Chifukwa Chakuti Kugawana Zolemba Zake Kumatha Kugwirizana Ndi Ubale Wanu

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Mlanduwu: kutchuka kwa HeTexted.com, tsamba lawebusayiti momwe mungatumizire zolemba zanu ndikulola olemba ndemanga kuti adziwe zomwe iye kwenikweni kutanthauza. Tsambali pakali pano lili ndi maulendo opitilira 1,2 miliyoni pamwezi, komanso buku lothandizirana posachedwa, Adatumizirana mameseji: Upangiri Wotsogola Wokhalira ndi Chibwenzi mu Digital Era, buku lodzithandizira lokonzedwa kuti lithandizire azimayi osakwatira kuyenda m'dziko lovuta kwambiri la mitima ya Instagram, zokonda za Facebook, ndi zolemba zodzaza ndi emoji.

Ngakhale tsamba loti likuthandizireni kuyenda pa dziko la digito likumveka bwino, tikudabwabe, kodi limayambira pati pakuwunika mopitirira muyeso? Akatswiri amavomereza kuti palibe cholakwika ndi zina kufunafuna yachiwiri maganizo decode wanu tsiku du jour, koma kuchenjeza kuti kudalira kwambiri kunja zikoka kungawononge ubwenzi wanu.

"Aliyense amene akupereka malingaliro ake paubwenzi wanu akuchokera m'malingaliro ake ndipo abweretsa katundu wake," atero a Jordan Harbinger, katswiri wazamaubwenzi komanso mwini wa The Art of Charm. Inu nokha mumatenga magalasi opanda kanthu a bwenzi lanu ndi mchere wamchere chifukwa mukudziwa kuti akuchokera koyipa. Koma chifukwa mulibe chidziwitso komwe opereka ndemanga osadziwika akuchokera, mutha kupereka malingaliro awo mochuluka kwambiri pokhudzana ndi upangiri wanu pa chibwenzi chanu. [Tweet izi!]

Ndipo ngakhale aliyense wothirira ndemanga anganene kuti zomwe mudakweza zikumveka bwino, zitha kukhala zovuta, akutero Harbinger. Mukamalankhula kwambiri ndi kusanthula munthu amene mukumuonayo, m’pamenenso simungamuganizire ngati munthu payekha. Ngati mumacheza masana idealizing iye zikomo kwa onse "iye ndiye mwamuna wanu wam'tsogolo!’ Ndemanga zomwe muli nazo, ndiye kuti mungakhumudwe mukamupeza akuchita ngati ... munthu wamba yemwe adakuyiwalani kuti simudye zamasamba (ngakhale mudamuwuza kuti patsiku lanu lomaliza) ndikufunsani ngati mukufuna kugawaniza mbale ya mapiko a nkhuku.

Pomaliza, nthawi yonseyi yomwe mudakhala mukuyang'ana zolemba zake imadula nthawi yolankhulana naye. Ndicho chifukwa chake akatswiri amavomereza kuti ndi bwino kupita molunjika ku gwero ngati mwasokonezeka. "Kungodumphira m'maganizo kumabwera ngati wosowa, wobwezera, kapena wamisala," akutero a Jay Cataldo, mphunzitsi wapa zibwenzi komanso ubale ku New York City. "Koma ngati simukudziwa, mufunseni zomwe zikuchitika."

Mwachitsanzo, tinene kuti mumakonda kutumizirana mameseji maola angapo koma mwadzidzidzi akuchoka pa radar tsiku lonse. M’malo mongotengeka maganizo, nenani mawu onga akuti, “Pamene simunayankhe malemba anga dzulo, zinandipangitsa kumva ngati ndikukuvutitsani.

Mwayi wake, samadziwa kuti inali vuto, akutero Cataldo. "Izi zimakupatsani nonse mwayi wogawana zomwe mukuyembekezera komanso kudziwana bwino." [Twitani nsonga iyi!]

Koma nthawi zina nkhani imangododometsa, imangopempha malingaliro akunja. Zikatero, gwiritsani ntchito meseji yake ngati yolimbikitsa kuti mumutumizire cholemba chofunsa nthawi ndi nkhope posachedwa.

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