Kodi Avereji ya Chiwerengero cha Omwe Amagonana Nawo Nditi?

Zamkati

• Kodi avareji imasiyanasiyana bwanji boma?
• Kodi chiyerekezo chonse chaku America chikufanana bwanji ndi mayiko ena?
• Kodi anthu amanama kangati za kuchuluka kwawo?
• Kodi ndizotheka kukhala 'osasamala' kapena 'achiwerewere'?
• Ndiye, 'chabwino' ndi chiyani?
• Kumbukirani
  
• Muyenera kukambirana nthawi yanji yokhudzana ndi kugonana ndi wokondedwa wanu?
• Kodi mungatenge kachilombo ka HIV kuchokera kwa mnzanu watsopano?
• Momwe mungachitire zogonana motetezeka
• Mfundo yofunika

Timaphatikizapo zinthu zomwe timaganiza kuti ndizothandiza kwa owerenga athu. Ngati mutagula maulalo omwe ali patsamba lino, titha kupeza ndalama zochepa. Nayi njira yathu.

Zimasiyanasiyana

Pafupifupi anthu omwe amagonana amuna ndi akazi ku United States ndi 7.2, inatero kafukufuku waposachedwapa wa Superdrug.

Wogulitsa zaumoyo komanso kukongola ku UK adafunsa amuna ndi akazi opitilira 2,000 ku United States ndi Europe kuti afotokozere malingaliro awo ndi zokumana nazo m'mbiri zakugonana.

Ngakhale avareji imasiyanasiyana kutengera jenda komanso malo, kafukufukuyu akuwonetsa kuti - zikafika pazapakati - "zabwinobwino" kulibe.

Mbiri yakugonana imasiyanasiyana, ndipo izi ndizabwinobwino. Chofunika ndichakuti mukhale otetezeka komanso muzisamala popewa kufalikira kwa matenda opatsirana pogonana.

Kodi avareji imasiyanasiyana bwanji boma?

Zotsatira zake, kuchuluka kwa omwe amagonana nawo kumasiyana kwambiri kuchokera kumayiko ena.

Anthu okhala ku Louisiana akuti pafupifupi 15.7 ogonana nawo, pomwe Utah adalowa 2.6 - koma kusiyana kwake kumakhala kwanzeru. Oposa 62% okhala ku Utah ndi mamembala a Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, omwe amalimbikitsa kudziletsa mpaka ukwati.

Kodi chiyerekezo chonse chaku America chikufanana bwanji ndi mayiko ena?

Popeza kusiyana pakati pa United States, sizosadabwitsa kuti ambiri amasiyanasiyana ku Europe. Omwe adayankha ku United Kingdom anali ndi anzawo asanu ndi awiri, pomwe Italy anali 5.4.

Tsoka ilo, zidziwitso zakumadera akunja kwa United States ndi Western Europe sizimapezeka mosavuta, chifukwa chake ndizovuta kuwonjezera kuyerekezerako.

Kodi anthu amanama kangati za kuchuluka kwawo?

Malinga ndi kafukufukuyu, 41.3% ya amuna ndi 32.6% ya amayi adavomereza kuti amanama za mbiri yawo yakugonana. Ponseponse, abambo amatha kuchulukitsa kuchuluka kwa omwe amagonana nawo, pomwe azimayi amakhala ocheperako.

Komabe, azimayi 5.8% ndi amuna 10.1% amavomereza kuti onse akuchulukirachulukira ndipo kuchepetsa chiwerengerocho, kutengera momwe zinthu zilili.

Moona mtima, ndikosavuta kumvetsetsa chifukwa chomwe anthu anganamizire kuchuluka kwawo.

Zakale zomwe anthu akuyembekeza kuti atha kukhala nazo zitha kupangitsa amuna kukhulupirira kuti akufunika kuwonjezera chiwerengero chawo kuti chiwoneke ngati "chosangalatsa." Pa flipside, amayi angaganize kuti ayenera kuchepetsa chiwerengero chawo kuti asawonedwe ngati "achiwerewere."

Mwanjira iliyonse, ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti mbiri yanu yakugonana ndi bizinesi yanu. Palibe amene ayenera kukakamizidwa kuti azitsatira miyezo ya anthu - kapena aliyense payekha - miyezo.

Kodi ndizotheka kukhala 'osasamala' kapena 'achiwerewere'?

Anthu asanu ndi atatu pa zana aliwonse omwe anafunsidwa anati ali ndi “zotheka” kapena "ali ndi chiyembekezo chothetsa chibwenzi" ngati wokondedwa wawo ali ndi zibwenzi zochepa kwambiri. Koma kodi “ochepa” ndi ati?

Malinga ndi kafukufukuyu, azimayi adati othandizana nawo 1.9 anali osamala kwambiri, pomwe amuna adati 2.3.

Pa flipside, anthu 30 pa 100 aliwonse adanena kuti ali ndi "zotheka" kapena "mwina" kuti athetse chibwenzi ngati mnzawo ali nawo ambiri ogonana nawo.

Amayi nthawi zambiri amakhala osinthasintha kuposa amuna zikafika pa mbiri yokhudza kugonana kwa anzawo, powawona anzawo 15.2 ngati "achiwerewere kwambiri." Amuna adati amakonda anzawo omwe ali ndi 14 kapena ochepera.

Mwachidziwikire, nambala "yoyenera" imasiyanasiyana malinga ndi munthu. Ndipo ngakhale ena atha kukhala ndi malingaliro osankhika, ena mwina sangafune kudziwa za mbiri yakugonana kwa wokondedwa wawo. Zilinso bwino.

Ndiye, 'chabwino' ndi chiyani?

Kumbukirani

• Palibe pafupifupi weniweni. Zimasiyana malinga ndi jenda, malo, komanso komwe akuchokera.
• Chiwerengero chanu cha omwe adagonana nawo kale sichikutanthauza kufunika kwanu.
• Kugawana "nambala" yanu ndikosafunikira kuposa kukhala owonetsetsa za matenda anu opatsirana pogonana komanso kusamala kuti mudzisunge - komanso mnzanu - motetezeka.

Amuna ndi akazi a ku America amakonda kuvomereza, kunena kuti 7.6 ndi 7.5 awo ndi "abwino"

Koma kafukufukuyu anapeza kuti zomwe zimawoneka ngati zabwino zimasiyanasiyana kutengera komwe kuli. Anthu aku Europe anali otheka kupereka nambala yabwino kwambiri. Chiwerengero choyenera cha omwe adagonana nawo kale ku France, mwachitsanzo, ndi 10.

Muyenera kukambirana nthawi yanji yokhudzana ndi kugonana ndi wokondedwa wanu?

Oposa 30 peresenti ya omwe adafunsidwa amaganiza kuti ndi koyenera kukambirana za mbiri yanu yakugonana m'mwezi woyamba waubwenzi wanu, zomwe zimakhala zomveka. Ndikofunika kugawana mbiri yanu yakugonana - monga ngati muli ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana - koyambirira kwa chibwenzi chanu.

Ponseponse, 81 peresenti amaganiza kuti ndichinthu chomwe muyenera kukambirana m'miyezi isanu ndi itatu yoyambirira.

Ngakhale zitha kukhala zowopsa kuyankhula za mbiri yanu yakugonana koyambirira kwa chibwenzi, mukangolankhula za izi, ndizabwino.

Kambiranani za mbiri yanu yakugonana - ndikuyesedwa - kale kuchita zogonana ndi bwenzi latsopano. Izi zikuwonetsetsa kuti nonse mutha kutenga njira zoyenera kuti mukhale otetezeka.

Kodi mungatenge kachilombo ka HIV kuchokera kwa mnzanu watsopano?

Aliyense ayenera kuyesedwa koyambirira kwa chibwenzi chatsopano, mosasamala za mbiri yawo yakugonana. Zimangotenga kugonana kosaziteteza kuti munthu atenge matenda opatsirana pogonana kapena kukhala ndi pakati kosafunikira.

Palibe chidziwitso chilichonse chonena kuti kukhala ndi zibwenzi zochulukirapo kumawonjezera chiopsezo cha matenda opatsirana pogonana. Pamapeto pa tsikulo, zimadzafika pachitetezo.

Bungwe la World Health Organization linanena kuti matenda opatsirana pogonana amapezeka tsiku lililonse. Ambiri samayambitsa zizindikiro.

Momwe mungachitire zogonana motetezeka

Kuti mugonane mosamala, muyenera:

• Kayezetseni musanagone kapena mukamaliza kugonana.
• Gwiritsani ntchito kondomu ndi bwenzi lanu nthawi zonse.
• Gwiritsani ntchito damu la mano kapena kondomu yakunja mukamagonana mkamwa.
• Gwiritsani kondomu yamkati kapena yakunja mukamagonana kumatako.
• Gwiritsani ntchito makondomu moyenera ndikuwataya moyenera.
• Gwiritsani ntchito mafuta kapena silicone otetezedwa ndi kondomu kuti muchepetse kusweka kwa kondomu.
• Pezani katemera wa papillomavirus ya anthu (HPV) ndi hepatitis B (HBV).
• Kumbukirani kuti makondomu ndi njira yokhayo yolerera yomwe imateteza kumatenda opatsirana pogonana.

Gulani makondomu, makondomu akunja, madamu a mano, ndi mafuta opangira madzi pa intaneti.

Mfundo yofunika

Zowonadi zake, kufunikira kwa mbiri yanu yakugonana kuli kwa inu. Aliyense ndi wosiyana. Zomwe zili zofunika kwa wina sizingakhale zofunikira kwa wina.

Mosasamala kuchuluka kwanu, ndikofunikira kukambirana momasuka komanso moona mtima ndi wokondedwa wanu za mbiri yanu yakugonana. Khalani owona mtima nthawi zonse ngati muli ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana ndipo pewani zoteteza kuti inu ndi anzanuwo mukhale otetezeka.