Kubwezeretsanso M'mawere kapena 'Go Flat'? Zomwe 8 Amayi Adasankha

Zamkati

• ‘Ichi chinali chinthu chokhacho chomwe ndimalamulira’
• 'Ndinkafunadi kuti chinachake chibwezeretsedwe mmenemo'
• ‘Zotsatira zake sizinkawoneka bwino kwambiri’
• 'Sindinapatsidwepo mwayi'
• ‘Sindinkagwirizana ndi mabere anga’
• ‘Ndinayezetsa ndili ndi mtundu wa BRCA2’
• ‘Kusiyana pakati pa zenizeni ndi zopanga kumaonekera pamene wina ali wamaliseche’
• 'Ndinkangoganizira kwambiri za mapeto'

Kwa ena, kusankha kumayendetsedwa ndi kufunafuna zachilendo. Kwa ena, inali njira yobwezeretsanso ulamuliro. Ndipo kwa ena, chisankho chinali "kupita pang'ono." Amayi asanu ndi atatu olimba mtima amagawana maulendo awo ovuta komanso aumwini.

Mwezi Wodziwitsa Khansa ya M'mawere, tikuyang'ana amayi omwe ali kuseri kwa riboni. Lowani nawo zokambirana pa Khansa ya m'mawere Healthline - pulogalamu yaulere ya anthu omwe ali ndi khansa ya m'mawere.

Tsitsani pulogalamu apa

Chisankho chodutsamo pambuyo poti matenda a khansa ya m'mawere - kapena ayi - ndichamwini kwambiri. Pali zambiri zoti muziganizire, ndipo kusankha kumatha kubweretsa malingaliro ambiri.

Oletsa zifukwa zamankhwala, azimayi omwe asankha kuchitidwa opaleshoni amafunikanso kuganizira za nthawi yawo poyerekeza ndi ma mastectomies awo. Kodi ayenera kutero nthawi yomweyo, kapena atenge nthawi kuti asankhe?

Healthline adalankhula ndi azimayi asanu ndi atatu pazomwe adasankhapo pankhani ya opareshoni yomanga.

‘Ichi chinali chinthu chokhacho chomwe ndimalamulira’

Katie Sitton

Pakadali pano kuyembekezera opaleshoni yomangidwanso

Katie Sitton adalandira matenda ake a khansa ya m'mawere mu Marichi 2018 ali ndi zaka 28. Akuyembekezera kuchitidwa opaleshoni akamaliza chemotherapy.

"Poyamba sindinkafuna kumanganso. Ndinaganiza kuti ndibwino kuti ndikhale ndi khansa kuchotsa [mawere anga], ”Katie akufotokoza. "Koma ndikamafufuza kwambiri, ndidazindikira kuti sizinali zoona. Khansa yandichotsera zambiri, koma izi ndizomwe ndimatha kuyankha. ”

'Ndinkafunadi kuti chinachake chibwezeretsedwe mmenemo'

Kelly Iverson

Matenda awiri am'mimba + omangidwanso nthawi yomweyo

Ali ndi zaka 25 ndipo akudziwa kuti anali ndi kusintha kwa BRCA1, Kelly Iverson, woyang'anira wotsatsa ndi Mad Monkey Hostels, adamupatsa zosankha ziwiri: zomwe zimayambira pambuyo pake, kapena zowonjezera zomwe zimayikidwa pansi pamimba ndikuchitidwa opaleshoni yayikulu milungu isanu ndi umodzi pambuyo pake .

"Ndikulingalira kuti sikunakhale konse funso loti ndingamangidwenso," akutero. "Zokongoletsa, ndimafunitsitsadi kuti chinachake chibwezeretsedwe mmenemo."

Kelly anamva ngati sanakondwere pambuyo pake ndi momwe amadzala amawoneka, amatha kubwerera kukachita opaleshoni yolumikizira mafuta - njira yomwe mafuta ochokera mumimba mwake amaikidwa pachifuwa. Ndizowopsa pang'ono poyerekeza ndi opaleshoni yachiwiri yotulutsa, ndipo imaphimbidwa ndi inshuwaransi yake.

‘Zotsatira zake sizinkawoneka bwino kwambiri’

Tamara Iverson Pryor

Matenda am'mimba awiri + osamangidwanso

Tamara Iverson Pryor walandilidwa ndikuchiritsidwa khansa katatu kuyambira ali ndi zaka 30. Lingaliro lake loti asamangidwenso kutsatira mastectomy lidakhudza zinthu zingapo.

"Kuti ndipeze zotsatira zabwino ndikufunika kuchotsa minofu yanga yonse ya latissimus dorsi," akufotokoza. "Lingaliro la kuchitanso opaleshoni ina lomwe lingakhudze mphamvu yanga yakumtunda ndi kuyenda silinkawoneka ngati kusinthana kwabwino pazomwe ndimaganiza kuti sizingakhale zokondweretsa zokongola."

'Sindinapatsidwepo mwayi'

Tiffany Dyba

Mastectomy iwiri yokhala ndi zokulitsa + zopangira zamtsogolo

Tiffany Dyba, wolemba blog ya CDREAM, adapatsidwa mwayi wosankha kachilomboka kamodzi kapena kawiri ndikumangidwanso pomwepo ali ndi zaka 35, koma amakumbukira kuti palibe amene adamuwuza kuti atha kusankha "kupita pansi."

Ali ndi zokulitsa zaminyewa ndipo amalandira implants akamaliza mankhwala ake.

"Ponena za kumangidwanso, sindinapatsidwe mwayi woti ndikhale nawo kapena ayi. Panalibe mafunso ofunsidwa. Zinanditopetsa kwambiri ndipo sindinkaganiziranso za izi, "akufotokoza.

"Kwa ine, pomwe sindinali wolumikizidwa ndi mabere anga, zabwinobwino ndimomwe ndimakhumbira munjira yonseyi. Ndidadziwa kuti moyo wanga usintha kwamuyaya, kotero momwe ndingathere kuwoneka ngati umunthu wanga wakale, ndizomwe ndimayesetsa. ”

‘Sindinkagwirizana ndi mabere anga’

Sarah DiMuro

Mastectomy iwiri yokhala ndi zokulitsa + zomwe zimayambira pambuyo pake

Ali ndi zaka 41 ndipo atangopezedwa kumene, a Sarah DiMuro, wolemba, woseketsa, komanso wosewera yemwe tsopano akuteteza Rethink Breast Cancer, adawerengera masikuwo kuti akhale ndi ziwalo ziwiri.

"Sindinatengeke kwenikweni ndi mabere anga, ndipo nditamva kuti akufuna kundipha, ndinali wokonzeka kukaonana ndi Dr. YouTube ndikuwachotsa ndekha," akutero.

Sanalingalire ayi kuchitidwa opaleshoni. "Ndinkafuna kukhala ndi kena koti ndikalowe m'malo mwa milu yanga yaying'ono yopha, ndipo ngakhale sindine ndodo kwenikweni ndi makapu anga onse a B, ndine wonyadira kuti ndili nawo."

‘Ndinayezetsa ndili ndi mtundu wa BRCA2’

Sabrina Wonyoza

Penyani + dikirani prophylactic mastectomy

Sabrina Scown adadwala khansa yamchiberekero ali mwana mu 2004. Amayi ake atazindikira kuti ali ndi khansa ya m'mawere zaka ziwiri zapitazo, onsewa adayesedwa ndikupeza kuti ali ndi kachilombo ka BRCA2.

Munthawi imeneyi, Scown amayambanso chithandizo chamankhwala obereketsa, motero adasankha kudziyesa pawokha komanso mayeso a adotolo pomwe anali ndi chidwi chokhala ndi banja - zomwe aphungu ake am'badwo adamulimbikitsa kuti amalize, popeza chiopsezo chake cha khansa ya m'mawere chingawonjezere achikulire ndapeza.

Mayi wa m'modzi tsopano akuti, "Ndikusankhabe kukhala ndi mwana wachiwiri, kotero mpaka nthawi imeneyo, ndichita njira 'yoyang'anira ndi kuyembekezera'."

‘Kusiyana pakati pa zenizeni ndi zopanga kumaonekera pamene wina ali wamaliseche’

Karen Kohnke

Mastectomy iwiri + yomangidwanso

Mu 2001 ali ndi zaka 36, ​​Karen Kohnke adadwala khansa ya m'mawere ndipo anali ndi mastectomy. Kupitilira zaka 15, tsopano akukhala ndi ma implant.

Komabe, panthawiyi, adasankha kuti asamangidwenso. Chifukwa chake chachikulu chinali chifukwa cha mlongo wake, yemwe adamwalira ndi khansa. "Ndinaganiza ngati nditha kumwalirabe, sindinkafuna kuchita opareshoni yayikulu kwambiri," akufotokoza.

Anali ndi chidwi chowona momwe wina amawonekera wopanda mabere, koma adapeza kuti sichinali pempho wamba. “Ambiri sanafunse mafunso pankhaniyi. Ndimafunsa mafunso. Ndimakonda kufufuza chilichonse ndikuwona njira zonse, ”akutero.

Chimodzi mwazisankho zake pomangidwanso chimadalira momwe angakhalire wosakwatiwa. "Poyamba, sindinafunikire kufotokoza mbiri yanga ya khansa ya m'mawere mpaka masiku anga," akutero. "Koma kusiyana pakati pa zenizeni ndi zopanga kumaonekera pamene munthu ali maliseche."

"Tsiku lina ndingasankhe kupita opanda ma implants," akuwonjezera. "Zomwe samakuwuzani ndikuti amadzala sanapangidwe kuti azikhala kwamuyaya. Wina akapatsidwa ma impliki adakali aang'ono, ndiye kuti amafunika kuyambiranso. ”

'Ndinkangoganizira kwambiri za mapeto'

Anna Crollman

Mastectomies osakwatiwa + amadzala pambuyo pake

Odziwika pa 27, Anna Crollman, wolemba blog My Cancer Chic, adawona kumanganso ngati gawo lomaliza muulendo wake wa khansa ya m'mawere.

"Ndidayang'ana kwambiri cholinga chondiyandikiranso kotero kuti ndidanyalanyaza zomwe zidachitika chifukwa chakusintha kwa thupi langa," akutero.

“Chowonadi nchakuti, kumanganso mawere sikudzawoneka ngati mabere achilengedwe. Pakhala maopareshoni a zaka ziwiri ndi kupitirira zisanu, ndipo pomwe thupi langa silidzawoneka ngati momwe zidalili kale, ndimanyadira nazo. Chipsera, chotupa chilichonse, ndi kupanda ungwiro zimaimira momwe ndafikira. ”

Risa Kerslake, BSN, ndi namwino wovomerezeka komanso wolemba payekha wokhala ku Midwest ndi amuna awo ndi mwana wawo wamkazi. Amalemba kwambiri pazokhudza chonde, zaumoyo, ndi kulera. Mutha kulumikizana naye kudzera patsamba lake Risa Kerslake Writes, kapena patsamba lake la Facebook ndi Twitter.