Kodi Kuwerenga 'Mabuku Akuda' Kungakupatseni Zowonjezera Zambiri?

Zamkati

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• Dikirani, kodi zolemba zolaula ndi chiyani kwenikweni?
• Mitundu yachiwerewere
  
• Zopeka za 3 zokhudzana ndi kutaya zochitika
• Bodza 1: Amayi amakonda kutengera zochitika za amuna kuposa amuna
• Bodza lachiwiri: Erotica imasokoneza ubale
• Bodza lachitatu: Owerenga adzafuna kuchita nkhani zomwe amakonda
• Chida chanu choyambira
• Kuyamba ndi laibulale yanu yolemba

Timaphatikizapo zinthu zomwe timaganiza kuti ndizothandiza kwa owerenga athu. Ngati mutagula maulalo omwe ali patsamba lino, titha kupeza ndalama zochepa. Nayi njira yathu.

Kuperewera kwa chidwi chakugonana komanso kulakalaka ndizodandaula zomwe akazi amakhala nazo kuofesi ya dokotala. Ndipo ngakhale pambuyo piritsi loyamba la "Viagra" litaphulika zaka ziwiri zapitazo, azimayi akufunabe njira zosalephera, zotsimikizika mwasayansi zowonjezera libido ndi chisangalalo - kaya kusewera solo kapena ndi bwenzi.

Ngakhale ena amati aphrodisiacs achilengedwe monga chokoleti ndi oyisitara amakhala ndi gawo pamankhwala awo ogonana komanso machitidwe azipinda zogona, palibe umboni wotsimikizika wambiri woti amadzipangitsira pagalimoto yanu yamasiku ndi tsiku. Koma kafukufuku waposachedwa wasonyeza kuti kudya mabuku achigololo kumatha kuthandizira chilichonse kuyambira libido yanu kufikira mphamvu yamankhwala anu.

Kafukufuku wa 2016, yemwe adasindikizidwa munyuzipepala ya Sexual and Relationship Therapy, adalemba zakugonana kwa azimayi 27 kwamasabata asanu ndi limodzi. Theka lake linawerenga mabuku othandiza anthu kudzithandiza okha, ndipo theka linalo anawerenga zopeka zolaula. Chotsatira? Magulu onse awiriwa adapeza phindu lofanana, powerengera:

• chilakolako chogonana
• kudzutsa chilakolako chogonana
• kondedwe
• kukhutira
• ziphuphu
• kupweteka
• Kugonana kwathunthu

"Bibliotherapy," monga momwe kafukufukuyu ananenera, sinamveke yosangalatsa komanso yopindulitsa.

Dikirani, kodi zolemba zolaula ndi chiyani kwenikweni?

Kawirikawiri, kutanthauzira kumatanthauzidwa ngati mtundu uliwonse wamaluso womwe umatanthawuza kuti upangitse kugonana kapena kudzutsa. Pali kusiyana pang'ono pakati pa zolaula ndi zolaula zolakwika: Erotica imawoneka ngati luso lomwe limagonana, pomwe zolaula zimawoneka ngati mawu ndi zithunzi zomwe zimangokhala zokondweretsa zogonana, popanda luso lochuluka.

Masiku ano, mawu akuti erotica amagwiritsidwa ntchito makamaka kutanthauzira mawu olembedwa omwe amadzutsa ndi kusangalatsa.

Mitundu yachiwerewere

• zopeka, kuyambira nkhani zazifupi mpaka m'mabuku
• Zolemba zosafotokozedwa ndikufotokozanso zokumana nazo zenizeni
• mabuku achikondi
• zonena zabodza
• zopezeka pa intaneti komanso ma e-book

Zopeka za 3 zokhudzana ndi kutaya zochitika

Pali malingaliro olakwika angapo ozungulira zochitika zapadera. Zina mwa nthanozi ndi zomwe zimadza chifukwa cha magulu osagonana omwe akufuna kuchititsa manyazi ndikuwongolera azimayi. Zina zimangotengera malingaliro olakwika ndi zina zabodza. Tiyeni tiwone zitatu zazikulu komanso zofala kwambiri.

Bodza 1: Amayi amakonda kutengera zochitika za amuna kuposa amuna

Ndiwofala kwambiri kuti amuna amakonda zithunzi zachiwerewere (zolaula), pomwe azimayi amakonda kuwerenga "olanda ziwalo" chifukwa chokhala chete, komanso azigonana. Kafukufuku wambiri awonetsa kuti amuna amatsegulidwanso chimodzimodzi ngati akazi, ndikuti azimayi amadya zolaula kuposa momwe mungaganizire. Ndipo kumbuyo komwe mu 1966, Masters ndi Johnson adapeza kuti momwe thupi limakhalira lodzutsa amuna ndi akazi ndilofanana kwambiri.

Bodza lachiwiri: Erotica imasokoneza ubale

Magulu ena amakonda kuchenjeza kuti kutulutsa zolaula kumapangitsa abwenzi kuthawira ku fantasyland komwe kumawononga chiyembekezo chilichonse choti angadzutsidwe ndi mnzake wothandizana naye pampando wawo wamphero.

Koma kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti kuwerenga zolaula kumakupangitsani kuti mukhale pakati pa mapepala ndi mnzanu kapena musangalale nawo patatha maola 24 mutawerenga. Kuphatikiza apo, kafukufuku woyamba yemwe tamutchula pamwambapa akuwonetsa kuti kutulutsa zolaula kumatha kukulitsa chidwi chogonana komanso chisangalalo chogonana cha mayi amene amawerenga.

Bodza lachitatu: Owerenga adzafuna kuchita nkhani zomwe amakonda

Omwe angofika kumene atha kukhala ndi nkhawa kuti atsegulidwa ndi BDSM yojambulidwa mu "Makumi asanu a Mthunzi wa Grey" kapena ndi kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha pomwe sanakhalepo ndi chidwi chogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Koma Linda Garnets, PhD, wofufuza ku University of California ku Los Angeles, atha kuyika nkhawa zanu. Akuti zikhalidwe zathu zogonana ndizapadera monga zala zathu, ndikuti zizindikiritso zathu zogonana, zokopa zogonana, komanso malingaliro azakugonana siziyenera kukhala zogwirizana (ndipo mwina zimasintha pakapita nthawi).

Mwachitsanzo, ndizabwinobwino kutsegulidwa ndi mawonekedwe otentha a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ngakhale simukuzindikira kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kapena ndi malingaliro anzeru omwe mungaganizire. Izi zathetsa chinsinsi cha chifukwa chake ziwembu zina zotchuka kwambiri sizimafotokozeredwa m'moyo weniweni - amangotentha kuti aziwerenga ndi kuganizira, osatinso zina.

Zachidziwikire, kutulutsa zolaula kumatha kukupatsaninso malingaliro osangalatsa, zinthu zatsopano zoti muziyesera m'chipinda chogona, kuchokera pamaudindo atsopano mpaka kusewera.

Chida chanu choyambira

Ngati muli ndi chidwi chofufuza zochitika, kuyamba kungakhale kovuta. Malinga ndi sitolo yayikulu Adam & Eve, mitundu ya zachikondi komanso yoletsa zolaula imapanga $ 1.44 biliyoni chaka chilichonse. Ndipo pali zambiri zoti musankhe.

Nawa maupangiri ochepa pakulowerera mu:

• Pezani zomwe mumakonda. Zingakhale zovuta kudziwa zomwe zimakupatsani mwayi kuti muwerenge. Malo abwino kwambiri oyambira ndi anthology yomwe ili ndi mitundu yambiri yazolemba, zochitika, ndi olemba. Njira ina ndikuwonera ma e-book ku Amazon. Ambiri a iwo amapereka chiwonetsero chazithunzi cha masamba ochepa kwaulere.
• Yesani kuwerenga ndi dzanja limodzi. Palibe njira yolakwika yowerengera zolaula. Anthu ena amakonda kusangalala nalo ngati buku lina lililonse kenako nkuganiza pambuyo pake, ali ndi bwenzi kapena kuseweretsa maliseche. Ena amagwiritsa ntchito molunjika ngati chida m'chipinda chogona. Pezani zomwe zili zoyenera kwa inu.
• Yesani kukhudza wokondedwa wanu. Monga zolaula, kutulutsa zolaula sikuti ungosewera payekha. Mutha kuyesa kuwerenga mokweza kwa mnzanu, kapena awerengereni. Kapenanso mutha kupempha mnzanu kuti awerenge nkhani ndikuchita nanu limodzi.
• Yesani kulemba masamba angapo nokha. Erotica sikuti amangowerenga. Mamiliyoni azimayi ndi abambo amasangalala kuzilemba (kapena kuposa) amakonda kuziwerenga. Lembani nokha nkhani, yesani dzanja lanu pazopeka, kapena mungaganizire zokhazokha ntchito yanu.

Kuyamba ndi laibulale yanu yolemba

Nawa mabuku ndi masamba ochepa kuti akuyambitseni, kuyambira zapamwamba mpaka anthologies:

• "Bukhu Lalikulu la Sexy Librarian la Erotica," lokonzedwa ndi Rose Caraway. Nthanoyi ili ndi mitundu ingapo, kuyambira zowopsa mpaka zachikondi mpaka sci-fi, onse potsogolera mawu mdziko lolemba zachiwerewere.
• "Delta of Venus," lolembedwa ndi Anaïs Nin. Chidutswa chamakedzana ichi chitha kukhala kuti chidalembedwa zaka makumi angapo zapitazo, komabe chimakhala chotentha ngati kale. Uku ndi kusankha kwabwino kwambiri kwa munthu yemwe ali ndi chidwi ndi zochitika zachiwerewere.
• "The Crossfire Series," yolembedwa ndi Sylvia Day. Nkhani zamakono zankhani / zachikondi zimatsata maanja kudzera pachibwenzi chawo chotentha, ngakhale anali sewero komanso adayika ziwanda.
• Zopeka za akulu. Mawebusayiti amadzaza ndi zongopeka zaulere m'mitundu mitundu, kuyambira "Harry Potter" mpaka "L.A. Chilamulo. ” Pali zolemba zambiri zoyambirira kunjaku, kuphatikiza mwayi woti muyese kulemba nokha.

Mukangoyamba, mutha kutsatiranso mabuku ndi mindandanda yama Goodreads kuti mupeze zolemba zomwe mumakonda. Erotica amatha kupeza njira zina nthawi zina, koma kukhala wokhoza kuyembekezera kutembenuka komwe kumabwera ndichimodzi mwazinthu zabwino zambiri zaluso.