Rom-Coms Sizingokhala Zosatheka, Zitha Kukhala Zoipa Kwa Inu

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Timachipeza: Rom-coms sizowona. Koma kodi kuyerekezera kopanda vuto kuli konse kuwayang'ana? Mwina sangakhale opanda vuto lililonse, malinga ndi kafukufuku watsopano waku University of Michigan.

Ndizosavuta kuzindikira kuti machitidwe omwe timawawona nthawi zambiri kuchokera kwa amuna m'mafilimu sizomwe timawona kuchokera kwa iwo m'moyo weniweni (akugwirizirabe manja athu akuluakulu apa ...). Kafukufuku waposachedwayu akuwunika momwe anthu omwe amakonda kwambiri sindidzalekerera-amakukondani-ndipo-sangadzipereke-mpaka ndidzakugonjetsani mizere yake kusokoneza machitidwe omwe timawona ngati "abwinobwino." (Kodi Mnyamata Wanu Ndi Wachibadwa Pankhani Yogonana?)

Ofufuzawa adayang'ana makamaka pazowonetsa atolankhani za "kupitirizabe kutsatira" komanso zikhulupiriro zomwe zimatsatira. Anapempha amayi kuti aziwonera mafilimu asanu ndi limodzi, omwe onse amawonetsa khalidwe la "chikondi chimagonjetsa zonse" kuchokera kwa amuna. Ena mwa makanema, monga Pali Chinachake Chokhudza Mary, adawonetsa khalidweli mokoma, moseketsa (Ben Stiller akupirira manyazi oseketsa kuti apambane Cameron Diaz? Awww ...), pomwe ena, monga Kugona ndi Mdani, akuwonetsa khalidweli munjira yoyipa kwambiri, komanso yowona (Julia Roberts akumenyedwa ndi mwamuna wake womuzunza yemwe akumukana kuti apite? Ahhh!). Iwo anapeza kuti akazi amene amaonerera ma rom-coms amene amaonetsa khalidwe laukali la amuna m’lingaliro labwino amaona khalidwe limenelo kukhala lololeka.

Vuto lili mdziko lenileni, kwathunthu ayi zovomerezeka. Ofufuzawa akuda nkhawa kuti ziwonetsero zonse zabwino zankhanza, zosasunthika zitha kutipangitsa kuti tithe kugula "nthano yosokeretsa," yomwe imatipangitsa kuti titenge zochitika zazikulu kapena zoopseza kwambiri zikachitika m'moyo weniweni. (Pezani zomwe mayi aliyense ayenera kudziwa podziteteza.)

"[Makanema otere] amalimbikitsa azimayi kunyalanyaza chibadwa chawo," wolemba kafukufuku Julia R. Lippman adauza Global News yaku Canada. "Ili ndi vuto chifukwa kafukufuku amasonyeza kuti chibadwa chikhoza kukhala zidziwitso zamphamvu kuti zitithandize kukhala otetezeka. Pachimake, mafilimu onsewa akugulitsa nthano za 'chikondi chimagonjetsa zonse.' Ngakhale, ndithudi, sichitero. "

Zachidziwikire, tikhoza kudwala pamene wokondedwa wa Kiera Knightly abwera pakhomo pake ndi "kwa ine ndinu oyenera" makhadi, koma ngati mnzake wapamtima wa mwamuna wanu abwera kudzayimba ndi manja achikondi IRL? Kotero. Ayi. Chabwino. Onetsetsani kuti mukudziwa kusiyana.

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