Musagwiritse Ntchito Makolo Aanthu Olumala Monga Akatswiri Anu

Zamkati

• Ndikamawerenga zazomwe zimakhudza gulu la autism, ndikufuna kumva kuchokera kwa anthu autistic
• Ndife omwe timamvetsetsa dera lathu, zosowa zathu, malo ogona, komanso chikhalidwe chathu - {textend} koma nthawi zambiri timakambirana pazokhudza anthu olumala.
• Makolo a ana olumala ndiofunikanso, ndipo ndikumvetsetsa kufunikira kwa zinthu zofunikira kwa iwo
• Kugwiritsa ntchito olumala monga akatswiri pa miyoyo yathu ndi zokumana nazo zathu kumayambitsanso momwe timaonera olumala

Momwe timawonera mawonekedwe apadziko lapansi omwe timasankha kukhala - {textend} ndikugawana zokumana nazo zolimbikitsa zitha kupanga momwe tingachitirane wina ndi mnzake, kukhala abwinoko. Uku ndikuwona kwamphamvu.

Ndine autistic - {textend} ndipo kunena zowona, ndatopa ndi makolo a ana autistic omwe akulamulira pazokambirana za autism.

Osandimvetsa. Ndili wokondwa kwambiri kuti ndinakulira ndi makolo awiri omwe nthawi yomweyo amandilimbikitsa ndikuphunzitsa kudzilimbikitsa.

Chokhumudwitsa ndichakuti anthu ngati makolo anga - {textend} omwe akulera ana autistic ndi olumala, koma osadzilimbitsa okha - {textend} nthawi zonse amakhala akatswiri okhawo, kuposa anthu omwe adakhalapo ndi kulemala.

Ndikamawerenga zazomwe zimakhudza gulu la autism, ndikufuna kumva kuchokera kwa anthu autistic

Ndikufuna malingaliro amunthu wodziyimira pawokha momwe angabweretsere malo ogwirira ntchito, kapena momwe zimawonekera ngati kuyenda m'makalasi aku koleji ngati wophunzira.

Ndikadakhala kuti ndikuwerenga nkhani yonena za momwe anthu autistic amatha kupanga magawo ofikira, ndikadafuna kumva koyamba kuchokera kwa ophunzira aposachedwa kapena akale aukoleji. Kodi amalimbana ndi chiyani? Ndi zida ziti zomwe adagwiritsa ntchito? Kodi zotsatira zake zinali zotani?

Ndingakhale bwino ngati nkhaniyi imaphatikizaponso magwero ngati mlangizi wololeza ophunzira kukoleji, wina wogwira ntchito muofesi yantchito ya olumala, kapena pulofesa. Atha kumaliza nkhaniyi powapatsa malingaliro amkati mwa zomwe ophunzira autistic angayembekezere komanso momwe tingalimbikitsire zosowa zathu.

Koma ndizochepa kuwona nkhani ngati imeneyo. Katswiri wa anthu olumala pamoyo wathu nthawi zambiri amanyalanyazidwa komanso kunyalanyazidwa, ngakhale takhala zaka zambiri - {textend} ndipo nthawi zina moyo wathu wonse - {textend} ndi olumala athu.

Ndife omwe timamvetsetsa dera lathu, zosowa zathu, malo ogona, komanso chikhalidwe chathu - {textend} koma nthawi zambiri timakambirana pazokhudza anthu olumala.

Pomwe ndidalemba za kukhala wachifundo kwambiri ngati munthu wodziyimira palokha, ndidafunsa akuluakulu achikulire omwe akufuna kuthana ndi nthano yoti anthu autistic sangakhale achifundo. Ndinagwiritsa ntchito zomwe ndidakumana nazo, komanso zokumana nazo za akulu ena odziyimira pawokha, kuti ndiwone chifukwa chake anthu ambiri ovomerezeka amalakwitsa monga opanda malingaliro komanso opanda chifundo.

Zinali zosangalatsa kwambiri.

Anthu odziyimira pawokha azaka zapakati pa 30 ndi 40 andifikira kuti anene kuti aka kanali koyamba kuti awerenge chilichonse chokhudza autism ndi kumvera ena chisoni chomwe chidatenga njirayi, kapena chidalembedwa ndi munthu wamavuto m'malo mwa kholo kapena wofufuza.

Izi siziyenera kukhala zachilendo. Nthawi zambiri, anthu autistic sanaitanidwe kuti agawane ukatswiri wawo.

Makolo a ana olumala ndiofunikanso, ndipo ndikumvetsetsa kufunikira kwa zinthu zofunikira kwa iwo

Zitha kukhala zothandiza kwambiri kuwerenga za njira zabwino kwambiri zothandizira mwana wanu kuyenda mdziko lapansi olumala. Ndikungofuna zithunzizi komanso kuphatikizapo mawu olumala.

Koma sizingakhale zodabwitsa ngati chitsogozo chogwirira ntchito zapakhomo ndi mwana wanu yemwe ali ndi ADHD ali ndi upangiri makamaka kuchokera kwa achikulire omwe ali ndi ADHD, omwe amadziwa ndikumvetsetsa momwe zimakhalira kukhala mwana akuvutika kukumbukira kuti ayenera kutsuka mbale kawiri pa sabata?

Akuluakulu omwe ali ndi ADHD ali ndi maupangiri - {textend} kuchokera pazomwe adakumana nazo pamoyo wawo ndi chithandizo chamankhwala awo - {textend} ndipo amadziwa zomwe zingagwire kapena sizigwira ntchito m'njira zomwe kholo lomwe lilibe ADHD silingathe.

Pamapeto pa tsikulo, tikamalimbikitsa anthu kugawana nawo mawu ndi zokumana nazo, aliyense amapambana.

Kugwiritsa ntchito olumala monga akatswiri pa miyoyo yathu ndi zokumana nazo zathu kumayambitsanso momwe timaonera olumala

M'malo moika olumala ngati anthu omwe amafunikira thandizo, ndipo makolo ngati akatswiri omwe angatithandizire, imatiyika ngati otilimbikitsa omwe amamvetsetsa kupunduka kwathu ndikusowa zosowa zathu.

Zimatiumba ngati anthu omwe amatha kupanga zisankho zogwira mtima m'malo mosankha zochita. Zimatipatsa gawo lotenga nawo mbali m'miyoyo yathu komanso momwe zimafotokozera zaulemerero (komanso za mkhalidwe wathu) zomwe zimawonetsedwa.

Kaya takhala ndi zilema kwa moyo wathu wonse kapena tangopeza kumene, olumala amadziwa momwe zimakhalira m'maganizo ndi matupi athu.

Timamvetsetsa bwino momwe zimawonekera kuyenda padziko lapansi, kudzilankhulira tokha, kufunafuna mwayi, kuti tipeze kuphatikiza.

Ndizomwe zimatipangitsa kukhala akatswiri - {textend} ndipo ndi nthawi yomwe ukatswiri wathu umayamikiridwa.

Alaina Leary ndi mkonzi, woyang'anira media, komanso wolemba waku Boston, Massachusetts. Pakadali pano ndiwothandizira mkonzi wa Equally Wed Magazine komanso mkonzi wazama TV ku bungwe lopanda phindu lomwe timafunikira.