Malangizo Okongoletsa Akazi Akazi Ochokera Kwa Amayi Enieni

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Chabwino, tikudziwa. Mkwatibwi aliyense amawoneka wokongola pa tsiku lake lalikulu. Komabe mkwatibwi akayang'ana m'mbuyo pazithunzi zake, nthawi zonse pamakhala china chake chomwe amalakalaka akadachita mosiyana. Ichi ndichifukwa chake tidasonkhanitsa akwatibwi 5 kuti awulule zomwe akufuna akadachita ndi mawonekedwe awo aukwati m'malo mwake. Tengani upangiri wawo wa kukongola ndikudzidalira posankha tsitsi lanu ndi zodzoladzola patsiku lalikulu.

Chokhumba chaukwati: "Ndikadayenera kukhala wosasamala pachikhalidwe changa chosangalatsa, cholimba mtima cha tsiku ndi tsiku."

"Tsopano ndikayang'ana m'mbuyo paukwati wanga, ndikuganiza kuti ndidachita zachikhalidwe kwambiri ndi mawonekedwe anga. Sindinatchulidwepo kuti 'zachikhalidwe' zikafika [pachikhalidwe changa]. Ndidavala tsitsi langa mwanjira yachikhalidwe, ndikukoka Ndimakonda mitundu yolimba koma sindikuganiza kuti izi zikuwoneka ndi mawonekedwe anga. Ndine wojambula zithunzi zaukwati tsopano ndipo akwatibwi ambiri omwe ndimawawombera amadziwa bwino zomwe akufuna! , nsapato za pinki zotentha-zosangalatsa basi! Zimasonyeza umunthu wawo kwambiri kuposa momwe ine ndinachitira." Malangizo a bonasi: Monga wojambula zithunzi ndinganene kuti kukhala wochenjera kwambiri kulibe. Osapita ku ukwati wanu lalanje! Khalani nokha.

-Nicole Shilliday, wazaka 28, Centerville, VA

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Chikhumbo chaukwati: "Ndikadatha kuwalitsa kumwetulira kwanga."

"Ndinkakonda mawonekedwe anga aukwati! Ndidadzipangira tsitsi langa, ndipo mzanga adandipangira zodzikongoletsera. Ndimamva ngati ine, zomwe zinali zofunika koma ndikadayeretsa mano anga. Ndikulakalaka ndikadachita izi, koma [ zingwe zoyera mano] zinandipweteka mano kotero kuti ndinasiya. Mano anga amawoneka bwino, koma nthawi zina ndimawona kumwetulira kwa mkwatibwi koyera ndikulakalaka ndikanakhala nawonso!" Malangizo a bonasi: Sungani chitsulo chopindika pamalo anu okongola. Tsitsi langa linali lathyathyathya pofika kumapeto kwa usiku - Ndikulakalaka ndikadakhazikitsa malo opumulirako amphindi 5 pomwe azipongozi anga ndi ine tikadatha kusunthira palimodzi.

-Melissa Walker, 33, Brooklyn, NY

Ukwati ndikukhumba: "Ndikadayenera kuvala zodzoladzola zambiri."

"Ndilibe chithandizo chilichonse pakupanga ukwati wanga ndipo ndinkaona kuti ndikanatha kugwiritsa ntchito zina kuti mthunzi wanga wamaso uwoneke bwino komanso ukhale wautali." Zomwe adachita molondola: "Osalamula kuvala chophimba. Ndinali wotsutsana ndi kuvala mpaka amayi anga atandipangitsa kuti ndiyesere. Ndinkakonda kwambiri ndipo ndimavala chophimba pamwambowu ndi phwando."

-Kristin Burstein, 28, Las Vegas, NV

Chokhumba chaukwati: "Tsitsi langa linali lakuda kuposa momwe ndikadakonda."

"Ndine watsitsi lachilengedwe, koma posachedwa tsitsi langa lidayamba kuda pang'ono, kotero ndidapeza zofunikira ukwati usanachitike. Ndikadazindikira kuti ndimafunikira zowunikira tsiku lalikulu lisanachitike. Palibenso wina amene amaganiza kawiri za izi, koma nditabweza tsitsi langa, ndikuganiza kuti kunali mdima kwambiri. " Upangiri wina: "Ngati mukufuna kuvala tsitsi lanu pansi kapena pansi kapena komabe-chitani. Sankhani zomwe mukufuna ndikumverera bwino, osati zomwe ena akuganiza kuti zingakusangalatseni patsiku lanu lalikulu. Gwiritsani ntchito mawonekedwe anu patsiku laukwati ndikujambula kuchokera kumakona onse kuti muwone zomwe zimawoneka bwino. "

-Bethany Lyons, wazaka 31, New York, NY

Chokhumba chaukwati: "Ndikadakhala kuti ndidadzipangira ndekha."

"Ndinakonza zodzikongoletsera zaukwati wanga mwaluso ndipo ndimalipira ndalama zochuluka kwambiri kuti ndiwoneke zomwe sizinali zapadera konse! Ndikuganiza kuti ndikadakhala ndikufunsidwa zodzoladzola kumsika kapena china chake kuti ndikhale ndi maupangiri omwe ndingapindule nawo osati zodzoladzola za ukwati wanga komanso tsiku lililonse. Sindinakonde ngakhale mtundu wanga wa milomo!" Upangiri wina: "Paukwati wanga ndimafuna kukhala wofufuta zikopa, wocheperako, kukhala ndi mano oyera, ndi tsitsi loyera tsiku lalikulu. Oo! Zikatero, mwakhala bwino momwe muliri kotero nditha kunena kuti musadandaule kwambiri pazinthu zimenezo. "

-Jen Mills, wazaka 28, Lexington, KY

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