Ma Adoptee Abwino Kwambiri Pachaka

Zamkati

• Atsikana Otayika
• Wolembedwera Wolengeza
• Kuvomereza Kwa Mwana Wobadwa
• Kudzera M'maso a Mwana Woleredwa
• Blog Yotengedwa
• Andilera
• Kubwezeretsa Adoptee
• Adoptionfind Blog
• Adoptee mu Kubwezeretsa
• Achimereka Achimereka Achimereka
• Nkhosa Zakuda Maloto Okoma
• Daniel Drennan EIAwar
• Kum'mawa-Kumadzulo kwa Mtengo wa Bodhi
• Nyani wa Harlow
• Moyo Wotengeka
• Osapepesa Pokhala Ine
• Kukankha chingwe
• Zolemba za Adoptee Osakhala Wokwiya Kwambiri ku Asia
• Onse M'banja Lovomerezeka
• Mwana Wabwino: Adoptee Diaries

Tasankha mabulogu mosamala chifukwa akugwira ntchito mwakhama kuti aphunzitse, kulimbikitsa, ndikupatsa mphamvu owerenga awo zosintha pafupipafupi komanso chidziwitso chapamwamba kwambiri. Ngati mukufuna kutiuza za blog, asankhe mwa kutitumizira imelo ku [email protected]!

Dziko la Massachusetts lidapereka lamulo lokhazikitsa dzikolo mu 1851. Kuyambira pamenepo, malamulo ndi malangizo - osatchulanso kufunikira kwachikhalidwe - kukhazikitsidwa kwasintha kwambiri ku United States.

Masiku ano, pafupifupi ana 135,000 amatengedwa ku United States chaka chilichonse. Ngakhale kuti mawu oti "kulera" sanasankhe kwenikweni kuposa zaka 40 kapena 50 zapitazo, ana ambiri omwe aleredwa ndi makolo ena amakhala ndi malingaliro ambiri chifukwa cha izi. Ngakhale kuti si onse omvera omwe akumva motere, ambiri amakumana ndi malingaliro osiyidwa komanso osadzidalira omwe atha kupitilira zaka, mwinanso osakhala moyo wonse.

Nthawi zambiri nkhani yokhudza kukhazikitsidwa kwa mwana imafotokozedwa makamaka kuchokera ku kholo la womulera - osati iwo omwewo. Mabulogu omwe tawatchula akusintha izi. Amaphatikizaponso mawu osiyanasiyana omwe akuwunikira zowunikira, zovuta, komanso zokumana nazo za anthu omwe adalandiridwa.

Atsikana Otayika

Kuyambira mu 2011, Lost Daughters ndi mgwirizano wodziyimira pawokha wa amayi omwe amalemba za zomwe adakumana nazo atasinthidwa. Cholinga chawo ndikupanga malo abwinobwino kuti omvera atembenukire pomwe angafunike kufotokoza. Olemba amathetsa mitu yakusiyidwa ndi kupilira, amafufuza mabungwe omwe amaweta ndikulimbikitsa kulera ana, ndikulimbikitsa malo otseguka pazokambirana zopindulitsa pakulera ana.

Pitani ku blog.

Wolembedwera Wolengeza

Blog iyi, yolembedwa ndi Amanda Transue-Woolston, ndiyofunika kwambiri. Anayamba kulemba za zomwe adakumana nazo atapeza makolo ake obadwa. Atachita izi, adayamba kuchita zachiwawa. Tsamba lake limapereka chidziwitso chambiri chokhudza kukhazikitsidwa kwalamulo. Cholinga chake ndikutsutsa lingaliro loti kukhazikitsidwa ndi njira yodabwitsa, ndipo tikuganiza kuti ali bwino.

Pitani ku blog.

Kuvomereza Kwa Mwana Wobadwa

Bulogiyi yosadziwika yosavomerezeka ndi malo abwino otetezedwa kwa iwo omwe akuwalera ndipo akufuna kugawana zomwe akumana nazo. Zolemba apa ndi zosaphika. Tsatanetsatane mwatsatanetsatane kusatetezeka komwe kumabwera chifukwa chololera. Izi zimaphatikizapo kulephera kudalira, komanso zokumbukira zopweteka zomwe adachotsedwa m'nyumba za makolo obereka. Ngati ndinu wovomerezeka ndipo mwakumana ndi izi kapena zina zakumverera zakuleredwa ndi ena ndipo mukufuna malo oti mufotokozere zovuta zanu, ano ndi malo anu.

Pitani ku blog.

Kudzera M'maso a Mwana Woleredwa

Pa blog yangayi, Becky amafotokoza zaulendo wake wokapeza makolo ake omubereka. Amagawana ndi owerenga malingaliro ake amkati komanso zovuta zomwe zimadza pankhani yakuleredwa. Zina mwazolemba zake zochititsa chidwi zikuphatikiza kuwonongedwa kwa ndalama zomwe zimakhudzana ndi kuleredwa kwake, ndi zomwe zinali ngati kumva kuti abambo ake omubadwa anali ndi mavuto azaumoyo.

Pitani ku blog.

Blog Yotengedwa

Blog iyi imapereka ziwerengero zambiri zokhudzana ndi njira yolerera ana, kuphatikiza maakaunti ambiri amunthu woyamba. Maganizo ndi malingaliro amasiyanasiyana. Mwachitsanzo, cholembedwa chazabwino ndi zoyipa zakukondwerera tsiku lakubadwa kwanu motsutsana ndi tsiku lawo lobadwa, zimapereka zokambirana kumbali zonse ziwiri. Zina mwazolembedwazo ndizazokha, pomwe zina zimawunikira nkhani zadziko lonse. Koma zonsezi zimapereka malingaliro osangalatsa komanso osangalatsa padziko lapansi la kukhazikitsidwa.

Pitani ku blog.

Andilera

Jessenia Arias sazengereza pankhani yolankhula za zowawa zomwe ana amakumana nazo nthawi yomwe amalandila kapena pambuyo pake. Zowonjezera zilipo kwa owerenga omwe akuphatikiza magulu othandizira othandizira anthu amtundu wawo. Mupezanso zolemba pazotsatira zazitali zakukhudzidwa ndi kukhazikitsidwa. Ndi upangiri wamomwe mungakhululukire makolo anu obadwira pamodzi ndi zida zopezera maphunziro a ana oleredwa.

Pitani ku blog.

Kubwezeretsa Adoptee

Blog iyi ndiyabwino kwa anthu omwe akufuna kumvetsetsa bwino za kukhazikitsidwa malinga ndi malingaliro achikhristu. Mwauzimu, wolemba mabulogu Deanna Doss Shrode adalemba mabuku osachepera anayi onena za kukhazikitsidwa. Monga minisitala, wokamba pagulu, komanso wovomerezeka, Doss Shrode amabweretsa pagome mawonekedwe apadera. Chikhulupiriro chake chimapereka maziko olimba mtima kuti alankhule za zomwe zamuchitikira.

Pitani ku blog.

Adoptionfind Blog

Zamgululi Brunskill ndi wolemba wovomerezeka komanso wodziwika yemwe adapeza makolo ake omubereka zaka 25 zapitazo. Zolemba zake momwe momwe ndale zilili pakadali pano zimakhudzira kukhazikitsidwa kwake ndizolemba. Chimodzi mwazomwe adakhudza kwambiri chinali kuyambira Tsiku la Amayi. Adalemba chidutswa chosunthira momwe amalankhulira za amayi ake omlera komanso mayi womubereka.

Pitani ku blog.

Adoptee mu Kubwezeretsa

Pamela A. Karanova adazindikira kuti adamulera ali ndi zaka 5. Anakhala zaka 20 akusaka makolo ake omubereka. Kalata yake yoyamba ndi kalata yopita kwa amayi ake omubereka, momwe amafotokozera za kulota kophatikizana kwawo mosangalala komanso momwe zimasiyanirana ndi zenizeni. Cholemba ichi chotsegula chimakhazikitsa maziko azomwe zili patsamba lake.

Pitani ku blog.

Achimereka Achimereka Achimereka

Blog iyi ndi chidziwitso chambiri kwa anthu amtundu waku America omwe adatengedwa. Mabuku, milandu kukhothi, mapepala ofufuzira, ndi maakaunti a munthu woyamba - zonse zilipo. Onerani makanema ofotokoza zovuta zomwe anthu amtundu wa Native American amakumana nazo zokhudzana ndi kukhazikitsidwa, werengani nkhani zalamulo zaposachedwa kwambiri zokhudza ufulu wa olera, ndi zina zambiri.

Pitani ku blog.

Nkhosa Zakuda Maloto Okoma

Wolemba wa Black Sheep Sweet Dreams ndi waku Africa-America ndipo adaleredwa m'banja loyera. Amagwira ntchito yabwino kwambiri yogwiritsa ntchito matumizidwe ophatikizika amawu, nyimbo kuti amve zambiri zamtunduwu. Tsamba lake limalimbikitsa ena omwe akufuna kupeza makolo awo owabereka, ndi momwe angakwaniritsire cholingacho.

Pitani ku blog.

Daniel Drennan EIAwar

Daniel amadzitcha wamkulu. Amakhulupirira kuti kukhazikitsidwa kumatsitsidwa ngati njira yokutira maswiti yomwe ikuwoneka ngati yosakhudzidwa ndi mabanja ndi ana omwe amawakhudza. M'modzi mwazolemba zake, amalankhula za The Adoption Honness Project, gulu lomwe adakhazikitsa ndi cholinga chobwezera "kutengera" mawu oti kukhazikitsidwa kuzinthu zoyipa zomwe nthawi zambiri zimalumikizidwa, makamaka pazanema.

Pitani ku blog.

Kum'mawa-Kumadzulo kwa Mtengo wa Bodhi

Kum'mawa-Kumadzulo kwa Mtengo wa Bodhi kumalongosola za moyo wa Brooke, mayi waku Sri Lankan yemwe adatengedwa ngati khanda ndi banja la ku Australia. Cholinga chake ndikusintha njira yakusinthira poyang'ana kwambiri anthu omwe aleredwa. Zolemba zake zimafotokoza ngati mtundu, mkangano wosintha dzina lanu kapena ayi, ndi zina zambiri.

Pitani ku blog.

Nyani wa Harlow

Bulogu iyi imathana ndi zovuta zomwe zimalumikizidwa nthawi zambiri zakulandila ana padziko lonse lapansi. Wolemba JaeRan Kim adabadwira ku South Korea ndipo adalowa m'banja laku America ku 1971. Kim ndiwofunika pofotokoza kukoka ndi kukoka kukhala munthu wamtundu m'banja loyera, zomwe zimatanthauza kukhala waku Korea, komanso tanthauzo lake kukhala Wachimereka. Mukayamba kuwerenga, simudzatha kuyima.

Pitani ku blog.

Moyo Wotengeka

The Adopted Life imabweretsa vuto lokhazikitsidwa pakati pa mafuko kutsogolo ndi malo. Unayamba ngati ulendo waumwini wa Angela Tucker, waku Africa-America ndipo adakulira m'banja loyera. Lero, tsamba lake limakhalanso ndi makanema omwe ali ndi dzina lomweli. Tucker amafunsa alendo omwe akuyenda nawo. Zokambiranazi ndizosangalatsa, zomvetsetsa, komanso zodabwitsa.

Pitani ku blog.

Osapepesa Pokhala Ine

Bulogu ya Lynn Grubb yadzaza ndi zothandizira aliyense amene angavomerezedwe kuti atengedwa. Ndipo pali magawo ena pa kuyesa kwa DNA ndi zomwe zidzachitike mtsogolo kuti adzalandire ana. Amaperekanso malingaliro owerengera omwe angathetsere zovuta zakukhudzidwa ndi kukhazikitsidwa komanso zovomerezeka zopeza makolo anu obereka. Grubb ndi mlembi wa "The Adoptee Survival Guide."

Pitani ku blog.

Kukankha chingwe

Terri Vanech amatenga gawo limodzi la blog positi. Sizolemba zonse zomwe zimafotokoza za kukhazikitsidwa. Mwachitsanzo, nkhani ina yosangalatsa ndi yokhudza kukambirana pakati pa omwe amaikira mapaipi omwe anali kukonza mapaipi obowoka m'nyumba mwake. Zolemba zina zimafotokoza za zovuta zamalamulo okhudza kulera ana ndi chinsinsi chomwe chimazungulira kulera ana ambiri. Wowerenga amatha kukhala nthawi yayitali kwa nthawi yayitali chifukwa cha zosangalatsa komanso zovuta.

Pitani ku blog.

Zolemba za Adoptee Osakhala Wokwiya Kwambiri ku Asia

Christina Romo adasiyidwa ali wakhanda ku Seoul, Korea.Iye samakumbukira nthawi imeneyo, koma m'mabuku ake a blog, amapanga nkhani yokhudza momwe amamvera za tsikuli. Simungathe kuwerenga zolemba zake, monga Wokondedwa Subway Station Baby, osasunthidwa.

Pitani ku blog.

Onse M'banja Lovomerezeka

Blog ina yayikulu kwambiri yakulera ana, Yonse mu Kutengera Kwa Banja, idalembedwa ndi Robin. Bulogu yake imaphatikiza zosakanikirana - zolemba zina zaumwini pamodzi ndi zida zofufuzira za omwe akuwayang'ana omwe akufuna kupeza makolo awo obadwa. Robin amachitanso ntchito yayikulu yolimbikitsa ma blogi ena omwe adalembedwa kuchokera pamalingaliro a wovomerezeka. Bwerani kuno kuti muwerenge mosiyanasiyana!

Pitani ku blog.

Mwana Wabwino: Adoptee Diaries

Wolemba Elaine Pinkerton adamulera ali ndi zaka 5. Anayamba kulemba zolemba ali ndi zaka 10, ndipo patatha zaka makumi anayi adaganiza zosintha magazini azaka 40 kukhala buku. Zolemba zake pamabulogu zimafotokoza zomwe amachita, maulendo ake, komanso momwe kufalitsa nkhani yake kumamuthandizira kuchira kuyambira pomwe amulera.

Pitani ku blog