Mawu Ndi Amphamvu. Lekani Kunditcha Wodwala.

Zamkati

• Tsopano ndiganizireni ngati apulo kapena chomera
• Kudutsa muuni wa kukoma mtima

Wankhondo. Wopulumuka. Wopambana. Mgonjetsi.

Wodwala. Odwala. Kuvutika. Wolemala.

Kuyimilira kuti muganizire za mawu omwe timagwiritsa ntchito tsiku lililonse kungakhudze kwambiri dziko lanu. Osachepera, kwa inu nokha ndi moyo wanu womwe.

Abambo anga adandiphunzitsa kuzindikira kusasamala kokhudzana ndi "chidani." Patha zaka pafupifupi 11 kuchokera pomwe adandiuza izi. Tsopano ndili ndi zaka 33 ndipo ndachita zonse zotheka kuti ndithetse mawuwa m'mawu anga - komanso kwa mwana wanga wamkazi. Ngakhale kungoganiza chabe, ndimakhala ndi vuto m'kamwa mwanga.

Mmodzi mwa akatswiri anga auzimu, Danielle LaPorte, adayesa pang'ono ndi mwana wake pamaapulo ndi mphamvu yamawu. Kwenikweni. Zomwe amafunikira anali maapulo, mawu, ndi khitchini yake.

Maapulo omwe adalandira mawu achinyengo adavunda mwachangu kwambiri. Zotsatira zake ndizosangalatsa, koma nthawi yomweyo, sizosadabwitsa konse: Mawu ndi ofunika. Sayansi ya izi yawunikidwanso chimodzimodzi muzomera zamoyo, nawonso, ndi kafukufuku wosonyeza kuti mbewu zimaphunzira kuchokera pazomwe zidachitikapo.

Tsopano ndiganizireni ngati apulo kapena chomera

Pamene wina andinena kuti "wodwala," nthawi yomweyo ndimaiwala kupambana kwanga konse. Ndimamva ngati ndimakhala malingaliro olakwika onse ozungulira mawuwa.

Ndikudziwa kuti zimasiyana kwa aliyense. Koma za ine, ndikamva mawu oti wodwala, ndimawona zomwe mwina mumaganizira. Wina yemwe akudwala, akugona pakama wachipatala, kudalira ena tsiku ndi tsiku.

Chodabwitsa ndichakuti, ndakhala nthawi yanga yambiri kuchipatala kuposa momwe ndimakhalira mchipatala. M'malo mwake, kuchipatala kwanga komaliza kunali zaka 7 1/2 zapitazo ndikubereka mwana wanga wamkazi.

Ndine wochuluka kwambiri kuposa wodwala.

Ndizowona kuti ndikukhala ndi matenda osowa osowa omwe amakhudza anthu ochepera 500 ku United States komanso anthu 2,000 padziko lonse lapansi. Ndi chibadwa chomwe chimayambitsa kuchulukitsa kwa amino acid, motero chimakhudza khungu lililonse mthupi mwanga. Komabe, ndicho gawo limodzi lokha la hologram yamoyo wanga wonse.

Ndine munthu amene ndathana ndi zovuta kwambiri. Nditalandira matenda anga ndili ndi miyezi 16, madotolo adauza makolo anga kuti sindikhala ndi moyo kuti ndikaone tsiku langa lobadwa la 10th. Ndine wamoyo pompano chifukwa amayi anga adandipatsa impso zawo kwa ine zaka 22 zapitazo.

Komwe ndili lero: mayi yemwe ali ndi Bachelor of Science pakukula kwa anthu komanso maphunziro apabanja.

Munthu amene adagwiritsa ntchito thupi langa kulenga munthu wina yemwe tsopano wakhala padziko lino lapansi kwa zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri.

Wolemba mabuku.

Munthu wauzimu wokhala ndi chidziwitso chaumunthu.

Wina yemwe amamva kumenyedwa kwa nyimbo monsemo mwa iye.

Wokhulupirira nyenyezi ndikukhulupirira mphamvu zamakristasi.

Ndine munthu yemwe amavina kukhitchini yanga ndi mwana wanga wamkazi ndikukhala ndimiseche zomwe zimatuluka mkamwa mwake.

Ndine zinthu zambiri, inenso: bwenzi, msuweni, woganiza, wolemba, munthu wovuta kwambiri, goofball, wokonda zachilengedwe.

Ndine mitundu yosiyanasiyana yaumunthu ndisanakhale wodwala.

Kudutsa muuni wa kukoma mtima

Ana amamvetsetsa mphamvu ya mawu, makamaka pamene achikulire akuwagwiritsa ntchito amasankha tanthauzo lake. Ndaziwona izi zikuchitika nthawi zambiri mdera losowa matenda.

Mukauza mwana kuti ndi wodwala - wodwala, wosalimba, kapena wofooka - amayamba kudziwika. Amayamba kukhulupirira kuti ngakhale amve bwanji, mwina ali "wodwala" kwenikweni pamtima pawo.

Ndakhala ndikukumbukira izi, makamaka pafupi ndi mwana wanga wamkazi. Ndiwamsinkhu msinkhu wake ndipo nthawi zambiri amalandira ndemanga kuchokera kwa ana ena zakufupika kwake.

Ndachita zonse zomwe ndingathe kuti ndimuphunzitse kuti angavomereze kuti si wamtali ngati anzawo ambiri, kuti anthu amabwera mosiyanasiyana. Kutalika kwawo sikukhudzana ndi kuthekera kwawo m'moyo kapena kuchuluka kwa kukoma mtima komwe angathe kukulitsa.

Yakwana nthawi yoti tizindikire kwambiri mphamvu zam'mawu omwe timasankha. Za ana athu, zamtsogolo mwathu.

Sikuti mawu onse amakhala ndi kulemera kwamaganizidwe kwa aliyense, ndipo sindikunena kuti tonsefe tiyenera kuyenda pamagoba a mazira polankhula. Koma ngati pali funso, pitani ndi chisankho champhamvu kwambiri. Kaya pa intaneti kapena m'moyo weniweni (koma makamaka pa intaneti), kuyankhula mokoma mtima kumatha kupindulira aliyense wokhudzidwayo.

Mawu atha kukhala olimbikitsa kwambiri. Tiyeni tisankhe zomwe zingatilimbikitse ndikudziyang'ana tokha chifukwa cha izi.

Tahnie Woodward ndi wolemba, mayi, komanso wolota. Amadziwika kuti anali m'modzi mwamapulogalamu 10 olimbikitsa kwambiri a SheKnows. Amakonda kusinkhasinkha, chilengedwe, mabuku a Alice Hoffman, ndikuvina kukhitchini ndi mwana wake wamkazi. Iye ndi woimira wamkulu pa zopereka za ziwalo, Harry Potter nerd, ndipo adakonda Hanson kuyambira 1997. Inde, a Hanson. Mutha kulumikizana naye pa Instagram, iye blog, ndi Twitter.