Maimidwe Ogonana Oimirira 7 Omwe Angapangitse Kuti Mawondo Anu Agwedezeke - Mwa Njira Yabwino

Zamkati

• Kodi Kudandaula Kwa Kuyimirira Kugonana Ndi Chiyani, Komabe?
• Maudindo Oyimilira Oyesera Kuyesera
• The Leg-Up
• Kuyimirira pakamwa kwa Vulvas
• Mphepete mwa Tabulo
• Bathroom Sink Basi
• The Yogi
• Kuyimirira Blowjob
• Wosambira
• Onaninso za

Kugonana koyimirira nthawi zonse kumamveka ngati lingaliro labwino kwambiri padziko lapansi mpaka mutayesetsa kuyika china chake mdzenje lomwe silikugwirizana ndi thupi lanu. Nthawi zambiri, zimathera kukhala mmodzi wa iwo "zinkawoneka ngati lingaliro labwino pa nthawi" mtundu wa sexploits.

Chabwino, kankhirani pambali lingalirolo, chifukwa kugonana koyimirira ndikotheka - bola mukudziwa momwe mungapindulire. Patsogolo, ena kuzindikira kuchokera sexperts mmene kupanga maimidwe kugonana mosavuta, otentha, ndi zonse zodabwitsa kwa inu.

Kumbukirani kuti ngati simukumva, ngati chinachake sichikusangalatsa, kapena ndinu, mukudziwa, mutatopa, mukhoza kupita ku bedi, kama, kulikonse. Kupanikizika ndi kupsinjika kumapha mafupa (a clit ndi kukopa kwa mbolo) mwachangu kuposa china chilichonse.

Nawa ena mwa malo abwino kwambiri ogonana omwe angakuwongolereni kuti zisangalatse, m'malo momwalira mutangofika.

Kodi Kudandaula Kwa Kuyimirira Kugonana Ndi Chiyani, Komabe?

Tikamanena kuti "kugonana koyimirira" nthawi zambiri timatanthauza kugonana kolowerana. Chinthuchi ndikuti, kuti mukhale aluso pakuyimilira zogonana - ndikusangalala - njira yoyamba ndikubwezeretsanso lingaliro lanu "zogonana." Sikuti kugonana konse kuyenera kukhala kolowera mkati ndipo, kwenikweni, zikafika pakugonana koyimirira, kugonana m'kamwa, kugonana m'manja, kapena kupukuta kowuma kungakhale kosangalatsa kwambiri. Chifukwa chake tulutsani malingaliro oti muyenera kukhala gulu la mphira, wokhoza kudzikongoletsa pa mbolo kapena dildo ya munthu yemwe (mwina) sali wofanana ndi inu ndipo khalani okonzeka kuchita zina zogonana mutayimirira.

"Kumbukirani, maudindo onsewa amagwiranso ntchito pogonana m'kamwa. Musaope kuyimitsa pakati ndikupatsa wokondedwa wanu zabwino zonse zapadziko lapansi, "akutero Julieta Chiaramonte, wolemba zachiwerewere komanso katswiri wazoseweretsa zogonana. (Zogwirizana: Malo Opambana Ogonana Pakamwa a Vulvas)

Zowonadi, kuyimirira kugonana ndi kosangalatsa (ndi zinthu zonse zosakhala amishonale pabedi) chifukwa timakonda zachilendo. Zimatengera chidwi, kuyesa zinthu zatsopano, ndikusunga moyo wanu wakugonana mwatsopano. Kuphatikiza apo, "kugonana koyimirira kumapangitsa kugonana kuti kuchitike m'malo komwe mwina sikungatheke," akutero a Ryn Pfeuffer, wolemba zachiwerewere komanso ubale komanso wolemba Njira 101 Zoyenda Chibwenzi Paintaneti (Buy It, $10, amazon.com). "Ganizirani: mipata yolimba ngati mabafa, ndipo ngati mumachita zogonana pagulu, mukakanikizidwa pagalimoto kapena pamtengo."

Kugonana koyimirira sikungakhale komwe mumakonda, koma ndikwabwino kukhala nako pazakudya zanu zogonana - pamodzi ndi zinthu zina zosangalatsa monga kugonana kwapampando ndi kugonana m'bafa.

Maudindo Oyimilira Oyesera Kuyesera

The Leg-Up

Momwe mungachitire: Imirirani moyang'anizana ndi maso, muuzeni mnzanuyo kuti akweze mwendo wanu umodzi m'mwamba ndikulowetseni mukuyenda. Ngati kusunga mwendo wanu molunjika sikungakhale kovuta, pindani pa bondo. Udindowu umakuthandizani kuti mukhale olimba panthawi yolowera, ndipo sichikakamiza mnzanu kuti azikulemerani (wina aliyense wolimba mtima).

Zofunika: Udindowu umawoneka ngati kanema ndipo umawoneka ngati wovuta, koma sizovuta kwenikweni kuti uchoke. Ndilo gawo la kugonana kwa OG. Ndi yabwino kwa zochitika ngati kugonana kunja. Awa ndi malo abwino osalowa. Mutha kupakana wina ndi mzake, kugwiritsa ntchito manja anu, ndi kuyambitsa moto (ndi magazi kuyenda).

Momwe mungasinthire: Kuti mupangitse kusiyana kwa kutalika, gwiritsani ntchito mizere yokhazikika yomwe muli nayo m'nyumba mwanu. Masitepe amatha kuchita chinyengo. Onetsetsani kuti msana wanu uli pakhoma. Chomaliza chomwe mukufuna ndikusowa. "Yesani kuphatikizira vibrator mumsanganizo ngati mphete ya Satisfyer Strong One Vibrating Cock Ring (Buy It, $40, amazon.com), yomwe ingatalikitse nthawi yogwira ntchito kwinaku ikupereka kukondoweza kwa clitoral," akutero Chiaramonte. (Zambiri apa: Momwe Mungagwiritsire Ntchito Mphete Ya Tambala - Zosankha 8 Kuti Muyesere)

Kuyimirira pakamwa kwa Vulvas

Momwe mungachitire: Mnzake wina amaimirira, pomwe winayo agwada patsogolo pawo. Wolandirayo amatha kutambasula miyendo yawo mu mawonekedwe a "V", kapena kuika phazi limodzi paphewa la wokondedwa wake. Izi zitha kutenga kusintha, chifukwa chake onetsetsani kuti mutenga kanthawi kuti mupeze zomwe zikukuthandizani.

Zofunika: Uwu ndi udindo womwe umakondwerera kulamulira azimayi komanso kugonana. Kuphatikiza apo, kugonana mkamwa ndi njira yodalirika yoti eni maliseche ambiri azikhala ndi vuto. Kuphatikiza apo, Kenneth Play, mphunzitsi wapadziko lonse lapansi komanso wopanga Sex Hacker Pro Series, akuti, "chifukwa eni ake ambiri amakula akudziseweretsa maliseche ndi miyendo yawo yowongoka, kapena kuyimilira posamba, azimayi ambiri amakhala omasuka mosavuta ndi mowongoka. miyendo. Udindowu umanenanso kuti, ngati ayimirira ndi miyendo yowongoka komanso yopatukana. "

Momwe mungasinthire: Ngati kugwada sikuli koyenera kwa woperekayo, gwirani pilo (mwina ngakhale pilo yakugonana) kuti muthandizidwe. Tenga awiri, ngakhale! Ngati izi sizikugwira ntchito kwa iwo, pitirizani kuimirira. Pindani m'chiuno. Kuti muchepetse zina, gwirani mpando ndikukhala pansi kuti mupereke pakamwa.

Mphepete mwa Tabulo

Momwe mungachitire: "Mumakhala pakauntala kapena patebulopo ndipo amayimirira. Kuthandizidwa ndi malo athyathyathya ndikukhala okhazikika kumamupatsa mnzakeyo mwayi wolowera.Mangirirani miyendo yanu m'chiuno mwawo kuti muwakokere pafupi ndikugwira," akutero Taylor Sparks, mphunzitsi wodzudzula komanso woyambitsa Organic Loven, imodzi mwamashopu akuluakulu apa intaneti omwe ali ndi BIPOC.

Zofunika: "Pali zinthu zochepa zomwe zimatentha kwambiri kuposa kugona patebulo, kutambasula miyendo yanu ndi maliseche anu m'mphepete, ndikukhala ndi mnzanu akulowani, kaya ndi mbolo kapena lamba," akutero Pfeuffer. "Udindowu umagwira bwino ntchito pakakhala kusiyana kwakutali pakati pa abwenzi. Ndizoseweretsa zakutchire kufalikira-mphungu ndikuwululidwa chonchi." Udindo uwu umalolanso kuloŵa mozama kwambiri - kotero, ngati ndicho chinthu chanu, mudzachikonda.

Momwe mungasinthire: Udindo uwu sikuti umangokhala pama tebulo. Malo aliwonse omwe amalola kuti matupi anu agwirizane azichita bwino kwambiri. Udindo uwu ungakhalenso wabwino pakamwa. Khalani pampando ndipo mnzanu (woperekayo) agwadire kapena akhale patsogolo panu. Pangani izo zanu, boo.

Bathroom Sink Basi

Momwe mungachitire: Wolandirayo amaima moyang'anizana ndi sinki, akumagwiritsira ntchito kuthandizira. Mutha kuyima molunjika kapena kugwadira lakuya, kulikonse komwe kumakhala kosavuta. Kenako woperekayo amalowetsa wolandira kuchokera kumbuyo.

Zofunika: Chabwino, choyamba, mumadziyang'anira nokha pagalasi losambira lomwe lili *ophika akupsopsonani.* Komanso, ndi yabwino kwa ma sexcapade osadziwika bwino. "[Wokondedwa wako] akhoza kukugwira m'chiuno, kukumenya bulu wako, kapena kuyandikira kumayamwa," akutero Pfeuffer.

Momwe mungasinthire: Ngati izi sizingatheke, dumphani kulowa. Awa ndimalo abwino ogonana pakamwa, onse opangira maliseche komanso eni mbolo. Simungathe kupindika? Ndani akunena kuti chothandizira chokhala ndi sink chachotsedwa patebulo, anzanu? Khalani nazo izo.

The Yogi

Momwe mungachitire: Woperekayo "amatengera mnzawo kumbuyo, ndikumangitsa manja awo kukhoma," akutero Chiaramonte. Ayeneranso "kugwadira [wolandirayo] kutsogolo ndikupanga kukhota kumbuyo kwawo." Woperekayo akuyenera kuwoneka ngati akuchita galu "paka" - chifukwa chake dzinalo.

Zofunika: "Sikuti izi zimangopanga kutambasula kumbuyo ndi phewa modabwitsa kwa wolandirayo, koma zimakongoletsa mafupa awo mokwanira kuti maliseche azilowera kapena kumatako akaimirira," akufotokoza Chiaramonte. "Ganizirani [za] kuchita izi kulikonse: Kuchipinda, khitchini, shawa lanu." Pali kusinthasintha kwakukulu ndi ichi. (Zogwirizana: Malo Opambana Ogonana Ogonana)

Momwe mungasinthire: Vuto lalikulu lomwe anthu angakhale nalo ndi udindowu ndikutenga kusiyana kwakutali. "Othandizana nawo onsewa akhoza kuwonjezera mawondo kuti apeze ngodya yoyenera. Sewerani ndi kukhala ndi manja anu pamwamba pa mutu wanu, kapena mwachindunji kumbali ya chifuwa chanu, monga cobra pose mu yoga, "akuwonjezera. Muthanso kubweretsa zoseweretsa zina (monga momwe mungathere ndi zogonana zonse), monga wand vibrator monga Le Wand (Buy It, $ 170, lewandmassager.com), choseweretsa monga Zumio (Buy It, $ 115, amazon. com) kapena Fin (Buy It, $85, dameproducts.com) kapena pulagi yamatako. Zoseweretsa nthawi zonse zimapangitsa chilichonse kukhala chosangalatsa.

Kuyimirira Blowjob

Momwe mungachitire: Mofanana ndi kuyimirira pakamwa pa vulva, wolandirayo amaima ndi nsana wake ku khoma (kapena malo ena athyathyathya), pamene woperekayo akugwada kapena kukhala pansi (mwina pansi kapena pampando) kuti awapatse kugonana m'kamwa.

Zofunika: Pfeuffer anati: “Kugwada pamaso pa munthu amene waimirira yemwe ali ndi mbolo kuti azigonana m’kamwa ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zimene ndimakonda kwambiri ndipo zimandipangitsa kuti ndiyambe kugonjera. "Ndikusinthana kotentha kwambiri, komwe kumakupatsani mwayi woti muwone mnzanu" akadali komweko. Ngati mukusewera kwambiri monga nkhope f cking, kukhwima kwambiri, ndi zina zambiri, malowa atha kukuthandizani kukhazikitsa zojambulazo. Koma musapotozedwe, izi zitha kukhalanso kusinthanitsa mphamvu kwachikondi komanso kwapamtima, ngati ndiko kupanikizana kwanu. (Zogwirizana: Upangiri Woyambitsa ku BDSM)

Momwe mungasinthire: Woyimilirayo akhoza kukhala pa tebulo lakhitchini kapena malo ena, ngati sakufuna kuima. Udindo uwu uli ndi chidwi chonse cha kugonana koyimirira, popanda kuyimirira. Itha kukhala yovuta pang'ono pamiyendo yamiyendo (malo olimba, ouch), chifukwa chake yesani kuyika pilo kapena chopukutira pansi pa thumba la wolandirayo kuti mulimbikitsidwe.

Wosambira

Momwe mungachitire: CHABWINO. Chifukwa chake, udindo womalizawu ndi wa anthu okonda zachiwerewere pakati pathu - osati mwachidwi, koma mwandalama. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa mukufuna kugonana. Ngati izi zikumveka zovuta kwambiri kwa inu, musadandaule nazo.

"Zosintha zogonana zitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito m'malo osiyanasiyana, koma perekani mwayi kwa mnzanuyo momwe mungafunire mukamalowa kapena kugonana mkamwa moyimirira," akutero a Chiaramonte. Kwenikweni, wolandirayo amakhala pachimake (kapena amangogona) ndipo woperekayo amalowa kapena amawapatsa kugonana mkamwa.

Zofunika: Chifukwa chabwino chokhala ndi vuto logonana ndichachidziwikire. Enanso ndi oti amakopeka kwambiri. Monga, ndani safuna kukhala Samantha Jones mu gawo limodzi la Kugonana ndi Mzinda Kodi amapeza kuti pambuyo pa kugonana kwa wokondedwa wake? Ingokhalani otsimikiza kuti mukugula zinthu zoyenera. "Ngakhale kusinthana kwa kugonana kumatha kukhala kovuta, ndimakonda zosavuta zomwe zimayenda bwino ndipo zimatha kumangidwa pakhomo ngati Peepshow Toys Shots Door Swing (Buy It, $ 35, peepshowtoys.com)," akutero a Chiaramonte. (Nazi zambiri za kusintha kwa kugonana, momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito, ndi momwe mungasankhire.)

Momwe mungasinthire: Tiana GlittersaurusRex, mphunzitsi wa polyamorous komanso woyambitsa nawo The Sex Work Survival Guide, bungwe lopanda phindu lomwe limalimbikitsa anthu kuti apulumuke, akutero Tiana GlittersaurusRex. ufulu ndi chitetezo cha omwe amagonana. Zodziwika zili ndi inu. Sangalalani nawo, khalani ndi chidwi, ndikuwona zomwe zimagwirira ntchito thupi lanu.

Gigi Engle ndi katswiri wodziwa za kugonana, wophunzitsa, ndi mlembi wa All The F*cking Mistakes: Guide to Sex, Love, and Life. Tsatirani iye pa Instagram ndi Twitter pa @GigiEngle.

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