A James Van Der Beek Agawana Chifukwa Chomwe Tikufunikiranso Nthawi Yina Yoti "Kupita Padera" M'ndime Yaikulu

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Kumayambiriro kwa chilimwe, James Van Der Beek ndi mkazi wake, Kimberly, analandira mwana wawo wachisanu padziko lapansi. Awiriwa adapita kuma media angapo kangapo kuyambira pomwe adagawana chisangalalo chawo. Posachedwapa, Van Der Beek adagawana nawo mbali ya nkhani yawo yomwe palibe amene adayimvapo - yakutaika kwakukulu ndi chisoni.

M'mawu okhumudwitsa, bambo watsopanoyo adawulula kuti asanalandire mwana wawo wamkazi, Gwendolyn, okwatiranawo ankavutika ndi ululu wa kutaya mimba-osati kamodzi, koma kangapo. Iye ankafuna kuti adzipatuleko uthenga kwa anthu amene anakumanapo ndi zowawa zofananazo, kuti adziwe kuti sali okha.

"Timafuna kunena chinthu chimodzi kapena ziwiri zakupita padera ... zomwe takhala nazo zaka zitatu zapitazi (kuphatikiza pomwepo kukongola kwakung'ono)," wosewera adalemba pambali pa chithunzi cha iye ndi mkazi wake ali ndi mwana wakhanda. (Zokhudzana: Nazi Ndendende Zomwe Zinachitika Nditapita padera)

"Choyamba-tikufuna mawu atsopano," adapitiliza. "'Kuyendetsa molakwika,' mwanjira yabodza, kumawonetsa kulakwitsa kwa mayi ngati kuti waponya china chake, kapena walephera 'kunyamula.' Kuchokera pazomwe ndaphunzira, pazochitika zonse koma zowonekera kwambiri, zoopsa, sizikugwirizana ndi chilichonse chomwe mayi adachita kapena sanachite. Chifukwa chake tiyeni tichotse zolakwa zonse patebulopo tisanayambe. " (Zogwirizana: Momwe Ndinaphunzirira Kukhulupiriranso Thupi Langa Nditapita Padera)

Chomvetsa chisoni n'chakuti, chokumana nacho chomvetsa chisoni ichi sichichitika kawirikawiri: "Pafupifupi 20-25 peresenti ya mimba zodziwika bwino zimabweretsa kutaya," Zev Williams MD, wamkulu wa dipatimenti yokhudzana ndi ubereki wa endocrinology ndi kusabereka komanso wothandizira pulofesa wa zachipatala ndi gynecology pa Columbia University Medical Center. amatiuza Maonekedwe. "Nthawi zambiri kutaya pakati kumachitika chifukwa cha vuto la chromosomal m'mimba mwa mwana, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti akhale ndi ma chromosomes ochulukirapo kapena ochepa. Koma, zinthu zambiri zimayenera kupita kuti mimba ipambane ndipo vuto ndi iliyonse ya izi itha kubweretsa potaya. "

Osati zokhazo, koma amayi nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi chisoni chachikulu pambuyo potaya mimba, ndi nthawi yamaliro yomwe nthawi zambiri imakhala chaka, malipoti Makolo. "Amayi ndi mabanja ambiri amadziona kuti ndi olakwa komanso amadziimba mlandu atachotsa mimba," akutero Dr. Williams. "Kugwiritsa ntchito liwu loti" kupita padera "sikuthandiza, ndipo kumatha kuthandizanso kumverera uku ponena kuti mimba idasokonekera. Ndimakonda kwambiri mawu oti" kutaya pathupi "chifukwa ndiye kutayika kwenikweni ndipo sipangakhale vuto lililonse."

Monga Van Der Beek ananenera, ndi zowawa zomwe "zidzakuswetsani ngati china chilichonse."

"Ndizowawa ndipo zimapweteketsa mtima pamiyeso yozama kuposa momwe mungakhalire," adatero.

Ndicho chifukwa chake, poyankhula za vutoli, akuyembekeza kuti adziwitse ena kuti kulakwitsa sikulakwa kwa munthu aliyense, ndikuti zinthu zimapindulirabe pakapita nthawi. "Chifukwa chake musaweruze chisoni chanu, kapena yesetsani kuchepetsa njira yanu yozungulira," adalemba. "Ziloleni ziziyenda m'mafunde momwe ikubwera, ndipo mulole kuti izikhala malo oyenera. Ndiyeno, mukadzakwanitsa, yesetsani kuzindikira kukongola momwe mumadzikhazikitsira mosiyana kuposa kale." (Zogwirizana: Shawn Johnson Atsegulira Padera Pokwatirana Kwake Mu Video Yotengeka)

Mwinanso ndiye kuchotsedwa kwakukulu kwa uthenga wa Van Der Beek: Kukongola ndi chisangalalo zimapezekabe pakuchira.

"Zosintha zina timazipanga mwachangu, zina timapanga chifukwa chilengedwe chidatiphwanya, koma mulimonse, zosinthazo zitha kukhala mphatso," adalemba. “Mabanja ambiri amakhala okondana kwambiri kuposa kale lonse. Makolo ambiri amazindikira chikhumbo chachikulu chofuna kukhala ndi mwana kuposa kale. wachenjezedwa).

Ngakhale kuthana ndi chisoni kungakhale kovuta, Van Der Beek akuti kukhulupirira omwe akufuna kukhala makanda, "kudzipereka paulendo wawufupiwu kuti athandize makolo," kumamupatsa mtendere. Anamaliza ntchito yake polimbikitsa ena kuti apeze ndikugawana nawo zinthu zabwino zomwe adagwirabe pomwe akukumana ndi zomwezo.

Ngati inu kapena wina aliyense wa inu mukudziwa kuti akulimbana ndi kutaya mimba, Dr. Williams ali ndi uphungu wotsatirawu: "Ndi chibadwa kumva osungulumwa pambuyo pa kutayika. Monga ndi zinthu zambiri zamankhwala, chidziwitso chitha kukhala chothandiza kwambiri. Kudziwa kuti kutaya mimba kumakhala kofala kwambiri, komanso kuti abale ndi abwenzi ambiri adadutsamo, zitha kukhala zothandiza. Magulu othandizira ndikugawana ndi ena kungakhalenso kopindulitsa. "

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