Kodi Zimatanthauzanji Kuti Tizindikire Monga Osasankha?

Zamkati

• Kodi mukuyenera kukhala transgender kuti muzindikire kuti simasamba?
• Kumvetsetsa jenda ngati sipekitiramu
• Mayina osadziwika a jenda
• Kodi nonbinary ndiyofanana ndi jenda?
• Maina osakhala achabechabe
• Momwe mungayambire kugwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo chosagwirizana ndi amuna kapena akazi
• Maganizo osagwirizana ndi amuna kapena akazi
  
• Mfundo yofunika

Kodi nonbinary ndi chiyani?

Mawu oti "nonbinary" atha kutanthauza zinthu zosiyanasiyana kwa anthu osiyanasiyana. Pakati pake, amagwiritsidwa ntchito pofotokoza za munthu yemwe siamuna kapena wamkazi wokha.

Ngati wina akuwuzani kuti siosankhika, nthawi zonse ndikofunikira kufunsa kuti kusakhala kosankha kosiyanasiyana kumatanthauza chiyani kwa iwo. Anthu ena omwe siosankhana mitundu amadziwona kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, pomwe ena sawona kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi.

Nonbinary itha kugwiritsidwanso ntchito ngati ambulera, yophatikiza zidziwitso zambiri za jenda zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi bayinare yaamuna ndi akazi.

Ngakhale zosagwiritsa ntchito bayinare nthawi zambiri zimawonedwa ngati lingaliro latsopano, chizindikirocho chakhala chikupezeka kuyambira kalekale. M'malo mwake, jenda yosachita kubadwa idalembedwa kuyambira 400 BC mpaka 200 AD, pomwe a Hijra - anthu aku India omwe amadziwika kuti ndioposa amuna kapena akazi - amatchulidwa m'malemba akale achihindu.

India ndi amodzi mwa mayiko padziko lonse lapansi omwe ali ndi chilankhulo komanso chikhalidwe chomwe chimavomereza iwo omwe jenda lawo silingakhale m'gulu la amuna kapena akazi.

Kodi mukuyenera kukhala transgender kuti muzindikire kuti simasamba?

Kusagonana mosiyanasiyana kumakhudzana ndi yemwe wina akudzidziwa yekha. Anthu ena osagwiritsa ntchito mabakiteriya amadziwika kuti ndi transgender, pomwe ena satero.

Izi zitha kumveka zosokoneza, koma zikaikidwa, ndizosavuta kwenikweni. Trans trans nonbinary person ndi munthu yemwe samadziwika ndi kugonana komwe adapatsidwa atabadwa (trans) komanso ali ndi dzina loti sangadziwike kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha (osachita kubina).

Munthu wosabereka yemwe samazindikira kuti ndi trans amatha kuzindikira pang'ono zakugonana komwe amapatsidwa atabadwa, komanso kukhala ndi dzina loti sangadziwike kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi.

Kumvetsetsa jenda ngati sipekitiramu

Lingaliro loti jenda ndi sipekitiramu limakhazikitsidwa pazikhulupiriro ziwiri zomwe anthu ambiri amazikhulupirira: zoyambira zakale ndi biology yoyambirira.

Kuchokera ku Hijra ku India kupita ku māhūs ku Hawaii, pakhala pali anthu omwe amuna kapena akazi awo sagwirizana ndi zomwe zimatanthauza kukhala mwamuna kapena mkazi. Zitsanzo izi zosagwirizana ndi amuna kapena akazi osasinthika m'mbiri yonse ya dziko lapansi zakhazikitsa maziko ofunikira amomwe timamvetsetsa kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi lero.

Kuphatikiza apo, kugonana sikumakhala kophatikiza nthawi zonse - ngakhale pamlingo wazachilengedwe. M'modzi mwa anthu 2000 amabadwa ali ndi vuto logonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Intersex imagwiritsidwa ntchito pofotokozera anthu omwe ali ndi ma chromosomes, anatomy, kapena zikhalidwe zina zogonana zomwe sizingagawidwe ngati amuna kapena akazi okha.

Lingaliro loti kugonana ndi jenda ndizophatikiza - ndi aliyense woyenera kukhala wamwamuna kapena wamkazi bokosi- ndimakhalidwe ochezera. Dongosololi lakhala likugwiritsidwa ntchito kusiyanitsa pakati pa zamoyo ndi zikhalidwe za amuna ndi akazi.

Lingaliro loti pali wamwamuna ndi wamkazi silonama - ndizosakwanira. Anthu ambiri, ogonana amuna kapena akazi kapena ayi, ali ndi mawonekedwe osakanikirana kapena mawonekedwe achimuna omwe amagwera kunja kwa bokosi lazoyang'ana amuna kapena akazi.

Momwemonso kudziwika kuti ndi wamkazi kumachokera m'chilengedwe, kusamalira, kapena kuphatikiza zonsezi?

Ngakhale kafukufuku wambiri amafunikira, akuwonetsa kuti pali chinthu china chachilengedwe chokhudzana ndi jenda - osati momwe mungaganizire. Mwachitsanzo, kuyesa kugwirizanitsa munthu yemwe amagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo ndizopambana. Izi zikusonyeza kuti mikhalidwe yakugonana yomwe mudabadwa nayo mwina singakhale yogwirizana nthawi zonse ndi amuna kapena akazi.

Mayina osadziwika a jenda

Pali maumboni angapo amtundu wamwamuna omwe amagwera pansi pa ambulera yosagwirizana.

Izi zikuphatikiza zizindikiritso monga:

• wosankha
• zaka
• madzimadzi
• zachilendo
• boi
• bigender
• kuphatikiza

Demigender ndi mawu ena ambulera osadziwika kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi. Nthawi zambiri, demigender imagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati wina akumva kulumikizana pang'ono ndi amuna kapena akazi ena.

Mwachitsanzo:

• mtsikana
• demiboy
• chiwonongeko

Ngakhale pamakhala matanthauzidwe amtundu uliwonse wamawuwa, ambiri amakhala kapena amakhala ndi kusiyana kosiyana. Tanthauzo lake limasiyananso kwambiri kuzikhalidwe komanso madera. Ndicho chifukwa chake nkofunikira kufunsa munthu amene akugwiritsa ntchito chizindikirocho tanthauzo lake kwa iwo.

Kodi nonbinary ndiyofanana ndi jenda?

Mawu oti "queer" poyambirira adayambitsidwa kutsutsa malingaliro okhazikika pazakugonana ndikuphatikizanso anthu omwe amakopeka ndi mtundu umodzi wokha wamunthu. Mawuwa amatanthauza kukopa kophatikizira kwa iwo omwe amuna kapena akazi sangathe kuphatikizidwa ngati amuna kapena akazi.

Kuyika "jenda" patsogolo pa liwu loti "queer" kumapereka lingaliro loti iwo omwe ali amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ali ndi zizindikiritso zingapo za amuna ndi akazi. Izi zimadziwikanso kuti kudziwika kapena kudziwika kwa amuna kapena akazi.

Ngakhale mawu akuti "jenda" ndi "osakhala mabacteria" ali ndi kufanana kwakukulu, sikuti amasinthana. Nthawi zonse kumakhala kofunikira kutengera chizindikiritso chomwe munthu amakonda.

Maina osakhala achabechabe

Tikukhala m'dziko lomwe pafupifupi kulikonse komwe munthu amapita, amakhala amisala. Ndizofala kwambiri kuti magulu a anthu azitchedwa "azimayi ndi abambo" kapena "anyamata ndi ma gals" pomwe munthu amene akuyankhula alibe chidziwitso chenicheni chazomwe amadziwika ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo.

Kwa anthu ambiri osagwiritsa ntchito mabakiteriya, matchulidwe ali ochulukirapo kuposa momwe amafunidwira. Iwo akhala njira yamphamvu yotsimikizira mbali ya jenda yawo yomwe nthawi zambiri imawoneka kapena yosagwirizana ndi malingaliro a ena.

Chifukwa cha ichi, matchulidwe ali ndi mphamvu zotsimikizira kapena kusokoneza kukhalapo kwa munthu wosakhala wowerengera.

Anthu ena osagwiritsa ntchito mabakiteriya amagwiritsa ntchito mawu ofotokozera, monga:

• iye / wake / wake
• iye / iye / ake

Ena amagwiritsa ntchito matchulidwe osalowerera pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, monga:

• iwo / iwo / awo
• ze / hir / hirs
• ze / zir / zirs

Ngakhale awa ndi omwe amadziwika kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, palinso ena.

Maonekedwe omwe munthu amagwiritsa ntchito amathanso kusintha pakapita nthawi komanso m'malo osiyanasiyana. Mwachitsanzo, anthu ena osagwiritsa ntchito mabakiteriya amatha kugwiritsa ntchito matchulidwe osagwirizana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha m'malo omwe amadzimva kuti ndi otetezeka. Amatha kuloleza anthu kuntchito kapena kusukulu kuti awatchule pogwiritsa ntchito mawu okuluwika pachikhalidwe m'malo mwazinthu zomwe amakonda.

Nthawi zonse muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito matchulidwe omwe munthu angakuuzeni kuti ndioyenera kuwagwiritsa ntchito. Ngati simukudziwa kapena mulibe chidziwitso chokhudza momwe wina akufuna kuchitiridwa, sankhani chilankhulo chosagwirizana ndi amuna kapena akazi.

Momwe mungayambire kugwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo chosagwirizana ndi amuna kapena akazi

Kuphatikiza chilankhulo chosalowerera pakati pa amuna ndi akazi muzokambirana za tsiku ndi tsiku ndi njira yosavuta yotsutsana ndi zomwe amuna kapena akazi amaganiza komanso kuphatikiza onse omwe safuna kuyankhulidwa pogwiritsa ntchito mawu kapena matchulidwe.

Pomwe dzina lolakwika kapena liwu la amuna amagwiritsidwa ntchito kutanthauza munthu, amatchedwa misgendering. Tonsefe timalakwitsa, ndipo kusokoneza munthu nthawi ina yake kudzakhala imodzi mwa izo.

Izi zikachitika, ndikofunikira kuti mupepese ndikuyesetsa kugwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo choyenera kupita mtsogolo.

Kugwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo chosagwirizana ndi amuna kapena akazi ndi njira imodzi yopewa kudzipereka kwathunthu.

Komabe, ndikofunikira kutsimikizira munthuyo pogwiritsa ntchito mawu omwe amadzigwiritsa ntchito podzifotokozera. Mukakumana ndi munthu kwa nthawi yoyamba, funsani momwe amakonda kutchulidwira kapena matchulidwe omwe amagwiritsa ntchito.

Ngati mukulankhula ndi gulu kapena simukutsimikiza za matchulidwe amunthu wina asankhe chilankhulo chosagwirizana ndi amuna kapena akazi, monga "iwo" kapena "anthu."

Maganizo osagwirizana ndi amuna kapena akazi

• M'malo mwa anyamata (anyamata) / atsikana, amuna / akazi, ndi amuna / akazi, gwiritsani ntchito munthu, anthu, kapena anthu.
• M'malo mwa amayi ndi abambo, gwiritsani ntchito anthu.
• M'malo mwa mwana wamkazi kapena wamwamuna, gwiritsani ntchito mwana.
• M'malo mwa mlongo ndi m'bale, gwiritsani ntchito m'bale.
• M'malo mwa mphwake ndi mphwake, gwiritsani ntchito nibling.
• M'malo mwa amayi ndi abambo, gwiritsani ntchito kholo.
• M'malo mwa mwamuna ndi mkazi, gwiritsani ntchito mnzake kapena mnzake.
• M'malo mwa agogo kapena agogo, gwiritsani agogo.

Mfundo yofunika

Povomereza ndikuvomereza kuti si amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, timapanga mwayi wosiyana siyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi. Tonse tili ndi udindo wochita powonetsetsa kuti chilengedwe chili chotetezeka ndi chothandiza.

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• Vidiyo iyi yochokera ku BBC Three ikufotokozera zomwe muyenera kunena komanso zomwe simuyenera kunena kwa munthu yemwe amadziwika kuti siwosankha.
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