Chifukwa Chake Timakonda Jesse Pinkman (ndi anyamata ena oyipa)

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Zedi, Jesse Pinkman ndi wosiya sukulu yasekondale komanso yemwe kale anali wosuta yemwe amagwira ntchito yogulitsa mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndipo wapha mwamuna, koma watenganso kupembedza kwa mkazi aliyense ku America ndi mtima wogunda komanso kulembetsa pa TV. Kukopeka ndi "mnyamata woyipa" sichinthu chatsopano, koma munthu uyu, yemwe adasewera ndi Emmy-wopambana kawiri. Aaron Paul pa sewero lowonetsa la AMC Kuphwanyika moyipa, ali ndi kuthekera kopangitsa kuti owonera azimayi ambiri azimva ngati kuti anali pachibwenzi chovuta ndi meth cook kuyambira 2008. (Zakhala zaka zovuta koma ndikudutsamo!)

Polemekeza zomwe takhala tikuyembekezera mu gawo lomaliza la eyiti pa Ogasiti 11, tidaganiza zakuwunika bwino za Jesse zomwe zimatipangitsa kuti timukonde posaganiza bwino. Amayi, ngati mumakonda kusankha munthu wolakwika, zindikirani. Kuwunikaku ndi katswiri wama psychology komanso membala wa bungwe la alangizi a SHAPE Belisa Vranich, PsyD, ndi anthropologist komanso mlangizi wasayansi ku Match.com Helen Fisher, Ph.D., ikugwiranso ntchito pazitsime zenizeni za ne'er-do-well monga momwe zimakhalira kwa bwenzi lathu lopeka lamaso abuluu. (Zidziwitso za "Breaking Bad" ngati simunagwidwe!).

Choyamba, chowonekera: nkhope imeneyo! Ataima pa 5'8 chabe", chimango cha Jesse chikhoza kuwoneka chochepa komanso chaching'ono, chomwe nthawi zambiri amabisala pansi pa zovala zazikulu ndi nyemba, koma nkhope yake imasonyeza nkhani ina. ) nsagwada yokhotakhota, yolimba 2) nsonga zolemetsa 3) ziboda zazitali 4) milomo yopyapyala, ndi 5) mphumi yayitali,” akutero Fisher, yemwe analemba bukuli. Chifukwa chiyani Iye? Chifukwa Chiyani Iye?.

"Chifukwa chomwe azimayi azindikira kuti ichi ndichokongola ndichakuti testosterone ndichinthu choopsa kwambiri chomwe chimafunikira chitetezo chamthupi cholimba kwambiri kuti chimalekerere mahomoni ambiri," akufotokoza. “Izi zikutanthauza kuti amuna ameneŵa akulengeza pankhope zawo kuti ‘chitetezo changa cha m’thupi n’champhamvu kwambiri moti ndikhoza kupirira mlingo umenewu wa testosterone.’” M’mawu ena, makapu ake anzeru ali chikwangwani choyendera kaamba ka thanzi labwino. Patsamba lofananira, testosterone yayikulu imatanthauzanso kuti ali ndi vuto logonana, Fisher akuwonjezera, ndipo ndani safuna mnzake wogona yemwe angapitirire?

Iye samadziwikiratu. Ngati mumakonda ma roller coasters, mungakonde Jesse, yemwe akuwoneka kuti ali ndi zokwera ndi zotsika kwambiri za munthu aliyense pamndandandawu. Amatha kukhala wokondwa, wokhumudwa, wokhala ndi chiyembekezo, komanso womvetsa chisoni onse mgulu limodzi. Kusadziwa momwe adzachitire ndi zochitika ndi gawo la pempholo. "Akazi amakonda zachilendo," akutero Fisher.

"Zimayendetsa dongosolo la dopamine muubongo ndipo zimakupatsani mphamvu, chidwi, chidwi, chiyembekezo, komanso kusinthasintha kwamaganizidwe," akutero. Kwenikweni, kukhala pafupi ndi munthu wosayembekezereka, monga Jesse, kumatha kukhala kosangalatsa kwambiri. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, khalidwe losasunthika loterolo likhoza kukhala lopenga, chifukwa chake silingayende bwino.

Amawonetsa kunyezimira kwanzeru. Mawu atatu aang'ono: "Inde, hule! Maginito!" Pomwe bwenzi lake la bizinesi komanso mphunzitsi wakale wa chemistry kusukulu yasekondale Walter White (adasewera ndi indomitable @ Alirezatalischioriginal) anali atakhazikitsidwa kalekale ngati ubongo wa opaleshoniyi, Jesse wakhala ndi nthawi yake yochititsa chidwi ya babu. Mu nyengo yachisanu, malingaliro ake anzeru ogwiritsa ntchito maginito kuti awononge umboni wosatsutsika pa laputopu ya Gustavo "Gus" Fring yemwe anali atatsekeredwa kulikulu la apolisi adawapulumutsa kuti asagwidwe. Testosterone yokwezeka ya Jesse, monga nkhope yake ikusonyezera, mwina inali ndi chochita nayo.

"Amuna omwe ali ndi testosterone yokwera amakonda kukhala owunika, omveka, olunjika, osakhazikika, olimba mtima, okayikira, komanso akatswiri paukadaulo, umakaniko, makompyuta, ndipo potero, kuphika kristalo meth," akutero Fisher. "Kwa zaka mamiliyoni ambiri, azimayi amafuna kwa mwamuna yemwe amatha kumenya njati ija pamutu ndi mwala ndipo amakhala ndi luso lochepa, kulingalira kuti azindikire izi. Amayi amakopeka ndi amuna omwe amabwera kunyumba ndi chakudya chamadzulo," akutero.

Iye ndi mzimu wotayika. Palibe kukayika kuti Jesse akufuna-ndipo akufunafuna-wina woti amupulumutse. Mnyamata wakaleyu adayesetsa kukonza machitidwe ake kangapo konsekonse, makamaka kuyambira nyengo yachitatu pomwe adayamba chibwenzi ndi amayi osakwatiwa ndikuchira Andrea. Zikuwonekeratu kuti gawo lake likufuna kukhulupirira kuti akhoza kukhala munthu wabwino, koma zonsezi zimatuluka pazenera kumapeto kwa nyengo pomwe amakakamizidwa kupha munthu wosalakwa, Gale, kuti apulumutse moyo wa Mr. White. Kuwona kukayikira kwake asanakoke chiwombankhanga ndikokwanira kupangitsa mkazi aliyense kufuna kutulukira ndikukambirana naye.

"Amayi ena amakonda kukhala amayi ndipo amakhulupirira kuti titha kusintha anthu ndikupulumutsa miyoyo yawo yotayika. Zimakopa kuthekera kwathu kwakulera, komwe kumalumikizidwa ndi estrogen," akutero a Fisher. Ndipo mukuti mumamupulumutsa? Izo zikhoza kukuwomba pa nkhope yako. "Amayi ambiri athandiza bambo kuwona kuthekera kwake ndipo akafika, atha kumusiya chifukwa atha kupeza bwenzi labwino tsopano," Vranick akuchenjeza. "Uyenera kudzifunsa kuti, kodi nthandala yake ili kuti? Chifukwa chiyani alibe? Pali chifukwa."

Iye ndi wonyoza. Popeza kusankha ntchito kosavomerezeka komanso kosaloledwa konse, Jesse sakhala wotsutsana naye. Kukhala ndi mphamvu zokhala yekha komanso kusatsata malamulo omwe anthu ena onse amakhala nawo ndikotentha kwambiri. "Akazi amakonda kukhala mwaufulu kupyolera mwa amuna awa ndikukhala osangalala, koma mimbulu yodzikonda yokha sipanga amuna abwino," akutero Vranick, wolemba bukuli. Iye Ali Ndi Kuthekera.

Kumbali ina, kutuluka nokha ndi chizindikiro cha kulimba mtima, zomwe ndi zomwe amayi ankafunikira kuchokera kwa abwenzi awo kumbuyo kwa tsiku kuti adyetsedwe ndi kutetezedwa. “Akazi amafuna mwamuna amene sangangobweretsa chakudya chamadzulo kunyumba komanso kuwateteza, ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala munthu waukali komanso wokhoza kupirira,” akufotokoza motero Fisher. M'zaka zisanu zapitazi, umunthu wamdima wa Jesse wapirira kumenyedwa koopsa kwambiri, imfa ya chikondi chake choyamba, kuphedwa kwa munthu wosalakwa-kuti ali wokonzeka kuika chilichonse, ngakhale moyo wake, chifukwa cha zomwe amakhulupirira. Chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri: Nthawi imene anakumana ndi anthu awiri ogulitsa mankhwala osokoneza bongo omwe ankapikisana nawo pa nkhani ya kupha Tomas, mchimwene wake wa Andrea wa zaka 11.

Amakhudzidwa. Iye si Tin Man-ali ndi mtima! Nyengo yoyamba idawulula kuti Jesse adasamukira ndi Azakhali a Jenny akumwalira kuti amusamalire m'masiku ake omaliza akumenya khansa. Pofika nyengo yachitatu, adayamba kupanga ubale wabwino ndi mwana wa bwenzi lake Andrea, Brock. Ndipo kuyambira pachiyambi adawonetsa kukhulupirika kowopsa kwa Bambo White, omwe adamukankha atapha mwana wosalakwa (mwanayo adawawona akubera sitima ya methylamine) adapangitsa Jesse kufuna kutuluka. Kukhudzidwa kwake kophatikizidwa ndikumva chisoni ndi combo yoopsa kwambiri yamnyamata, Vranick akuti.

"Azimayi amakonda kudya zinyenyeswazi zomwe zimasonyeza kuti mwamuna ndi munthu wabwino chifukwa timakhala ndi chiyembekezo komanso timaganiza kuti anthu ndi abwino," akutero. "Amayi amagwera mumsampha womwe uli mkati mwake ali bwino ndikuyembekeza kuti azindikira kuti adamuwona daimondi muukali womwe anali, zomwe zimamupangitsa kuti azimva kuti ndiwofunika, koma sizimachitika konse."

Magawo omaliza a Kuphwanyika moyipa kuyamba kwake Lamlungu, Ogasiti 11, nthawi ya 9 koloko masana ET pa AMC. Kodi mudzakhala mukuyang'ana? Tweet kwa ife @shape_magazine ndikutiuza zomwe mukuganiza zawonetsero ndi omwe akutsogolera.

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