Mkaziyu Amavomereza Anafunsanso Chifukwa Chomwe Chibwenzi Chake Chokhala Ndi "Thupi Labwino" Chinamukopa

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Yang'anani pa chakudya cha Raeann Langas pa Instagram ndipo mudzazindikira msanga kuti wolemba mafashoni ndi mtundu wokhotakhota ndiye gawo lolimba mtima la thupi komanso chidwi chamthupi. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti saopa kugawana zomwe zimamupangitsa kukhala pachiwopsezo. Adanenedwapo kale za chifukwa chake sizabwino kusakonda thupi lako nthawi zina ngakhale utakhala ndi chiyembekezo chokhudzana ndi thupi, komanso momwe adadziwira kuti kukhala wokhutira ndi thupi sikumakhala momwe umawonekera. Tsopano, akutsegula za njira ina yomwe akulimbana ndi maonekedwe a thupi: mu ubale wake.

"'N'chifukwa chiyani umandikopa?' Limenelo linali funso lomwe ndinamufunsa Ben patadutsa chaka chimodzi titayamba chibwenzi, "adalemba posachedwa pa Instagram pambali pa chithunzi cha iye ndi chibwenzi chake. "Sindinkamvetsa kuti munthu wa 'thupi langwiro' angakopeke bwanji ndi ine. Kodi sangakhale wosangalala kwambiri ndi munthu wochepa thupi komanso wothamanga kwambiri ngati iye?" (Zokhudzana: Chifukwa Chomwe Mkazi Uyu "Anaiwala Thupi Lake" Patsiku Lanyanja)

Akayang'ana m'mbuyo, Langas akuti akuzindikira momwe ubale wake ndi thupi lake udali woipitsitsa. "Panthawiyo ndinali wosatetezeka kwenikweni," akuti Maonekedwe. "Sindinadzipeze wokongola kotero sindinadziwe momwe munthu angandipezere wokongola. Pamutu panga, ndimakhulupirira kuti mkazi yemwe anali wowonda kapena othamanga kuposa ine anali wabwino kuposa ine chifukwa chokula timaphunzitsidwa ndizo zomwe zimawoneka ngati zosangalatsa komanso zabwino. "

Mnyamata wake Ben Mullis, komabe, adamufotokozera kuti inde, adakopeka ndi thupi lake. Iye anati: “Ndinali ndisanakumanepo ndi mwamuna amene ankaona kuti akazi aakazi amaoneka okongola moti sindinkawamvetsa. "Anandiuzanso kuti sitiyenera kukhala ogwirizana, amasangalala ndi mfundo yakuti tili ndi zokonda zosiyanasiyana m'moyo - amangokhalira kukweza ndi kugwira ntchito." (Zogwirizana: Katie Willcox Akufuna Kuti Mudziwe Kuti Ndinu Zambiri Kuposa Zomwe Mumawona Pagalasi)

Mwa zina, a Langas amatsutsa kusowa kwa ziwonetsero zamitundumitundu yamankhwala pazofalitsa zake. "Zaka khumi zapitazo, kunalibe mitundu yokhotakhota kapena mitundu ingapo yamtundu woyimiridwa m'magazini odziwika," akutero. "Azimayi omwe amawonetsedwa m'mabukuwa ndi omwe ndimakhulupirira kuti amuna amafunira: Wina yemwe anali wowonda ndi matumbo akulu. Kwa ine, zinali zosavuta: Ndinaganiza kuti Ben, monga amuna onse, angasangalale ndi mkazi yemwe anali wofufuta kuposa ine chifukwa ndi zomwe adandipangitsa kuti ndiziganiza. " (Zogwirizana: Katie Willcox Afuna Akazi Kuleka Kuganiza Kuti Ayenera Kuchepetsa Kunenepa Kuti Akhale Okondedwa)

Pomwe Langas amagwira ntchito pafupipafupi ndipo amadya moyenera, Mullis wakhala akuchita masewera moyo wake wonse, adasewera tenisi ku koleji, ndipo pano ndi mphunzitsi wothandizira ku Pepperdine University. Kotero, inde, matupi awo ndi adamangidwa mosiyana-koma zidamutengera zaka kuti amve bwino ndi lingalirolo, akutero."Anandithandiza kumvetsetsa kuti sizokhudza momwe thupi lanu limawonekera, ndikukhala ndi moyo wathanzi - ndipo thanzi limawoneka mosiyana kwa aliyense."

Pamene Langas adapeza kudzidalira kwake ndikukhala otetezeka ndi thupi lake pantchito yake yopindika komanso yochirikiza thupi, mawonekedwe a chibwenzi chake adachepa, adanenanso. “Ndikuganiza kuti ukakhala wosangalala ndi wekha, zimakhala zosavuta kuti usangalale ndi ena,” akutero. "Kwa Ben, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kumamubweretsera chisangalalo chochuluka, choncho ndikufuna kumuthandiza pa izi ndikukondwerera naye zomwe wachita bwino."

Kwa amayi ena amene angakayikire za ubale wawo potengera mtundu wa thupi lawo, Langas akunena izi: “Azimayi ambiri amaona ngati sakuyenera kukhala ndi munthu malinga ndi mmene amaonekera chifukwa monga akazi timakumana ndi zitsenderezo zambiri zoti tizioneka mwanjira inayake. chifukwa chake ndimakhulupirira zolimba akazi kupeza chidaliro chawo ndikukhala womasuka kulandira zonse zomwe ali oyenera pamoyo wawo. "

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