Kodi Mlangizi wa Ukwati Anganene Chiyani?

Zamkati

• Demi Moore ndi Ashton Kutcher
• Kim Kardashian ndi Kris Humphries
• Sandra Bullock ndi Jesse James
• Scarlett Johansson ndi Ryan Reynolds
• J-Lo ndi Marc Anthony
• Charlie Sheen ndi Brooke Mueller
• Arnold Schwarzenegger ndi Maria Shriver
• Ashlee Simpson ndi Pete Wentz
• Courteney Cox ndi David Arquette
• Eva Longoria ndi Tony Parker
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Nthawi zina mawu oti "ubale wodziwika" okha amakhala ngati oxymoron. Ukwati ndi wovuta monga momwe uliri, koma kuponyera mu zovuta za Hollywood ndipo, nthawi zambiri; ndi njira yatsoka yomwe imatsutsana ndi kanema aliyense. Ngakhale kukongola ndi kukongola kwa chithunzi cha wolemba mndandanda, "Chofunika kwambiri ndikuyembekezera kuti munthu akhale wangwiro," akutero Dr. Fran Walfish, katswiri wazamaubongo wa Beverly Hills. "Tonse ndife anthu olakwitsa ndipo ndikofunikira kuvomereza izi ndikuwimba mlandu pazolakwitsa zathu."

Apa, tikugawana maubwenzi khumi otchuka omwe sanasangalale komanso zomwe mwina akanachita kuti awapulumutse.

Demi Moore ndi Ashton Kutcher

Ndi kusiyana kwa zaka 15, zopinga zidasokonekera motsutsana ndi mphamvu ziwirizi kuyambira pachiyambi. Koma adakwanitsa zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi, mphekesera zachinyengo za Kutcher zisanakhazikike pa banja lokondana la Kabbalah (Moore adalengeza kuti akufuna kusudzulana pa Novembara 17).

"Zomwe zimatchedwa" cougars "kapena ubale wachikulire ndi mkazi wachinyamata zakhala zikukulirakulira, koma tiyeni tipeze zenizeni, sizokayikitsa kuti zidzakhala kwakanthawi," akutero Kriger. Amakhulupirira kuti, kwa Kutcher, zinali zosangalatsa kwakanthawi koma chisangalalocho chitapita, analibe kufanana kokwanira kuti azikhala mosangalala mu Ukwati Woyera.

Osanenapo, zolakwa zawo zonse zinatsatiridwa ndi kuuzidwa kwa aliyense amene angamvetsere. "Ngati okwatirana onse omwe adakhalapo ndi vuto pamsewu adayikidwa pachikuto cha magazini iliyonse padziko lapansi, tonse" tidzakhumudwa, "akutero a Miller. akhale zisonyezo zakuti akulekana omwe mwina sananyalanyaze. Donaghue akuvomereza kuti: "Ndingawauze awiriwa kuti akumbukire zomwe zidawapangitsa kuti ayambe kukondana poyamba."

Kim Kardashian ndi Kris Humphries

Ndi ping-pong ya iye anati/iye-imene ikuchitika m'ma TV ndi kutsutsa kuti zonsezi zinali zabodza, n'zovuta kumvetsa zomwe zinalakwika muukwati wa "made-for-tv" umene unalowa m'mimba. kupitirira miyezi iwiri. "China chake kwenikweni Zoyipa ziyenera kuti zidathetsa ukwatiwu mwachangu kwambiri, "atero Tina Tessina, dokotala wovomerezeka wamankhwala ku Southern California.

Kapena kodi ndi omwe angakhale makamera? "Reality TV imapanga TV yabwino, osati maubale," akutero Allison Pescosolido, woyambitsa mnzake wa Divorce Detox. Katswiri wa ubale Lindsay Kriger akuvomereza kuti Kardashian akusewera moyo wake kuti onse awone mwina ndiye wagwetsa ukwati wake. "Kim ndi Kris anali otanganidwa kwambiri kuulutsa ubale wawo pa TV zenizeni, sanatenge nthawi kuti atsimikizire kuti zikuyendadi," akutero Kriger. "Ngakhale kuti Kim adamupangira ndalama ngati poni yowonetsera pa TV, zikuwoneka kuti palibe amene adamuuza kuti pankhani ya chikondi, mgwirizano wa nthano sungathe kulamulidwa pa Gilt."

Chris Donaghue, mndandanda watsopano wa LOGO Kugonana Koyipa, ali ndi upangiri kwa Kukumana ndi a Kardashian nyenyezi. “Lekani kuthamangitsa zinthu zonyezimira ndi kuika nthawi ndi khama kuti banja liziyenda bwino,” akutero. "Ukwati suli ngati mafashoni-mu nyengo imodzi ndikutuluka ina!" Kardashian akuyenera kugwiritsa ntchito maluso omwewo omwe amamupangitsa kuchita bwino kwambiri pabizinesi pamaubwenzi ake amtsogolo, Kriger akutero. "Popanda kufunitsitsa kwa onse awiri kukambirana ndi kupereka ndi kutenga, ukwati umakhala wopanda chiyembekezo."

Sandra Bullock ndi Jesse James

Nkhaniyi ikamachitika mwachisoni m'manyuzipepala m'dziko lonselo, Sandra Bullock adapambana voti yachifundo ndikuvomereza wachigololo Jesse James adakhala munthu woyipa. Zodabwitsa ndizakuti, Mbali Yakhungu Ammayi anakhala wamaso iyemwini, ali mumdima wokhudzana ndi njira zabodza za mwamuna wake. Koma ena amaganiza kuti kusokonekera kwa ntchito zawo kumapangitsa kuti ubale wawo uthe. "Ponseponse, ndikuganiza kuti awiriwa anali ogwirizana, koma ndikukayikira kuti ntchito yake yopambana komanso ulemu wake monga kupambana kwake kwa Oscar pamapeto pake zidamupweteketsa umuna," akutero Tessina.

Ngakhale kuti palibe akatswiri athu amene akutsutsa James udindo wake woyambitsa chipwirikiti m'banja, Donaghue akuganiza kuti mwina ndi ntchito ya Bullock yomwe inakankhira James kutali-ndi m'manja mwa akazi ena. "Ndingakonde kudziwa momwe Sandra amakhalira ndi mwamuna wake pamene nthawi zonse amakhala kutali ndi mafilimu." Akuwonjezera kuti, "Wina ayenera kuwadziwitsa kuti maubale samayendetsa wokha, ngakhale mutakhala otanganidwa bwanji." Ngakhale akatswiri athu onse amavomereza, chithandizo ndi choyenera kwa James, Brooke Miller, wa Soapboxtherapy.com akuyembekeza kuti Sandra aphunziranso kukonda ndi kudalira. "Pamapeto pake, adzatha kutsegula mtima wake kwa mwamuna yemwe akufuna zomwe akufuna."

Scarlett Johansson ndi Ryan Reynolds

Osewera awiri otentha aku Hollywood poyambirira pantchito yawo-akumveka ngati machesi abwino, sichoncho? Osati mwachangu-awiriwa anali akupita ku splitsville kuyambira pomwe akatswiri athu amati. "Sizosadabwitsa kuti Sexiest Man Alive komanso Sexiest Woman of the Year adalumikizana, koma sizodabwitsa kuti adasudzulana patadutsa zaka ziwiri zokha," Kriger akutero. "Zikuwoneka kuti ndizofala ku Hollywood."

Ngakhale kusudzulana kumeneku kunali kwamtendere, sikunachitike popanda chifukwa pagulu. A Johansson ati Ryan anali "kutali kwambiri" pomwe Reynolds adati Johansson anali "wodziyimira pawokha komanso wokonda kwambiri zinthu." "Takulandirani ku zomwe timatcha moyo," akutero a Donaghue. "Pokhapokha ngati mukukonzekera kusiya ntchito yanu, nonse muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungalekerere mtunda, kuwongolera momwe mukumvera ndikumvetsetsa zopereka."

J-Lo ndi Marc Anthony

Maukwati angapo olephera pansi pa lamba wawo aliyense ndipo ataphunzira, mabwenzi anthaŵi yaitali ameneŵa anatembenuza okonda Chilatini anawoneka kukhala olinganizidwa kukhala ndi moyo wautali ndi wachimwemwe limodzi.” Jennifer Lopez amawona maubwenzi ngati khomo lozungulira ndipo zikuwoneka kuti nthawi zonse amathamangitsa zomwe mumapeza poyambira, "akutero Donaghue.

Koma, malinga ndi a Miller, Anthony akuwoneka kuti ndiye wadzudzula kwambiri. "[Anthony] anali wosweka ndi [Lopez] kwa zaka zambiri ndipo adawona pamene adapeza chikondi m'malo olakwika. zonse zidagwa. "

Tessina akuganiza kuti iyi inali nkhani yakukangana kwa ntchito komanso kudzikonda. "Sizophweka kulamulira gulu lamphamvu ngati J-Lo. Ndikuganiza kuti munthu wamphamvu ngati Anthony amamva kukhala otetezeka kwa iye kwakanthawi koma pamapeto pake adakhala kulimbana ndi mphamvu. "

Charlie Sheen ndi Brooke Mueller

Tsoka ilo, liwu limodzi lokha limabwera m'maganizo pankhani yaukwati wophulika pakati Charlie Sheen ndi mkazi wachitatu Brooke Mueller, ndi zomwe zidachitika kwa miyezi ingapo: Sitima yapamtunda. "Anthu awiri omwe amamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo akakhala pamodzi, amayamba kusokoneza anzawo ndipo amalakwitsa chifukwa cha chikondi," akufotokoza Miller. "Ndi malo otsetsereka mukangozindikira kuti mukungosinthanitsa mankhwala osokoneza bongo-kwa mnzako."

Pomwe Sheen anali kuvutitsidwa ndi mphekesera zakugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, maphwando azidakwa komanso kusuta kwa zaka zambiri asanakwatirane ndi Brooke, matenda amisala amawoneka ngati omwe amayambitsa mavuto m'banjali. "Upangiri wanga kwa Brooke ungakhale kuti uzisamala kwambiri zaumoyo wamzanu wotsatira," Tessina akuti, "Simungakwatire wina kuti amupulumutse kwa iye."

Arnold Schwarzenegger ndi Maria Shriver

Zinkawoneka ngati ukwati wa m'mabuku a nthano, womwe ukupitirira zaka makumi asanu ndi limodzi mphambu zisanu ndi zitatu, mpaka malipoti odabwitsa adawululira wosewera komanso Kazembe wakale waku California. Arnold Schwarzenegger anali ndi mwana wachikondi wachinsinsi ndi mdzakazi wa nthawi yayitali-ndipo adabisa zaka khumi. "Ndikuganiza kuti Maria adakhala zaka zambiri akuyang'ana njira zachikazi za Arnold mpaka atadziwa za chibwenzi pansi pa mphuno yake. Izi zinali zosokoneza," adatero Tessina.

Miller akuganiza kuti kusunga chithunzichi cha ungwiro kwanthawi yayitali kudakhala kovuta kuchitira. "Kulakwitsa chifukwa ndiwe munthu monga Arnold adachitira, koma ndikaziphimba ndikupitilira ndi moyo wako monga sizinachitikire pamapeto pake zimapangitsa maziko a zonse zomwe umayimira kuti ziwonongeke. Pang'onopang'ono umasweka ndipo ubalewo umasokonekera ndipo ungwiro façade imagwera pansi."

Akuwonjezera Kriger, "Tikukhulupirira kuti mgwirizano wake wamabuku miliyoni-15 udzawathandiza kuchepetsa ululu. Phunziro lachikondi lodziwika bwino ngati amanunkhiza ngati wonyenga, mwina ndi wonyenga. "

Ashlee Simpson ndi Pete Wentz

Ngakhale maukwati a "rockstar" akuwoneka kuti ali ndi nthawi yayitali kwambiri kuposa mbali zina zamasewera osangalatsa, Ashlee Simpson ndipo Pete Wentz ankawoneka wokondwa komanso wachikondi-mpaka adasudzulana patangopita zaka ziwiri atakhala ndi mwana wamwamuna Bronx.

"Chifukwa choti ndinu wotchuka sizitanthauza kuti simudzagwa mchibwenzi mukakhala ndi mwana," akutero a Miller. Akuwonjezera kuti, "Zikuwoneka kuti anali mgulu laukwati wawo pomwe anali ndi mwana wamwamuna komanso maudindo, mantha komanso zovuta zakukhala makolo zidangowapweteketsa. "

Donaghue akuwona kuti iyi inali nkhani yothamangira pomwe kupita kunali kovuta. "Kukopana, achifwamba komanso kupsa mtima pagulu sizimapangitsa banja kukhala losangalala. Amayenera kukhazikitsa malire ndikusiya kuvomereza zachibwana."

Ndipo ngakhale umayi ukuwoneka kuti umachiritsa Ashlee chifukwa chazovuta zake, sizimawoneka choncho kwa Pete. "Awa anali banja lenileni la phwando, omwe sanabise za izi. Koma mwana atabwera, msungwana wachipani Ashlee adakula mwachangu ndipo adayamba kutenga moyo mozama pomwe Pete sanakwere sitima yapamtunda." Sitima yamiyambiyo itatuluka m'siteshoni, Ashlee adasiya Pete kumbuyo.

Courteney Cox ndi David Arquette

Ubalewu unkawoneka kuti wamangidwa kuti ukhalepo, ngakhale ndi miyezo ya showbiz. Maofesi a Mawebusaiti ndipo David Arquette atha kukhala atakumana pa kanema koma palibe amene akananeneratu kuti mgwirizano wawo wazaka khumi ndi chimodzi ukhoza kukhala chimango chaofesi. Ngakhale zili choncho, banjali lakhala likulera limodzi mwana wamkazi wazaka 7 Coco ndipo akuti akupanga sewero lapa TV limodzi. "Zikuwoneka kuti, panthawi yonse yaukwati, Courteney anakula ndipo David anakhalabe ndi udindo wa mwanayo. Koma tsopano popeza anali ndi mwana weniweni, Courteney adaganiza kuti sangakhale mayi kwa onse awiri, "Miller akusonyeza.

Ngati kukhalapo kwake mu omvera mmodzi wa Davide mpikisano kwa Kuvina Ndi Nyenyezi Ndi umboni uliwonse, banjali mwina ndi limodzi mwamagawidwe amtendere komanso osangalatsa a Hollywood. "Kungakhale kutha kwa dongosolo labanja lomwe lidawoneka mwanjira inayake," akutero Miller, "koma izi sizinakhalepo okwatirana omwe akufuna kuyang'ana gawolo."

Eva Longoria ndi Tony Parker

Pamene wochita seweroli adakwatirana ndi wothamanga wokongola mofananamo, aliyense anali kuwawombera. Pambuyo paukwati wapa Parisian, banjali lidaganiza patadutsa zaka zitatu, "adafuna zosiyana" ndipo adasudzula. Chothandizira? Kupezeka kwa Longoria kwa mameseji osayenera angapo kwa mayi wina pa foni ya Parker.

"Ndimatanthauzira mawu akuti" amafuna zinthu zosiyanasiyana "kutanthauza kuti amafuna kukhala ndi banja limodzi, banja lokwatirana ndipo amafunabe kusewera, makhothi onse ndi akunja," Tessina adatsimikiza. Miller akuvomereza. "Amafuna zida zonse-n-caboodle ndipo mwachidziwikire sanatero." Pomwe Longoria adatenga gawo la Akazi a Tony Parker, amuna awo amawoneka kuti samadziwika. "Munthu akataya chibwenzi chake, sichikhala chibwenzi," akutero a Miller. "Imakhala chiwonetsero chamunthu m'modzi."

Koma, Eva yemwe anali wotsimikiza kwambiri adadzipezera zina zambiri ndikupitilira ndi mnyamata wocheperako komanso wotentha. "Chibwenzi chotentha, chatsopano ndi bandi-band yabwino yamtima wosweka," akutero a Pescosolido.

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