Chifukwa Chake Muyenera Kuyesa Kupita Kowonera Makanema Nokha

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Kudziyesa nokha mu kanema wapa "date" kumatha kumveka kachilendo poyamba, koma ngati munthu wotchuka angachite, bwanji inu simunatero? Yep, TMZ inanena kuti Justin Bieber adabwera yekha kumalo ochitira kanema Lolemba (chabwino, adali ndi omulondera), adalamula nachos, ndipo adakhala ndi usiku wabwino atangocheza yekha. Zikumveka ngati usiku wabwino kwambiri, ndipo zidatipangitsa kudzifunsa kuti: Ndikofunikira bwanji kucheza ndi iwe nthawi zina? (Komanso, perekani malangizo awa kuti mukhale ndi tsiku labwino usiku.)

Kutembenuka, kucheza ndi inu nokha kungakhale "nthawi yapadera pomwe mutha kulowa mkati, kudziwonetsera nokha, ndikuyika patsogolo chisamaliro chanu," akutero Samantha Burns, mlangizi wololeza wazamalamulo komanso wolemba Muzikondana Bwino: Zinsinsi 10 Zomwe Muyenera Kudziwa Pano. Nthawi yomwe mumakhala nokha kupita kumakanema, kudya chakudya kumalo odyera omwe mumawakonda (kudya nokha sikuyenera kuchita mantha!), Kapena ngakhale kuphika nokha chakudya ndi botolo lalikulu la vinyo ndikofunikira chifukwa zitha kukupangitsani kumvetsetsa chilichonse kuchokera paubwenzi mpaka pantchito yanu. "Nthawi zambiri mumathamangira poyendetsa galimoto kuchokera kuntchito kupita kumagulu ochezera kuti mukhale ndi chibwenzi (ngati muli naye), ndipo mulibe mwayi woti mumvetsere momwe mukumvera," akutero Burns. Kudzipatsa nthawi yoganizira zinthu - zomwe zikuyenda bwino kapena zolakwika m'moyo wanu pakali pano - kungakupatseni chidziwitso chomwe mukufuna.

Chofunika kwambiri n’chakuti, “maulendo apaokhawa angakukumbutseni kuti ndinu ndani, zinthu zomwe mumakonda kwambiri, ndikudzutsanso ufulu wanu komanso chidaliro,” akutero. (Mukufuna kupita kokayenda nokha? Onani njira zabwino zolimbitsira azimayi omwe akuyenda payekha.) Anthu ambiri mwina alibe nthawi yopanga tsiku lokhala nawo sabata iliyonse, koma Burns akuti mukamakumana ndi kusintha kwakukulu kwa moyo (mwina mukukumana ndi zomwe Biebs adapeza kuti wakale wake Selena Gomez atha kupita ku Weeknd), ndibwino kuti mutenge nthawi kuti musangalale nokha. Kusintha kwa ntchito, monga kutaya kapena kusintha ntchito yanu, ndi nthawi yomwe mungapindule ndi nthawi yaumwini kuti muganizire, kumbukirani chifukwa chake ndinu odabwitsa, ndipo ganizirani za zolinga zatsopano zomwe mungafune kukhazikitsa. (Apa, pezani zambiri pakudzipangira zolinga zazikulu.)

Ngati simumva bwino kukhala nokha pagulu m'malo omwe anthu amakhala ochezera (malo omwera mowa, kapena malo odyera otanganidwa), Burns sakufuna kuti muzingopewa malowa. M'malo mwake, amalimbikitsa kudzifunsa nokha bwanji mumamva choncho. "Tsutsani malingaliro anu olakwika kapena odziwononga podzifunsa nokha chifukwa chake mumasamala kwambiri ngati mlendo akukuweruzani kuti mwakhala nokha," akutero. Kumbukirani kuti zomwe alendo akuganiza zili nazo ziro zimakhudza moyo wanu. Ngati zina zonse zikulephera, bweretsani buku limodzi kuti musokoneze nokha pamene mukuvutika. "Ndi nthawi yanu yopuma ndikukwaniritsa zosowa zanu, zomwe ziyenera kukupangitsani kukhala onyada komanso olimba mtima, osadzidalira komanso osungulumwa." Chifukwa chake pitilizani kuchita zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala osangalala - palibe abwenzi kapena okondedwa omwe amafunikira.

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