Kafukufuku Watsopano Akuwonetsa Akazi Amakonda Dadbod Kuposa Six Pack

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Popeza mawuwa adapangidwa zaka zingapo zapitazo, "dadbod" yakhala chinthu chachikhalidwe. ICYMI, dadbod amatanthauza munthu yemwe sanenepa kwambiri koma alibe minofu yambiri. Kwenikweni, dadbod iyenera kutchedwa "normalbod." Monga tidanenera pomwe zidayamba kukhala * chinthu , ndizodabwitsa kuti tsopano amuna akulimbikitsidwa kuti azikhala omasuka ndi thupi labwino koma osadulidwa kwenikweni.

Koma bwanji za mombods? Zachisoni, ngakhale patapita zaka zambiri, tikuyembekezerabe chofanana ndi chachikazi kuti chilowe m'malo mwake.

Ochita zisudzo monga Leonardo DiCaprio, Jason Segel, ndi Jon Hamm amayamikiridwa chifukwa chotha kukhala omasuka ndi mawonekedwe ofewa, opanda minofu, ndipo ndithudi sakuvutika kupeza ntchito ku Hollywood. DiCaprio amatha kuyandikana ndi ana ambiri, otentha ngakhale anali bambo ake. Komabe, Rihanna atangowoneka pang'ono pang'ono, anali wamanyazi kwambiri. (Mwamwayi, Twitter idatsitsa ochita zachiwerewere.)

Ndipo mu kafukufuku wamalingaliro abwino koma okwiyitsa omwe adachitika polemekeza Tsiku la Abambo ndi Planet Fitness, malo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi omwe amadzikuza kuti ndi ofikika komanso osawopsa kwa anthu amitundu yonse (yomwe ili, ntchito yodabwitsa), ofufuza adapeza. kuti akazi ndi abwino kwambiri ndi mawonekedwe a abambo. M'malo mwake, zomwe apeza zikuwonetsa kuti azimayi amatha ngakhale amakonda kuti akhale ndi thupi lolimba kwambiri. Kafukufukuyu adaphatikiza pafupifupi anthu 2,000, ndipo azimayi 69% omwe adatenga nawo gawo adati adapeza achigololo achigololo. Ndipo azimayi 47 mwa amayi 100 alionse omwe anafunsidwapo ananena kuti amaganiza kuti dadbod ndi "paketi yatsopano isanu ndi umodzi." Zina mwazofukufukuzi zidanenanso kuti azimayi amaganiza kuti amuna omwe ali ndi ma dodbod amapanga "ukwati wabwino". (Mwina muyenera kutenga chiphunzitso chomalizacho ndi njere yamchere.)

Nayi wokankha: Atatu mwa asanu (pafupifupi 60 peresenti) ya amuna omwe amadzizindikira kuti ali ndi abambo samamverera ngati akuweruzidwa chifukwa chokhala osakwanira. Kodi mungaganizire kuti chiwerengerocho chikukwera kwambiri kwa amayi omwe sali ndi thupi "labwino"?

Kodi tingangopeza WTF yokhazikika?! Inde, ndizotheka chachikulu kuti amuna akhoza kukhala omasuka kukhala omwe ali osawopa kutaya mwayi wokhala nawo pa banja-ndiko kupita patsogolo. Ndipo ndizodabwitsa kuti amayi ambiri amazindikira kuti zovuta zovuta sizingatheke kwa aliyense. Koma kodi mungaganizire kuchuluka kwa anyamata omwe amakonda mayi wam'mimba wopanda phokoso? Kapena kunena kuti angakonde kukwatiwa ndi wina yemwe ndi wofewa pang'ono m'mbali mwake kuposa mkazi yemwe amawoneka ngati supermodel? Ndizabwino kwa amuna kuti azimayi ambiri amapeza kuti mimba yofewa yolumikizidwa ndi dadbod ndiyabwino kwambiri (malinga ndi izi fufuzani), koma mfundo ndiyakuti, sizimayenda mbali zonse ziwiri. Monga chitsanzo chowonjezera, mayi, ndi woyimira thupi labwino, Tess Holliday, posachedwapa adanena kuti, "Azimayi olemera monga amayi amalanda kugonana kwathu."

Ndipo kuposa pamenepo, timatero kwenikweni akuyenera kukhala okondwerera momwe zinthu ziliri zabwino pazithunzi zamunthu pakadali pano, panthawi yomwe njira zakulera zikuchepa, azimayi ambiri sangakwanitse kupita patchuthi cha umayi, ndipo zikuwoneka ngati zosatheka ngakhale kupita ku pulogalamu ya zibwenzi osakumana ndi manyazi amafuta?

Ngakhale zomwe tafotokozazi Leonardo DiCaprio vs.Rihanna ndi chitsanzo chabwino cha momwe miyezo iwiriyi imasewera, kuyigwiritsa ntchito kowoneka bwino kwambiri kuli kwenikweni mdziko lenileni. Azimayi omwe ali onenepa akadali ndi mwayi wochepa wopeza ntchito kusiyana ndi akazi ochepa thupi. Koma zikafika pa amuna omwe akufuna ntchito, kukhala onenepa kwambiri sikumawabwezeretsa kumbuyo kwambiri, malinga ndi kafukufuku wa 2016 wofalitsidwa mu Malire a Psychology. Imapempha funso: Chifukwa chiyani America imadana ndi akazi onenepa kwambiri? Chinachake chiyenera kusintha, ndipo chiyenera kuyamba ndi kuvomereza kuti matupi achikazi olemera kwambiri ndi okongola, nawonso. Ndife okondwa chifukwa cha inu kuti mwakonzeka kulandira matupi anu, amuna, koma ndi nthawi yoganiza zovomereza zathu, nawonso-ziribe kanthu mawonekedwe kapena kukula kwake.

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