Chifukwa Chomwe Mphamvu Yolimbitsa Moyo Ino Imakonda Thupi Lake Ngakhale Chiyambire Kupeza Mapaundi 18

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Mulingo wake ndi chida chopangira kuyeza kulemera-ndizo. Koma azimayi ambiri amaigwiritsa ntchito ngati njira yopezera chipambano komanso chisangalalo, zomwe, monga tafotokozera kale, zitha kuwononga thanzi lanu lamaganizidwe ndi thupi. Ichi ndichifukwa chake wolimbitsa thupi Claire Guentz ali pano kuti akukumbutseni, kwa nthawi yakhumi ndi khumi, kuti manambala pamlingo zilibe kanthu.

Guentz posachedwa adapita ku Instagram kuti agawane zithunzi ziwiri zoyandikana za iye-imodzi kuchokera ku 2016 komwe amayeza mapaundi a 117 ndi imodzi chaka chino, pomwe ali ndi mapaundi a 135. Ngakhale ali ndi mapaundi 18 olemera, Guentz akufotokoza kuti ali wosangalala komanso wathanzi tsopano. Komabe, akuvomereza kuti nthawi zina anali kukonda kulemera pang'ono chifukwa choti anali wokonda manambala.

"Ndikuganiza kuti nthawi ina tonse tidamva mawu aang'ono akutiuza kuti nambala yotsika pamlingo ndiyabwino," adalemba. "Ndikudziwa kuti ndili nawo. Sindinakhalepo mmodzi woti ndikonzekeretse kulemera kwanga, koma nyengo yotentha iwiri yapita pomwe ndidathyola nsagwada, kulemera kwanga kudatsika kwambiri popanda cholakwa chilichonse changa ... koma ndidapeza gawo laling'ono lokonda nambala imeneyo sikelo. " (Nayi blogger wina wolimbitsa thupi yemwe amatsimikizira kuti kulemera ndi nambala chabe.)

Guentz adadziwa kuti ayenera kubwerera kunenepa, koma china chake chimamuletsa. "Sindinawone kufulumira," adalemba. "Ndikutanthauza, ndimayeza zochepa koma ndimawoneka bwino eti ?!"

Sizinachitike mpaka mwamuna wake atamamuyitana kuti asadzisamalire bwino pomwe pamapeto pake adalimbikitsidwa kuti achepetse muyeso ndikuyang'ana kukhala wathanzi. “Ndikayang’ana m’mbuyo, sindinali wonenepa bwino ndipo sindinkawoneka bwino,” analemba motero. "Koma sindinawone izi poyamba. Kuyika zinthu moyenera, ndine 5'9", chifukwa chake mapaundi a 117 alibe thanzi. Ndipo ndimaona kuti anthu ena amakhala ochepa thupi mwachibadwa-ndikutanthauza kuti ndinakulira nthawi zonse ndimadzimva kuti ndine waupandu komanso wosasunthika momwe ndinaliri wowonda-koma pali kusiyana mukakhala wokhazikika pa sikelo ndikulemera pang'ono. "

Mofulumira mpaka lero ndipo Guentz akumva kuti ali ndi chidaliro pakhungu lake kuposa kale. "Ndinganene moona mtima kuti ndimakhala wosangalala komanso wotsimikiza kukhala wolemera ma lbs 18," adalemba. (BTW, ichi ndi chifukwa chake amayi ambiri akuyesera kunenepa kudzera pazakudya komanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi.)

Kuyimba kwadzidzidzi: Mulingo sutanthauza inu. Mwamaganizidwe, sikelo ndiyomwe iyenera kukupatsirani chitsimikiziro. Kupanga moyo wathanzi, wokhazikika ndi cholinga chabwino kwambiri kukhala nacho. (Onaninso izi zaumoyo watsopano zomwe zisinthe momwe mudzawonere sikelo.)

Monga Guentz akudzinenera yekha kuti: "Ichi ndi chikumbutso chanu chakuti kulemera kumawoneka kosiyana ndi aliyense komanso kuti musalole kuti msinkhu ukulamulireni kupita patsogolo kwanu. Ndimadana nazo kuganiza [zomwe zingachitike] ndikadalola kuti sikeloyo izilamulira ulendo wanga wonse wolimbitsa thupi, ndipo sindikufunanso kwa iwe!

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