Zinsinsi Zoyenera Kudziwa kwa Mapasa Amapasa Amapasa
Zamkati
- Zowona
- Njira 1: Zovala zamkati zothonje za thonje
- Yankho 2: Cold Turkey
- Funafunani chithandizo
- Chitani chilichonse
- Mpikisano
- Itanani akatswiri
Chidule
Mapasa anga anali pafupifupi zaka zitatu. Ndidadyetsedwa ndi matewera (ngakhale samawoneka kuti akuwasamala).
Tsiku loyamba lomwe ndidachotsa matewera pamapasa, ndidayika ziwaya ziwiri kunyumba kumbuyo. Mwamuna wanga sankafuna chisokonezo chilichonse m'nyumba. Njira yanga yabwino kwambiri: Asiyeni azithamanga amaliseche kumbuyo kwathu.
Nditangotseka chitseko chakumbuyo ndikutembenuza nsana wanga, mwana wanga adayika wonenepa pansi. Pafupi ndi potty wobiriwira wonyezimira yemwe ndidamupangira. Mchimwene wake wamapasa adayang'anitsitsa mwamantha, adadzidzimuka kuwona gulu lalikulu lofiirira lituluka kuchokera pansi pa mchimwene wake. Patangopita kanthawi pang'ono, kunayamba kugwa mvula. Icho chinali chizindikiro. Maphunziro a potty sakanakhala achangu komanso osavuta monga ndimaganizira.
Nkhani yabwino? Ndikudziwa kuti panali nthawi zina zowawitsa, koma sindingakumbukire chilichonse. Monga kuwawa kwa pathupi kapena kubereka, ndazitchinga. Mwanjira ina, ana anga anapulumuka. Adaphunzira kuponyera ndikuphimba mumphika. Mwina chinsinsi chimodzi chomwe nditha kugawana ndi zomwe ndakumana nazo ndi ichi: Osadandaula nazo. Izinso zidzadutsa.
Palibe "zinsinsi" zenizeni pamaphunziro am'madzi. Monga Jamie Glowacki, wolemba "Oh Crap! Potty Training "adandiuza kuti:" Aliyense amene ati ali ndi njira yophunzirira potty amakhala ndi zopanda pake. Mumamuvula thewera mwana. Ndi zomwe mumachita. "
Ana anu sangakumbukire maphunziro a potty. Adzadutsa. Malangizo asanu othandizawa, komabe, atha kuthandiza kukhalabe athanzi.
Zowona
Pali mafilosofi awiri osiyanasiyana ophunzitsira za potty. Mwamuna wanga sakanatha kupirira lingaliro la poop ndi kutsekula pansi pathu. Ndipo tinali makolo awiri ogwira ntchito opanda nthawi yokwanira komanso mphamvu zowonjezera. Chifukwa chake tidasankha maphunziro apamwamba.
Njira 1: Zovala zamkati zothonje za thonje
Timapatsa anawo mathalauza ophunzitsira, makamaka zovala zamkati za thonje. Amamva kunyowa akamatuluka, koma zinawapatsa nthawi yochulukirapo kuthamangira kubafa.
Yankho 2: Cold Turkey
Njira iyi "yakufa mwadzidzidzi" ndiyokongola mophweka. Ikani matewera. Yembekezerani chisokonezo. Osayang'ana kumbuyo. Sankhani njirayi ngati mutha kukhala kunyumba ndi ana anu osachepera atatu, makamaka anayi, masiku otsatizana.
Njira ziwirizi sizingakhale zokhumudwitsa kwa aliyense ngati mungayembekezere mpaka ana anu akuwonetsa zina zakukonzekera, monga kubisala poop kapena pee, kapena kupita nthawi yayitali pakati pa matewera onyowa.
Funafunani chithandizo
Simungathe kuchita nokha. Ngati mnzanu sakukwera, pezani agogo, aamuna, kapena abwenzi omwe amasewera.
Matewera akachoka, ana ambiri amangoyang'ana pansi. Chinsinsi chake ndikuwapititsa kuchimbudzi posachedwa, kuti aziphatikize ndikutulutsa.
Zosavuta ndi chimodzi kapena ziwiri (kapena kupitilira apo), komabe.
"Mukamapita kumphika, inayo ili pakona kutsekula. Ndizowona, ndizovuta kuti muchite izi nokha mpaka atayamba kulumikizana, "adatero Glowacki.
Ana ambiri (ngati akula mokwanira ndipo ali okonzeka) adzawona kuwala patatha masiku angapo.
Chitani chilichonse
Ndinagulira mwana wanga mphika wobiriwira, mphika wabuluu wa mwana wanga wamkazi. Awo anali mitundu yomwe amawakonda - kapena ndimaganiza.
Adalimbana kuti akhale oyamba kukhala pamphika wabuluu. Palibe amene amafuna pansi pa zobiriwira. Phunziro lomwe taphunzira. Pezani mphika wofanana. Gulani zokwanira kuti mukhale ndi ma seti awiri pachipinda chilichonse chogona m'nyumba mwanu. Ana amadya nthawi yomweyo. Adzakumba nthawi yomweyo, nawonso.
Mpikisano
Gwiritsani ntchito mwayi wanu! Ngati mapasa m'modzi akuwonetsa chidwi ndi mphika koma winayo sangasamale, zili bwino. Ganizirani za mapasa otanganidwa kwambiri.
Adzakhala ngati chitsanzo kwa enawo. Monga makolo, tikufuna kuchitira ana athu chimodzimodzi. Lamulo labwino pakati, koma osatero. Aloleni apikisane.
Itanani akatswiri
Ana anu adzakhala oleza mtima kwambiri kuposa momwe mungapangire maphunziro a potty. Apatseni osachepera sabata, Glowacki akuti.
Ngati simukuwona chisonyezo chotsika kwambiri chopita patsogolo, ndiye kuti mufunsane ndi katswiri. Pee ndi yosavuta kuthana nayo. Mavuto ambiri amakhala pa poop. Mungafune upangiri waukadaulo kuchokera pomwe mukupita ngati mukudziwa kuti mwana wanu amayamba kudzimbidwa.
Momwemonso, ngati mukukumana ndi nthawi yakunja - ngati sukulu yanu ya kusukulu sangavomereze ana anu pokhapokha ataphunzitsidwa ndi potty - mwachitsanzo - mungafune kubweretsa akatswiri.
Koma zilizonse zomwe mungachite, musatumize pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti kuti mukuyamba kupanga potty kuphunzitsa ana anu. Kholo lirilonse lomwe lakhala likuchita izi limadzinamiza kuti ndi katswiri. Timapereka mosavuta uphungu wambiri wosafunsidwa, wotsutsana. Koma ndiwe katswiri pa ana ako omwe.
Dzidalire. Osatimvera.
Emily Kopp ndi mayi wamapasa ndipo amakhala mdera la Washington, DC. Ndi mtolankhani wokhala ndi zaka zopitilira 13 wazaka zomwe adalemba ndikusintha pazowulutsa zonse komanso zapa digito pamaderamo, mayiko, komanso mayiko ena. Dziwani zambiri za ntchito yake Pano.