Kodi Kugwiritsa Ntchito Vibrator Nthawi Zambiri Kumandipweteketsa Mtete Wanga?

Zamkati

• Yankho? Ayi, vibe yanu sidzawononga V yanu
• Ngati mwachita dzanzi, wotsatirabe si vibe wanu
• Komabe sikungakhale kotopetsa panthawi yogonana?
• Kutenga

Ndine wolemba zachiwerewere yemwe amayesa-kuyendetsa kenako amalemba zoseweretsa zogonana.

Chifukwa chake, pomwe mawu oti "nyini yakufa" anali kuponyedwa mozungulira intaneti kuti afotokozere za vibrator zomwe zimapangitsa dera lakumapeto kwa dzanzi, ndidadzifunsa kuti: Kodi ndikufunikira kompani ya ogwira ntchito? Kodi ndiyenera kuchepetsa phokoso?

Ndidayitanitsa akatswiri azakugonana komanso azibambo kuti andithandizire kuyankha funso lofunika kwambiri ili: Kodi nthawi yochuluka kwambiri ingakhale ndi ma vibrator kwenikweni kusokoneza chovala changa kapena chisokonezo ndi gawo lina la nyini yanga?

Yankho? Ayi, vibe yanu sidzawononga V yanu

Malinga ndi katswiri wamaphunziro azakugonana Jill McDevitt, PhD, wokhala ndi CalExotic, "matenda obisika a nyini" ndi mawu osachiritsika, owopsa omwe amapangidwa ndi anthu omwe samamvetsetsa bwino maliseche achikazi, zipsinjo, zosangalatsa, kapena kutuluka kwa nyini ndi maliseche.

Anthu omwe amavomereza izi zabodza zitha kukhala zoyipa kwambiri kuposa omwe amati "sakhulupirira lube" (cue eye roll).

"Sosaite imamva komanso imaphunzitsa azimayi kuti azimva kukhala opanda nkhawa ndi lingaliro loti azimayi azisangalala chifukwa chongofuna kudzisangalatsa," akutero McDevitt. Zotsatira zake, "Anthu omwe ali ndi maliseche amauzidwa kuti chojambulira 'chidzawawononga' chifukwa chogonana pakati pawo komanso kuti sangathenso kuchita chilichonse mwanjira ina iliyonse," akuwonjezera. Koma uku ndikutsutsana, osati sayansi, kuyankhula.

"Ndizopeka kwathunthu kuti mutha kusokoneza ukazi wanu kapena chimbudzi pogwiritsa ntchito vibrator," akutero Dr. Carolyn DeLucia, FACOG, yemwe amakhala ku Hillsborough, New Jersey. Ndipo chimodzimodzi ndi ma vibes okhala ndi vroom yambiri kuposa makina otchetchera kapinga (ndikhulupirireni, ndikudziwa kuti ena mwamphamvu zake ndizolimba kuposa momwe mungaganizire).

"Pasapezeke vuto kapena kufooka kwa ma vibrator omwe amagwira ntchito mwamphamvu kwambiri kapena mwamphamvu," akutero DeLucia. Kwenikweni, Hitachi wand amavomerezedwa ndi dokotala. Mutha kuyigwiritsa ntchito zonse zomwe mukufuna - pokhapokha zitakuvulazani kapena simukukhala omasuka pazifukwa zilizonse, inde.

Panali ngakhale kafukufuku wocheperako wofalitsidwa mu The Journal of Sexual Medicine yemwe adapeza kuti zotetemera zilibe mphamvu. Ogwiritsa ntchito ma vibrator ambiri akuti zip, zilch, zero zovuta kapena zoyipa kumaliseche monga chotulukapo.

M'malo mwake, mosiyana ndi zikhulupiriro zama alarm vibrator, panali umboni wochuluka wosonyeza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito vibrator kunathandizira pazabwino. Izi zikuphatikiza:

• maliseche
• kuchuluka kondomu
• kuchepetsa ululu
• mwayi waukulu wofunafuna mayeso azachipatala

Kotero vibe kutali, anthu.

McDevitt akunena kuti mu phunziroli, "Pamenepo anali ochepa omwe adanenapo kuti akumva kuwawa, [koma] adati kudzimva kunatha patangopita tsiku limodzi. ”

Katswiri wazachipatala Megan Stubbs, Ed.D, amafanizira kufooka kwakanthawi kogwiritsa ntchito vibrator ndi kufooka kwa mkono wanu mukamatha kudula udzu kapena kugwira Theragun. “Sikhala kosatha. Ndikulimbikitsidwa kwamtundu uliwonse, thupi lanu limangofunika nthawi kuti likonzenso, ”akutero. Zomwezo zimagonana. Nkhani yabwino kwa okonda vibrator.

Ngati mwachita dzanzi, wotsatirabe si vibe wanu

Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito vibrator pafupipafupi ndikuwona kutaya chidwi, Stubbs akuti mwina ndichinthu china osati buzzer yanu yakunyamula.

Ngakhale kuda nkhawa kuti vibrator yanu isokoneza kuthekera kwanu kusangalala ndi kugonana pakati pa anthu opandaukadaulo akhoza zikhale zomwe zikukulepheretsani kutsika.

"Kwa anthu omwe ali ndi zotupa, zambiri zoterezi zimachokera muubongo, ndipo kupsinjika ndi kutsekemera ndi njira yayikulu," akutero McDevitt. Inde, ikhoza kukhala ulosi wokwaniritsa wokha.

Komabe, DeLucia akuwonetsa kusungitsa nthawi yokumana ndi OB-GYN ngati mukukumana ndi dzanzi, nyini, kapena gawo lina la nyini yanu. Zinthu monga kupsinjika, kukhumudwa, mankhwala, kapena vuto lina lathanzi zitha kukuwonongerani chidwi chanu, chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kudziwa zomwe zikukulepheretsani pansi.

Komabe sikungakhale kotopetsa panthawi yogonana?

Choyamba, pumani. Ndi zachilendo. Sizitanthauza kuti chilichonse chalakwika.

"Pafupifupi 10 peresenti ya azimayi amafika pachimake mosavuta," akutero DeLucia. "Ndipo azimayi ambiri samatha kufika pachimake ndi / kuchokera ku chiwalo chololera okha ndipo amafunikira kukondoweza kwachindunji mpaka pachimake." Chifukwa chake, nthawi zina ma vibrator amakhala othandiza kwambiri chifukwa amapereka zomwezo komanso zina.

DeLucia akuti ndichifukwa chake azimayi ena amatha kuchita chiwerewere koma osati okondedwa. Si kukhudza ndiko kusokoneza O, ndendende; ndi malo za kukhudza, akutero.

Chifukwa chake, ngati clit yanu imakankhidwira pambali munthawi yamasewera (kugonana kosalolera), bweretsani mwanayo kuti asungidwe.

Izi zitanthauza kugwiritsa ntchito dzanja lanu kapena kufunsa mnzanu kuti agwiritse ntchito dzanja lawo. Zingatanthauzenso kubweretsa boo yanu yosakanikirana, inunso. Mwanjira iliyonse, onetsetsani kuti clitoris yanu ikuyang'aniridwa kuti muthe kutsika.

"Ndikudziwa kuti palibe amene akutulutsa vibrator nthawi yakugonana kwamafilimu, koma kugonana kwamakanema si kugonana kwenikweni!," Akutero Stubbs. “Akazi ambiri chitani amafuna kuti vibe ichoke limodzi ndi anzawo, ndipo palibe amene ayenera, kuchita manyazi chifukwa cha izi. ”

Vibe manyazi? Osati m'nyumba mwanga.

Kutenga

Nkhani yabwino ndiyakuti simuyenera kuda nkhawa kuti dzanzi lingayambitsidwe.

Nkhani zoipa? "Nthawi zambiri nkhani sikukhala dzanzi kapena kukhumudwa. Nkhaniyi ndi yosasangalatsa anthu ndi chisangalalo chachikazi komanso kusamvetsetsa kwamatenda, "akutero a McDevitt. Kusala kwachisangalalo chachikazi kumatha kuchepa, komabe tili ndi njira zopitira.

Chifukwa chake khalani pansi, kupumula, ndikusangalala ndi vibratoryo kwa nthawi yayitali (kapena ziphuphu zambiri) momwe mungafunire.

A Gabrielle Kassel ndi wolemba zaumoyo ku New York komanso CrossFit Level 1 Trainer. Amakhala munthu wam'mawa, adayesa zovuta za Whole30, ndikudya, kumwa, kutsuka, kutsuka, ndikusamba makala - zonsezi mdzina la utolankhani. Mu nthawi yake yaulere, amapezeka kuti amawerenga mabuku othandiza, mabenchi, kapena kuvina. Mutsatireni pa Instagram.