Momwe Wojambulayu Amasinthira Momwe Timawonera Mabere, Imodzi Yotumizidwa pa Instagram Nthawi Imodzi

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• Aliyense ali ndi nkhani ya m'mawere
• Sikophweka kukula ngati mkazi ku India

Pulojekiti yodziwika bwino pa Instagram ikupereka malo abwino kwa azimayi kuti azikambirana za mabere awo.

Tsiku lililonse, pomwe wojambula waku Mumbai Indu Harikumar amatsegula Instagram kapena imelo, amapeza nkhani zambirimbiri, zatsatanetsatane wa miyoyo ya anthu, ndi ma nudes.

Iwo sali ofunsidwa, komabe. Zakhala zachizolowezi kwa Harikumar atayamba Identitty, ntchito yowonera anthu yomwe imalimbikitsa azimayi kuti azigawana nkhani zawo ndikumva za mabere awo.

Monga munthu yemwe amakambirana pafupipafupi za jenda, kudziwika, ndi thupi, Harikumar ali ndi ntchito zambiri zomwe zimapezeka pagulu.

Yoyamba, # 100IndianTinderTales, ili ndi zithunzi zake zosonyeza zokumana nazo za Amwenye omwe amagwiritsa ntchito pulogalamu ya chibwenzi ya Tinder. Anayambanso ntchito yotchedwa #BodyofStories yomwe imayang'ana kwambiri pazokambirana zamanyazi amthupi komanso chidwi cha thupi.

Ndizosadabwitsa kuti Identitty adachokera kukambirana koteroko. Mnzake adauza Harikumar za momwe chidwi chake chachikulu chidamupezera chisamaliro chosafunikira komanso momwe akumvera ndi zomwe anthu amachita komanso ndemanga zosafunsidwa. Nthawi zonse anali "msungwana wokhala ndi ziphuphu zazikulu." Iwo anali chinthu chamanyazi; ngakhale amayi ake adamuwuza kuti palibe munthu yemwe angafune kukhala naye chifukwa mawere ake anali akulu kwambiri komanso opunduka.

Harikumar, nawonso, adagawana zomwe adakumana nazo akukulira pachifuwa, ndikufotokozera zamwano ndi ndemanga zomwe amalandira kuchokera kwa ena. "Tinali mbali zosiyanasiyana za sipekitiramu [malinga ndi kukula kwake]. Nkhani zathu zinali zosiyana kwambiri komabe timafanana, "akutero Harikumar.

Nkhani ya mnzakeyi idakhala luso labwino kwambiri, lomwe Harikumar adagawana nawo pa Instagram, limodzi ndi nkhani ya mnzakeyo m'mawu ake omwe pamafotokozedwe. Ndi Identitty, Harikumar cholinga chake ndikufufuza ubale wa amayi ndi mabere awo magawo onse osiyanasiyana amoyo.

Aliyense ali ndi nkhani ya m'mawere

Nkhanizi zikuwonetsa malingaliro osiyanasiyana: manyazi ndi kunyozedwa za kukula kwa bere; kuvomereza ’’ malamulo ”; chidziwitso ndi mphamvu pophunzira za mabere; mphamvu zomwe angakhale nazo m'chipinda chogona; ndi chisangalalo chowawonetsera ngati chuma.

Mabras ndi nkhani ina yotentha. Mzimayi wina amalankhula zakupeza oyenera ali ndi zaka 30. Wina amafotokoza momwe adapeza kuti mabatani olimba opanda zingwe amamuthandiza kuti asamve momwe zimamvekera "kusandulika."

Ndipo chifukwa chiyani Instagram? Malo ochezera pa TV amapereka danga lomwe limakondana komabe amalola Harikumar kuti azikhala patali zinthu zikafika pothina. Amatha kugwiritsa ntchito funso lomata pazinthu za Instagram kuti ayambitse zokambirana. Amasankhanso omwe angawerenge ndi kuyankha, chifukwa amalandira zambiri.

Pakufunsira nkhani, Harikumar amafunsa anthu kuti apereke chithunzi cha utoto wawo komanso momwe angafunire kuti mawere awo ajambulidwe.

Amayi ambiri amafunsa kuti ajambulidwe monga mulungu wamkazi Aphrodite; monga mutu wa ojambula aku India Raja Ravi Varma; pakati pa maluwa; zovala zamkati; kumwamba; kapena wamaliseche, Oreos ataphimba mawere awo (kuchokera pamakalatawo "chifukwa ine ndi chotupitsa, chophatikizira").

Harikumar amakhala pafupifupi masiku awiri akusandutsa chithunzi chilichonse ndi nkhani kukhala chidutswa cha zaluso, kuyesera kukhala wowona momwe zingathere ku chithunzi cha munthuyo pomwe akufunafuna zolimbikitsa zake kwa ojambula osiyanasiyana.

Pazokambirana izi za mabere ndi matupi awo, azimayi ambiri amakambirananso za kulimbana kuti afanane kapena "kufinya" mabere awo m'mabokosi osiririka omwe afotokozedwa ndi chikhalidwe chofala, komanso momwe amafunira kusiya kukakamizidwa kuti awoneke ngati Victoria Zitsanzo zachinsinsi.

Munthu wosafunikira kwenikweni amalankhula zakufuna chiberekero chifukwa "kupezeka kwa mabere anga kumandivuta."

Pali azimayi omwe adapulumuka pakuzunzidwa, nthawi zina amapangidwa ndi munthu m'banja lawo. Pali azimayi omwe achira kuchipatala. Pali amayi ndi okonda.

Ntchitoyi idayamba popanda zochitika, koma Identitty adasandulika malo omvera chisoni, kukambirana, ndikukondwerera kulimbitsa thupi.

Nkhani zomwe zafotokozedwa pa Identitty zimachokera kwa azimayi amitundu yonse, mibadwo, ziwerengero, komanso osiyanasiyana azakugonana. Ambiri mwa iwo ndi azimayi omwe akuyesera kuti adutse zaka za ukapolo, kunyalanyaza, manyazi, ndi kuponderezedwa kuti avomereze ndikubwezeretsanso matupi awo.

Zambiri mwa izi zikugwirizana ndimagulu apano komanso chikhalidwe chokhala chete chomwe chimadzaza matupi azimayi ku India.

"Azimayi amalemba kuti," Umu ndi m'mene ndimamvera 'kapena' Zinandipangitsa kuti ndisamve ndekha. 'Pali zamanyazi zambiri, ndipo simulankhula za izi chifukwa mukuganiza kuti wina aliyense ali ndi zoterezi. Nthawi zina umayenera kuwona zinthu zofotokozedwa ndi wina kuti uzindikire momwemonso umamvera, "akutero Harikumar.

Amalandiranso mauthenga ochokera kwa abambo omwe amati nkhanizi zimawathandiza kumvetsetsa amayi ndi maubwenzi awo ndi mabere awo.

Sikophweka kukula ngati mkazi ku India

Matupi azimayi ku India nthawi zambiri amakhala apolisi, olamulidwa, komanso oyipitsidwa - amazunzidwa. Pali zokambirana zambiri zomwe akazi sayenera kuvala kapena sayenera kuchita kuposa chakuti zovala sizitsogolera kugwiriridwa. Makola a nkhosi amakhala pamwamba ndi masiketi otsika kuti abise thupi la mkazi komanso kutsatira mfundo za "ulemu" zomwe zakhala zikuchitika kalekale.

Chifukwa chake, ndizamphamvu kuwona Identitty ikuthandiza kusintha momwe akazi amawonera mabere ndi matupi awo. Monga m'modzi mwa azimayi (wovina wa Odissi) akuuza Harikumar, "Thupi ndi chinthu chokongola. Mizere yake ndi zokhotakhota ndi mizere yake ziyenera kusiririka, kusangalala, kukhalamo, ndi kusamalidwa, osaweruzidwa. ”

Tengani nkhani ya Sunetra *. Anakulira ali ndi mabere ang'onoang'ono ndipo amayenera kuchitidwa maopaleshoni angapo kuti atulutse zotupa m'menemo. Poyamba pomwe samayamwitsa mwana wake woyamba - kwa masiku 10 atabadwa, sanathe kubisala - adasefukira ndi kusazindikira komanso kudzikayikira.

Kenako tsiku lina, mwamatsenga, adagwira, ndipo Sunetra adakwanitsa kumudyetsa, usana ndi usiku, kwa miyezi 14. Akuti zinali zopweteka komanso zotopetsa, koma anali wonyada ndipo anali ndi ulemu watsopano pamabere ake posamalira ana ake.

Kwa fanizo la Sunetra, Harikumar adagwiritsa ntchito "The Wave Wamkulu" wa Hokusai wowonekera mthupi la Sunetra ngati kuti akuwonetsa mphamvu zomwe zili m'mawere ake.

"Ndimakonda ana anga ang'onoang'ono chifukwa cha zomwe adachita zazing'ono zanga," a Sunetra andilembera. "Kuzindikira kumapereka mwayi kwa anthu kuti atuluke ndikulankhula zazinthu zomwe sakanachita. Chifukwa chakufikaku, mwayi apeza wina yemwe angafanane ndi nkhani yawo. "

Sunetra amafuna kugawana nthano yake kuti auze azimayi ena kuti ngakhale zinthu zitha kukhala zovuta tsopano, pamapeto pake zonse zidzakhala bwino.

Ndipo ndizonso zomwe zidandipangitsa kuchita nawo Identitty: mwayi wouza akazi zinthu angathe ndipo adzatero khala bwino.

Nanenso ndakula ndikukhulupirira kuti ndiyenera kuphimba thupi langa. Monga mayi wa ku India, ndidaphunzira msanga kuti mawere ndiopatulika monga unamwali, ndipo thupi la mkazi lipangidwa apolisi. Kukula ndimabere akulu kumatanthauza kuti ndimayenera kuwasunga mosatekeseka ndikuwonetsetsa kuti zovala sizikuwakopa.

Ndikukula, ndidayamba kuwongolera thupi langa, ndikudzimasula ku zovuta za anthu. Ndinayamba kuvala ma bras oyenera. Kukhala wachikazi kunandithandiza kusintha malingaliro anga okhudza momwe akazi ayenera kuvalira ndi machitidwe.

Tsopano ndimamva kukhala womasuka komanso wamphamvu ndikavala nsonga kapena madiresi omwe amaonetsa kupindika kwanga. Chifukwa chake, ndidadzipempha kuti ndikokedwe ngati mkazi wapamwamba, ndikuwonetsa mabere ake chifukwa choti ndi chisankho chawo kuwasonyeza kudziko lapansi. (Zojambulazo siziyenera kufalitsidwa.)

Amayi akugwiritsa ntchito zithunzi ndi zolemba za Harikumar kuti apereke kumvera chisoni, kumvera chisoni, komanso kuthandizira iwo omwe akugawana nkhani zawo. Ambiri amagawana nkhani zawo mu gawo la ndemanga, popeza Identitty imatha kupereka malo otetezeka polankhula ndi abwenzi kapena abale sizotheka.

Ponena za Harikumar, akutenga tchuthi kwakanthawi kuchokera ku Identitty kuti aganizire ntchito yomwe imabweretsa ndalama. Sakulandira nkhani zatsopano koma akufuna kukwaniritsa zomwe zili mu inbox yake. Kuzindikiritsa kumatha kukhala chiwonetsero ku Bengaluru mu Ogasiti.

Mayina asinthidwa kukhala achinsinsi.

Joanna Lobo ndi mtolankhani wodziyimira pawokha ku India yemwe amalemba za zinthu zomwe zimapangitsa moyo wake kukhala wopindulitsa - chakudya chabwino, maulendo, cholowa chake, komanso azimayi olimba, odziyimira pawokha. Pezani iye ntchito pano.