Ndili ndi Ana 5, koma Palibe Wopambana. Nayi Chinsinsi Changa

Kubwerera pomwe ndinali ndi mwana m'modzi yekha, ndimaganiza kuti amayi ambiri amadziwa zanzeru zamatsenga zomwe sindinadziwe.

Kodi mudayang'anapo mayi wokhala ndi gulu la ana ndikuganiza, "Haa, sindikudziwa momwe amachitira? Ndikumira ndi m'modzi basi! ”

Chabwino, ndikuuzeni chinsinsi chaching'ono chokhudza mayi uja: Amawoneka kuti akuchita bwino kuposa inu - {textend} koma sizifukwa zomwe mukuganiza.

Zachidziwikire, mwina akunja amawoneka wodekha kuposa inu, chifukwa ali ndi zaka zingapo akudziwa kuti ngati mwana wakhanda aponya mkwiyo pakati pa sitolo ndipo muyenera kusiya ngolo yodzaza ndi zakudya pomwe aliyense akuyang'ana inu (munakhalapo), sizabwino kwenikweni monga zikuwonekera munthawiyo.

Koma mkati mwake, akadadabwitsika.

Ndipo zowonadi, mwina ana ake amakhaladi amakhalidwe ndipo samachita ngati anyani akutchire akuyenda mumipata, helo akufuna kuwononga zinthu zambiri zosweka momwe zingathere. Koma mwina ndichifukwa choti wamkulu kwambiri wagwira wam'ng'ono kwambiri ndipo amayi awaphunzitsa kwazaka zambiri kuti akapambana ulendowu, amalandila cookie.

Zomwe ndikunena ndikuti, ngati mumayang'anitsitsa - {textend} ngati mulidi, kwenikweni tawonani, mayi wokhala ndi ana atatu, anayi, asanu kapena kupitilira apo, muwona kuti pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa inu ndi iye, ndipo chinsinsi chachikulu cha momwe akuchitira "bwino" kuposa inu ndi ichi:

Adavomereza kale kuti palibe mayi amene adakhaladi nazo zonse. Ndipo sizoyipa kwenikweni.

Mutha kuganiza kuti "cholinga" chokhala kholo ndi kukhala mayi yemwe amakhala nacho limodzi - {textend} mayi amene wapeza momwe angadziwire bwino njira yake yosamalira khungu ndi kagwiritsidwe kake ka masewera olimbitsa thupi, wokhoza kuchepetsa kumwa kwake kwa caffeine kukhala khofi woweruza kamodzi patsiku (hahahaha), kugwira ntchito, ana odwala, masiku achisanu, thanzi lake lam'mutu, maubwenzi ake, komanso ubale wake mosavuta - {textend} koma sindigula.

M'malo mwake, ndikuganiza kuti cholinga chokhala kholo ndikutseguka pakulephera, mobwerezabwereza, komabe ndikulimbana kuti ndikhale wabwino.

Ngati ndimaganiza kuti ndimachita zonse molondola, sindingayese kuphunzira njira zothandizira ana anga aakazi ndi mavuto omwe akulimbana nawo; Sindingachite zonse zomwe ndingathe kuti ndidziwe bwino zaumoyo ndikutsatira; Sindingasamalire kuchitapo kanthu poyesa njira yatsopano yolerera kapena njira yomwe ingathandize banja lathu lonse kuyenda bwino.

Mfundo yanga ndikuti, sindikuganiza kuti makolo "abwino" amabadwa chifukwa chokhala ndi zaka zambiri kapena gulu la ana. Ndikuganiza kuti makolo "abwino" amabadwa mukasankha kukhala ophunzira moyo wanu wonse kudzera muchinthu chotchedwa kulera.

Ndili ndi ana asanu. Mng'ono wanga anabadwa miyezi 4 yapitayo. Ndipo ngati pali chinthu chimodzi chomwe ndaphunzira chokhudza kulera, ndikuti ndizophunzira mosalekeza. Nthawi yomwe mukuganiza kuti mwayamba kale, kapena pomwe mwapeza yankho logwira mtima, kapena mutangothetsa vuto la mwana m'modzi, wina amatuluka. Kubwerera pomwe ndinali mayi watsopano wa mwana m'modzi kapena awiri, zimandivuta.

Ndinkafuna kudutsa gawo pomwe ndimamva kuti zonse ndizovuta; Ndinkafuna kukhala wozizira, wosonkhanitsa amayi ndikudutsa m'sitolo ndi ana anga akhalidwe labwino. Ndinkafuna kukhala pamwamba pantchito zapakhomo ndikudutsa nthawi yamadzulo osafuna kuthawira ku Bahamas kwa chaka chimodzi.

Koma tsopano?

Ndikudziwa kuti sindidzafikako. Ndikudziwa kuti padzakhala nthawi zomwe ndimamva ngati tikuyenda bwino komanso nthawi zina zomwe ndimalira ndikufunsa ngati ndingathe kuchita izi ndipo nthawi zina, ndimafuna kufuula masikono omwe amachokera kwa munthu yemwe ndinakulira naye thupi langa lomwe, lomwe limandikondana kwambiri silinaphunzire kukwawa chifukwa sindinathe kumukhazika pansi mokwanira.

Ndangokhala ndi ana okwanira komanso zokumana nazo zokwanira kudziwa kuti palibe mayi yemwe akuchita "bwino" kuposa amayi ena.

Tonse tikuchita zonse zomwe tingathe, kupunthwa kudzera, kuphunzira mosasintha ndikusintha, ziribe kanthu kuti takhala tikuchita izi motani kapena ana angati omwe tili nawo. Ena a ife tangopereka kumene kuchapa zovala amayi ena asanaponye thaulo.

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Chaunie Brusie ndi namwino wogwira ntchito ndi yobereka yemwe adasandutsa wolemba komanso mayi watsopano wa ana asanu. Amalemba za chilichonse kuyambira zachuma mpaka thanzi mpaka momwe mungapulumukire m'masiku oyambilira aubereki pomwe zonse zomwe mungachite ndikuganiza za kugona komwe simukupeza. Tsatirani iye apa.