Ma Harness Awa Ndi Omwe Okha Omwe Sangandipangitse Kumva Ngati Ndikupita Kukakwera Miyala Pa Nthawi Yogonana

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• Kodi Kugonana Ndi Chiyani, Mukufunsa?
• Momwe Mungagwiritsire Ntchito Chingwe (ndi Chifukwa Chomwe Mungafune)
• Chabwino, Chabwino, Koma Ichi Ndi Chifukwa Chake Ndimakonda Ma SpareParts Joque Harness Kwambiri
• Sexcessories Kuti Mupite ndi Harness Yanu
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Masiku ano, kupeza vibrator yomwe ili yabwino kwa ~ zokonda zakugonana ~ ndikosavuta, kudina (apa, apa, ndi apa). Tsoka ilo, ndemanga za harness ndizovuta kupeza. Chifukwa chake mukakhala pamsika wogwiritsa ntchito zingwe zatsopano nthawi zambiri mumakakamizidwa kusakatula tsamba patsamba-pazowunikira za Amazon zosathandiza. Ndili ndi mwayi, ndabwera kuti ndifewetse zinthu.

Pambuyo pazaka khumi zakuyesa kwa ma harness, nditha kunena kuti zida zabwino kwambiri, zosunthika zambiri zilibe mthunzi wokayika: The SpareParts Joque Harness (Buy It, $115, amazon.com; goodvibes.com). Werengani pa ndemanga yanga yonse ... mukudziwa kuti mukufuna.

Kodi Kugonana Ndi Chiyani, Mukufunsa?

Chingwe chogonana ndichida chilichonse chomwe chimakupatsani mwayi wopeza chidole chogonana mthupi lanu. Nthawi zambiri, ma harnesses amavalidwa kudera loberekera kuti ateteze dildo pomwe mbolo imakhala pamunthu wopatsidwa mwayi wobadwa (AMAB). SpareParts Joque ndi mtundu woterewu. Komabe, ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti palinso zingwe za ntchafu (Malibu Thigh Harness, Buy It, $ 45, babeland.com), milomo yamkamwa ndi nkhope (Latex Face Fucker Strap On Mask, Buy It, $ 86, kinkstore.com), osatero tchulani, zida zambiri zogwiritsa ntchito ukapolo zimaphatikizidwanso ngati "zingwe."

Chinthu china chofunika kudziwa ndi chakuti mawu oti "strap-on" amagwiritsidwa ntchito pamene chingwe chikugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi dildo ndipo ali ndi mphamvu.

Momwe Mungagwiritsire Ntchito Chingwe (ndi Chifukwa Chomwe Mungafune)

Kunena zowona, IMO, pali zifukwa zambiri zoyeserera zingwe pabedi, koma ndisanalowe, dziwani izi: Pali nthano yodziwika bwino yoti ma harnesses ndi chidole chogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Koma zingwe zimatha kuvala ndikusangalala ndi munthu ndi mnzake ngakhale atakhala wamkazi, kumaliseche, kapena kugonana. (Ndipo, pssh, si ma lesbibi onse monga iwo!)

"Zingwe zingathe kuvala panthawi yogonana, zogonana, zogonana mkamwa, kuseweretsa maliseche, ndi zina zambiri," akufotokoza a Andy Duran, wamkulu wa maphunziro a Good Vibrations. Amakhalanso ovala masana pakati pa anthu opitilira muyeso omwe akufuna kuti akhale ndi mbolo mothandizidwa ndi dildo wopindika, monga New York Sex Toy Collective Mason (Buy It, $ 175, goodvibes.com) kapena Archer Silicone Packer (Buy It, $ 60, goodvibes.com).

"Mwiniwake wa maliseche, mwachitsanzo, amatha kumangirira lamba kuti adutse mnzake popanda manja," akutero a Duran. M'magulu omwe onse ali ndi maliseche, zingwe zimatha kuvala ndi chingwe cholowera kumaliseche-komwe kumadziwika kuti lamba wa abambo. (Muli ndi ma Q okhudza kugonana kodzimanga? Izi zithandiza: Buku la Insider la Kugona ndi Mkazi Wina Koyamba.)

Kapenanso, zingwe zimatha kuvalanso mwiniwake wamaliseche ndi mnzake aliyense wogonana naye kumatako kapena kukhomerera. "Chingwe chimathandizanso munthu wokhala ndi mbolo kuti alowe ndi china chake kupatula thupi lake," akuwonjezera Duran. (Izi ndizofala makamaka pakati pa anthu osandulika magazi komanso anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la erectile.) Nthawi zina, zingwe zingagwiritsidwenso ntchito kulola mwini mbolo kuti alowetse mnzake ndi mbolo yawo * ndi * chidole china nthawi yomweyo kulowa kwina kawiri.

Chabwino, Chabwino, Koma Ichi Ndi Chifukwa Chake Ndimakonda Ma SpareParts Joque Harness Kwambiri

Zingwe zimabwera m'njira ziwiri zazikulu: jockstrap- ndi zovala zamkati. Nthawi zambiri, zingwe zamtundu wa jockstrap zimapambana pakukhazikika ndi kuwongolera, pomwe zovala zamkati zimatuluka pamwamba kuti zitonthozedwe. Koma ndi SpareParts Joque, simuyenera kusankha chimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri kuposa zina - mumalandira zonse ziwiri.

"Joque ndiwokhazikika komanso okhazikika," akutero a Duran. "Mutha kuyika dildo pafupifupi mulingo uliwonse mu zingwe, ndipo siyigwera pansi kapena kuzungulirazungulira." Ndi chifukwa, kuwonjezera pakukhala ndi cholimba cha AF O-ring (ndiye gawo lomwe dildo limadutsamo), malambawo amasinthika. Kutanthauza, mutha kumangirira harness mwamphamvu pakhungu lanu.

Kuphatikiza apo, imabwera mumitundu iwiri.Kukula A kumatha kusinthidwa kuti kukwanire m'chiuno mainchesi 20 mpaka 50 mozungulira, pomwe kukula B kumatha kusinthidwa kuti kukwanire m'chiuno mainchesi 35 mpaka 60 mozungulira. Ngati masanjidwewo akuwoneka osangalatsa, ndiye. "Joque ndi imodzi mwazingwe zingapo zomwe zingathe kukhala ndi matupi osiyanasiyana," akuwonjezera Duran.

Zinthu izi sizimabweretsa chitonthozo. Kupangidwa ndi chophatikiza cha nyani ya spandex, kutsogolo kwake kumakhala kosalala komanso kosalala pakhungu langa ndi malo omwera - ngakhale kukanyowa. Zomwezo sizinganenedwe pazingwe zina zomwe ndayesera.

Chomwe ndimakonda kwambiri ndikuti gulu loyandikana kwambiri ndi khungu limagawika pakati ndipo limatha kusunthidwa mbali kuti ndikamangiliridwa ndikumverera kuti dildo ikundinyamula kumaliseche kwanga. Ngakhale pamene dildo satero kunjenjemera, kuyenda kosunthika kumapangitsa chidwi.

Ndipo chinthu chachiwiri chomwe ndimakonda ndichakuti pali matumba awiri (2!) Omwe amapangidwa mu Joque wama bullet vibrator-imodzi pamwambapa ndi imodzi pansi pa O-ring. "[Izi] zingawonjezere kuchuluka kwa chikoka kwa wovalayo pamene akulowa mnzawo," akutero Duran. "Ndipo kugwedezekako kumatha kuyenda pansi pa dildo kuti mulimbikitse mnzanuyo kulowa nawo." (Zogwirizana: Ma Bullet Vibrator Opambana Kwina Kwina, Zosangalatsa Zilizonse).

Chinthu china chochititsa chidwi ndikuti mukamaliza kusewera, mutha kupaka mwana uyu posamba. Mutha kuigwiritsa ntchito Lachisanu usiku, kuchapa Loweruka, kenako Lamlungu osadandaula za kusamutsidwa kwa madzi amthupi kapena omwe angatenge matenda. (Zokhudzana: Njira Yabwino Kwambiri Yoyeretsera Chidole Chanu Chogonana).

Ndili ndi ndemanga zambiri za zomwe ndakumana nazo ndi SpareParts Joque Harness, koma Duran akuwonetsa zinthu ziwiri zomwe anthu angakhale nazo kutengera kukonda kwa dildo ndi kukula kwa thupi.

Choyamba, gulu la crotch limangokhala mainchesi ochepa. "Anthu okulirapo komanso omwe ali ndi madera akuluakulu a ma pubis amatha kuzindikira kuti ngakhale zingwezo zimakwanira, zimapanga mawonekedwe owoneka bwino," akutero. Kwa anthu omwe sakonda zokometsera zimenezo—ndipo aliyense amene amakonda chomangira chotchinga kwambiri—amalimbikitsa SpareParts Tomboi Fabric Brief Harness (Buy It, $90, goodvibes.com).

Nditayesa Tomboi, ndikukutsimikizirani kuti O-ring ndiyokhazikika monga yomwe ili mu Joque kotero kuti mudzamvebe bwino. Ilinso ndi matumba awiri a vibrator, imodzi mbali zonse ziwiri za dildo kotero mudzakhalabe ndi mawonekedwe amenewo.

Sexcessories Kuti Mupite ndi Harness Yanu

Pamsika wamahatchi atsopano ogonana ndipo mwanjira ina osatsimikiza kuti mutenge Joque, izi ziyenera kuchita: Pakalipano mutha kupeza $ 20 oda iliyonse yoposa $ 75 kudzera pa Kugwedezeka Kwabwino. Izi zimapangitsa kuti zingwe zikhale $ 104.95 zokha — kuba!

Mukadali pano, pezani zida zingapo zogonana zomwe zingakongoletse shebang yonse. Ngati mukuyang'ana dildo wowoneka bwino, palibe kampani yomwe imachita bwino kuposa New York Sex Toy Collective. The Mason (Buy It, $175, goodvibes.com) ndi njira yabwino yoyambira. Ponena za ma dildos osakwanira, ndikupangira Charm Silicone Dildo (Gulani, $ 45, goodvibes.com) kwa zikhomo zoyambira koyamba ndi Wet For Her Strap On Dildo Black (Buy It, $ 55, wetforher.com) yamitundu ina ya kusewera kwa zingwe. Zosankha zina zazikulu: BJ Dildo (Buy It, $ 90, goodvibes.com) yolimbikitsira kugonana mkamwa ndi Fun Factory ShareVibe (Buy It, $ 115, goodvibes.com) ya ma handjobs, kuseweretsa maliseche, kapena kusewera pakati pa maliseche eni ake.

Ngati mukufuna kugwiritsa ntchito imodzi (kapena yonse!) Yamatumba a vibrator, a Duran amalimbikitsa Bullet Crave Vibrator (Buy It, $ 69, amazon.com), Magic Touch Waterproof Vibrator (Gulani, $ 15, goodvibes.com ), kapena We-Vibe Tango Mini Vibrator (Buy It, $74, amazon.com).

Ndipo pamapeto pake, yambani kuchitapo kanthu popanda lube! Ma dilds ambiri amapangidwa ndi silikoni, zomwe zimatha kupangitsa kuti khungu likhale losasangalatsa ngati palibe mafuta okwanira. Kotero mufuna kugwiritsa ntchito mafuta opangira madzi monga Sliquid Sassy (Buy It, $12, amazon.com), Sutil Rich Botanical Lubricant (Buy It, $42, goodvibes.com), kapena Cake Toy Joy (Buy It , $ 22, hellocake.com).

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