Malangizo 10 pa Ukwati Zikomo Zikomo

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Pamene nyengo yaukwati ikugunda mwamphamvu pamodzi ndi mvula ndi maphwando a chinkhoswe ntchito yothokoza cholembera imakhudza mphamvu zonse. Kulemba zolemba zikomo kungakhale kowawa ngati muli ndi cholembera cholembera, osatetezeka pazomwe mwalemba, kapena simukufuna kubwerezanso ndi cholembera chopunduka.

Nawa maukwati khumi zikomo zindikirani kuti musunge ukhondo wanu!

1. Dziwani umunthu wanu. Kodi mumazengereza? Kodi mukuchita bwino ndi dongosolo lolimba? Ganizirani utali womwe mukufuna wina asanalandire chiyamiko ndikugwira ntchito cham'mbuyo, ndikudzipatsa zolemba X tsiku kapena sabata. Mudzakhala ndi nthawi yochulukirapo yolenga.

2. Mupangitseni mkwati wanu kulemba banja lake/abwenzi. Palibe zifukwa! Iwo ndi abwenzi ake, iwo ndi ake zikomo.

3. Gawani ndi kugonjetsa mwa dongosolo lomasuka. Mukadali kutsekula mathalauza anu ndichisangalalo pazopereka 10, lembani izi koyamba. Adzakhala osavuta ndikukupatsani chidziwitso chakuchita mwachangu.

4. Mphatso za ndalama? Lembani momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito ndalamazo. Chokulirapo kapena "chofunikira" pamtengo, m'pamenenso wopatsa mphatsoyo amamva ngati kuti akuthandizani kusungitsa chinthu chofunikira. Koma zili bwino kunena kuti "ndalamazi zidzakhala zothandiza pamene tikuyamba moyo wathu pamodzi."

5. Mphatso yonyansa? Kaya ndi tacky, osati kalembedwe kanu, kapena simukudziwa kuti ndi chiyani, mutha kuwoneka wachisomo. Mwina mumatenga lingaliro la mphatsoyo ndi kuwathokoza chifukwa cha zomwe ikuimira. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kunena kuti "zikomo kwambiri chifukwa cha kuyatsa kwa desiki. Kuunikira ndi gawo losayamikirika kwambiri m'moyo wanyumba." Ngati ndizotalika kwambiri, mwina kuwala kwa desiki kungathe kusinthira momwe mudzamalizire sukulu, kapena mumapanga ndalama zanu ndikuziganizira mwezi uliwonse.

6. Kugwirizana kwa chikhalidwe kapena dera? Ndine waku Minnesota ndipo ndilembetsedwa kuti ndikuphika pang'onopang'ono. Pamene ndinazichotsa pa kaundula wanga, ndinakondwera kunena momwe zinandipangitsa kumva ngati kuti ndinabatizidwa potsiriza monga Minnesotan weniweni (sindinabadwire kuno.) Mphatso zambiri zingakhale ndi chiyanjano chotero kwa inu, ngakhale ziri zachilendo!

7. Kufikira mtsogolo mwanu. Mphatso zina ndizosasangalatsa, koma bwanji osawathokoza chifukwa cha kukumbukira kwamtsogolo komwe mungakhale nako ndi zinthuzo. Ndidapeza wopanga ma popcorn kotero ndidatchula zosangalatsa zomwe tikhala nazo, makamaka ndi banja lathu lamtsogolo kupanga mitundu yonse yamitundu yosiyanasiyana ya popcorn.

8. Mlendo kotheratu? Ndili ndi mphatso zambiri kuchokera kwa anthu omwe sindinakumanepo nawo ndipo sindidzakumanapo nawo. Hello zovuta. Nthawi zonse ndinkawathokoza chifukwa cha mphatsoyo, koma kenako ndinayesetsa kugawana nawo chilichonse chokhudza kugwirizana komwe ali nako ndi apongozi anga (mlendo wofala kwambiri.) Inadzaza masentensi angapo ndipo inali yaumwini kwambiri.

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