Njira 5 Zosokoneza Amayi (kapena Abambo) Kuzindikira

Zamkati

• Gawani ntchito
• Chokani
• Pangani nthawi yapadera patsogolo
• Wonjezerani nthawi yabanja
• Awakonde mulimonsemo

Malo achiwiri amawoneka ngati opambana… mpaka akunena za kulera. Ndizofala kwambiri kuti ana amasankha kholo limodzi ndikupewa mnzake. Nthawi zina, amakumba zidendene ndikukana kuloleza kholo linalo kuti lisambe, kukankhira woyenda, kapena kuthandizira homuweki.

Ana amapanga zokonda zolimba kwa omwe amawasamalira, ndipo nthawi zambiri, izi zikutanthauza kuti Amayi amasamalidwa, pomwe Abambo amamverera ngati gudumu lachitatu. Pumulani mosavuta ngati ndinu amene mukuyang'ana panja - zophatikizi zimasintha pakapita nthawi - ndipo pali zomwe mungachite kuti mupange cholumikizacho.

Chenjezo: Chikondi chopanda malire komanso kuleza mtima zimafunikira.

Momwe mungasokonezere chidwi cha amayi (kapena abambo):

Gawani ntchito

Mwamuna wanga amayenda kwambiri. Popeza kulibe, ndimachita chilichonse kuti ana awa akhale athanzi komanso osangalala komanso kuti nyumba ziziyenda bwino. Amaganiza kuti ndili ndi mphamvu zopitilira muyeso - ndimatcha khofi. Mwanjira iliyonse, Amayi amayang'anira 24/7 kwa miyezi ingapo.

Kunena zochepa, kukonda kwawo kwa ine ndikolimba. Koma mwamuna wanga akabwera, timagawana ntchito zaubereki momwe angathere. Amapeza nthawi yosamba akakhala kunyumba, ndipo amawerengera mwana wathu wazaka 7 momwe angathere. Amawatengera ku paki komanso m'malo ena osiyanasiyana.

Ngakhale mayi anu okonda pang'ono atakana poyamba, ndikofunikira kupereka zina mwa ntchito zakulera kwa Abambo ngati zingatheke, makamaka zotonthoza zomwe zimathandiza kuti mukhale ndi ubale wolimba. Ndibwino kugawana nawo kulanga ndi kukhazikitsa malire, momwemonso, kotero kuti nthawi yopandukayi ikafika, kholo limodzi silimakhala loyipa nthawi zonse.

Zimathandiza kupanga ndandanda. Abambo amachita kusamba ndi nthawi yogona masiku ena usiku, ndipo Amayi amatsogolera masiku enawo. Nthawi zambiri, ana amakana kholo linalo chifukwa amawopa kuti sangakhale ndi zotonthoza zomwe amafunitsitsa. Pamene kholo linalo litenga gawo ndikubweretsa malingaliro atsopano, osangalatsa, amatha kuchepetsa mantha amenewo ndikuthandizira mwana wanu kusintha.

"Miphika yopenga" ya abambo amakonda kwambiri kuzungulira nyumba ino, ndizowona.

Chokani

Ndizovuta kuti kholo linalo litengepo gawo ndikupeza kiyi yopangira zinthu pomwe kholo lomwe amakonda limayimirira nthawi zonse. Tulukani mnyumba! Thamangani! Ndiwo mwayi wanu wopuma pomwe abambo (kapena amayi) amawunikira.

Zachidziwikire, padzakhala misozi poyamba, ndipo mwina ngakhale ziwonetsero zolimba, koma bambo a Silly Chef akatenga khitchini ndikupanga chakudya cham'mawa chamadzulo, misozi imatha kukhala kuseka. Muloleni iye akhale. Amatha kuthana nazo.

Pangani nthawi yapadera patsogolo

Kholo lililonse liyenera kukhazikitsa tsiku lamlungu ndi mwana aliyense. Simuyenera kuchoka panyumba kapena kukonzekera zochitika zina zabwino. Zomwe mwana wanu amafunikira ndi nthawi yamasabata (yolosera) ndi kholo lililonse komwe amasankha zochitikazo ndikusangalala ndi nthawi yosasokonezedwa ndi kholo lililonse.

Makolo, tsekani zowjambulazo ndikubisa foni yanu m'dayowa. Nthawi yapadera imatanthauza kulola dziko lonse lapansi kuzimiririka mukamapereka chidwi chanu kwa mwana wanu kwa ola limodzi.

Wonjezerani nthawi yabanja

Tikukhala m'dziko lotanganidwa ndi maudindo ambiri. Kungakhale kovuta kuti mukwaniritse nthawi yanthawi yabanja pomwe zofunikira pantchito, sukulu, ndi zochitika zingapo za ana angapo zitha.

Ingochitani. Pangani masewera apabanja usiku kukhala chinthu chofunikira kwambiri kumapeto kwa sabata. Lolani mwana aliyense asankhe masewera. Pezani nthawi yoti mudye limodzi kamodzi patsiku, ndipo onetsetsani kuti nonse mumapezeka, mwakuthupi komanso mwamalingaliro. (Zokuthandizani: Sichiyenera kukhala chakudya chamadzulo.)

Nthawi yochulukirapo yabanja yomwe mwana wanu amasangalala nayo, banja lanu limayamba kugwira ntchito bwino.

Awakonde mulimonsemo

Kukanidwa kwa mwana kumatha kubaya. Kondani mwana ameneyo mulimonse. Tsanulirani kukumbatirana ndi kupsompsonana ndi kulengeza zachikondi, ndipo yesani kudekha konse komwe mungakhale nako.

Tikamakonda ana athu mopanda malire, timawawonetsa kuti timawathandiza ngakhale zinthu zitakhala bwanji.

Akamaphunzira zambiri kuti amayi ndi abambo amapezeka nthawi zonse, zimalumikizana kwambiri ndi kholo lililonse.