Mtolankhani Wamasewera Wapakati Uyu Ali Wotanganidwa Kwambiri Kuphwanya Ntchito Yake Kuti Alole Onyoza Mathupi Amuyendetse
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Wofalitsa nkhani ku ESPN a Molly McGrath anali atalengeza pambali pamasewera a mpira koyambirira kwa mwezi uno pomwe adalandira DM yoyipa kuchokera pagulu lamanyazi. McGrath, yemwe pano ali mu trimester yake yachitatu, nthawi zambiri amalola kuti ndemanga zotere ziziyenda. Koma nthawi ino, anakana kukhala pansi. M'malo mwake, mu Instagram yochokera pansi pamtima, adagawana zamphamvu momwe thupi lake lapakati lilili - osati kungokula kamunthu kakang'ono, koma kupitiriza ntchito yomwe nthawi zambiri imakhala yotopetsa.
"Usiku watha ndimayimilira kwa maola opitilira asanu ndi amodzi, ndili mvula, ndipo ndimadziwa kuti ndimangogona maola atatu okha chifukwa chakusintha kwachiwiri komaliza," adalemba pambali pa chithunzi chosonyeza kuti akulengeza pambali . "Kwa nthawi yoyamba, mwina nthawi zonse, ndimalola toll yankhanza yokhudza kusintha kwa thupi langa lapakati kuti ifike kwa ine." (Zogwirizana: Chifukwa Chochititsa Manyazi Thupi Ndi Vuto Lalikulu Kwambiri ndi Zomwe Mungachite Kuti Muleke)
Popitiliza ntchito yake, McGrath adalongosola zosintha zovuta zomwe thupi lake limakumana nazo, makamaka popeza watsala pang'ono kutha. Iye adalemba kuti: "Mapazi anga amatupa ndikumva kuwawa momwe sindinaganizirepo ndipo msana wanga umapweteka nthawi zonse." "Osatchulanso kupha kwa zizindikiro zina monga nseru, kutentha pamtima, ndi kutopa." (Zokhudzana: Zotsatira Zapamimba Zodabwitsa Zomwe Ndi Zachilendo)
Poganizira zonsezi, chomaliza chomwe McGrath akuda nkhawa masiku ano ndi momwe thupi lake limawonekera, adalemba. "Ndikupanga MOYO WA MUNTHU," adatero. "Mwana amene ndikumunyamula akhoza kukhala kunja kwa thupi langa pakali pano, ndipo thupi langa lamphamvu la bulu linapanga mwanayo kuyambira pachiyambi."
Pamwamba pa izo, McGrath akuti ntchito yake palokha siyovuta. "Ntchito ya mtolankhani wam'mbali ndiyovutanso ndikuyenda, kukonzekera, kuthamanga kuti mudziwe zambiri, komanso zenizeni kuti sitilowa nawo pawailesi momwe tikanathandizira," adalemba. "Koma mukudziwa chiyani, sindingasinthe zinthu zanga zilizonse pakamphindi. Ndimaona kuti ndili ndi mwayi wokhala ndi ntchito yomwe ndimaikonda kwambiri, zimandipangitsa kuiwala kuti munthu wina akumenya nthiti zanga."
Poyankhulana ndi Yahoo Life, McGrath adanena kuti adalemba za ndemanga yachipongwe ya troll osati kungosonyeza kuti amayi sayenera kuchita manyazi ndi matupi awo, komanso ngati njira yowonjezera yowonetsera matupi apakati pazofalitsa. "N'zosavuta kuona mayi woyembekezera pawailesi yakanema, koma kodi televizioni siyenera kuimira dziko limene tikukhalamo?" adauza malo ogulitsira. (Zokhudzana: Kuchita Zonyazitsa Mafuta Kukhoza Kuwononga Thupi Lanu)
Ngakhale anali osakhulupirika, McGrath analemba muzolemba zake kuti amayamikira thupi lake pazonse zomwe lingachite ndipo amakana kuweruza. "Ndimanyadira kukhala mayi woyembekezera ndikugwira ntchito nthawi zonse ndipo ndimanyadira kuti kukula kwa moyo wamunthu sikunandichedwetse, ndipo sikungandichedwetse," adatero. "Azimayi amachita modabwitsa komanso ali ndi mphamvu ndipo aliyense amene sawona amatha kumpsompsona ululu wanga waukulu." (Zogwirizana: Twitter Imayankha Bwino Pambuyo pa Trolls Thupi Likuchita Manyazi Mphunzitsi Chifukwa cha Mavalidwe Ake)
McGrath ali kutali ndi mtolankhani woyamba kuti achitidwe zamtunduwu zamanyazi. Kubwerera mu 2017, mtolankhani wamayendedwe aku Dallas a Demetria Obilor adadzudzulidwa chifukwa cha mapindikidwe ake komanso zosankha za zovala ndi wowonera wosakhutira pa Facebook. Posachedwa, nangula wa WREG-TV, Nina Harrelson adalankhula bambo wina atamuwuza kuti akuwoneka "wamkulu" pa TV. Palinso Tracy Hinson, katswiri wa zanyengo wa KSDK News, yemwe anawomba m'manja atamuwuza kuti akufunika lamba kuti atseke "kutupa" m'mimba mwake. (Ikani kupuma kwakanthawi apa.)
Izi zikuwoneka kuti ndizokhumudwitsa, koma azimayi ngati McGrath, Obilor, Harrelson, ndi Hinson achita zochulukirapo kuposa kungotengera kusakhulupirika pang'ono. Alemba ndemanga zodanazi kuti zikhale mwayi wolimbikitsa ena. Mlanduwu: McGrath atagawana zomwe anakumana nazo zochititsa manyazi pa Instagram, adadzazidwa ndi mauthenga ochokera kwa azimayi ena apakati omwe amadzimva kuti ali ndi mphamvu ndi nkhani yake.
"Hei @MollyAMcGrath. Fufuzani ma troll. Sindinakumanenso ndi munthu yemwe angayambenso kukula moyo wamunthu kwinaku akupitilizabe kuwononga ntchito yawo," womangitsanso wa TV Emily Jones McCoy adalumikiza pambali pa chithunzi cha iye yemwe adalemba pambali.
"Pitiriza kupha, mtsikana!" mtolankhani wamasewera Julia Morales adalemba mu tweet ina. "Sindingathe kudikira kuti ndiuze mwana wanga wamkazi kuchuluka kwa nthawi ya TV yomwe adakhala nayo asanabadwe.
"Kondani zithunzi zonse zawailesi yakanema zomwe zakhala zikulemba kuti zizigwira ntchito nthawi yapakati," watero mtolankhani wa NASCAR a Kaitlyn Vincie mothandizana ndi chithunzi chake.
"Ndiye nayi ina: Mimba ya miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, mwana amandimenya nthawi zonse, makamaka amakonda ndikamayankhula pa TV. Sakanakhala ndi njira ina iliyonse!"