Kodi Mabuku Ojambula Aakulu Ndi Chida Chothandizira Kupanikizika Amakonzedwa?

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• Kupeza Bukhu Loyenera Lolondola
• Kusiyana Pakati pa Kukongoletsa Monga Mwana Wosiyana ndi Wamkulu
• Kodi Zinali Zoyenereradi?
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Posachedwapa, nditapanikizika kwambiri kuntchito, mnzangayo anandiuza kuti nditenge buku lopaka utoto popita kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito. Ndinalemba mwachangu 'haha' pazenera la Gchat ... kokha ku Google 'Coloring Books for Adults' ndikupeza zotsatira zambiri. (Sayansi imati zokonda zimatha kuchepetsa nkhawa komanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, FYI.)

Ndizowona kuti utoto wopitilira zaka zisanu ndi zitatu ndikutsika kwakanthawi-pazifukwa zomveka. Kupaka utoto kumawonedwa ngati machiritso, ntchito zochizira kwa akulu, ngakhale amayamikiridwa kuti amathandiza odwala khansa kuti azindikire komanso kuchira, malinga ndi kafukufuku wina wofalitsidwa m'magaziniyi. Psychooncology. Koma ngakhale m'malo ovuta-tinene kuti, kumaliza maphunziro a utoto kusukulu kungathandize kuthana ndi mavuto, kukuthandizani kupumula, komanso kulimbikitsa chidwi. Monga munthu amene amagwira ntchito yanthawi zonse ndi ntchito yodzichitira payokha, moyo wamagulu, ndandanda yolimbitsa thupi, ndi galu, nthawi zambiri ndimafunikira zen.

Mnyamata wanga wazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi ankakonda kwambiri mabuku opaka utoto, ndipo ndinkatha kuchita maola ambiri ndi bokosi la makrayoni ndi zithunzi zina. Ndiye ndidaganiza bwanji osaponyanso kusukulu ya grade ndikukaiwombera? Zachidziwikire, ndimamva pang'ono kugula makrayoni, kukhala pansi pakama, ndikujambula pachithunzipa, koma ndinali ndi chidwi chofuna kudziwa ngati zingapangitse kusiyana kwamavuto anga komanso chisangalalo chonse.

Kupeza Bukhu Loyenera Lolondola

Pali mabuku ambiri opaka utoto a akulu - ndani adadziwa?! Kuchokera ku mandala (kapena zizindikilo) zomwe zimalimbikitsa mitundu yokongola m'mabuku omwe amakhala ndi ziwonetsero monga momwe mumawonera muubongo wanu wamabuku amitundu, pali chilichonse chomwe aliyense amafunika kujambula. Ndinayesa mabuku angapo opaka utoto: The Coloring Dream Mandalas, Colour Me Happy, ndi Let It Go! Kupaka utoto ndi Zochita Kuti Mudzutse Malingaliro Anu ndi Kuchepetsa Kupsinjika Kwa Akuluakulu Colloring Book. Ngakhale kuti aliyense anali ndi zofunikira zake-mandalas anali opanda nzeru modabwitsa (kungosintha mitundu kuti apange chithunzi chofanana ndi kaleidoscope) ndipo buku lochepetsera nkhawa linali losavuta kwambiri - lomwe ndimakonda kwambiri linali Color Me Happy. Zinali zachikhalidwe, ndi zithunzi za nyumba zokongola, chakudya, maulendo, ndi anthu oti musankhe. Ndidakonda momwe olemba adalemba m'masamba angapo kuti akulimbikitseni, koma enawo adatsala opanda kanthu kuti omwe akukonzekeretsayo adzaze ndi luso lawo komanso mapulani amitundu. Nditakhazikika pabuku loyenera, ndidakhazikitsa chikumbutso cha kalendala ya Google kuti ndikhale ndikudzipumitsa.

Kusiyana Pakati pa Kukongoletsa Monga Mwana Wosiyana ndi Wamkulu

Pambuyo pa ntchito, nthawi zambiri ndimagwira gulu la nkhonya, ndimayenda ndi mwana wamwamuna, ndikusamba kenako (kenako!) Ndimadya chakudya chamadzulo. Pakadali pano, ndimakhala wokonzeka kuyatsa Netflix ndikumazizira (ndekha, zikomo kwambiri). Ngakhale zili choncho, sindimakhala womasuka ndikamawonera TV-ndimamva ngati ndikufunika kuti ndichite china chake. Chifukwa chake Lachiwiri usiku, ndidapindika ndikutuluka thukuta pabedi langa ndi tiyi wotentha ndipo kamwanako akutafuna chidole chake pafupi ndi ine ndikutulutsa bukhu langa latsopano lopaka utoto ndi makrayoni anga apamwamba kwambiri (kodi mumadziwa kuti amapanga zobweza tsopano?) , ndikudutsa m'buku langa lojambulira mpaka chithunzi china chitulutsa chidwi changa.

Ndinapeza malo ochititsa kaso okhala ndi nyumba zochepa komanso mapiri akuluakulu. Pamwamba pa nyumbazi panali nyenyezi khumi ndi ziwiri kapena zingapo, ndipo zidandikumbutsa zakukula kwathu ku North Carolina, komwe thambo limawoneka kuti likupitilira kwamuyaya, mosadodometsedwa ndi nyumba zomwe ndikuziwona tsopano ku New York. Panali chinachake chamtendere pa chithunzicho chomwe chinandikumbutsa kukhala kunyumba ndi banja langa ndi omwe ndimawakonda kwambiri, choncho ndinasankha kuchokera pagululo.

Ndidayamba kupanga utoto kumwamba popeza zikadakhala zosavuta - ndipo mkati mwa mphindi 10, ndinali nditalemba. Pamene ndinali wamng'ono, ndinali ndi nkhawa kwambiri ndikukhalabe m'mizere ndipo ndinkataya chithunzi ngati sichinali changwiro. Zaka makumi awiri pambuyo pake, miyezo yanga sinali yokwera kwambiri. Ndikadakhala kuti ndalakwitsa-zomwe ndidachita, kangapo-ndinayamba njira yothetsera mavuto ndikupanga kukhala gawo la chithunzicho, chinthu chomwe sindimaganizira ndili mwana.

Kodi Zinali Zoyenereradi?

Ndidamaliza kujambula patadutsa nthawi yogona kuti ndimalize kujambula, ndipo, moona mtima, sindinayang'ane iPhone yanga kuti ndiwone kuti inali nthawi yanji. Sindinayang'ane mapulogalamu anga, sindinayankhe mameseji, komanso sindinatchule pa TV yakumbuyo. Nditapita kukagona, ndinasankhidwa, ndipo ndinagona tulo tofa nato. Nditalowa ntchito mawa lake, ndinabwera okonzeka kugwira ntchito: Ndinakonza nkhani, kulemba zochepa, kugawa zina ndikudutsa ku inbox yanga isanakwane 1 koloko. Ndidadzimva kuti ndidalimbikitsidwa komanso ndikulenga zinthu ndipo sindimakhala ndi nkhawa zambiri kuposa dzulo. Kuwonongeka kokhako kwa mitundu: ziphuphu zomwe ndidapeza mdzanja langa ndikadzaza mitundu.

M'kati mwa sabata yotsatira, pamene ndinadzipeza kuti sindingathe kugona usiku kapena pamene ndinali kugwira ntchito yaikulu kuntchito ndipo ndinkafunika kudzozedwa, ndinatulutsa bukhu langa lopaka utoto ndikuyamba kujambula mpaka chinachake chinadina. Nthawi iliyonse, ndinkamva kuti mavuto m'mapewa mwanga ndipo ubongo wanga umasiya kuthamanga. Chosangalatsa ndichakuti, wogwira ntchito yanga pantchito angondipatsa buku lojambulira ngati mphatso 'zikomo', ndipo pamapeto pake ndidagulira mayi anga lomwe ndidzamupatse tchuthi ichi. Ndinaguliranso mnzanga wina yemwe akufunafuna ntchito ndipo akufunika njira yololera kuti malingaliro ake aziyenda. Ndi mphatso yosavuta, ndipo ndimafuna kuti ndizitha kugawana chida champhamvu chothana ndi nkhawazi ndi anthu m'moyo wanga omwe ndikudziwa kuti amafunikira kwambiri. (Mukusowa zambiri kuposa buku lokongoletsera? Malangizo 5 Osiyanasiyana Othandizira Kupanikizika Amagwiradi Ntchito.)

Pomwe ndimalemba utoto, ndimasiya mndandanda wazomwe Ndiyenera Kuchita. Ndimaleka kuganizira zamtsogolo. Ndidadzilola kutayika m'mitundu ndikutsatira mizere ndikuganiza kunja kwa masamba. Kupuma kwamaganizidwe kumathandiza-komanso moona mtima, kupanga nkhani ndi zowoneka ndi zithunzi tsopano ndizosangalatsa monga momwe zimakhalira nthawi yomwe ndimagona mchipinda changa chogona.

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