"Makondomu Ovomerezeka" Awa Amatenga Anthu Awiri Kuti Atsegule Phukusilo

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Kuvomera sikungakhale nkhani yogonana kwambiri, koma pakakhala zokambirana zotseguka ayi kulimbikitsidwa, kukhazikitsa pakati panu ndi mnzanu kumatha kugwa mosavutikira - makamaka zinthu zikayamba kutentha. Ichi ndichifukwa chake kampani yazoseweretsa zachiwerewere ku Argentina Tulipán yapanga "makondomu ovomerezeka," omwe amafuna kuti anthu awiri atsegule phukusi. (Zokhudzana: "Kubera" Ndiko Kuukira Kwakugonana Kwenikweni Ndipo Ndi Nthawi Yoti Lamulo Lizindikire Chonchi)

Zosokoneza? Musakhale-ndizo lingaliro losavuta mukadzawona.

Umu ndi momwe zimagwirira ntchito: Kondomu imayikidwa mkati mwa bokosi laling'ono, lalikulu, ndipo muyenera kukanikiza ngodya zonse zinayi za choyikapo (pali mabatani mbali iliyonse omwe amawonetsa komwe muyenera kukanikiza) nthawi imodzi kuti mutsegule.

"Phukusili ndi losavuta kutsegula monganso kumvetsetsa kuti ngati silikunena kuti inde, ayi," amawerenga mawu omasulira omwe amatsatira kutsatsa kwamavidiyo. "Kuvomereza ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri pakugonana." (Zogwirizana: Njira 3 Zodzitetezera ku Chiwawa)

Tulipán atha kupanga zoseweretsa zogonana, koma kampaniyo imakhulupirira kuti chisangalalo ndi kuvomereza zimayenderana. A ad agency yomwe idapanga mapangidwewo, adatero m'mawu ake Adweek. (Zokhudzana: Momwe Mungapezere Chisangalalo Chochuluka Pokhala ndi Makhalidwe Ogonana)

"Kondomu ya chilolezo" sinagulitsidwe pano ku Argentina; pakadali pano, Tulipán akufalitsa uthengawu pama social media ndikupereka zitsanzo zaulere m'mabala ku Buenos Aires, malinga ndi Nyuzipepala ya New York.

Ngati lingaliro la "kondomu yovomerezeka" likumveka ngati lovuta, ndiye mfundo yake. Kulankhula za chilolezo ndi kukhala wovuta nthawi zina, makamaka ngati simukufuna kuvulaza kapena kukana wokondedwa wanu, akutero Sherrie Campbell, Ph.D., mlangizi wovomerezeka, katswiri wa zamaganizo, ndi waukwati ndi mabanja.

Kuvomereza nthawi zambiri "kutayika" chifukwa choopa kukanidwa, akufotokoza. "Tikhoza kusangalatsa m'malo molimbana ndi zomwe tikufunikiradi kuti tisapweteketse wina; pakadali pano, tikudzivulaza," akutiuza. Maonekedwe.

Pafupifupi m'modzi mwa akazi asanu ndipo m'modzi mwa amuna 71 adzagwiriridwa nthawi ina m'miyoyo yawo, malinga ndi National Sexual Violence Resource Center. Kuphatikiza apo, pafupifupi theka la azimayi amachitiridwa chipongwe ndi anzawo apamtima. "Kondomu yovomerezeka" sisintha ziwerengerozi, koma izo amachita kuyimira sitepe mu njira yoyenera. Tikulankhula zambiri zavomerezana masiku ano kuposa kale, kuphatikiza momwe zokambirana ndi omwe amagonana ndi amuna zimawonekera. Zonse zikanenedwa, njira yotseguka yolumikizirana ndiyo njira yabwino yopitilira zilizonse nkhani yovuta. (Zokhudzana: Kugonana Kumakhudza Maganizo Ndi Thupi Lathunthu, Malinga ndi Kafukufuku Watsopano)

"Kulankhula zakugonana kumafunikira kukhala odekha, okoma mtima, komanso omvetsetsa, ndikukhulupirira kuti ngati mnzathu atikonda kwambiri, adzalemekeza zosowa zathu," akutero Dr. Campbell. "Palibe amene ayenera kufuna kugonana ndi munthu wina podziwa kuti sakusangalala kapena sali wokonzeka."

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