Kalata Yopita Kwa Mwana Wanga wamkazi Pamene Akuganiza Zoyenera Kuchita Ndi Moyo Wake

Zamkati

• Kulota zazikulu
• Kuphunzira kukonda zomwe mumachita
• Mfundo yofunika: Chititsani chidwi chanu

Wokondedwa mwana wanga,

Ndikuganiza kuti chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe ndimakonda kwambiri pokhala mayi ako ndikutha kukuwonani mukukula ndikusintha tsiku lililonse. Tsopano muli ndi zaka 4, ndipo mwina ndi msinkhu wokondedwa wanga panobe. Osati kuti sindikuphonya mwana wotsekemera, kapena chisangalalo cha zoyambira zanu zonse. Koma tsopano, msungwana wanga wokoma? Tili ndi zokambirana zenizeni limodzi. Mtundu womwe timakambirana mobwerezabwereza. Mumayankha mafunso anga ndikufunsani anu. Mtundu wa zokambirana zomwe mumapanga malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu m'malo mongofotokozera zomwe mwamva. Tsopano, ndiyenera kuwona zambiri mkati mwa malingaliro anu okongola amenewo, ndipo ndimawakonda.

Posachedwa, timakambirana za zomwe mungafune kukhala mukadzakula. Inu munati, "Captain America." Ndipo ndidamwetulira. Sindikuganiza kuti mukupezabe funsoli, ndipo zili bwino. Ndimakonda kuti Captain America ndiye cholinga chanu chachikulu.

Koma tsiku lina, osati patali kwambiri pamzerewu, ndikuganiza, mudzayamba kuzindikira kuti akuluakulu amasankha momwe amagwiritsira ntchito miyoyo yawo ndikupeza ndalama zawo. “Kodi ukufuna kukhala ndani?” Limenelo lidzakhala funso lomwe mumangomva pafupipafupi koposa. Ndipo ngakhale mayankho anu atha kusintha nthawi chikwi pamene mukukula, ndikudziwa kuti mudzayambanso kuzindikira kupsinjika kwa funsolo.

Ndipo ndikungofuna kuti mudziwe: Palibe vuto lililonse lomwe lidzachokera kwa ine.

Kulota zazikulu

Mukuona, ndili mwana, maloto anga oyamba anali oti ndikhale wolemba. Tsiku lomwe ndidalandira magazini yanga yoyamba, zidali choncho. Ndinadziwa kuti ndikufuna kulemba nkhani kuti ndizipeza ndalama.

Pena pake panjira, malotowo adasandulika ndikufuna kukhala wosewera. Ndipo wophunzitsa dolphin, zomwe ndizomwe ndidapitako kukoleji. Kapena osachepera, ndizomwe ndidayamba kukoleji ndikukhulupirira kuti ndidzakhala. Malotowo adangokhala semester imodzi, komabe. Ndiyeno, izo zinali kubwerera ku bolodi lojambula.

Zinanditengera zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri kuti ndimalize maphunziro anga kukoleji. Ndinasintha nthawi zanga zingapo zazikulu: biology cell, pomwe ndimafuna kukhala oncologist wa ana; maphunziro azimayi, pomwe nthawi zambiri ndimangoyandama ndikusatsimikiza zomwe ndiyenera kukhala. Pomaliza, ndidasankha psychology, pomwe ndidaganiza kuti mayitanidwe anga azikagwira ntchito ndi ana omwe amachitiridwa nkhanza komanso osasamalidwa.

Awa ndi madigiri omwe ndidamaliza nawo maphunziro, ndikungotembenuka ndikupeza ntchito yothandizira pakampani yayikulu miyezi ingapo pambuyo pake.

Pambuyo pake ndidayamba kugwira ntchito zanga, ndikugwiritsa ntchito digiri yanga kutsimikizira kuti ndapita ku koleji. Ndinkapeza ndalama zambiri, ndinali ndi maubwino ambiri, komanso ndinkakonda anthu omwe ndimagwira nawo ntchito.

Nthawi yonseyi, ndinali kulemba. Ntchito zing'onozing'ono poyamba, kenako ntchito yomwe idayamba kuyenda mosasinthasintha. Ndinayamba kugwira ntchito m'buku, makamaka chifukwa ndinali ndi mawu ambiri omwe ndimafunikira kulemba. Koma sindinaganize kuti ndingathe kuchita ntchito imeneyi. Sindinaganizepo kuti ndingathe kupeza ndalama pochita zomwe ndimakonda kwambiri.

Tsoka ilo, limenelo ndi bodza lomwe timauzidwa kawirikawiri. Tikaumiriza ana kuti azindikire zomwe akufuna kukhala pazaka zazing'ono zotere, tikamawakakamiza kupita ku koleji asanakonzekere, tikamatsindika ndalama ndi kukhazikika chifukwa cha chilakolako ndi chisangalalo - timawatsimikizira kuti zomwe amakonda sizingatheke mwina ndi zomwe zimawabweretsera kupambana.

Kuphunzira kukonda zomwe mumachita

China chake choseketsa chidachitika pomwe mudabadwa. Pomwe ndimakhala miyezi yoyambirira ndili kunyumba nanu, ndidazindikira kuti kubwerera ku 9-to-5 komwe sindinali wokonda kudzakhala kwadzidzidzi kwa ine mwadzidzidzi. Sindinayambe ndadana ndi ntchito yanga kale, koma ndinadziwa kuti ndikanakhala ngati ndicho chomwe chinandichotsa kwa inu.

Ndinadziwa kuti ndiyenera kugwira ntchito chifukwa timafunikira ndalama. Koma ndimadziwanso kuti maola omwe utalikirako akuyenera kukhala ofunika kwa ine. Ngati ndingadzapulumuke kulekanitsidwa kumeneko, ndiyenera kukonda zomwe ndidachita.

Chifukwa chake, chifukwa cha inu, ndidayamba kugwira ntchito molimbika kuposa momwe ndagwirapo ntchito m'moyo wanga kuti ndipange china chake. Ndipo ndidatero. Ndili ndi zaka 30, ndinakhala wolemba. Ndinazipangitsa kuti zizigwira ntchito. Ndipo patatha zaka zinayi, ndadalitsika osati kungokhala ndi ntchito yomwe ndimaikonda, komanso kukhala ndi ntchito yomwe imandipatsa kusinthasintha komwe ndikufunika kuti ndikhale mayi womwe ndikufuna kukhala.

Mfundo yofunika: Chititsani chidwi chanu

Ndikufuna chidwi chimenecho kwa iwe, msungwana wokoma. Chilichonse chomwe mungakhale, chilichonse chomwe mungachite ndi moyo wanu, ndikufuna kuti chikupangitseni kukhala osangalala. Ndikufuna kuti chikhale china chomwe chimakulitsa chidwi chanu.

Chifukwa chake ngati mukukhala kunyumba amayi, kapena simuli mayi konse, kapena waluso, kapena wasayansi wa roketi, ndikufuna kuti mudziwe chinthu chimodzi ichi: Simuyenera kudziwa chilichonse panthawiyo ndinu 18, kapena 25, kapena 30.

Simuyenera kukhala ndi mayankho onse, ndipo sindidzakukakamizani kuti musankhe. Mumaloledwa kufufuza. Kuti mudziwe nokha ndikupeza zomwe mukufuna. Simukuloledwa kukhala pakama osachita chilichonse, koma muli ndi chilolezo changa kuti mulephere. Kusintha malingaliro anu. Kutsata njira yomwe sikungakhale yolondola, ndikusintha njira nthawi imodzi kapena ziwiri.

Muli ndi nthawi yochuluka kuti muzindikire zomwe mukufuna kuchita ndi moyo wanu. Ndipo ndani akudziwa, mwina tsiku lina mudzazindikira momwe mungakhalire Captain America.

Malingana ngati kuchita izi kumakupangitsani kukhala osangalala ndikukwaniritsidwa, ndikukulonjezani kuti ndidzakhala wokondwerera kwambiri nthawi zonse.

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