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Pomwe tikumva ndi kuwona zambiri # zenizeni pazokhudza amayi masiku ano, zikadali zochepa kuti tizingolankhula zazosangalatsa, zazikulu, kapena zenizeni zatsiku ndi tsiku za momwe zimakhalira kukhala mayi.

Makanema angakupatseni lingaliro loti kukhala mayi kumakhala kopanikiza, zowona, koma makamaka kumamugwedeza mwana wanu wodekha kuti agone ndikuwaveka zovala zokongola poyenda panjira zapaulendo. Zimakupangitsani kuganiza kuti mudzakhalabe ndi nthawi yochita zonse zomwe mudachitapo kale (monga maulendo ataliatali ndi mani-pedis). Mukuganiza kuti mudzadzukabe molawirira kuti mukagwire ntchito; ndili ndi nthawi yosambandipo dulani miyendo yanu, pangani tsitsi lanu ndi kudzola nkhope yathunthu musanapite kukatumikira kapena kukumana ndi anzanu nkhomaliro. (Wokhudzana: Claire Holt Adagawana "Chisangalalo Chodzaza Ndi Kudzikayikira" Zomwe Zimadza Ndi Umayi)

Kuyima kovuta: Izi sizingakhale kutali ndi chowonadi.

Kukhala mayi ndi ntchito yanthawi zonse. Izo zimasintha chirichonse. Ndi ntchito yabwino kwambiri padziko lapansi, komanso ndiyovuta kwambiri. Ndinkadziwa kuti kukhala mayi kubweretsa zovuta zatsopano, sindimatha kumvetsetsa zovuta zamtundu wanji kapena kuti padzakhala zovuta zambiri. (Zogwirizana: Chifukwa Chani Abbott Wa Khrisimasi Ndi "Wothokoza" Pazovuta Za Umayi)

Mtsikana wanga woyamba, Lucia Antonia ali ndi miyezi 10, ndipo ndiye mphatso yabwino koposa yomwe ndingamufunse, koma musalakwitse, ndiye.zambiri za ntchito. Kuti ndikupatseni tanthauzo la zomwe ndikutanthauza, ndikudutsitsani tsiku langa.

8:32 m'mawa: Timatha kugona ola limodzi nditadutsa alamu a bambo athu kuntchito. Izi ndizothandiza kuyambira pamenepowinawakeadandidzutsa katatu usiku watha chifukwa adapitilizabe kutaya mtima. Pakali pano, tonse tikugona limodzi, ndipo sindinagone kupitirira maola anayi kapena asanu molunjika.zoo nthawi, monga miyezi. Lucia amandidzutsa ndikugwedeza mkono wake kumaso kwanga. Ndimadzuka ndi phazi mkamwa mwanga kapena pamene akuvutika kugona, ifealiraza kulimbana ndi kugona. Koma pakadali pano, Zimagwira ntchito kwa mwamuna wanga ndi ine ndi Lucia, ndipo ndimakonda kuyang'ana msungwana wanga wokoma atamukumbatira pafupi ndi nkhope yanga.

Ndinamutengera Lucia ku bafa kuti akasinthe thewera koyamba masana.

8:40 m'mawa: Ndimabweretsa Lucia kuchipinda chochezera ndikumukhazika pachimake. Ndimakonda kwambiri, pakadali pano. Nthawi zambiri, amadzuka ali osangalala ndipo timayamba ndi tsiku lathu. Ndikadatopa kwambiri, nkhope yake yomwetulira imapangitsa chilichonse kukhala bwino. Ngati atadzuka ali wopanda pake ndikulira, tinene kuti, ndimatsanzira momwe amamvera. Ndinazindikira molawirira kuti momwe amayamba tsiku lake, zimakhudza kwambiri momwe ndimayambira ndekha.

8:41 m'mawa: Ndimapita kuchipinda china kukasamba kumaso ndi kutsuka mano, koma patapita mphindi imodzi, Lucia akundiuza kuti wakonzeka kutenga botolo lake. Kungakhale kovuta kupeza mphindi zochepa ndekha kuti ndichite zinthu zing'onozing'ono zofunika. Ndakhala ndikuyamwitsa Lucia kwa miyezi itatu ndi theka pomwe iye (osati ine) adaganiza kuti adakwanira. Ndinali wachisoni kwambiri kuti sindimayamwa bere kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yonse yomwe ndidakonzekera, koma ndi khanda komanso abwana anga, chifukwa chake ndimayenera kutsatira malamulo ake. Pakadali pano, tili pama fomula ndi chakudya cha ana. (Zogwirizana: Serena Williams Atsegulira Zisankho Zake Zovuta Zosiya Kuyamwitsa)

9:40 m'mawa:Maitanidwe achilengedwe, koma amtundu wamunthu, ngati mukudziwa zomwe ndikutanthauza. Ndikuthamangira ku bafa, ndikumusiya Lucia bwinobwino pampando wake wapamwamba. Ndimasiya chitseko cha bafa chili chotseguka. Mukakhala mayi, mumazolowera kusiya chitseko chaku bafa chitsegukirezilizonse zochitika. Zilibe kanthu ngati mukukodza, kutulutsa chimbudzi, kumeta miyendo kapena kutsuka mano. Ndikumva Lucia akukangana pang'ono ndikudzifunsa komwe ndapita, koma m'malo mongothamangira, ndimadzikumbutsa kuti ali otetezeka ndipo ali kunja kwenikweni kwa chitseko. Palibe vuto kwa iye kukangana kwa mphindi. Popeza ndili ndi pakati komanso gawo langa losakonzekera, kupita kuchimbudzi kwakhala kovutirapo ndipo nthawi zina ndimafunikira chithandizo chamankhwala otsekemera kuti ndikhale womasuka, kotero kuthamangira zomwe zikuchitika pano si njira. Komabe, ndikumumva akulira pamene ndikufuna kupita kuchimbudzi, ndimakhala wopanda chochita. Kunyumba palibe, motero ndikuyamba kulira.

11: 35 m'mawa: Ine ndi Lucia tinakwera m’chipinda cham’mwamba kuti ndikagwire ntchito zina zapakhomo—ndiyenera kuchapa mbale, kukulunga zovala, ndi kuphika chakudya chamadzulo.Lucia wakhala modekha pampando wake wapamwamba, ndipo ine ndakwanitsa kukokera pamodzi chirichonse pa chakudya chamadzulo popanda glitch. Pamndandanda: nkhuku yokazinga, saladi wobiriwira nyemba, ndi broccoli wokazinga.

Ndidataya kulemera kwanga kwapakati (pafupifupi mapaundi 16) m'miyezi iwiri yoyambirira ndili mayi chifukwa sindinapeze nthawi yoti ndidye, zomwe zidandisiya ndikumva mutu, ndikumva njala komanso njala yopanda mphamvu pomwe ndimafunikira izo. Ndikosavuta kuti muziyiwala za inu nokha mukakhala kunyumba ndi mwana wanu m'malo mobwerera kukagwira ntchito ndi masiku omalizira kumeneko kuti akusokonezeni. Zonsezi, chakudya chokonzekera chakudya chamadzulo ndi chipambano chachikulu kwa ine! (Zogwirizana: Sayansi Ikunena Kuti Kukhala Ndi Mwana Matankhu Kudzidalira Kwanu Kwa Zaka Zaka 3)

12:00 madzulo:Lucia akuyamba kukangana pampando wake wapamwamba -chizindikiro chakuti adadya chimanga chake chokwanira ndi masamba. Ndimamutsitsa kumunsi kukasinthana thewera ndi kosewerera pang'ono pabedi. Kumwetulira kwa Lucia kukupangitsa kuti mtima wanga usungunuke pamene akufika pa dzanja lake kumaso kwanga. Ndili kumwamba ndikusewera pabedi naye. Koma patadutsa mphindi zochepa, amayamba kupendeketsa mutu wake pambali. Watopa. Monga mayi watsopano, ndinali ndi mantha chifukwa cholephera kuwerenga zizindikiro za ana anga, koma ndikuganiza kuti ndayamba kuzindikira zomwe akuyesera kuti alankhule. Nthawi zina ndimapeza bwino komanso nthawi zina, monga momwe ndimaganizira kuti ali ndi njala, koma amandiponyera botolo kumaso. Kuganiza molakwika.

12:37 madzulo:Lucia akugona bwino, monga momwe, hmmmm, nditha kukhala ndi mphindi zopitilira 20 ndekha. Nditani ndi nthawi ino? Ndikupita kumtunda kukadzipangira saladi wabwino wachi Greek nkhomaliro, nditawona kuti sinki yadzaza ndi mbale kuyambira pomwe ndidakonza chakudya chamadzulo. Ngati sindizichita, ndani? Ndikatsuka mbale zingapo, ndimapanga saladi wanga, ndikutsika, ndipo nthawi yomweyo ndimasokonezedwa ndi kompyuta yanga ndipo m'malo mongodya ndikungotenga mphindi zochepa kuti ndipumule, ndimayang'ana imelo yanga. Sindikufuna kupumula. Ndimaona kuti ndizovuta kwambiri kuchita. Ndinali chonchi nthawi zonse, koma tsopano ndili mayi, ndafika poipa kwambiri. Nthawi zina ndimafuna kuti ubongo wanga ukadakhala kuti wazimitsa.

12:53 p.m.: Ndinakhala pansi ndi chakudya changa chamasana ndikuvala "Abodza Okongola Aang'ono." Chonde musandiweruze. Netflix imakhala bwenzi lapamtima la mayi watsopano mukafuna kusangalala ndi mphindi zochepa zamtendere osaganizira chilichonse.

1:44 pm:Lucia adadzuka kutulo. Anali atagona kwa nthawi yoposa ola limodzi! Ndipo mukudziwa zomwe ndidachita panthawiyi kupatula kudya ndikupumula? Palibe. Palibe. Ndikofunikira kungokhala ndikuchotsa mutu wanu kuti mupeze mphotho. Inde, ndikadatha kuchapa kapena kuwongola nyumbayo, koma Lucia akagona ndiye nthawi yokhayo yomwe ndimamasukiradi, kotero ndimatenga.

3:37 pm: Tsopano popeza wagalamuka, ndimakonza chipinda chopitilira ola limodzi kenako ndikumugoneka Lucia kuti agone pang'ono. Ndidamuyika mukugwedezeka kwamphamvu komwe kumayenda uku ndi uku kuthamanga pang'ono. Poyamba, amakangana, koma patadutsa mphindi zochepa amadzichepetsera. Ndikuyesera njira yatsopano, ngakhale yovuta poyesera kuti agone. Ngakhale atadandaula, ndimadikira kaye mpaka kenako atagona. Muyenera kuleza mtima kwambiri. Ndakhala pansi mosavutikira pafupi naye kwa mphindi zopitilira makumi awiri asanatengeke.

4:30 madzulo: Ndikuganiza kuti ndiyesetse, ngakhale pang'ono chabe. Ndisanakhale mayi, ndinkapeza nthawi yolimbitsa thupi kangapo pamlungu kwa mphindi zosachepera 45. Ngakhale ndili ndi pakati, ndimakwanitsa kukwera pachizunguliro pafupifupi tsiku lililonse. Nthawi zonse ndimachita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Zinandithandiza kukhalabe wolimba komanso kukhala ndi mphamvu. Tsopano, ndimayesetsa kufinya masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi iliyonse yomwe ndingathe. Ndimakwera njinga yanga yoyima ndikuyendetsa kwa mphindi 15. Ndimakonda momwe ndimamvera ndikamaliza ntchito. Ndikanakonda kuti ndizitha kuchita zinthu monga momwe ndimachitira poyamba, koma moona mtima ndimadzimva kuti ndine wolakwa podzitengera nthawi yochuluka chonchi. Ndinkakonda kulimbitsa thupi kwa nthawi yayitali, koma nthawi yanga ndi yamtengo wapatali ndi Lucia, ndipo sindingathe kudzipereka nthawi yochulukayi. (Zokhudzana: Chifukwa Chake Muyenera Kusiya Kuyankha Maimelo Pakati Pausiku)

4:50 p.m.:Ndikumva njala, ndipo ndikumva mutu ukudza. Kudikirira mpaka chakudya chamadzulo sichotheka. Ndimayatsa chowunikira chamwana, ndikuyika Lucia wodzuka tsopano pampando wake wamtali ndikupita kuchipinda cham'mwamba kukapanga zokhwasula-khwasula: radishes wodulidwa, nkhaka, ndi tomato ndi mafuta pang'ono a azitona, mchere, ndi tsabola. Lucia akuyamba kugwedezeka ndipo akumenyananso ndi tulo. Sindikusiya. Ndimamupatsa tiyi pang'ono ndikuyamba kusunthira mpando wake kumbuyo ndi kumbuyo kuti ndimusowetse mtendere. Ndimakhala pamenepo mpaka atagona. Njirayi siyikhala yosavuta, ndipo imatenga gawo labwino tsiku langa, koma ndikhulupilira kuti pamapeto pake iyenera kukhala yothandiza. Lucia amagona motalikiranso pafupipafupi tsopano. Pambuyo pake amagona pambuyo pa mphindi 20 ndipo amayi amapita kukasangalala ndi chotupitsa chake.

Ndizovuta kuti ndisadziganizire ndekha momwe ndinkakhalira kale. M'mbuyomu, ndikafuna chinachake (chakudya, kusamba, masewera olimbitsa thupi) ndimangochita. Tsopano zinthu zavuta kwambiri. Nthawi zina ndimakhala ndi njala ndipo ndimafuna kudya, koma momwemonso ndi Lucia, ndiye amabwera choyamba. Nthawi zonse ndimayika zofuna zake kuposa zanga. Ndikuyembekezera tsiku limene zinthu zofunika kwambiri zidzasinthanso.

5:23 madzulo: Ndinaganiza zoyesa kugona ndekha. Mwana akugona ndiye ndiyesenso kugona eti? Ndimalowa pabedi ndipo chachiwiri ndikutseka maso, ndimva Lucia akudzuka. Akuwa mokoma. Kugona kwambiri kwa amayi. Ndinkayembekezera kupumula pang'ono. Ndikukhumudwa kuti sizichitika lero.

7:09 madzulo:Ndimubweretsa Lucia kumtunda ndikumuika pampando wake wapamwamba pafupi ndi amuna anga omwe abwera kumene kuchokera kuntchito ndi amayi anga omwe abwera pano, kuti tidye chakudya chamadzulo monga banja. Koma, Lucia ali ndi malingaliro osiyana. Sakufuna kudya.

Ndikupita kukayamba mbale koma Lucia akutambasulira manja ake kwa ine, kutanthauza kuti akufuna kusewera. Timatsikira kunsi ndikusewera pakama. Ndimagona pansi ndikunyoza mapazi ake ndipo timayeserera.

Mwadzidzidzi, Lucia akuyamba kupangitsira mwana wake wakhanda "kukuwa", ndipo ndikumva kuti ndi nthawi yoti asinthe thewera lina. Zinali zachangu: mphindi ziwiri tisanasewere mokoma ndipo chinthu chotsatira ndikudziwa, ndikumva kuti wandipangira "mphatso" yayikulu.

8:15 pm: Lucia akusisita ndi kukanda mutu. Kumasulira: "Ndipatseni chakudya, ndigone!!" Ndinamuyikanso Lucia m'malo ake odalirika. M'miyezi ingapo yoyambirira yokhala ndi Lucia kunyumba, kugwedezeka uku kunali kopulumutsa moyo wanga. Pomwe palibe chilichonse chomwe ndimachita chimatha kumugonetsa, kugwedezeka uku ndi chinthu chokhacho chomwe chitha.

8:36 madzulo: Lucia ali mtulo, akusinthana uku ndi uku ndi zoseweretsa zake akusewera. Wakhala ndi tsiku lathunthu kukhala wokongola, wotopa, kudya, ndi kusewera ndi amayi. N'zotopetsa kukhala khanda, koma mwinanso kutopa kwambiri kukhala mayi. Ndimadzikumbutsa kuti chifukwa choti ndine mayi wotopa sizitanthauza kuti ndatopa kukhala mayi. Kukhala mayi ndi ntchito yanthawi zonse yokhala ndi maola owonjezera, ndipo kulibe tchuthi. Inde, ndatopa. Inde, ndimadwala mutu pang'ono. Inde, ndimakonda kanthawi kochepa kwa ine ndekha, ngakhale kungopaka misomali yanga, koma ndimakonda kusewera naye pabedi. Ndimakonda kumuwona akupeza mayendedwe atsopano. Ndimakonda kumudyetsa. Ndimakonda chilichonse chokhudza msungwana wamng'ono uyu, ngakhale nditakhala zombie yoyenda.

8:39 madzulo:Hmm, ndikhoza kukhala ndikulemba nkhaniyi, koma m'malo mwake, ndikuganiza zodzitengera ndekha maola omalizirawa usiku ndikupumula pamaso pa TV muma pyjamas anga ndimabisiketi ochepa ndipo inde, ambiri "Abodza Abwino." (Zogwirizana: Amayi Amagawana Zolemba Zotsitsimula Zokhudza Kulera Omwe Ali ndi Matenda Amisala)

9:01 madzulo:Mwana akuwoneka kuti wagona usiku. Zokwanira Netflix. Ndagona.

12:32 am:Lucia akudzuka kufunafuna pacifier yake. Ndimamupatsa tiyi pang'ono, koma alibe chidwi ndikuchikankhira kutali. Ndimampatsa pacifier. Imapitilizabe kutuluka. Ndinayikanso. Icho chimatuluka. Lucia akusowa mtendere. Iye akuyamba kulira. Pambuyo pa mphindi zoposa 15 za kukana kumeneku, ndikumukweza ndi kumuika pabedi ndi mwamuna wanga ndi ine. Ndimamugwira mwamphamvu ndikuyesera kuti apumule. Ndatopa kwambiri, koma ndikufunika kuti ndikagone, komanso inenso. Patapita mphindi 15, amagonanso, ndipo inenso ndimayesetsa kuchita chimodzimodzi.

4:19 m'mawa: Lucia anadzuka akulira. Ndikhoza kunena kuti akugwetsa mano chifukwa akulowetsa chibakera mkamwa ndikumedzera kwambiri. Ndimayesetsa kumukhazika mtima pansi. Ndimamunyamula, ndikumugwedeza ndikumugwedeza pachifuwa, koma sasiya kulira. Ndimayesetsa kuti ndimupatse chisamaliro chapadera, koma sasamala. Iye amakankhira kutali. Ndimayesetsa kumugoneka ndikumusisita mutu ndi mphuno, zomwe amakonda, koma amakhumudwa kwambiri. Ndimamubwezeretsanso pachimake popeza kugwedeza kumamuthandiza kugona, koma amangolira pamenepo kwa mphindi khumi. Ndinasiya ndikumubweza naye pakama. Patatha mphindi makumi awiri akulira, adagona pang'onopang'ono. Ndatopa. Ndimapita kubafa, kenako ndikatenga foni yanga kuti ndisakatule pang'ono pa Facebook pabedi. Nditazindikira kuti wagona kwa mphindi 15, ndimawona kuti ndibwino kuti ndigonenso inenso.

7:31 am:Lucia amandidzutsa ndikumwetulira kokoma, kokoma. Takonzeka tsiku lina la zochitika za amayi ndi ana. Inde, ndikufuna kugona. Inde, ndikufuna kudya. Inde, ndikufuna nthawi yowerenga. Koma Lucia akuyenera kudyetsedwa ndikusinthidwa ndikutsukidwa ndikuvekedwa. Ndiyeno ayenera kuchita zonse kachiwiri. Nditha kuchita zina zonse ... pambuyo pake.

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