Choonadi Chokhwima Pazoyendetsa Chitetezo cha Akazi

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Kunali masana tsiku lowala, lowala-mosiyana ndi momwe nkhani zowopsa zimayambira-koma pamene Jeanette Jones ankapita kukathamanga tsiku lililonse, sanadziwe kuti moyo wake watsala pang'ono kukhala loto. Akuyenda kudera lake lamtendere, mayi wazaka 39 waku Austin sanazindikire kuti mnyamatayo wayimilira mbali ina ya mseu. Koma anamuona, kenako anasunthira patsogolo midadada ingapo asanabisale ndi kumudikirira.

"Anabwera akuthamanga pakona ya nyumba ndipo adangondigwira mumsewu," akutero. "Nthawi yomweyo ndidalimbananso, ndikumenya mateche ndikufuula mokweza kotero kuti anthu mumsewu adandimva m'nyumba zawo."

Patangotha ​​mphindi zingapo akumenyana, womuukirayo adazindikira kuti sakhala chandamale chosavuta ndipo adathawa. A Jones, osataya mutu kwa mphindi, adakwanitsa kuloweza nambala ya chiphaso chake. Mayi wina yemwe anaona zigawengazo anamuthandiza kuyimbira apolisi, ndipo mwamsanga anagwira bamboyo patapita mphindi 20. Kukumana komwe kunali kokhumudwitsa kale kudakhala kodetsa nkhawa pomwe ofufuza adati adaulula kuti akufuna kumukokera kunkhalango yapafupi kuti amugwirire.

Woukira a Jones adakhala m'ndende miyezi 10, koma sanaimbidwe mlandu wofuna kugwiririra kapena kuba. "Ngakhale ndidangokhala ndi mikwingwirima ndi mikwingwirima kuchokera pa chandamale cha phula, ndimamvabe ngati ndataya pafupifupi chaka chimodzi cha moyo wanga chifukwa chovutika m'maganizo komanso kuda nkhawa chifukwa cha mlanduwu," akutero a Jones.

Kuukira kumeneku sikuyamba kumveka ngati zachizolowezi, monga ziwonetsero zina zingapo zaposachedwa kwambiri zothamanga zazimayi zomwe zanenedwa. Mu Julayi, Mollie Tibbetts, wophunzira waku University of Iowa, adasowa atachoka kothamanga, ndipo thupi lake linapezeka m'munda wa chimanga masabata angapo pambuyo pake. Tsopano, nkhani ikufalikira za Wendy Karina Martinez, wazaka 34 waku D.C Atachoka kukathamanga, adakhumudwa nkupita kumalo odyera okhala ndi zilonda zobaya zomwe zidamupha. Nkhani zamtundu uwu zasiya amayi kukhala okhumudwa.Malinga ndi kafukufuku wochokera ku Wearsafe Labs, 34 peresenti ya akazi amakhala ndi mantha pamene akuchita maseŵera olimbitsa thupi okha.

Kumverera koteroko nkoyenera, monga a Rich Staropoli, wogwirizira wakale wa Secret Service komanso katswiri pankhani zachitetezo, anena kuti ngakhale kumenyedwa sikupezeka kawirikawiri, mawu achipongwe amafala kwambiri. "Mwa zondichitikira zanga, sindikudziwa mkazi wazaka zilizonse yemwe sanatero wakhala akuyitanidwa, kupemphedwa, kapena kungomangika ndi mawu osayenera, manja, kapena mawu akamangoyesera kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi panja, "akutero. kuti andizunze)

Staropoli akunena zowona pomwe SHAPE amafunsa azimayi nkhani zaokha zokumana nazo zowopsa pomwe akuthamanga, tinadzazidwa mwachangu ndi mauthenga. Ndipo chifukwa chakuti kumenyedwa ndi mawu kumachitika kaŵirikaŵiri sizikutanthauza kuti iwowo sakukhumudwitsa. Amy Nelson, wazaka 27 wa ku Lacey, Washington, akukumbukira kuti adathamangitsidwa ndi munthu woledzera akumulalatira mawu achipongwe atathawa. Ngakhale anali ataledzera kwambiri kuti asamuthamangitse kuposa theka la mdadada, Nelson akuti zidamuwopsyeza kuti aganizirenso za njira zake zothamangira. A Kathy Bellisle, azaka 44 ochokera ku Ontario, Canada, akukumbukira bambo wina yemwe amamutsatira tsiku lililonse mpaka atafika pagulu ndikuwopseza kuti adzaimbira apolisi. Anamusiya yekha pambuyo pake, koma amakhalabe ndi mantha othamanga usiku, amasintha njira yake, ndipo amasamalira kupewa alendo. Ndipo Lynda Benson, wazaka 30 zakubadwa wa ku Sonoma, California, akunena kuti anapeŵeredwa ndi mwamuna m’galimoto yake kwa milungu ingapo; ngakhale sanalankhule naye, zinali zokwanira kumupangitsa kusiya njira zomwe amakonda.

Ndi mtundu woterewu wa mazunzo atsiku ndi tsiku omwe amayi amasintha machitidwe awo okhazikika. Mlandu ndi mfundo: Azimayi 50 pa 100 alionse amati amawopa kuyenda kapena kuthamanga usiku m'dera lawo, malinga ndi kafukufuku wa Gallup, pomwe kafukufuku wa Stop Street Harassment adapeza kuti azimayi 11 pa 100 aliwonse amakonda kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi chifukwa samakhala omasuka kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi panja.

Pomwe Staropoli amamvetsetsa mantha amenewo, akuti azimayi sayenera kukakamizidwa kuti asinthe machitidwe awo azolimbitsa thupi chifukwa cha izi. "Kafukufuku, muli otetezeka kwambiri mukamachita masewera olimbitsa thupi panja," akutero. "Koma monga momwe zilili mukakhala nokha, kudziwa malo omwe mumakhala komanso kugwiritsa ntchito njira zosavuta kuti mukhale otetezeka ndizo makiyi kuti mupitirize kusangalala ndi ntchito zapanja chaka chonse."

Nthawi ina mukadzatuluka, tsatirani malangizo apamwamba a chitetezo ku Strapoli:

Mverani intchithandizo. Ngati china chake sichikumveka bwino, chitani zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti mukhale omasuka - ngakhale zitanthauza kuwoloka msewu kuti mupewe wina, kapena kudumpha njira yomwe mumakonda kuthamanga chifukwa mumdima ndipo mukuwoneka kuti mulibe kanthu. (Ngati simungathe kusiya zizolowezi zanu za kadzidzi usiku, sankhani zida zowunikira komanso zowala bwino zomwe zapangidwa kuti ziziyenda mumdima.)

Musalole kuti foni yam'manja ikupatseni malingaliro olakwika a schitetezo. Ngati mumathamanga nokha nthawi zonse, yesani kuvala chida chanzeru, chosavuta kumva (monga Wearsafe Tag). Omwe akuukira amadziwa kuti anthu ambiri ali ndi foni yam'manja, ndipo zitha kukhala zovuta kulimbana nawo, koma chida chonga ichi chikhoza kukhala chida chosayembekezereka chomwe chimachenjeza wina amene mukufuna thandizo.

Thamanganikumene kuli kuwala kochuluka ndi phokoso. Mtundu womwe umavutitsa mkazi wochita masewera olimbitsa thupi panja nthawi zambiri ukhoza kutayidwa ndi chilichonse chomwe chingakope chidwi ndi zochita zake. Magetsi am'misewu ndi bwenzi lanu, monganso mapaki omwe ali ndi anthu ambiri mosiyana ndi misewu yopanda kanthu.

Nthawi zonse lolani enammodzi akudziwa kumene inu mukupita. Osatchulanso nthawi yomwe mukukonzekera kubwerera. Mwanjira imeneyi adziwa kuti abwera kudzayang'ana ngati china chake chasokonekera.

Ngati mukupeza kuti muli mumkhalidwe woipa ngati akazi enawa, tsatirani chitsogozo cha Jones ndikumenyana nawo, kupanga phokoso ndikudziwonetsera nokha momwe mungathere. Ndipo ngakhale zingakhale zovuta, Jones akuti yesetsani kupitiriza kuchita zomwe mumakonda-akuyendabe tsiku lililonse chifukwa akuti amakana kuti mantha amulepheretse kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi omwe amakonda.

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