Katrina Scott Amapatsa Othandizira Ake Kuyang'ana Kakang'ono Pomwe Kusabereka Kwachiwiri Kumawonekeradi

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Woyambitsa nawo wa Tone It Up Katrina Scott sanazengereze kukhala pachiwopsezo ndi mafani ake. Adaulula zakufunika koika patsogolo thanzi lam'mutu ndipo sanena chilichonse chokhudza mayi watsopano. Tsopano, akugawana china chake ngakhale payekha: kulimbana kwake ndi kusabereka kwachiwiri.

Scott posachedwa adatumiza ku Instagram kuti agawane nawo nkhani yomvetsa chisoni chifukwa chake amakhala chete pazanema mpaka posachedwa. "Uku ndikuwona pang'ono za momwe dziko lathu lakhala likuwonekera posachedwapa," adagawana nawo limodzi ndi cholembera chosonyeza momwe zakhala zovuta kuti ayesenso kutenga pakati.

Chojambulacho ndikuphatikiza makanema pomwe Scott akuyang'anira zomwe zimawoneka ngati jakisoni wa mahomoni a IVF m'mimba mwake, kaya iye kapena mothandizidwa ndi abale ndi abwenzi. Nthawi ina, ngakhale mwana wawo wamkazi wazaka ziwiri Isabel amamuwona akumutonthoza ndikumpsompsona m'mimba momwe adalandira jakisoni. "Ulendo uwu wakhala chilichonse kuyambira chokhumudwitsa mpaka chosokoneza, komanso chakuda," Scott adalemba pambali pa reel. "Koma zandiwonetsa kukongola kwa chiyembekezo, umunthu, ndi machiritso. Ndithudi sindikanakhala ndi kulimbika mtima kupitirizabe popanda inu nonse, banja langa, abwenzi, ndi madokotala ndi anamwino odabwitsa." (Zogwirizana: Ayi, Katemera wa COVID Somwe Amayambitsa Kusabereka)

Kusabereka kwachiwiri, kapena kulephera kutenga pakati mutangobereka mwana wanu woyamba, sikunenedwa za kusabereka kwenikweni - koma zimakhudza azimayi pafupifupi mamiliyoni atatu ku US (Dziwani: Pomwe Scott sanatchulidwepo kuti amatenga pakati Nthawi yoyamba inali kamphepo kayaziyazi, sanalembe ulendo wamtundu uliwonse wobereka.)

"Kusabereka kwachiwiri kumatha kukhala kokhumudwitsa komanso kusokoneza banja lomwe lidatenga mimba mwachangu m'mbuyomu," Jessica Rubin, yemwe amakhala ku New York adauza kale. Maonekedwe. "Nthawi zonse ndimakumbutsa odwala anga kuti zimatha kutenga banja labwinobwino, lathanzi chaka chathunthu kuti atenge pakati, kuti asagwiritse ntchito nthawi yomwe amayesa kutenga pakati kale ngati chikhomo, makamaka pamene panali miyezi itatu kapena kucheperapo." (Zomwe Ob-Gyns Amalakalaka Akazi Adziwa Zokhudza Kubereka Kwawo)

Mu positi ya Marichi 2021 pa blog yake, Khalani Mokongola, Scott adanenanso kuti adapita padera kawiri mu 2020. Pambuyo pake, "tidaganiza kuti tisachite IVF mwachilungamokomabe"Tidatsala pang'ono kupita njira imeneyi mu Januwale, koma dokotala adatilangiza kuti tiyesenso." Kenaka, adakumana ndi mimba ya mankhwala, nthawi yachipatala ya kupititsa padera koyambirira, komwe kumachitika mukakhala ndi pakati. Zikuoneka kuti kuyambira nthawi imeneyo, aganiza zoyesa IVF. "Chimodzi mwazinthu zovuta kwambiri zomwe ndidayenera kuchita ndikupita ku chipatala cha obereketsa titaluza ndikunena kuti ndikufunika chithandizo, " iye analemba mu Instagram post. "Koma nditangoyang'ana mozungulira chipinda chodikirira, ndinazindikira kuti sitili tokha. Zitha kukhala zopatukana kwambiri tikasunga zinthu mkati ... koma kwenikweni, tonse tili mgulu limodzi. "

"Sindikudziwa tsogolo la banja lathu, koma tsiku lililonse ndimakhala ndi chiyembekezo, chikhulupiriro, ndi chikondi," adapitiliza. (Zogwirizana: Momwe Ndinaphunzirira Kukhulupirira Thupi Langa Nditapita Padera)

Podziwa momwe ntchitoyi yakhala yovuta, Scott adagwiritsa ntchito nsanja yake kupereka mawu othandizira ena ankhondo osabereka, kuwadziwitsa kuti sali okha. "Kwa aliyense amene akukumana ndi kutayika, zowawa, zovuta za kubereka ... kapena kukayikakayika pakutha kuthana ndi zopinga, ndikufuna kuti mudziwe kuti nthawi zonse mumakhala ndi kuwala komwe kumakuwalirani," adatero. "Sungani mutu wanu, mtima wanu patsogolo, ndipo musaiwale kuti ndinu woyenera nkhani yokongola. Ndi bwino kupempha thandizo ndikunena kuti mukusowa chithandizo."

Pomwe akusunga izi osamveka bwino, Scott adasiya mafani ake ndi zochepa zazomwe zili paulendo wake. "Kubweza dzira langa lero, ndiye ndikhala ndikupumula ndikuchira," adalemba. ICYDK, panthawi ya IVF, mazira amachotsedwa m'mimba mwanu, amatumizidwa ndi umuna mu labu, kenako mazirawo amatumizidwa m'chiberekero chanu, malinga ndi Mayo Clinic. "Ndikungofuna kuti nonse mudziwe kuti ndikuthokoza kwambiri chifukwa cha mapemphero anu ndi thandizo lanu," adatero. "Ine ndi Brian tikumva ndipo zimatipatsa mphamvu zambiri kuposa zomwe tinganene m'mawu."

Poyankha kusatetezeka kwake, mamembala angapo ampikisano wathanzi adagawana chikondi chawo.

Anna Victoria, yemwe adalimbana ndi chonde, adapatsa Scott thandizo m'gawo la ndemanga. "Ndimakunyadirani kwambiri chifukwa chogawana izi," wophunzitsa adalemba. "Tikukhulupirira kuti kubwezera kwanu dzira kwayenda bwino ndipo kusungunula pambuyo pake sikuli koyipa kapena kopweteka. Zonse zidzakhala zofunikira !!!" (Yokhudzana: Ulendo wa Anna Victoria's Postpartum Wamuuzira Kuti Ayambitse Mapulogalamu Atsopano Pa App Fitness App)

Wophunzitsa mnzake, Hannah Bronfman nayenso adagawana nawo mawu okoma mtima akulemba: "Kugawana nkhani yanu yaumwini kudzathandiza amayi ambiri. Kunyadira ulendo wanu ndipo ndikusungirani malo inu ndi ankhondo onse a IVF kunja uko!"

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