Chifukwa Chomwe Kutsutsana Kokukondwerera Kupambana kwa Timu Ya Women Women Soccer Ndi Total BS

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Sindine wokonda mpira kwambiri. Ndimalemekeza kwambiri maphunziro amisala omwe masewerawa amafunikira, koma kuwonera masewerawa sikundichitira kwenikweni. Komabe, nditamva za mkangano wokhudzana ndi zikondwerero za timu ya US Women's National Soccer pamasewera awo oyamba a FIFA Women's World Cup motsutsana ndi Thailand, chidwi changa chidakula.

ICYMI, gululi lidapanga mafunde ndikupambana kwake kwa 13-0. Anali gulu loyamba (amuna kapena akazi) kugoletsa zigoli 13 pamasewera a World Cup, kupanga mbiri yabwino kwambiri, malinga ndi Nyuzipepala ya New York Times. Koma sizinali zokha zomwe zidasokoneza nthenga - ndimomwe adapambaniranso. Osewerawo anali osangalala ndi cholinga chilichonse, kukondwerera limodzi mpirawo ukagunda ukonde zomwe zimapangitsa otsutsa ambiri (ahem, odana nawo) kunyozetsa machitidwe awo, kumawatcha kuti samasewera.

"Kwa ine, ndizopanda ulemu," adatero Kaylyn Kyle wosewera mpira wakale waku Canada komanso wothirira ndemanga pa World Cup ya TSN atatha masewerawo. A Kyle ananenanso kuti pomwe World Cup ndi malo ochitira masewerawa osagwirizana, timu yaku America iyenera kuti idasiya zikondwerero zawo zikafika ku 8-0. (Zokhudzana: Alex Morgan Amakonda Kusewera Ngati Mtsikana)

Mosafunikira kunena, izi zikugwedeza magiya anga.

Choyamba, monga wosewera wakale, Kyle wa anthu onse amadziwa za kulimbikira komanso kudzipereka kofunikira kwa wothamanga wothamanga kuti athe kufikira mpikisano wapamwamba. Izi zokha ndizofunika kulemekezedwa komanso kuyamikiridwa ngakhale simungadutse kuzungulira koyamba. Chachiwiri, ambiri a gulu la Akazi aku US ali ndi mlandu wouza anthu milandu motsutsana ndi US Soccer Federation chifukwa chakusankhana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi.

Cholinga chilichonse chinali mawu ena ofunikira komanso ofunika ku bungwe lomwe lanyoza kuthekera kwawo, ngakhale ali pamiyeso yayikulu komanso mendulo za Olimpiki. Ndipo mwina, chomwe chikuwonjezera chipongwe pakuvulala, timu yadziko la azimayi yakhala mitu ndi mapewa kuposa anzawo achimuna. Malinga ndi a Vox, mamembala azimayi amatha kupanga pafupifupi 40% ya zomwe osewera amapeza - nthawi zambiri amakoka $ 3,600 pamasewera poyerekeza ndi amuna omwe amalandira $ 5,000. Mu 2015, malipoti a Vox, gulu la azimayi aku U.S. lidapatsidwa $ 1.7 miliyoni yopambana World Cup ya amayi - timu ya azimuna yaku US idalandira bonasi ya $ 5.4 miliyoni - atataya gawo la 16 la World Cup ya 2014.

Koma, zomwe zimandikwiyitsa kwambiri: Kodi uthenga wotani wotsutsa zikondwererozi ndi malipiro a US Soccer Federation amatumiza m'badwo wotsatira wa azimayi othamanga? Kapena kwenikweni, atsikana amakonda chilichonse, kaya ndi kujambula, fizikiya, kapena bizinesi?

"Ndizosangalatsa kukhala katswiri wothamanga ndikumva kukwaniritsidwa, koma nthawi yomweyo, mukufuna kusiya cholowa chotani?" adatero Alex Morgan, m'modzi mwa akatswiri a timu ya mpira wa miyendo ya azimayi ku U.S., kuti Nyuzipepala ya New York Times. Morgan adagoletsa zigoli zisanu mwa 13 motsutsana ndi Thailand. "Ndidali ndi maloto oti ndikhale wosewera mpira, ndipo sindimadziwa kuti zimatengera kukhala chitsanzo, kukhala wolimbikitsa, kuyimirira pazinthu zomwe ndimakhulupirira, kuyimilira kufanana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi."

M'masewero, m'chipinda cha board, kapena mkalasi, atsikana - ndi ochepa - awuzidwa kuti adzichepetse kuti alole ena (omwe ndi azungu anyamata ndi amuna) amve kukhala oyenera komanso akulu. Kupatsa ena malo oti azitukuka komanso kukula, kwinaku akupunthwitsa awo pakuchita izi. Mlanduwo komanso kusakhudzidwa kosakondera kwa gululi kumatumiza uthenga womwe ungasokoneze momwe atsikana, azimayi, komanso ocheperako amayamba - ndipo nthawi zambiri, amasewera masewerawa onse- mosasamala. Ngati tiyesa kuonetsa kusalinganika kulikonse kumeneku, timawongoleredwa mwamanyazi, kudzudzula, kapenanso chiwawa m’zochitika zoipa kwambiri. Ngakhale Kyle akuti adalandira ziwopsezo zakupha atapereka ndemanga pazakhalidwe la gulu la U.S. (Zokhudzana: Otsogolera Akuthandizira Kusankha kwa Nike Kupanga Mannequins Owonjezera Atabwerera M'mbuyo)

Monga "Zaka" zakale, maphunziro azikhalidwe za amuna ndi akazi amalimbikitsidwa kusukulu. Ndinaphunzira kuti kukhala dona kumafunikira kukhala chete, kudzichepetsa, ndi kusasamala: kudumphani miyendo yanu, osafuula, ndi kuchepetsa luso lanu. Pakadali pano, nthawi zambiri, atsikana omwe amatsatira malamulowo ndikukweza manja awo podikirira kuti afotokoze mayankho awo adaphimbidwa ndi anyamata osokonekera omwe adasokoneza ndikusokoneza kalasi.

Mwamwayi, kunyumba, makolo anga adayamika maluso omwe ine ndi mlongo wanga tili nawo (zaluso za iye, kusambira kwa ine) ndikulimbikitsa kukula m'malo omwe anali ovuta kwambiri. Nthawi zonse timauzidwa kuti si bwino kukhala waluso kwambiri pa chinthu chimodzi osati kuchita bwino pa china. Kuti sitimangofotokozedwa ndi mphamvu zathu koma nthawi zambiri, zofooka zathu-ndi momwe timachitira ndi kulephera. Tinaleredwa kulota zazikulu ndipo makolo anga anawerama kumbuyo kuti akwaniritse maloto akuluwo. (Zikomo pondichotsera moto kuti ndithandizire kusambira, makamaka nthawi yachisanu, anyamata).

Uwu si mwayi womwe atsikana onse ali nawo. Kunja kwa sukulu komanso mabanja apafupi, gulu lonse limakhala kholo losavomerezeka lomwe limakhala lovuta kuthana nalo, koma limapezeka paliponse. Timaphunzitsidwa ndi zikhalidwe zathu, makamaka ndi atolankhani, makamaka masiku ano. Ambiri akukonzekera mpikisano wamasewera omwe amakonda amangomva kuti simuyenera kukondwerera zolinga zanu mutagunda nambala inayake. Kutanthauzira: Tsegulani zilakolako zanu ndi luso lanu kuti mutsatire mulingo wa makolo a zomwe mkazi ayenera kuloledwa kuchita. Chenjezo la Spoiler: Akazi ndi aluso kwambiri ndipo ndi nthawi yoti tisiye kupepesa. Chilichonse chomwe mungachite, nditha kuchita ndikutuluka magazi.

Malinga ndi Bleacher Report, a Jill Ellis, mphunzitsi wa azimayi aku America, adatinso mwachidule, "Ngati iyi inali 10-0 mu World Cup ya amuna, kodi tikupezabe mafunso omwewo?"

Kuwona mkazi akuchita bwino ndikusangalala pantchito yomwe wagwirayo ndi yovuta kwa ambiri. Ndizosokonekera komanso zosavomerezeka - sizikugwirizana ndi bokosi lokonzedweratu. Zimamveka ngati chikhalidwe chachimuna. Tithokoze kwa achikazi komanso otchinga njira omwe atseke njira, timamva kuti titha kukhala chilichonse chomwe tikufuna, koma gulu limabwerera m'mbuyo, likutiuza kuti zolinga zathu ziyenera kusungidwa bwino. Mutha kuthyola denga lagalasi, koma simuliphwanya. Inde, pali zosiyana ndi lamuloli, ndipo zikomo chifukwa cha iwo. Kuphatikiza pa Morgan ndi osewera nawo, Cardi B, Serena Williams, Simone Biles, ndi Amy Schumer pakati pa ena atsimikizira kuti ndikungoyenda mokwanira ndikuyendetsa, mutha kukwaniritsa maloto anu - ndikuthamanga pamiyendo yopambana mukamachita.

Koma ngakhale pali zitsanzo zolimbikitsazi, pali zinthu zambiri zomwe zikukoka azimayi ena.

Pakhala pali zodabwitsa zambiri zokhudzana ndi azimayi komanso gawo lawo pamasewera posachedwa. Olimpiki komanso oyandikana ndi badass Alysia Montaño adalemba nkhani yolembedwa ndi New York Times, akuwonetsa momwe nsapato zina zimagwirira (kapena kwenikweni, osasamalira) tchuthi cha amayi kwa othamanga awo achikazi, zomwe zimawapangitsa kuti azipikisana nthawi zonse oyembekezera ndi kubwerera ku maphunziro msanga kuposa momwe madokotala amalangizira.

Kuphatikiza apo, bungwe la International Association of Athletics Federation (IAAF lodziwika kuti top track and field organization) lidayesa kuletsa kuthamangitsidwa, Caster Semenya kuti asapikisane pokhapokha atamwa mahomoni kuti achepetse mayendedwe ake achilengedwe a testosterone. Ndani adakhazikitsa muyeso wama testosterone oyenera amtundu wa azimayi othamanga? Kodi sizingatchulidwe mwayi kapena "mphatso" kwa othamanga achimuna? (Zokhudzana: Aly Raisman Akugawana Kalatayo Sanaloledwe Kuwerenga pa Mayesero a Larry Nassar)

Izi zimabwerera ku zikondwerero za gulu la azimayi aku America aku America - ndipo pamapeto pake, ndemanga za Kyle. Iye alibe mlandu kwathunthu, inde–Kyle ali ndi ufulu wolandira malingaliro ake. Ngati zili choncho, timafunikira zokambirana zambiri pamitu iyi kuti tiwone zenizeni zomwe zilipo ndikusintha.

Funso langa ndi ili: Kyle adaphunzira kuti kuti "mayendedwe abwino" akuyenera kugwera mumtsuko winawake? Iye, monga akazi ena ambiri, watenga mauthenga omwewo omwe adasefukira psyche yathu yodziwitsa akazi kuyambira ali mwana. Ngati mungaphunzitsidwe kuti mukhulupirire kuti kupambana kwathu kungathe kufikira pano - ndipo zikondwerero zanu zitha kuwonetsedwa mwanjira imodzi - pamapeto pake mudzachepetsa maluso anu, zoyembekeza zanu, ndikusokoneza malingaliro anu a omwe amatsutsa. IMO, ndemanga zake zili ndi mpweya wophunzitsidwa kuti pali njira yolumikizira nkhunda yodzinyadira.

Zomwe zimayambitsa masewera abwino ndizofunikira. Mumaphunzira kupambana ndi kutaya mwachisomo ndikuwombera mdani wanu mosasamala zotsatira zamasewera. Morgan adachitadi zomwezo. Pambuyo pochita bwino kwambiri, adatonthoza wosewera waku Thailand pomaliza masewerawo. Mamembala ena a timu yadziko la US adayamika osewera aku Thailand.

Ndi nthawi yosangalatsa kukhala mkazi. Potsirizira pake tikupeza chisamaliro choyenera chifukwa cha zopereka zathu zazikulu kwa anthu, ndi zoyesayesa zosaoneka zomwe timachita popanda kuyamikira kapena kuyamikira. Kaya gulu la Soccer Women la US likufuna kukhala zitsanzo, akuchita ntchito yabwino kwambiri IMHO. Pitirizani amayi, ndikhala ndikukusangalatsani!

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