Chifukwa Chani Ndi Zabwino Kusakonda Thupi Lanu Nthawi Zina, Ngakhale Mutakhala Othandizira Kusunga Thupi

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Raeann Langas, wojambula waku Denver, ndiye woyamba kukuuzani momwe mayendedwe abwino a thupi adamukhudzira. "Ndakhala ndikulimbana ndi mawonekedwe athupi moyo wanga wonse," adatero posachedwa Maonekedwe. "Sipanapatsidwe mpaka nditayamba kuwona ndikuwerenga za zitsanzo zatsopanozi, zomwe zidalimbikitsa kudzikonda pamlingo uliwonse, pomwe ndidayamba kuzindikira momwe thupi langa lilili lodabwitsa."

Ichi ndichifukwa chake adayambitsa blog yake, yodzipereka kutsimikizira kuti mafashoni ndi mafashoni, mosasamala kanthu za kukula kwanu. "Kaya ndinu saizi 2 kapena 22, akazi amafuna (ndipo akuyenera) kuvala zinthu zomwe zimawoneka bwino kwa iwo ndikuwapatsa mphamvu," akutero. "Kusuntha kwabwino kwa thupi kwangothandiza kuti izi zipitirire."

Izi zikunenedwa, Raeann akuwonekeranso momveka bwino pankhani yodziwa Bwanji kukonda thupi lako kulidi, kovuta kwenikweni-ndipo kukhala ndi malingaliro olakwika ndi momwe umadzionera wekha ndizachilengedwe mwachilengedwe. "Ndikuganiza kuti ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti ngakhale azimayi omwe amatumiza pafupipafupi kuti amanyadira matupi awo amakhala ndi nthawi yambiri yokayika," akutero. "Ndi zomwe mumachita munthawi izi ndizofunikira kwambiri."

Wolemba mabulogu wazaka 24 wazaka zakubadwa adawonetsa momwe akumvera mu positi yaposachedwa ya Instagram pomwe adafotokoza momwe kukonda thupi lanu kulili njira, osati zomwe zimachitika usiku umodzi. "Ndili ndi amayi ambiri omwe amandifunsa kuti angayambe bwanji kukonda thupi lawo, ndipo nthawi zonse ndimanena kuti ndi ulendo wautali," adalemba motero. "Muyenera kulimbitsa ubale wanu ndi thupi lanu tsiku lililonse."

Mawu anzeru a Raeann adalimbikitsidwa ndi kukumana komwe adakumana ndi wojambula wake, amagawana nawo. "Adaganiza zondiuza zakomwe anali pamalo pomwe adawona kuti thupi lake likusintha komanso kuti anali wosasangalala nalo," akutero. "Zinandipangitsa kulingalira za momwe akazi amadzipanitsira okha komanso momwe zimakhalira zovuta kuyembekezera kukonda thupi lako tsopano komanso m'mbali zake zonse m'moyo. "

Ngakhale kuti n’zosangalatsa kuti tikukhala m’nthawi imene nthawi zonse timalimbikitsidwa kuti tizidzikonda, koma n’zodabwitsa kuti tingakumane ndi mavuto ambiri. "Ndizovuta nthawi zonse kukumbatira mbali zonse za inu," akupitiriza Raeann. "Ndizowona ngati kukhala pachibwenzi. Masiku ena ndi osangalatsa-mumakhala mutu wachikondi-koma masiku ena ndi ovuta ndipo amafuna ntchito yambiri."

Monga anthu, timakonda kudzidzudzula, koma ndizomwe mumachita pambuyo kukhala ndi malingaliro olakwika omwe muyenera kuyang'anapo. "Pali masiku ambiri komwe ndimadzipeza ndikunena kuti 'Oh mulungu wanga, mimba yanga ikuwoneka yoyipa mu diresi ili' kapena zilizonse," akutero Raenne. "Koma nthawi iliyonse ndikanena zotero, ndimadzipangitsa kuti ndizinenanso zabwino kuti ndingosintha kamvekedwe ka zokambirana zomwe ndili nazo."

Mfundo yofunika? Thupi positivity si ulendo mzere ndipo ndithudi si kophweka. Zachidziwikire, mutha kuterereka nthawi zina ndikubwerera ku mauthenga owopsa omwe anthu akhala akukutumizirani moyo wanu wonse. Izi sizimakupangitsani kukhala wolephera, komanso sizitanthauza kuti muli ndi malingaliro olakwika. Zimangotanthauza kuti ndiwe munthu ndipo nzabwino bwino. Monga Raeann ananenera: "Pitirizani kuthamangitsa chidani mokoma mtima komanso mwachikondi chifukwa mawu ndi amphamvu kwambiri, ndipo pamapeto pake mudzawona-komanso koposa zonse mverani-kusintha. "

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