo omwe anali ku koleji kapena kusukulu yaukadaulo, adachitiridwa nkhanza m'malo amenewo.

Nchifukwa chiyani matchulidwe ali ofunika?

Kwa ambiri - ngakhale si onse - anthu omwe amasintha, kusintha kwa matchulidwe ndi gawo lotsimikiza pakusintha. Ikhoza kuthandiza munthu wodutsa ndipo anthu m'miyoyo yawo ayambe kuwawona ngati atsimikiziridwa kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi. Kupeza maina a munthu kukhala olakwika ndi chitsanzo chodziwika bwino chazovuta.

Kutchulidwa ndi mawu omwe timadzigwiritsa ntchito pofotokozera tokha mwa munthu wachitatu m'malo mwa dzina lathu.

Izi zingaphatikizepo:

• iye / iye / ake
• iye / wake / wake
• iwo / iwo / awo
• matchulidwe osalowerera pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, monga ze / hir / hirs

Ngakhale pakhala pali mkangano wokhudzana ndi kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa matchulidwe osagwirizana ndi amuna kapena akazi - makamaka kugwiritsa ntchito iwo / iwo / awo monga chilankhulo chimodzi mosiyana ndi ambiri - kuvomereza pagulu kwa amodzi "iwo" kwakula mzaka zingapo zapitazi.

Merriam-Webster adathandizira ena "mu" mu 2016, ndipo American Dialectic Society, gulu la akatswiri azilankhulo, adavotera "Mawu Awo Achaka" a 2015

Mwamwayi, zonse zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti muchite bwino ndikufunsani! Onetsetsani kuti mwapereka matchulidwe anu mukamachita.

Nthawi zambiri zimandivuta kufunsa anthu kuti agwiritse ntchito mayina awo molondola, makamaka chifukwa ndimagwiritsa ntchito iwo / iwo / awo. Anthu amakonda kukankhira kumbuyo kapena kuyesetsa kuti asinthe. Koma, anthu akafika pabwino, ndimamva kuti ndikutsimikiziridwa kuti ndine wosadziwika. Ndikumva kuti ndawonedwa.

Kodi mungatani kuti muchepetse kugonja?

Kuyimitsa zizolowezi zanu zolakwika ndikulimbikitsa ena kutero ndi njira yosavuta komanso yothandiza yothandizira anthu osintha moyo wanu.

Nazi zinthu zingapo zomwe mungachite kuti muteteze misgender ndikutsimikizira umunthu wa munthu:

1. Osapanga malingaliro.

Mutha kuganiza kuti mukudziwa momwe wina amadziwika, koma simungadziwe izi pokhapokha mutapempha.

2. Nthawi zonse funsani mawu omwe muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito!

Mutha kufunsa anthu makamaka kapena kufunsa anthu omwe amadziwa munthu amene wapatsidwa. Kapena, mutha kungokhala ndi chizolowezi chofunsa aliyense matchulidwe awo ndi mawu omwe amadzipangira okha.

3. Gwiritsani ntchito dzina ndi matchulidwe oyenerakwa anthu osintha moyo wanu.

Muyenera kuchita izi nthawi zonse, osati kokha pamene ali pafupi. Izi zikuwonetsa njira yoyenera kutumizira anzanu opita kwa anthu ena. Zimathandizanso kuti muzolowere kunena zomwe zili zoyenera.

4. Pewani kugwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo kuti muzilankhula kapena kufotokozera anthu pokhapokha mutadziwa kuti ndi chilankhulo chomwe munthu wina amakonda.

Zitsanzo za chilankhulo cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi monga:

• maulemu monga "bwana" kapena "ma'am"
• mawu onga "madona," "anyamata," kapena "azimayi ndi abambo" kutanthauza gulu la anthu
• adjectives ambiri amuna kapena akazi okhaokha monga "wokongola" ndi "wokongola"

Yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito mawu osakondera ndi amuna kapena ma adilesi m'malo mwake. Mutha kunena zinthu ngati "bwenzi langa" m'malo mwa "bwana" kapena "mayi," ndikuwatchula magulu a anthu kuti "anthu," "yall," kapena "alendo."

5. Osangokhala pachilankhulo chosalowerera pakati pa amuna ndi akazi ngati mukudziwa momwe munthu amafunira kuti amuyankhule.

Zitha kuwoneka ngati kugwiritsa ntchito amodzi oti "iwo" pofotokozera aliyense kuti ndiwotetezeka, ndipo nthawi zina ndiyo njira yabwino yoyendetsera nthawi yomwe simukudziwa momwe munthu amadziwika. Koma, ndikofunikira kulemekeza zofuna za anthu omwe ali ndi chilankhulo china chomwe akufuna kuti mugwiritse ntchito.

6. Pewani kungolankhula.

M'malo mongonena kuti: "X amadziwika kuti ndi mkazi" kapena "Y amakonda iye / iye / matchulidwe ake," nenani zinthu monga "X ndi mkazi" kapena "Maina a Y ndi iye / ake."

Pamapeto pa tsikulo, dziwani kuti ndibwino kulakwitsa pano kapena apo bola ngati simukuzolowera. Mukalakwitsa, ingopepesani ndikupitabe patsogolo.

"Ngati mukufunika kudzikonza, chitani izi ndikupitilira," atero a Louis, azaka 29 osachita kubinary. “Osapepesa kwambiri pokhapokha ngati ndi zomwe winayo akufuna. Sintchito ya trans trans kuti avomereze kupepesa kwanu kapena kukupangitsani kuti muzimva bwino mukawadzudzula. "

Mfundo yofunika

Misgendering ndi vuto lovuta kwa anthu osintha. Mutha kuwonetsa kuthandizira ndi kumvera chisoni anthu omwe akuchita zachiwerewere m'moyo wanu komanso mdera lanu pozindikira kutengapo gawo ndikuchita izi kuti mupewe kutero.

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