Kwa Anthu Omwe Amakhala Ndi RCC, Musataye Mtima

Okondedwa,

Zaka zisanu zapitazo, ndinkakhala wotanganidwa kwambiri monga bizinesi yopanga mafashoni. Zonsezi zidasintha usiku umodzi pomwe ndidagwa mwadzidzidzi ndikumva kupweteka kwa msana ndikutuluka magazi. Ndinali ndi zaka 45.

Ananditengera kuchipatala komwe atamuyeza ku CAT anawonetsa chotupa chachikulu mu impso yanga yakumanzere. Ndinali ndi aimpso cell carcinoma. Matenda a khansa anali mwadzidzidzi komanso mosayembekezereka. Sindinali kudwala.

Ndinali ndekha pabedi lachipatala pamene ndinayamba kumva kuti mawu. Adokotala anati, "Mufunika opaleshoni kuti muchotse khansa."

Ndinadabwa kwambiri. Ndiyenera kuuza nkhaniyi banja langa. Kodi mumalongosola bwanji chinthu chowopsa mwakuti simukumvetsetsa nokha? Zinali zovuta kuti ndivomereze komanso kuti banja langa livomereze.

Kutuluka kwa magazi kumalamulidwa, ananditumiza kukamuchita opaleshoni ya impso ndi chotupa chake. Kuchita opareshoni kunayenda bwino, ndipo chotupacho chidalipo. Komabe, ndinatsalira ndi ululu wa msana wokhazikika.

Kwazaka ziwiri zotsatira, ndimayenera kuwunika mafupa, ma MRI scan, ndikuwunika ma CAT. M'kupita kwa nthawi, anapezeka kuti ndili ndi mitsempha yovulala ndipo anandipatsa mankhwala opha ululu kwamuyaya.

Khansa idasokoneza moyo wanga mwadzidzidzi kwakuti zidandivuta kupitiriza monga mwachizolowezi. Bizinesi ya mafashoni idawoneka yopepuka nditabwerera kuntchito, chifukwa chake ndidatseka bizinesi yanga ndikugulitsa masheya onse. Ndinkafuna china chosiyana kwambiri.

Zachilendo zatsopano zidatenga. Ndimayenera kutenga tsiku lililonse momwe limafikira. Patapita nthawi, ndinayamba kukhala womasuka; Popanda masiku omalizira, moyo wanga unakhala wosalira zambiri. Ndinayamikira kwambiri zinthu zazing'onozo.

Ndinayamba kusunga kope tsiku lomwe anandipeza. Pambuyo pake, ndidasamutsira ku blog - {textend} Khansa Yosasinthika. Zinandidabwitsa kuti blog idayamba chidwi kwambiri, ndipo adandifunsa kuti ndiyike nkhani yanga pamabuku. Ndinalowa nawo gulu lolemba. Kulemba kunandisangalatsa kwambiri ndili mwana.

Chinthu china chimene ndinkakonda kuchita chinali masewera othamanga. Ndidayamba kupita ku kalasi ya yoga yakomweko popeza masewera olimbitsa thupi anali ofanana ndi physiotherapy, yomwe adokotala anga adandilimbikitsa. Nditakwanitsa, ndinayambiranso kuthamanga. Ndidawonjezera mtunda, ndipo tsopano ndimathamanga katatu pamlungu. Ndatsala pang'ono kuthamanga mpikisano wokonzekera marathon ndipo ndithamanga mpikisano wothamanga mu 2018 kuti ndikwaniritse zaka zisanu kuyambira nephrectomy yanga.

Khansara ya impso yathetsa njira yamoyo yomwe ndinali ndikuizolowera ndipo yasiya chosaiwalika panjira yomwe ndimakhala moyo wanga tsopano. Komabe, mseu wanga wolimbitsa thupi watsegula zitseko zatsopano, zomwe zadzetsa zovuta zina.

Ndikuyembekeza kuti powerenga kalatayi, ena omwe amakhala ndi renal cell carcinoma amatha kuwona kuti khansa ikhoza kutichotsera zambiri, koma mpata ungadzazidwe m'njira zambiri. Osataya konse kanthu.

Ndi chithandizo chonse chomwe chilipo, titha kupatsidwa nthawi yochulukirapo. Njira yochira idandipatsa nthawi yochulukirapo, ndikuwona moyo watsopano. Ndi nthawi iyi komanso malingaliro atsopano, ndidayatsa zilakolako zakale ndikupezanso zatsopano.

Kwa ine, khansa sinali mathero, koma chiyambi cha china chatsopano. Ndimayesetsa kusangalala ndi mphindi iliyonse ya ulendowu.

Chikondi,

Debbie

Debbie Murphy ndi opanga mafashoni komanso mwini wa Missfit Creations. Ali ndi chidwi ndi yoga, kuthamanga, ndi kulemba .. Amakhala ndi amuna awo, ana awiri aakazi, ndi galu wawo, Finny, ku England.