Chilichonse Chimene Muyenera Kudziwa Zokhudza Zoseweretsa Zamagonana ndi Matenda Opatsirana

Zamkati

• Oo, woah, woah, kodi ungapeze matenda opatsirana pogonana kuchokera ku chidole chogonana?
• Ndi matenda ati opatsirana pogonana omwe angafalitsidwe motere?
• Bacterial vaginosis, yisiti, ndi ma UTI amathanso kupatsirana
• Ndipo ngati matako akukhudzidwa, momwemonso matenda ena
• Mutha kudzipatsiranso matenda opatsirana pogonana
• Zinthuzo ndizofunika
• Zomwe muyenera kudziwa za zoseweretsa zogonana zosasangalatsa
• Ngati mukugawira chidole chogonana, chikhaleni choseweretsa chosagonana
• Ngati mugwiritsa ntchito choseweretsa cha porous, gwiritsani ntchito kondomu
• Momwe mungatsukitsire zoseweretsa zanu zogonana
• Muthanso kugwiritsa ntchito poyeretsa zoseweretsa zakugonana
• Musaiwale kuti muumitse chidole chanu, ndikuchiyika bwino
• Nthawi yoyeretsa zoseweretsa zanu
• Momwe mungagawire zoseweretsa pakati pa abwenzi mwabwino komanso moyenera
• Musagwiritse ntchito zoseweretsa zopsereza
• Sambani zoseweretsa zopanda ntchito
• Lankhulani ndi anzanu
• Zoyenera kuchita ngati mukuganiza kuti kukhudzana ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana kwachitika
• Mimba itha kukhala chiopsezo (chochepa)
• Mfundo yofunika

Timaphatikizapo zinthu zomwe timaganiza kuti ndizothandiza kwa owerenga athu. Ngati mutagula maulalo omwe ali patsamba lino, titha kupeza ndalama zochepa. Nayi njira yathu.

Oo, woah, woah, kodi ungapeze matenda opatsirana pogonana kuchokera ku chidole chogonana?

Yankho lalifupi: Ee!

Koma yesetsani kuti musadabwe kwambiri, simungathe zokha Pezani matenda opatsirana pogonana kuchokera kuchoseweretsa chiwerewere.

Kuti munthu atenge matenda opatsirana pogonana, ayenera kuti anagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi munthu amene anali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana koma osatsukidwa bwino musanagwiritse ntchito.

"Sikuti choseweretsa tokha chimakupatsirani matenda opatsirana pogonana," akufotokoza katswiri wazachipatala Megan Stubbs, EdD. "Ndizoti choseweretsa chiwerewere ndichotengera matenda."

Nazi zonse zomwe muyenera kudziwa.

Ndi matenda ati opatsirana pogonana omwe angafalitsidwe motere?

Matenda opatsirana pogonana omwe angafalitsidwe kudzera muzochita zogonana atha kufalikira kudzera pachoseweretsa chogonana - kuphatikiza matenda opatsirana pogonana omwe amafalikira kudzera mumadzi amthupi komanso omwe amafalikira kudzera pakhungu ndi khungu.

Ngati pali magazi, umuna, pre-cum, zotsekemera za abambo, kapena madzi ena amthupi pa chidole chogonana cha munthu A wokhala ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana, kenako chidole chogonana chimakumana ndi mamina amtundu wa B, munthu B akhoza kutenga kachilombo.

Ngakhale sipanakhalepo kafukufuku pamutuwu, matenda opatsirana pogonana omwe amafalikira kudzera pakhungu pakhungu kapena kumaliseche mpaka kumaliseche amathanso kufalikira kudzera pachoseweretsa.

Mwachitsanzo, ngati mnzanu yemwe ali ndi vuto la herpes atagwiritsa ntchito chidole chogonana, ndiyeno mphindi zochepa pambuyo pake mwagwiritsa ntchito chidole chomwecho, pali mwayi kuti kachilomboka kadzakufalitsani.

Bacterial vaginosis, yisiti, ndi ma UTI amathanso kupatsirana

Sikuti ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana okha omwe angathe kupatsira kudzera muzoseweretsa zogonana.

"Muthanso kutenga matenda a yisiti, bacterial vaginosis, kapena matenda amkodzo kuchokera pachoseweretsa chiwerewere," akutero Stubbs.

Nthawi zina izi zimachitika chifukwa mudagwiritsa ntchito chidole chogonana chomwe munthu yemwe ali ndi bakiteriya vaginosis kapena matenda a yisiti amagwiritsa ntchito osatsukidwa bwino asanagwiritse ntchito.

Koma ngakhale munthu winayo satero khalani ndi amodzi mwa matendawa, ngati muli ndi nyini, mabakiteriya ochokera kumatumba awo amatha kutaya pH yanu kumaliseche ndikubweretsa matenda.

Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito chidole chogonana ndikuchigwiritsa ntchito kumaliseche kwanu (kapena kuzungulira kutsegula kwanu kwa penile), izi zitha kuchititsanso matendawa.

Ndipo ngati matako akukhudzidwa, momwemonso matenda ena

Zinthu zachabechabe ndi zotsalira zamanyazi ndizodziwika bwino pachiwopsezo chosewerera kumatako.

Malinga ndi izi, zotsatirazi zitha kufalikira kudzera mu ndowe:

• chiwindi A, B, ndi C
• majeremusi, kuphatikizapo Giardia lamblia
• matumbo amoebas
• bacteria, kuphatikiza Chinthaka, Salmonella, Msika, ndi E. coli

Izi zimapangitsa kuti matendawa akhale pachiwopsezo chogonana kumatako.

Ndipo zoopsa izi sizimatha ngati chidole chogonana chikugwiritsidwa ntchito kusangalatsa derrière wanu, mosiyana ndi mbolo kapena chala. (Ngakhale chiopsezo chogwiritsa ntchito choseweretsa chogonana nchochepa poyerekeza ndi chiopsezo chogwiritsa ntchito pakamwa pako).

Mutha kudzipatsiranso matenda opatsirana pogonana

Tiyerekeze kuti muli ndi bakiteriya vaginosis, gwiritsani ntchito vibrator yanu, musayeretse bwino, pitani maantibayotiki kuti muthe matendawa ndipo amatha, kenako mugwiritsenso ntchito choseweretsa chogonana ... ndizotheka kudziteteza ndi chidolecho.

Eya, ugh.

Zomwezo zimagwiranso ntchito kwa matenda opatsirana pogonana. Mwachitsanzo, ngati muli ndi chinzonono chachikazi, gwiritsani choseweretsa mwakunyini, ndiyeno mugwiritse ntchito nthawi yomweyo kutulutsa anus yanu, ndizotheka kudzipatsa nokha chinzonono. Ugh.

Zinthuzo ndizofunika

Kaya mungafalitse matenda opatsirana pogonana kudzera mwa chidole chogonana zimadalira, mwa zina, ngati mutha kuyeretsa choseweracho mukachitsuka.

Zomwe muyenera kudziwa za zoseweretsa zogonana zosasangalatsa

“Zoseweretsa zakugonana zopangidwa ndi zotupa zimakhala ndi timabowo tating'onoting'ono tating'onoting'ono tomwe timatha kugwira mabakiteriya, fumbi, sopo, ndi mafuta onunkhira ngakhale mutatsuka," akufotokoza katswiri wazosangalatsa Carly S., woyambitsa wa Dildo kapena Dildon’t.

Kutanthauzira: Ngakhale sopo ndi madzi sizingathe kupeza zoseweretsa zogonana zogonana kwathunthu kwathunthu. Yikes.

Zipangizo zopangira zinthu monga:

• mphira wa thermoplastic (TPR)
• thermoplastic elastomer (TPE)
• lalabala
• polyvinyl mankhwala enaake (PVC)
• jelly jombo

Zoseweretsa zosagonana zitha - ngati mungaziyeretse bwino - zitsukidwe kwathunthu.

"Lamulo labwino ... ndikuti ngati kuli koyenera kudya ndi kuphika nawo ndipo mukatha kukupeza kukhitchini, ndi chinthu chotetezeka, chosagwiritsa ntchito choseweretsa choseweretsa," akutero Carly S.

Zipangizo zopanda ntchito ndi monga:

• silikoni
• magwire
• Pulasitiki ya ABS
• galasi
• chitsulo chosapanga dzimbiri

Ngati mukugawira chidole chogonana, chikhaleni choseweretsa chosagonana

Mwanjira imeneyi mutha kutsuka choseweretsa pakati pa aliyense amene akugwiritsa ntchito.

"Muthanso kuponya kondomu pamwamba pa choseweretsa ndi kuvala kondomu yatsopano mnzanu asanagwiritse ntchito," akutero a Jordin Wiggins, katswiri wazakugonana.

Osadandaula: "Simuyenera kugulitsa mkono ndi mwendo kuti mupeze choseweretsa chosakhala chowopsa," akutero Carly S. Blush Novelties, mwachitsanzo, amapanga zinthu zapamwamba kwambiri, zotsika mtengo.

Ngati mugwiritsa ntchito choseweretsa cha porous, gwiritsani ntchito kondomu

Kaya mukugwiritsa ntchito nokha kapena ndi mnzanu, ponyani kondomu yatsopano pamnyamata woyipayo nthawi iliyonse ikamakhudza munthu watsopano - makamaka kondomu, polyurethane, kapena polyisoprene kondomu.

Makondomu opangidwa ndi khungu la nyama sateteza kumatenda opatsirana pogonana.

Ngati mugwiritsa ntchito makondomu a latex, gwiritsani ntchito silicone kapena madzi opangira madzi monga Sliquid Sassy kapena mafuta amafuta a Uberlube amapeputsa kukhulupirika kwa kondomu ndikupanga mabowo oonera tinthu ting'onoting'ono.

Zowona, zoseweretsa zachiwerewere zomwe sizili ngati zaumbulu, kuyika kondomu pamwamba kumatha kukhala ... kovuta.

"Yesetsani kumangirira kondomu momwe mungathere kuti muchepetse kuchepa," akutero Carly S. "Kapenanso mutha kugwiritsa ntchito golovesi, kapena saran yosavomerezeka (yolumikizira yomwe ili ndi mabowo pang'ono)."

Pazoseweretsa zina zakugonana monga mbolo-zoyenda, komabe, kubetcha kwanu kwabwino kwambiri kuti mupeze chidole chosiyana ndi wogwiritsa ntchito.

"Oyendetsa sitimayo ambiri amapangidwa ndi mphira wa porous chifukwa ndiwofewa kwambiri, ndipo anthu ambiri safuna kukwapula mbolo yawo ndi china chake chomwe chimamveka ngati njerwa," akutero Carly S.

Chilungamo!

Pomwe maanja omwe ali ndimadzimadzi omangika - AKA mwadala, mosavomerezeka, komanso dala kugawana madzi amthupi - amatha kugawana stroker popanda vuto, ngati simumangidwa ndimadzimadzi muyenera kupeza zoseweretsa ziwiri zosiyana.

Njira ina: Yesani Hot Octopus Pulse Duo, stroker yopangidwa ndi silicone ndi ABS pulasitiki.

Momwe mungatsukitsire zoseweretsa zanu zogonana

Mosasamala kanthu za chidole chanu, muyenera kumusambitsa mwanayo musanagwiritse ntchito. Momwe mumachapira zimadalira nkhaniyo.

"Onetsetsani kuti sopo ndi wofatsa komanso wosapanganika," akutero Wiggins. "Zinthu zina zimatha kukwiyitsa kumaliseche kwanu."

Kwa zoseweretsa zopanda magalimoto, zopanda ma mota, kuponyera choseweretsa mu makina ochapira ndizothekanso, malinga ndi Stubbs.

"Sitikunena zakuyika chidole chija ndi mbale ya lasagna usiku watha," akutero Stubbs. “Chitani nawo katundu wazoseweretsa zanu zogonana basi.”

O, ndipo musagwiritse ntchito zotsekemera! Ingolani madzi ofunda kuti aziyenda.

Carly S. "Chotsukira chotsukira kutsuka chimatha kukhala ndi mankhwala onunkhira komanso zonunkhira zomwe zimayambitsa kukhumudwitsa kapena matenda kwa anthu okhala ndi tinthu tating'ono," akutero Carly S.

Muthanso kugwiritsa ntchito poyeretsa zoseweretsa zakugonana

Malinga ndi Carly S., "Zitha kukhala bwino kugwiritsa ntchito chida choyeretsera chogwiritsira ntchito m'madzi kuposa kuchapa ndi sopo yomwe muli nayo, chifukwa oyeretsawa amakhala odekha kuposa sopo wambiri." Zabwino kudziwa!

Oyeretsa zoseweretsa zachiwerewere amalimbikitsa kuti:

• Oyeretsera Babeland Toy
• Madzi Owala
• Ife-Vibe Woyera

Zoe Ligon (wodziwika kuti Thongria pazanema), wophunzitsa zakugonana komanso mwini wa SpectrumBoutique.com, malo ogulitsira matoyi ophunzitsira, amalimbikitsa ngati mutagwiritsa ntchito zotsukira, tsukani choseweretsa ndi madzi musanagwiritse ntchito kuti mupewe kukwiya kulikonse.

Musaiwale kuti muumitse chidole chanu, ndikuchiyika bwino

Stubbs anati: "Mabakiteriya amakonda chinyezi ndiye mukatsuka choseweretsa, chiume bwinobwino." Ingoletsani chidole chiume ndi chopukutira choyera kapena siyani zoseweretsa kuti ziume.

Kenako muzisunge bwino. Masiku ano, zoseweretsa zambiri zakugonana zimabwera ndi zikwama za satin zopumira, chifukwa chake ngati chidole chanu chikubwera ndi chimodzi, gwiritsani ntchito icho.

Chikwamacho chimateteza chidole kuti chisatole fumbi, zinyalala, ndi ubweya wa nyama pakati pazogwiritsa ntchito.

Mulibe thumba lapadera loseweretsa zogonana? Ganizirani zoika ndalama chimodzi mwazomwe zili pansipa:

• Tristan Velvish Toy Thumba
• Mlandu wa Liberator Couture PadLock wokhala ndi Key
• Mlandu wa Toy Toy Wokondedwa Wogulitsira

Nthawi yoyeretsa zoseweretsa zanu

Momwemo, mutatha ndipo musanagwiritse ntchito.

"Ngati inu ndi mnzanu muli okonda madzi, mutha kudikirira mpaka nonse mutagwiritsa ntchito kuchapa, bola ngati m'modzi wa inu simukhudzidwa kwambiri ndi yisiti kapena matenda am'mikodzo," akutero Carly S. "Kupanda kutero, usambitseni aliyense wa inu. ”

Kuchisamba musanagwiritse ntchito kumamveka kopitilira muyeso, koma taganizirani izi: "Ngakhale choseweretsa chidatsukidwa kale, nthawi zonse ndibwino kuti chiyeretsenso nthawi isanakwane," akutero a Ligon.

Kuchita izi kumatha kuyimitsa ubweya wa galu wanu kuti usakwere muzinthu zanu zonse!

Momwe mungagawire zoseweretsa pakati pa abwenzi mwabwino komanso moyenera

Yep, thanzi ndipo Makhalidwe akusewera apa!

Musagwiritse ntchito zoseweretsa zopsereza

Monga mwalamulo, zoseweretsa zoseweretsa siziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi anthu opitilira m'modzi. Ndipo ayenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi anzanu omwe mumalumikizidwa nawo madzi.

Sambani zoseweretsa zopanda ntchito

Izi ziyenera kupatsidwa, koma ngati mutagwiritsa ntchito choseweretsa chogonana ndi Karen chomwe mudangogwiritsa ndi Mary, inu zosowa kuchitsuka nthawi isanakwane.

Kulephera kutero kumatha kubweretsa kufala kwa matenda opatsirana pogonana.

Lankhulani ndi anzanu

"Imeneyi si nkhani yaukhondo chabe komanso yathanzi," akutero Carly S. "Imakhudzanso anthu ena, ndipo imafunika kuvomereza mbali zonse."

Osatsimikiza momwe mungabweretsere zoseweretsa zogonana ndi mnzanu? Yesani kutsatira izi:

• "Ndikudziwa kuti tagwiritsa ntchito Hitachi yanga limodzi, koma tisanachite izi ndimafunanso kuti ndiwone ngati mukugwiritsa ntchito chidole chija ndi anzanga ena."
• "Ndingakonde kugwiritsa ntchito Womanizer yanga pa inu ngati ndichinthu chomwe mukuganiza kuti mungakonde. Koma tisanayese m'moyo weniweni, muyenera kudziwa kuti ndagwiritsanso ntchito chidolechi m'maubwenzi anga akale. "
• "Ndikudziwa kuti tonse tili ndi zoseweretsa zogonana zomwe tidagwiritsa ntchito ndi anzathu akale, koma popeza tili pachibwenzi chokha, ndikadakonda kugula zoseweretsa zogonana zomwe ndi zathu zokha."
• "Takhala tikulankhula za iwe f * kundikoka ndi zomangira m'mbuyomu. Ndikudziwa kuti uli ndi tambala, koma ndimaganiza ngati mungakhale wokonzeka kugawa ndalama yatsopano yomwe mungamangogwiritsa ntchito ndi ine? "

Momwemonso zokambiranazi zichitika kale kutentha kwakanthawi. Kutanthauza, chonde valani kwathunthu mukamabweretsa izi!

Zoyenera kuchita ngati mukuganiza kuti kukhudzana ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana kwachitika

Pitani mukayesedwe! "Tchulani zomwe mudakumana nazo ndikupempha mayeso ambiri ngati mungathe," akutero a Ligon.

Ngati simukudziwa zomwe mudakumana nazo, uzani dokotala wanu, inunso!

Kenako, "muyesenso kachiwiri m'masabata awiri kapena atatu kapena kutalika komwe dokotala akukuuzani kuti mudikire, chifukwa matenda ena opatsirana pogonana sangayesedwe nthawi yomweyo atangowonekera," akutero.

Chikumbutso chochezeka: Matenda ambiri opatsirana pogonana sakhala odziwika, choncho ngakhale simukukumana ndi zizindikilo, muyenera kuyezetsa kamodzi pachaka komanso pakati pa abwenzi, zomwe zimabwera koyamba.

Mimba itha kukhala chiopsezo (chochepa)

Ngati mutha kutenga pakati ndipo mumagawana chidole chogonana ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi mbolo, kutenga mimba ndikotheka ngati kuli koyambirira kapena kutulutsa umuna pachoseweretsa mukamagwiritsa ntchito.

Ngati mukufuna kupewa kutenga mimba, kambiranani ndi wokondedwa wanu za njira zakulera komanso musanagawane chidole. Kapenanso, yeretseni kapena gwiritsani ntchito kondomu yatsopano musanagwiritse ntchito.

Mfundo yofunika

Nthawi iliyonse mukamagonana ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana kapena yemwe simukudziwa matenda ake opatsirana pogonana, ndiye kuti ali pachiwopsezo. Ndipo izi zikuphatikiza kugwiritsa ntchito kapena kugawana choseweretsa choseweretsa.

Mutha kuthandiza kuchepetsa chiopsezo chotenga kachilombo ka:

• kucheza za matenda awo opatsirana pogonana komanso njira zachiwerewere zomwe mukufuna kugwiritsa ntchito limodzi
• kugwiritsa ntchito kondomu yatsopano pachoseweretsa kwa aliyense watsopano
• kugwiritsa ntchito choseweretsa chosagonana ndikuchitsuka pakati pa abwenzi
• kukhala ndi zoseweretsa zanu zogonana

A Gabrielle Kassel ndi mlembi wa ku New York wogonana komanso wathanzi komanso Mphunzitsi wa CrossFit Level 1. Amakhala munthu wam'mawa, adayesa opitilira 200, ndikudya, kuledzera, ndikupaka makala - zonsezi mdzina la utolankhani. Munthawi yake yaulere, amapezeka kuti amawerenga mabuku azodzilankhulira ndi ma buku achikondi, kukanikiza benchi, kapena kuvina. Tsatirani iye mopitirira Instagram.