California Yakhala Boma Loyamba Kupanga 'Kubisa' Zosavomerezeka

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"Kubera," kapena kuchotsa chobisa kondomu pambuyo povomerezana chitetezo, kwakhala vuto kwa zaka zambiri. Koma tsopano, California ikupangitsa kuti mchitidwewu ukhale wosaloledwa.

Mu Okutobala 2021, California idakhala dziko loyamba loletsa "kubera", pomwe kazembe Gavin Newson adasaina chikalatacho. Lamuloli limakulitsa tanthauzo la boma la batri yakugonana motero limaphatikizapo mchitidwewu, malinga ndi Njuchi ya Sacramento, ndipo adzalola ozunzidwa kuti azitsatira milandu yapachiweniweni kuti awonongedwe. "Popereka bilu iyi, tikugogomezera kufunikira kwa chilolezo," idatero ofesi ya Gov. Newsom mu Oct. 2021.

Mkazi wa Assembly Cristina Garcia, yemwe adathandizira kulemba biluyi, adayankhulanso mu Okutobala 2021. "Ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito yokhudza 'kubera' kuyambira 2017 ndipo ndili wokondwa kuti tsopano pali kuyankha kwa omwe amachita izi. Zogwiririra, makamaka za azimayi achikuda, zimasefukira pansi pa rug," adatero. Garcia, malinga ndi Njuchi ya Sacramento.

Kubera kwakhala gawo lazokambirana zakugwiririra dziko pambuyo poti womaliza maphunziro a Yale Law School a Alexandra Brodsky adafalitsa kafukufuku mu Epulo 2017 akufotokozera momwe amuna m'magulu ena paintaneti angagulitsire maupangiri amomwe anganyengere anzawo kuti asagwiritse ntchito chitetezo. Izi zimaphatikizapo zinthu monga kupangira kondomu yosweka kapena kugwiritsa ntchito malo ena ogonana kuti mayiyo asamuwone bambo akuchotsa kondomu, zonse zikungoganiza kuti sangazindikire zomwe zidachitika mpaka nthawi isanathe. Kwenikweni, amunawa amamva ngati kufunitsitsa kwawo kuti abwerere opanda phokoso ufulu wamayi kuti asatenge mimba kapena kupewa kutenga matenda opatsirana pogonana. (PSA: Kuopsa kwa matenda opatsirana pogonana ndikokwera kwambiri kuposa momwe mukuganizira.)

Izi sizimangochitika m'magulu ocheperako ocheperako, mwina. Brodsky adapeza kuti abwenzi ake ambiri achikazi ndi omwe anali nawo anali ndi nkhani zofananira. Kuyambira pamenepo, kafukufuku wasindikizidwa omwe amatsimikizira zomwe adapeza. Kafukufuku wina wa 2019 wa amuna 626 (azaka 21 mpaka 30 zakubadwa) ku Pacific Northwest adapeza kuti 10% mwa iwo adachita chiwerewere kuyambira ali ndi zaka 14, pafupifupi 3,62. Kafukufuku wina wa 2019 wa azimayi 503 (azaka 21 mpaka 30) adapeza kuti 12 peresenti ya iwo anali ndi ogonana nawo omwe amaba. Kafukufuku omwewo adapezanso kuti pafupifupi theka la azimayi amawauza anzawo omwe akukana kugwiritsa ntchito kondomu mokakamiza (mwamphamvu kapena moopseza); 87% yochulukirapo inanena kuti mnzake akukana kugwiritsa ntchito kondomu mosakakamiza.

Ngakhale kuti amayi omwe Brodsky adalankhula nawo adanena kuti sali omasuka komanso okhumudwa, ambiri sankadziwa ngati kuba "kuwerengedwa" ngati kugwiriridwa.

Chabwino, zimawerengera. Mkazi akagwirizana zogonana ndi kondomu, Kuchotsa kondomu popanda chilolezo chake zikutanthauza kuti kugonana sikuloledwa. Adavomera kugonana malinga ndi kondomu. Sinthani mawuwo, ndipo mumasintha kufunitsitsa kwake kuti apitirize kuchitapo kanthu. (Onani: Kodi Kuvomereza N’chiyani, Kwenikweni?)

Sitingatsimikize mokwanira izi: Kunena "inde" pogonana sikutanthauza kuti mwavomera zokha kugonana kulikonse komwe mungaganizire. Komanso sizitanthauza kuti munthu winayo atha kusintha mawu, monga kuchotsa kondomu, popanda vuto lanu.

Ndipo mfundo yakuti amuna’wo akuichita “mobisa” imasonyeza kuti iwowo mukudziwa ndi zolakwika. Kupanda kutero, bwanji osangonena za izi? Zokuthandizani: Chifukwa kukhala ndi mphamvu kwa mkazi ndi gawo limodzi la zomwe zimapangitsa "kubisalira" kukopa amuna ena. (Zokhudzana: Kodi Umuna Wapoizoni Ndi Chiyani, Ndipo Chifukwa Chiyani Uli Wovulaza Chotere?)

Mwamwayi, mu 2017, opanga malamulo adayamba kuchitapo kanthu. Mu Meyi 2017, Wisconsin, New York, ndi California onse adakhazikitsa ngongole zomwe zingaletse kubera - koma zidatenga mpaka Okutobala 2021 kuti bilu yaku California ipangidwe kukhala lamulo, ndipo ngongole za New York ndi Wisconsin sizinaperekedwe.

"Kuchotsa kondomu mosavomerezeka kuyenera kuzindikiridwa ngati kuphwanya kukhulupirirana komanso ulemu," atero nthumwi Carolyn Maloney (New York) m'mawu ake panthawiyo. "Ndili wokhumudwa kuti tifunikanso kukhala ndi zokambiranazi, kuti bwenzi logonana lingasokoneze kukhulupirirana ndi kuvomereza monga chonchi. Kubera ndi nkhanza zogonana."

Ngakhale zikuwoneka kuti US ili ndi njira yoti ichitikire anthu oba asanatengeredwe dziko lonse lapansi, mayiko monga Germany, New Zealand, ndi UK awona kale kuti kuba ngati njira yachiwerewere, malinga ndi BBC. Tikuyembekeza kuti chigamulo cha California chikhala chitsogozo m'maiko ena onse aku U.S.

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