Malangizo opangira chimbudzi

Kuphunzira momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito chimbudzi ndichinthu chofunikira kwambiri pamoyo wa mwana wanu. Mudzapangitsa njirayi kukhala yosavuta kwa aliyense ngati mungayembekezere mpaka mwana wanu atakonzeka musanayese sitima yapamadzi. Kuleza mtima komanso kuseka kumathandizanso.

Ana ambiri amayamba kuwonetsa zizindikilo kuti ali okonzeka kuphunzira kuchimbudzi pakati pa miyezi 18 ndi 30. Miyezi isanakwane 18, ana ambiri samatha kuyendetsa bwino chikhodzodzo ndi matumbo awo. Mwana wanu adzakudziwitsani m'njira zawo kuti ali okonzeka kuyamba maphunziro apachimbudzi. Ana amakhala okonzeka pamene:

• Onetsani chidwi chimbudzi kapena kuvala kabudula wamkati
• Fotokozani kudzera m'mawu kapena mawu omwe angafune kupita kubafa
• Onetsani kuti thewera ndi yonyowa kapena yakuda
• Khalani omangika ngati thewera ayipitsa ndikuyesera kuchotsa popanda thandizo
• Khalani owuma osachepera maola 2 masana
• Amatha kutsitsa mathalauza awo ndikubwezeretsanso
• Mutha kumvetsetsa ndikutsatira malangizo oyambira

Ndibwino kusankha nthawi yomwe mulibe zochitika zina zazikulu zomwe zakonzedwa, monga tchuthi, kusuntha kwakukulu, kapena ntchito yomwe ingafune nthawi yochulukirapo kuchokera kwa inu.

Osakakamiza mwana wanu kuti aphunzire mwachangu. Ngati mwana wanu akukakamizidwa kuti aziphunzitsidwa ndi potty asanakonzekere, zingatenge nthawi kuti aphunzire. Ngati mwana wanu akukana maphunzirowa, zikutanthauza kuti sanakonzekerebe. Chifukwa chake bwererani ndikudikirira milungu ingapo musanayesenso.

Kuti muyambe maphunziro am'madzi muyenera:

• Gulani mpando wamafuta ndi mpando wamafuta - mungafunike zopitilira umodzi ngati muli ndi mabafa kapena malo amasewera m'magulu osiyanasiyana nyumbayo.
• Ikani mpando wamafuta pafupi ndi malo amasewera a mwana wanu kuti athe kuwona ndikukhudza.
• Khazikitsani chizolowezi. Kamodzi patsiku, muuzeni mwana wanu kuti akhale pansi pamadzi atavala bwino. Musawakakamize kuti akhalepo, ndipo aloleni kuti achoke pomwe angafune.
• Akakhala omasuka kukhala pampando, awakhazikitseni popanda matewera ndi mathalauza. Awonetseni momwe angatsitsire mathalauza awo asanafike pamphika.
• Ana amaphunzira poyang'ana ena. Lolani mwana wanu kuti akuwoneni kapena abale ake akugwiritsa ntchito chimbudzi ndikuwalola kuti aziyeseza.
• Thandizani mwana wanu kudziwa momwe angalankhulire za bafa pogwiritsa ntchito mawu osavuta monga "poop" ndi "pee."

Mwana wanu akangokhala pampando wopanda poterera popanda matewera, mutha kuyamba kuwawonetsa momwe angagwiritsire ntchito.

• Ikani chopondapo kuchokera pa matewera awo kupita kumpando wamafuta.
• Auzeni kuti aziyang'ana mukamachotsa chopondapo kuchokera pampando wamadzi kupita kuchimbudzi.
• Auzeni achotse chimbudzi ndipo muwone momwe chikuwombera. Izi ziwathandiza kudziwa kuti kuchimbudzi ndi komwe kumapita zimbudzi.
• Khalani atcheru pamene mwana wanu akuwonetsa kuti angafunikire kugwiritsa ntchito chimbudzi. Tengani mwana wanu kumphika mwachangu ndikumuyamika mwana wanu chifukwa chokuwuzani.
• Phunzitsani mwana wanu kusiya zomwe akuchita ndikupita kumphika akawona kuti akufunika kupita kuchimbudzi.
• Khalani ndi mwana wanu atakhala pamphika. Kuwerenga buku kapena kuyankhula nawo kungawathandize kumasuka.
• Phunzitsani mwana wanu kuti adzipukute atadutsa pansi. Aphunzitseni atsikana kupukuta kuchokera kutsogolo kupita kumbuyo kuti athandize kupewa chopondapo kuti chisayandikire kumaliseche.
• Onetsetsani kuti mwana wanu amasamba m'manja moyenera nthawi zonse mukamachoka kuchimbudzi.
• Tamandani mwana wanu nthawi iliyonse akapita kuchimbudzi, ngakhale atangokhala pansi. Cholinga chanu ndi kuwathandiza kuti agwirizane ndi zosowa zakupita kuchimbudzi ndikupita kuchimbudzi ndikugwiritsa ntchito.
• Mwana wanu akaphunzira momwe angagwiritsire ntchito chimbudzi pafupipafupi, mungafune kuyesa kugwiritsa ntchito mathalauza ophunzitsira. Mwanjira imeneyi mwana wanu amatha kulowa ndi kutuluka popanda thandizo.

Ana ambiri amatenga pafupifupi miyezi 3 mpaka 6 kuti aphunzire kugwiritsa ntchito chimbudzi. Atsikana nthawi zambiri amaphunzira kugwiritsa ntchito chimbudzi mwachangu kuposa anyamata. Ana amakhala m'matewera mpaka azaka zapakati pa 2 mpaka 3.

Ngakhale atakhala owuma masana, ana ambiri amafunikira nthawi yochulukirapo kuti azigona usiku wonse osanyowetsa bedi. Iyi ndiye gawo lomaliza la maphunziro achimbudzi. Ndibwino kuti mutenge matiresi osakwaniritsa madzi pomwe mwana wanu amaphunzira kuyang'anira nthawi yausiku.

Yembekezerani kuti mwana wanu azichita ngozi akamaphunzira kugwiritsa ntchito chimbudzi. Ndi gawo chabe la njirayi. Nthawi zina, ngakhale ataphunzitsidwa, ngozi zitha kuchitika masana.

Izi zikachitika ndikofunikira kuti:

• Khalani odekha.
• Sambani ndi kukumbutsani mwana wanu modekha kuti adzagwiritse ntchito chimbudzi nthawi ina. Osadzudzula mwana wanu.
• Mutsimikizireni mwana wanu ngati angakhumudwe.

Pofuna kupewa zochitika ngati izi mutha:

• Funsani mwana wanu nthawi ndi nthawi ngati akufuna kupita kuchimbudzi. Ana ambiri amayenera kupita pafupifupi ola limodzi kapena kupitilira kudya kapena atamwa madzi ambiri.
• Pezani zovala zamkati za mwana wanu ngati akuchita ngozi pafupipafupi.

Itanani dokotala ngati mwana wanu:

• Adaphunzitsidwa kale koma ali ndi ngozi zambiri tsopano
• Sagwiritsa ntchito chimbudzi ngakhale atakwanitsa zaka 4
• Ali ndi ululu pokodza kapena ndowe
• Nthawi zambiri pamakhala zovuta - ichi chitha kukhala chizindikiro cha matenda amkodzo

Maphunziro a potty

Tsamba la American Academy of Pediatrics. Kupanga dongosolo lophunzitsira chimbudzi. www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/toddler/toilet-training/pages/Creating-a-Toilet-Training-Plan.aspx. Idasinthidwa pa Novembala 2, 2009. Idapezeka pa Januware 29, 2021.

Tsamba la American Academy of Pediatrics. Maphunziro achimbudzi ndi mwana wamkulu. www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/toddler/toilet-training/Pages/Toilet-Training-and-the-Older-Child.aspx. Idasinthidwa pa Novembala 2, 2009. Idapezeka pa Januware 29, 2021.

Mkulu JS. Enuresis ndi kutseka kukanika. Mu: Kliegman RM, St. Geme JW, Blum NJ, Shah SS, Tasker RC, Wilson KM, olemba. Nelson Textbook of Pediatrics. Wolemba 21. Philadelphia, PA: Elsevier; 2020: chap 558.

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