Kumwetulira Kwake Kungathe Kudziwa Ngati Ali Chibwenzi Zofunika

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Anyamata oyipa, chenjerani-azimayi amakhulupirira kuti anyamata omwe amwetulira momwetulira amawoneka oyenera kwambiri paubwenzi wanthawi yayitali kuposa omwe amaberekana, kafukufuku waposachedwa ku Evolutionary Psychology malipoti.

Ndiye kodi kumwetulira kumeneku kumatipangitsa kuti titsekere munthu wina posachedwa kuti akhale mnyamata? Ofufuza ochokera ku Europe ndi Asia anali ndi akazi omwe amawawona anyamata ngati anyamata okondeka kapena ongocheza-onse motengera nkhope yawo. Amuna amene ananyezimira azungu awo angale anawonekera kukhala osangalala kwambiri ndi odalirika kwambiri kuposa awo amene anali ndi mawu osaloŵerera m’ndale, amene amangowoneka ngati aamuna ndi okhwima maganizo, kuwaika m’gulu wamba.

Izi zikugwirizana ndi zikhulupiriro zomwe zidakhazikitsidwa zomwe timakonda kukopa amuna omwe ali ndi majini abwino kwambiri (werengani: mawonekedwe abwino) tikamafuna kulumikizana, chifukwa ubongo wathu udapangidwa kuti ubereke. (Ngati muli m'bwatoli, onani Zomwe Ndaphunzira Kuchokera Zaka 10 za Usiku Umodzi.)

Koma ngakhale chinthu chonse chodabwitsa chamwamuna chikhoza kuwoneka chokongola kwa usiku umodzi kapena masiku angapo, akazi mu kafukufuku watsopano adanenanso kuti akufuna kudalirika ndi kufikika kwa kukongola kwawo kwa nthawi yayitali (ngakhale nkhope yokongola sinapweteke). Anyamata a Grinning nthawi zonse amafotokoza chitetezo ichi, chomwe akatswiri okhulupirira zachisinthiko amati ndichosangalatsa chifukwa chikuwonetsa kuti ndi woyenera kulera ana nanu.

Kotero nthawi ina mudzapeza kumwetulira kuchokera kudutsa bar, musamulembe nthawi yomweyo ngati Mr. Nice Guy wotopetsa. Akhoza kumangokhala amene mukuyang'ana! (Kodi Yemwe Umakhala Naye pa Chibwenzi Amasintha Zomwe Uli?)

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