Chifukwa Chimene Sindidzamwanso Piritsi

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Ndinalandira chilolezo changa choyamba cha kulera ndili ndi zaka 22. Kwa zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri zomwe ndinali kumwa Mapiritsi, ndinkakonda kwambiri. Zinandipangitsa khungu langa lokhala ndi ziphuphu kukhala lomveka bwino, kusamba kwanga nthawi zonse, kunandipangitsa kuti ndisakhale ndi PMS, ndipo ndimatha kudumpha nthawi iliyonse ikafika patchuthi kapena nthawi yapadera. Ndipo ndithudi, izo zinalepheretsa kutenga mimba.

Komano ndili ndi zaka 29, ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinaganiza zoyamba banja. Monga wolemba wodziwa zaumoyo wa amayi, ndidaganiza kuti ndili ndi izi: Ikani Piritsi, khalani otanganidwa nthawi isanakwane komanso nthawi yozizira, ndipo sizingachitike nthawi yomweyo. Kupatula ngati sichoncho. Ndinamwa Piritsi langa lomaliza mu Okutobala 2013. Kenako ndinadikirira. Panalibe zizindikiro za ovulation-palibe kutentha kuviika kapena spike, palibe ovulation predictor kit smiley face, palibe dzira loyera la khomo lachiberekero, palibe mittelschmerz (kukakamira kumbali kumene ovary imatulutsa dzira). Komabe, tinkawombera bwino kwambiri.

Pofika tsiku la 28-utali wa msambo wamba-pamene msambo wanga sunawoneke, ndinaganiza motsimikiza kuti tinali anthu amwayi omwe adatenga mimba pakuyesera kwawo koyamba. Kuyesa kumodzi koyipa kwa pathupi pambuyo pa kwina, komabe, kunatsimikizira kuti sizinali choncho. Pomaliza, masiku a 41 nditadutsa mapiritsi anga omaliza, ndinayamba kusamba. Ndinakondwera (titha kuyesanso mwezi uno!) Ndipo ndinakhumudwa (sindinali ndi pakati; ndipo kutayika kwanga kunali kotalika).

Zochitika zotsatizanazi zimabwerezedwa mobwerezabwereza ndi kuzungulira kwautali wamasiku 40-kuphatikiza. Chakumapeto kwa January, ndinapita kwa dokotala wa matenda a akazi. Ndipamene adaponya bomba pamtima wanga wowopa mwana: Kutalika kwanga kwakanthawi kumatanthauza kuti mwina sindinali kutulutsa mazira ndipo ngakhale ndikadakhala, mtundu wa dzira mwina sunali wokwanira kuti ukhale ndi umuna panthawi yomwe udatha m'chiberekero changa. Mwachidule, mwina sitingakhale ndi pakati popanda chithandizo. Ndinamusiya ku ofesi yake ndi mankhwala a progesterone kuti apangitse kuzungulira, mankhwala a Clomid kuti apangitse kutuluka kwa ovulation, ndi maloto osokonezeka. Pasanathe miyezi inayi tikuyesa, tinali kale kulandira chithandizo cha kusabereka.

Kwa miyezi itatu yotsatira, nthaŵi iriyonse pamene ndinameza limodzi la mapiritsiwo, lingaliro ili linandiwononga: “Ndikadapanda kumwa Piritsilo kapena ndikanasiya kumwako kwanthaŵi yaitali ndisanayese kutenga pakati, ndikanadziŵa zambiri. zamayendedwe anga. Ndikadadziwa zomwe zinali zachilendo kwa ine. " M'malo mwake, mwezi uliwonse unali masewera ongopeka. Zosadziwika sizinadziwike chifukwa ndinali nditamwa Piritsi. Kwa zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri, Mapiritsi adalanda mahomoni anga ndikutseka ovulation kotero ndidasiyidwa kwathunthu momwe thupi langa limagwirira ntchito.

Monga wolemba zaumoyo, sindinachitire mwina koma kufunsa a Dr. Google, omwe nthawi zambiri ankandikumbatirana ndi iPhone yanga usiku kwambiri ndikakhala kuti sindigona. Ndinkafuna kudziwa ngati maulendo anga aatali anali "zabwinobwino" kapena zotsatira za kusiya mapiritsi. Ngakhale kafukufuku akuwoneka kuti akutsimikizira kuti ngakhale kugwiritsa ntchito njira zakulera kwanthawi yayitali sikuwononga chonde, kafukufuku wowerengeka akuwonetsa kuti pakanthawi kochepa, zitha kukhala zovuta kwambiri kukhala ndi pakati. Kafukufuku wina adapeza kuti miyezi 12 atasiya njira yotchinga (monga makondomu) azimayi 54 pa 100 alionse adabereka poyerekeza ndi 32% ya azimayi omwe adasiya kumwa Piritsi. Ndipo, azimayi omwe adagwiritsa ntchito njira zakulera zaka ziwiri kapena kupitilira apo asanayese kutenga pakati adatenga pafupifupi miyezi isanu ndi inayi kuti akhale ndi pakati poyerekeza ndi miyezi itatu, pafupifupi, azimayi omwe amagwiritsa ntchito makondomu, ofufuza ku UK adapeza.

Mwamwayi, nkhani yathu ili ndi mathero osangalatsa. Kapena, monga ndimakonda kunena, chiyambi chosangalatsa. Ndili ndi pakati pa milungu 18 ndipo ndiyenera kubadwa mu Marichi. Pambuyo pa miyezi itatu yomwe Clomid sanachite bwino ndikugonana munthawi yake komanso mwezi umodzi wa jakisoni wa Follistim ndi Ovidrel m'mimba mwanga ndipo kubwerera kumbuyo kunalephera IUI (insemination yokumba), tidatenga masika ndi chilimwe kuchipatala. June uyu, kwinakwake pakati pa Geneva ndi Milan ndili patchuthi, ndinatenga pakati. Zinali munthawi ina yayitali kwambiri. Koma, mozizwitsa, ndidatulutsa mazira ndipo mwana wathu wakhanda adapangidwa.

Ngakhale sanapezekebe pano, ndikudziwa kale momwe tidzapangire zopanga khanda nthawi ina. Chofunika kwambiri, sindidzamwanso Piritsi-kapena mtundu uliwonse wa njira zakulera za mahomoni. Sindikudziwabe chifukwa chake maulendo anga anali otalika kwambiri (madokotala adaletsa zinthu monga PCOS), koma kaya ndi chifukwa cha Piritsi kapena ayi, ndikufuna kudziwa momwe thupi langa limagwirira ntchito palokha kuti ndikonzekere bwino. Ndipo miyezi imeneyo yamankhwala? Ngakhale zinali chabe kulawa poyerekeza ndi zomwe anthu ambiri osabereka amapirira, anali otopa mwakuthupi komanso mwamalingaliro komanso okwera mtengo kwambiri. Choyipa chachikulu, ndikutsimikiza kuti sizinali zofunikira.

Kwa zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri zomwe ndinamwa Piritsi, ndinkakonda kuti linandipatsa ulamuliro pa thupi langa. Tsopano ndazindikira kwa zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri, ndinalola mankhwala omwe anali mu Piritsi kuti aziwongolera thupi langa. Miyezi isanu kuchokera pano ndili ndi chozizwitsa changa chaching'ono mmanja mwanga, moyo wathu udzasintha-kuphatikiza maulendo ambirimbiri opita ku Target yomwe titenge. Kumeneko, ndikhala ndimipukutu, ndikupukuta, nsalu za burp, ndipo kuyambira pano, makondomu.

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