Sia Cooper Anagawana Chikumbutso Chofunikira Chokhudza Kusinthasintha kwa Kulemera

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Atakumana ndi zaka khumi zosamveka bwino, ngati matenda amthupi, Sia Cooper wolimbikitsa thupi adachotsedwa zikhomo zake mu 2018. (Werengani zambiri za zomwe adakumana nazo apa: Kodi Matenda a M'mawere Ndi Enieni?)

M'miyezi isanakwane kuchitidwa opaleshoni yochotsa, thanzi la Cooper lidalowa pansi kwambiri. Pamodzi ndi kutopa kwambiri, kutayika tsitsi, komanso kukhumudwa, adalemeranso, zomwe zidamupangitsa "manyazi," posachedwapa adagawana nawo pa Instagram.

"Kukhala pagulu la anthu sikunapangitse izi kukhala zosavuta chifukwa ndinali ndi ndemanga zambiri zosonyeza kulemera kwanga koonekeratu," Cooper adalemba. "Ena adandiuzanso kuti ndiyenera kusintha chiphaso changa kukhala 'diaryofafatmommy.' Anthu ankaganiza kuti ndangodzisiya ndekha ndipo ankanditenga ngati mphunzitsi waumwini, sindikanayenera kuloledwa kutero. "

Anthu ambiri samadziwa kuti Cooper anali "wodwala kwambiri panthawiyo" ya "kale", adalongosola. "... posakhalitsa chithunzi 'chisanachitike' chinajambulidwa, ndinachitidwa opaleshoni yayikulu kuchotsa ma implants anga kenako ulendo wanga wobwerera ku thanzi unayamba," adalemba. (ICYMI, pali umboni wovuta kuti zopangira mawere ndizokhudzana kwambiri ndi mtundu wosadziwika wa khansa yamagazi.)

Ngakhale sanasangalale ndi kuchuluka kwa ndemanga zoyipa, Cooper adagawana nkhani yake ndi omutsatira kuti awadziwitse kuti kunenepa ndi kwachilengedwe komanso kwachilengedwe, mosasamala kanthu komwe muli paulendo wanu wolimbitsa thupi. "Ndizovuta komanso zopanda nzeru kuti mukhalebe wonenepa nthawi zonse 24/7," adalemba. "Moyo umachitika, anyamata."

Cooper akufunanso omutsatira ake "ayime ndikutenga mphindi kuti aganizire za chifukwa chomwe wina watayikira kapena kunenepa" asanayankhule za thupi la wina. "Kwa munthu amene mumati 'wachepetsa thupi!' mpaka, atha kukhala kuti ali ndi khansa kapena matenda ena ... kapena mwina akumva chisoni ndi imfa ya wokondedwa.Kwa munthu amene mwina munaonapo kuti ‘adzilola kupita,’ mwina akusudzulana kapena ali ndi vuto la mahomoni lomwe sangalamulire.” (Onani: Chifukwa Chake Kuchititsa manyazi Thupi Kuli Kwakukulu Chonchi. Vuto ndi Zomwe Mungachite Kuti Muleke)

Masiku ano, Cooper amadzimva "bwino kuposa kale," zonsezi chifukwa amamvetsera ndi kukwaniritsa zosowa za thupi lake. "Zinthu zambiri zasintha: Ndidaponya mowa, ndidachotsa ma implants anga omwe ndimamva kuti amandidwalitsa (zisonyezo zanga zonse zidazimiririka), ndidayamba yoga, ndidasintha anti-depressant, ndipo ndidapezanso chilimbikitso changa, " adalongosola.

Koma mfundo yaikulu ya Cooper ndi yakuti kusinthasintha kwa kulemera ndi gawo la aliyense ulendo, kutanthauza kuti mulibe manyazi. "Kungoti ndine wophunzitsa wovomerezeka sizitanthauza kuti ndili ndi vuto losintha makilogalamu," adalemba. "Ndine munthu. Thupi langa silili bwino ndipo lidzakhala ulendo nthawi zonse, ntchito ikuchitika. Ndili bwino ndi zimenezo."

Pamapeto pa tsiku, palibe njira yodziwira zomwe wina akukumana nazo, ndipo kuyankha pa thupi la wina sikuli bwino. "Timayika mtengo wapatali ndikugogomezera kulemera ndi maonekedwe pamene mtengo weniweni uli ndi thanzi lanu komanso momwe mumamvera," Cooper analemba. "Mawu ali ndi kulemera kwambiri chifukwa chake samalani ndikusankha mawu anu mwanzeru."

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